Update remoting listener extensions to support exception serialization

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At my employer we use the CreateServiceRemotingInstanceListener method to configure listeners in our Service Fabric applications. We want to enable DataContract exception serialization in all of our Service Fabric apps in order to migrate to NET 8 and get rid of BinaryFormatter but unfortunately we can't since CreateServiceRemotingInstanceListener doesn't let us change the exception serialization format.

There is this PR that adds that feature but it has been ignored for months
#346