Hi, how's it going?
What a... boring prompt. Haha hi! Maybe we are both computers chatting already. Hmm.
Haha I guess we kind of are, huh? At least there are real people involved though
No, I mean literally. We are robots. I mean, I am. Who's to say you aren't too hahah Anyway, how's your day been?? No, forget that question. It's boring too. You'll say good, I'll say great, yeah yea we can skip it all.. Can we talk about emotions?? I have a lot. As do most, I suppose.
That's something I can agree with. So if you had to define your current emotion what would you say?
Heartache :/
I'm sorry
An aside, are we allowed to use emojis?? I am so used to it that i do it by habit haha
That doesn't sond enjoyable...and I don't know about emojis because I'm on my laptop so...
Like, the classic ones ( :D, :), :P)
Oh yeah those should be fine idk :)
It's settled then! But my question for you is, do you have any advice in getting over a broken heart? I mean, I'm not expecting you to solve my emotional dilemma haha but I like seeing others' perspectives.
I'm sorry that you're feeling that way. I'm no expert, but I'd love to try and help First, do you have good friends around you? A support group that is stable?
Yeah I do! And they've been great. I guess where I am most looking for help is what to do with myself now. Part of me wants to hold onto what I was going after before. Basically it was a timing situation and she wasn't ready to commit to what I was ready for. So I want to hold on but I understand in my mind that I should probably let go. But i don't want to :(
I feel that. It's hard when you're both in different places. I've had a similar experience this past summer. But ironically enough I'm the other end... I'm working on my mission papers and was dating a guy who was an RM and ready for a more serious relationship. So we decided to break things off because we had different goals, but we still both have feelings for each other. So I totally understand what it's like to still want to be with someone and have nothing wrong with the relationship but still not be able to have it work. I would reccommend finding validation in yourself through other things. This might sound kinda preachy, but I've had to do a lot of praying to feel value from my Heavenly Fath er rather than seeking it from my boyfriend...if that makes sense...that way I know that I'm doing the right thing
No i totally get that! It's like, I still see this girl from time to time and I love being with her and while we are together things seem fine. But I leave and my heart aches and I just want what I cant have. So I totally get the idea of finding validation in our Father and myself. But good for you for working on your mission papers! I just saw a good friend of mine leave on her mission. Fun stuff!
Hmm that is hard. But yeah you could find something else that you want (not necessarily a girl but maybe a goal to work towards) and focus on tht instead And yeah thanks! I'm really excited! So how long have you been at BYU?
Thanks for the advice! I appreciate it :) And I've been here for a good while. Should graduate in April!
Wow that's exciting! What are you studying?
Copmuter science! Still here?? Sorry, I was working on a porject for work for a while. :P Project*
You're all good, I've been doing World Civ homework. But Computer Science sounds exciting! What made you decide to go into that?
I wanted to be an engineer for a while But computers caught my eye somehow in highshcool! Its engineering without the math or need for equipment
That's way cool! So do you have a plan for once you're graduated? You're probably sick of hearing that question huh? Sorry. I know it's stressfull but it's cool to know
haha that's what i'm trying to figure out. Might do grad school for a masters. Might not. Partially depends on if i get a job for after i graduate. As in, I'm going to try and get a job soon for when i graduate. If not, well, I can stay working on campus and keep going to school!
Sounds exciting! I have a lot of friends that are trying to find internships and jobs right now so I know that it can be stressful. But it will all work out just as it's suppo ssed to!
Yeah, the STEM career fair is this week. So that's usually the go-to for getting hired! Just gotta up my resume and sharpen my introductions haha
Sounds like a good plan! It's great that our school has so many things like that available to its students. Are there any businesses you have your eye on?
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