Hello What's the most interesting thing that I've learned recently?
Hm... The most interesting thing I've learned recently. I guess it's about human nature.  When a person receives something good or pleasurable in their life it is sometimes first nature to use that happiness to try and hurt someone who's harmed you.
Hmm... why do you think that is?
I think a lot of it has to do with our desire to know or feel that we are better or stronger than those things that have hurt us. What do you think?
I'd agree in a sense. Where did you learn that?
It was something I noticed about myself, actually, as I've dealt with trauma and moving on. Human nature is fascinating. What have you learned about dealing with difficult things?
Hmm... I think that it might seem natural to hurt those who've harmed us. But ultimately, that isn't the best way to deal with difficulty
I think you're very right. What do you think is the best way?
I think that it has to do with our center... what drives us. If we can shift our center from ourselves, to a set of core values or principles (maybe religious principles) then we're less likely to act defensively This is in reference to Stephen Covey's "7 Habits of Highly Effective People" if you've read it.
I haven't read it. I've heard its good though!
I've enjoyed it. I usually don't have time to actually sit down and read, but I've found I can get through a book or two a month if I listen to them.
That sounds great. What do you like to read, usually?
Depends... Usually any books that catch my interest. Some of the most recent books I've read are more "business" type books Although, I get a good mix of fiction thrown in there. What about you, do you get a chance to read much?
Oh nice! I read a lot. It's a passion, and I'm an English major, so I kind of have to as well... Haha
What are your favorite recent reads ?
The last book I read was really interesting, called First Rate Madness.
Hmm... what' it about?
It talks a lot about leadership and mental illness.
oh What's the main premise?
It centers around the theory that leaders with mental illness are actually ideal for times of crisis, and that mentally healthy leaders are better for times of peace. It's really intersting