formula_installer: don't automatically upgrade from another tap.

[MikeMcQuaid]

Rather than automatically upgrading a formula from one tap to a formula from another when specified as a dependency require a manual intervention to be clear that's the user's intention.

Fixes #5224

CC @blogabe

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