Are you familiar with the concept of qualia? Could you explain it to me like I'm ten years old?
Qualia is a subjective experience you have, such as the feeling of heat or the taste of chocolate. These experiences are directly in your mind and they are completely unique to you. Different people may have different qualias for the same thing, such as the sound of a bug or the smell of a peach.  

For example, even if other can describe the heat or the taste of chocolate, they can't really understand what it's like to feel it. It's like having a special feeling inside that only you can feel.
is the experience itself that generates a qualia or is the consciousness of an individual that generates it?
The experience itself generates the qualia. When you have an experience, like seeing a beautiful sunset or tasting a delicious ice cream, it creates a unique qualia in your mind. It's not just your consciousness that generates the qualia, but rather the combination of your senses, thoughts, and emotions coming together to create that subjective experience.

Consciousness is what allows you to be aware of the qualia and to have those experiences in the first place. It's like the lens through which you perceive the world. So, while consciousness plays a role in experiencing qualia, it is the experience itself that gives rise to the qualia.
Is it possible to prove to another person that one is experiencing qualia? Why might a person who experiences qualia assume other people also experience qualia?