MDEV-16849 Extending indexed VARCHAR column should be instantaneous

Analysis:
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Increasing the length of the indexed varchar column is not an instant operation for
innodb.

Fix:
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- Introduce the new handler flag 'Alter_inplace_info::ALTER_COLUMN_INDEX_LENGTH' to
indicate the index length differs due to change of column length changes.

- InnoDB makes the ALTER_COLUMN_INDEX_LENGTH flag as instant operation.

This is a port of Mysql fix.

    commit 913071c0b16cc03e703308250d795bc381627e37
    Author: Nisha Gopalakrishnan <nisha.gopalakrishnan@oracle.com>
    Date:   Wed May 30 14:54:46 2018 +0530

        BUG#26848813: INDEXED COLUMN CAN'T BE CHANGED FROM VARCHAR(15)
                      TO VARCHAR(40) INSTANTANEOUSLY