[bug] prefer-destructuring-assignment false positive

### Describe the bug

<img width="763" height="156" alt="Image" src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/652f5bbb-e537-4648-95cc-b5087c25ee97" />

forwardRef's ref should be excluded from check

### Reproduction

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### Expected behavior

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### Platform and versions

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node 22
2.3.9
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