HttpMessage._add_default_headers should not overwrite existing headers

[wolfhechel]

Simply using setdefault should suffice rather than extend.

This is crucial for custom protocol extensions where the Server / User-Agent headers is used to
notify clients/servers about capabilities.

[asvetlov]

Fixed

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