update primitive options to check reversed inputs if commutative

[frances-h]

Updates primitive option matching to also check reversed inputs if primitive is commutative. Only checks reverse if first ordering fails to prevent double features from being created.

Fixes #1075

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Codecov Report

Merging #1085 into main will increase coverage by 0.00%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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  Files         126      126           
  Lines       13132    13158   +26     
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+ Hits        12915    12941   +26     
  Misses        217      217           

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
featuretools/primitives/options_utils.py	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
featuretools/synthesis/deep_feature_synthesis.py	97.34% <100.00%> (ø)
...ols/tests/synthesis/test_deep_feature_synthesis.py	99.24% <100.00%> (+0.02%)	⬆️

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[thehomebrewnerd]

I ran a few tests and the results matched what I expected, but I think the new test needs to be updated as it doesn't seem to be working quite right.

[thehomebrewnerd]

Looks good

[rwedge]

Looks good!