fix thrift version gt 0.13.0

[ZjuYTW]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: #1328

Problem Summary:
When using thrift version greater than 0.13.0, brpc can't compile correctly due to deprecate of boost.

What is changed and the side effects?

Changed:

Now compile logic works as follow:
For version < 0.11, set THRIFT_VERSION_LOWER_THAN_0_11_0 in cmake and using boost
For 0.11 <= version < 0.13, THRIFT_STDCXX_H is set inside thrift/stdcxx.h and use apache::thrift::stdcxx
For later, just use std

Side effects:

• Performance effects(性能影响):
  No
• Breaking backward compatibility(向后兼容性):
  No, later version of thrift use std as well.

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[ZjuYTW]

seems also need to address other two compile methods

[ZjuYTW]

No so sure if I need to get bazel compatible for thrift >= 0.13, seems there is no enough doc about how to build by bazel...
And maybe later I should add some CI tests for thrift >= 0.13?

[wwbmmm]

No so sure if I need to get bazel compatible for thrift >= 0.13, seems there is no enough doc about how to build by bazel...
And maybe later I should add some CI tests for thrift >= 0.13?

The bazel build use thrift 0.15.0 and CI is success. It seems that bazel build already supports thrift > 0.13.0 ?

[ZjuYTW]

@wwbmmm
In BUILD.bazel L44 says -DTHRIFT_STDCXX=std on default condition.

so already compatible.

[wwbmmm]

This PR has conflicts with master, please resolve @ZjuYTW

[ZjuYTW]

This PR has conflicts with master, please resolve @ZjuYTW

done @wwbmmm

[wwbmmm]

LGTM

[ZjuYTW]

maybe we can merge it? @wwbmmm