The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 4-4 | Added on Monday, 27 November 2017 21:24:31 offers, new editions, and initiatives ========== Além do limite: Conto (Gomes, Andressa) - Your Bookmark at location 893 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 10:11:06 ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 906-908 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 19:08:03 Meu Deus – disse, suspirando. – Meu Deus, não é exatamente o que eu tinha pensado. Mas ele sabia que se casaria com aquela mulher de qualquer jeito. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1043-1043 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 19:23:00 Mas agora estava claro que o caminho mais fácil não era o melhor. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1043-1043 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 19:23:13 Mas agora estava claro que o caminho mais fácil não era o melhor. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1122-1122 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 19:29:37 A esperança era um tormento. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1144-1145 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 19:31:38 – Agora vai me explicar como são os homens? Se há uma coisa que conheço muito bem é isso, senhor. Homens. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1669-1670 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 22:10:31 – Não entendo o que resultará de bom nisso, Senhor, mas eu voltarei. Mesmo sem gostar muito da ideia, farei o que quer. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1698-1699 | Added on Tuesday, 28 November 2017 22:13:05 Na última viagem, Michael havia investido todo o pó de ouro que ganhara a duras penas para cortejar Angel. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 2534-2536 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 08:00:16 Meu Deus, o que é que eu faço? Vou enlouquecer. O Senhor espera demais de mim. Ou será que sou eu que espero demais dela? A resposta era sempre a mesma. Espere. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3071-3072 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 12:52:07 Seu cunhado sabia ouvi-lo e entendia coisas que ele nem precisava falar. Era capaz de iluminar os tempos mais sombrios, dava-lhe a sensação de que tudo se resolveria da forma pretendida, que seria bom. Michael alimentava esperanças, ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3306-3307 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 14:44:01 Ele olhava para uma prostituta e via alguém digno de amor. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3486-3486 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 15:28:11 sei bem para onde. Algum lugar maior do que este, ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3487-3488 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 15:28:21 todos os seus planos se desintegraram. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3916-3918 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:20:13 nossa carta sois vós... Escrita não com tinta, mas com o Espírito de Deus vivo, não em tábuas de pedra, mas em tábuas de carne do coração. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3916-3920 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:20:38 A nossa carta sois vós... Escrita não com tinta, mas com o Espírito de Deus vivo, não em tábuas de pedra, mas em tábuas de carne do coração. – I I C O R Í N T I O S 3 , 2 - 3 erdão era uma palavra desconhecida. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3916-3919 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:20:47 A nossa carta sois vós... Escrita não com tinta, mas com o Espírito de Deus vivo, não em tábuas de pedra, mas em tábuas de carne do coração. – I I C O R Í N T I O S 3 , 2 - 3 ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3952-3954 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:29:05 Como ensinar a uma criança que sofre a confiar no Senhor, se o único pai que conheceu a odiava e queria que ela morresse? Como ensiná-la que o mundo não é feito somente de ruindades, se o padre abandonou a mãe dela? Senhor, ela foi vendida como escrava para um homem que parece o próprio Satã. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3954-3956 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:29:29 Como vou convencê-la de que há gente boa no mundo, se todos que ela conheceu a usaram e depois a condenaram por isso? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3952-3956 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:29:36 Como ensinar a uma criança que sofre a confiar no Senhor, se o único pai que conheceu a odiava e queria que ela morresse? Como ensiná-la que o mundo não é feito somente de ruindades, se o padre abandonou a mãe dela? Senhor, ela foi vendida como escrava para um homem que parece o próprio Satã. Como vou convencê-la de que há gente boa no mundo, se todos que ela conheceu a usaram e depois a condenaram por isso? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3952-3956 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:29:40 Como ensinar a uma criança que sofre a confiar no Senhor, se o único pai que conheceu a odiava e queria que ela morresse? Como ensiná-la que o mundo não é feito somente de ruindades, se o padre abandonou a mãe dela? Senhor, ela foi vendida como escrava para um homem que parece o próprio Satã. Como vou convencê-la de que há gente boa no mundo, se todos que ela conheceu a usaram e depois a condenaram por isso? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4180-4183 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:29:59 Era um daqueles homens raros que viviam de acordo com o que acreditavam, não de vez em quando, mas a cada minuto do dia, mesmo quando as coisas ficavam muito difíceis. Gentil como era, terno como era seu coração, não havia nenhuma fraqueza em Michael Hosea. Era o homem mais decidido que Joseph conhecia. Um homem como Noé. Um homem como o rei-pastor Davi. Um homem com a fibra do coração de Deus. Joseph orou para Angel não arrancar o ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4180-4184 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:30:07 Era um daqueles homens raros que viviam de acordo com o que acreditavam, não de vez em quando, mas a cada minuto do dia, mesmo quando as coisas ficavam muito difíceis. Gentil como era, terno como era seu coração, não havia nenhuma fraqueza em Michael Hosea. Era o homem mais decidido que Joseph conhecia. Um homem como Noé. Um homem como o rei-pastor Davi. Um homem com a fibra do coração de Deus. Joseph orou para Angel não arrancar o coração de Michael, deixando-o ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4180-4183 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:30:11 Era um daqueles homens raros que viviam de acordo com o que acreditavam, não de vez em quando, mas a cada minuto do dia, mesmo quando as coisas ficavam muito difíceis. Gentil como era, terno como era seu coração, não havia nenhuma fraqueza em Michael Hosea. Era o homem mais decidido que Joseph conhecia. Um homem como Noé. Um homem como o rei-pastor Davi. Um homem com a fibra do coração de Deus. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5031-5032 | Added on Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:27:38 Mesmo depois de tê-lo abandonado e traído, ele brigou por ela. Angel jamais o entenderia. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5707-5707 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 08:41:29 Era uma obsessão. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5853-5854 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:44:51 Você está se preocupando com coisas que não podemos controlar. Apenas aceite tudo, um dia de cada vez. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5969-5971 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:57:20 Qual é a real diferença? A intenção é a mesma – e puxou sua trança. – Você não entende? Nenhum de nós merece isso. Não tem nada a ver com o nosso merecimento. Toda bênção vem do Pai, não é pagamento por algum bem que fizemos, é uma dádiva. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5968-5971 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:57:29 – Pensar em fazer alguma coisa errada não é a mesma coisa que fazê-la. – Não é? Qual é a real diferença? A intenção é a mesma – e puxou sua trança. – Você não entende? Nenhum de nós merece isso. Não tem nada a ver com o nosso merecimento. Toda bênção vem do Pai, não é pagamento por algum bem que fizemos, é uma dádiva. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5980-5981 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:59:24 Ele está em mim. Mostro-lhe Deus todas as horas de todos os dias, do único jeito que sei. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5980-5981 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:59:29 acontecera em sua vida e na da mãe. – Ele está em mim. Mostro-lhe Deus todas as horas de todos os dias, do único jeito que sei. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5980-5981 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:59:36 – Ele está em mim. Mostro-lhe Deus todas as horas de todos os dias, do único jeito que sei. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5903-5904 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:00:42 – Completamente. Esse amor me consome. Às vezes basta ele olhar para mim que... ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 6061-6062 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:11:34 Todas as coisas boas vêm do Pai. Até isso. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Bookmark at location 6564 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:27:16 ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 7277-7277 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:37:32 Fechou-se dentro de si à procura de respostas. Não encontrou nenhuma. Tinha sonhos sombrios e confusos com rostos que ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 7277-7277 | Added on Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:37:40 Fechou-se dentro de si à procura de respostas. Não encontrou nenhuma. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 8426-8427 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 00:34:28 De qualquer modo, quando é que as coisas reais, de valor duradouro, podem ser planejadas? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Bookmark at location 9003 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 10:27:39 ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165829-165831 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 12:47:44 16“And  h in that day, declares the LORD, you will call me ‘My Husband,’ and no longer will you call me ‘My Baal.’ ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165840-165846 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 12:48:07 19And I will betroth you to me  m forever.  n I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. 20 n I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And  o you shall know the LORD ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165840-165846 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 12:48:14 19And I will betroth you to me  m forever.  n I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. 20 n I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And  o you shall know the LORD ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165840-165847 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 12:48:16 19And I will betroth you to me  m forever.  n I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. 20 n I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And  o you shall know the LORD. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165840-165847 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 12:48:17 19And I will betroth you to me  m forever.  n I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. 20 n I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And  o you shall know the LORD. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165876-165877 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 12:51:50 “Go again, love a woman who is loved by another man and is an adulteress, even as the LORD loves the children of Israel, ========== Licao_ Coragem Para Ser Diferenter.indd - Desconhecido - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 14:40:59 imoralidade, luxúria, idolatria ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Bookmark at location 165878 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:22:26 ========== Lição: Coragem Para Ser Diferenter.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 11-11 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:31:37 Texto Base: Daniel 1:1-21 ========== Lição: Coragem Para Ser Diferenter.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 21-23 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:36:21 Cuidado: o que adianta ganhar o mundo inteiro e perder a sua alma? O que adianta ficar rico, vendendo a sua alma ao diabo? O que adianta ter sucesso, mas perder a fé? O que adianta ser famoso, mas não ter uma vida limpa? ========== Lição: Coragem Para Ser Diferenter.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 24-25 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:36:52 Infiéis, vocês não sabem que a amizade com o mundo é inimizade com Deus? Quem quer ser amigo do mundo faz-se inimigo de Deus. (Tiago 4.4) ========== Lição: Coragem Para Ser Diferenter.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 32-32 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:39:06 Seus nomes foram trocados e vinculados às divindades pagãs. ========== Lição: Coragem Para Ser Diferenter.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 41-42 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:40:53 Resistiu sempre aos interesses da Babilônia quando esses se chocavam com os interesses do Reino de Deus. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Bookmark at location 162190 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:44:52 ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Bookmark at location 165878 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:45:21 ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165933-165935 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:50:14 My people are destroyed  v for lack of knowledge; ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 165960-165967 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 15:51:41 They shall eat, but not be satisfied; they shall play the whore, but not multiply, because they have forsaken the LORD to cherish 11whoredom, wine, and new wine, which e take away the understanding. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 166003-166007 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 20:21:33 Like a stubborn heifer, Israel is stubborn; can the LORD now feed them like a lamb in a broad pasture? ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 166123-166127 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 20:31:30 I will return again to my place, until they acknowledge their guilt and seek my face, and  x in their distress earnestly seek me. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 166165-166171 | Added on Friday, 1 December 2017 20:35:21 For  k I desire steadfast love [1] and not sacrifice,  l the knowledge of God rather than burnt offerings. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 491-492 | Added on Sunday, 3 December 2017 08:18:26 A verdade era esta: o amor é uma decisão. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 493-495 | Added on Sunday, 3 December 2017 08:19:25 Ele queria que ela ouvisse a explicação do marido e estivesse disposta a perdoar, disposta a buscar orientação e fazer as coisas darem certo – não porque ela tivesse vontade, mas porque era algo que havia decidido fazer quase seis anos atrás. Então, na última hora antes do retorno ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 493-495 | Added on Sunday, 3 December 2017 08:19:32 Ele queria que ela ouvisse a explicação do marido e estivesse disposta a perdoar, disposta a buscar orientação e fazer as coisas darem certo – não porque ela tivesse vontade, mas porque era algo que havia decidido fazer quase seis anos atrás. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 593-594 | Added on Sunday, 3 December 2017 22:38:14 Deus não só iria livrá-la, mas também dar-lhe uma chance de honrá-lo, de alguma forma, em meio àquele desastre, foi suficiente para fazer seu coração voltar a bater normalmente e desaparecer a sensação de calor no rosto. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 2730-2731 | Added on Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:19:38 Como seu caso de amor com Deus e com as coisas do céu esfriaram, tornando-se uma obrigação e, depois, um constrangimento? ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 2804-2805 | Added on Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:33:39 Ele lhe deu um sorriso experiente, aquele que sempre tinha um jeito de criar certo grau de paz e entusiasmo no coração dela. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 2822-2823 | Added on Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:37:59 Mesmo agora, neste momento de incerteza e de terríveis possibilidades, sua confiança em Deus era absoluta. Isso dava à Elizabeth uma âncora, uma rocha para se apoiar, por mais difícil que parecesse a situação. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3839-3840 | Added on Wednesday, 6 December 2017 09:43:46 O perdão acontece uma vez, disseram-lhes os conselheiros. A cura leva uma vida. Kari inclinou a cabeça e sorriu para ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3839-3839 | Added on Wednesday, 6 December 2017 09:47:22 O perdão acontece uma vez, disseram- ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3839-3840 | Added on Wednesday, 6 December 2017 09:47:27 O perdão acontece uma vez, disseram-lhes os conselheiros. A cura leva uma vida. Kari inclinou a cabeça e sorriu para ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3839-3840 | Added on Wednesday, 6 December 2017 09:47:31 O perdão acontece uma vez, disseram-lhes os conselheiros. A cura leva uma vida. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3903-3904 | Added on Wednesday, 6 December 2017 12:43:36 As sessões de aconselhamento, às vezes, eram difíceis e dolorosas; mas pensar nelas fazia com que ela tivesse um sentimento de esperança. ========== Redenção: O início da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 5013-5013 | Added on Friday, 8 December 2017 01:11:01 Os planos de Deus para ela não estavam mortos ========== 2 onascimentodejesus (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 7-8 | Added on Thursday, 14 December 2017 14:47:34 Deus da provisão e que, por amor e compaixão, supre todas as nossas necessidades, ========== 2 onascimentodejesus (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 36-37 | Added on Thursday, 14 December 2017 14:54:22 Um dos propósitos de central Lucas ao escrever o seu evangelho foi apresentar Jesus como homem. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 1312-1312 | Added on Sunday, 17 December 2017 00:12:18 correu ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 2776-2778 | Added on Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:18:47 Não posso andar por toda a cidade como você, nem perambular pelas colinas como Joshua, mas com certeza posso me sentar bem aqui nesta poltrona e rezar o dia inteiro. O diabo que pegue isso e enfie onde quiser. Posso ser a mulher mais velha da cidade, Zeke, mas não tirei mais minha armadura desde que a vesti. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 2923-2923 | Added on Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:45:08 Ele sempre está trabalhando. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4331-4333 | Added on Friday, 22 December 2017 15:13:28 Deus sussurra em nossos prazeres, fala em nossa consciência, mas grita em nossas dores: é o seu megafone para despertar um mundo de surdos. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4333-4335 | Added on Friday, 22 December 2017 15:13:41 S. LEWIS 1957 Zeke estava sentado no escritório da igreja, com a Bíblia aberta enquanto examinava suas anotações para o sermão de domingo. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4331-4335 | Added on Friday, 22 December 2017 15:13:57 Deus sussurra em nossos prazeres, fala em nossa consciência, mas grita em nossas dores: é o seu megafone para despertar um mundo de surdos. C. S. LEWIS 1957 Zeke estava sentado no escritório da igreja, com a Bíblia aberta enquanto examinava suas anotações para o sermão de domingo. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4331-4334 | Added on Friday, 22 December 2017 15:14:04 Deus sussurra em nossos prazeres, fala em nossa consciência, mas grita em nossas dores: é o seu megafone para despertar um mundo de surdos. C. S. LEWIS ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4586-4588 | Added on Friday, 22 December 2017 15:37:03 E então lembrei que tivemos cinco anos maravilhosos juntos. Agradeço pelo tempo que tive com ela. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4624-4627 | Added on Friday, 22 December 2017 18:56:21 Eu rezei uma vez. Com todo meu coração e toda minha alma. — Ela deu de ombros. — Ele fez o oposto do que eu pedi. Murray afastou as mãos, abriu a capa que protegia a roupa de Abra e a removeu. — Talvez ele tenha um plano melhor. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5594-5594 | Added on Sunday, 24 December 2017 21:30:31 Achava mais fácil interpretar os papéis em filmes do que ser Lena Scott. Este papel, ela precisava lembrar a si mesma ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5594-5594 | Added on Sunday, 24 December 2017 21:30:36 Achava mais fácil interpretar os papéis em filmes do que ser Lena Scott. ========== A ponte de Haven (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 7419-7421 | Added on Monday, 25 December 2017 18:17:02 Ele gostava das pessoas. Sempre fora acolhedor, amigável, interessado por todos e por tudo a sua volta. ========== Lembranças: O segundo livro da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 789-789 | Added on Wednesday, 27 December 2017 14:26:07 Eram palavras que ela havia ouvido durante toda a vida, mas pareciam vazias e batidas depois do assassinato de Tim. ========== Lembranças: O segundo livro da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3913-3914 | Added on Saturday, 30 December 2017 14:39:52 Lembrar-se da verdade de Deus... Lembrar-se do que é importante... Lembrar-se de como amar. Lembrar era um tema que parecia permear todas as coisas que eram importantes desde os ataques: ========== Lembranças: O segundo livro da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 3913-3914 | Added on Saturday, 30 December 2017 14:39:56 Lembrar-se da verdade de Deus... Lembrar-se do que é importante... Lembrar-se de como amar. Lembrar era um tema que parecia permear todas as coisas que eram importantes desde os ataques: ========== Lembranças: O segundo livro da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight at location 4920-4922 | Added on Sunday, 31 December 2017 10:45:27 Deus quer que nos lembremos de nosso primeiro amor, tanto por ele quanto por nosso cônjuge. Quando nos lembramos disso, somos mais capazes de honrar a pessoa com quem estamos infelizes. Depois disso, tudo se encaixa. ========== Lembranças: O segundo livro da saga da família Baxter (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Bookmark at location 5493 | Added on Sunday, 31 December 2017 15:35:31 ========== Return (Redemption Book 3) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 239 | location 3081-3082 | Added on Wednesday, 3 January 2018 13:51:06 “His voice is still and small,” Landon told her. “Sometimes more of an impression than actual words. And if we don’t get real quiet, we won’t ever hear it.” ========== Return (Redemption Book 3) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 239 | location 3086-3087 | Added on Wednesday, 3 January 2018 13:52:25 Yes, God would be with her even if she tested positive, even if she got sick and died of AIDS. She would never lose God. ========== Return (Redemption Book 3) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 253 | location 3243-3243 | Added on Thursday, 4 January 2018 02:28:18 “Love is a decision.” A decision that sometimes meant making hard choices. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 307-309 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 02:24:47 Independente do custo da bicicleta, se este é um hobby saudável que você mantém, com certeza deve continuar a tê-lo, pois a vida não é só feita de finanças. Sabemos ainda que o carro é um mal necessário ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 324-327 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 02:27:12 Os juros pagos a você são o fruto da sua abstenção, e por quanto mais tempo você decidir não gastar, mais tempo esse mesmo dinheiro é remunerado. A motivação tem que ser buscada nessas linhas. Você deve pensar que ao se abster de gastar gerará renda para gastar depois sem necessidade de trabalhar. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 356-357 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 18:38:01 Ou seja, não é necessário mais trabalhar para obter o dinheiro necessário para os gastos comuns do seu padrão de vida. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 410-411 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 18:49:33 Em resumo, R$ 57,60 trabalharam para você, e sem você fazer nenhum esforço recebeu a quantia de 14.958 reais. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 444-444 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 19:18:23 No entanto, a regra da constância dos investimentos continua valendo. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 497-497 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 19:27:12 A educação financeira consiste em saber três pontos: ganhar dinheiro, manter o dinheiro e gastar o dinheiro. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 512-514 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 19:29:44 O planejamento financeiro vai ensiná-lo(a) a poupar, a educação financeira vai ensiná-lo(a) a investir. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 195177-195179 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 20:49:15 “Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he  w opened to us the Scriptures?” ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 195186-195189 | Added on Saturday, 27 January 2018 20:49:54 how he was known to them in  b the breaking of the bread. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Bookmark at location 515 | Added on Sunday, 28 January 2018 22:14:05 ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Bookmark at location 383 | Added on Sunday, 28 January 2018 22:17:10 ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 89452-89456 | Added on Monday, 29 January 2018 19:18:59 Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will  c give you the desires of your heart. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 519-520 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 14:37:01 O mais importante no orçamento não é apenas registrar os seus ganhos e gastos e sim a informação que será obtida com estes dados. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 541-542 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 14:40:13 A segunda forma em que o orçamento lhe será útil, e ainda mais importante, é a previsão de gastos e o acompanhamento ao longo do mês. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 548-550 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 14:41:15 A terceira forma em que o orçamento lhe será útil é executar uma importante tarefa para quem realmente deseja se enriquecer: pare de viver de salário em salário. ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 672-675 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 14:56:55 O ideal é quebrar um grande objetivo em pequenas metas a serem alcançadas e acompanhadas. A definição de um objetivo é a principal motivação para você ter disciplina, pois pensará duas vezes antes de comprar algo que não precisa, pois isto irá distanciá-lo(a) do objetivo realmente relevante. A chave é pensar no longo prazo mas agir agora. ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 137-138 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 15:18:29 Uma escala é uma série de notas entre dois pontos musicais estabelecidos. ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 164-165 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 15:22:02 Cada escala do mesmo tipo sempre tem o mesmo padrão. ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 182-183 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 15:24:35 Normalmente, você pode descobrir que uma melodia é criada a partir da escala maior, antes de um solo de guitarra ser tocado em um tom menor ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 173-175 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 15:24:54 Ouça Friends de Joe Satriani para ver uma escala maior realmente triunfal. ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 176-176 | Added on Thursday, 1 February 2018 15:25:02 Outras músicas que você pode querer ouvir, dependendo do seu gosto musical, são: ========== Pare de Jogar Dinheiro Fora!: Aprenda de forma simples e descontraída tudo sobre economia e investimentos. (Caixeta, Douglas) - Your Highlight at location 525-527 | Added on Thursday, 8 February 2018 11:39:44 Recomendo o programa YNAB (You Need a Budget). www.youneedabudget.com ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 92610-92612 | Added on Friday, 23 February 2018 16:56:06 Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 5-6 | Added on Friday, 23 February 2018 22:03:11 1.22: “Sejam praticantes da Palavra, e não apenas ouvintes, enganando-se a si mesmos”. ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 10-11 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 00:32:26 Porque desejamos muito que todos pensem um pouco sobre o quanto tem sido só ouvintes ou o quanto tem sido ouvintes e praticantes da Palavra de Deus. ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 13-14 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 00:34:55 Se somos filhos de Deus, então faz todo sentido acreditarmos que devemos refletir muito do que Ele é em nossa vida e através dela. ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 15-16 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 00:35:03 Dessa forma o amor está aperfeiçoado entre nós, para que no dia do juízo tenhamos confiança, porque neste mundo somos como Ele (1 João 4.17). ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 15-16 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 00:35:05 Dessa forma o amor está aperfeiçoado entre nós, para que no dia do juízo tenhamos confiança, porque neste mundo somos como Ele (1 João 4.17). ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 17-19 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 00:35:12 Dessa maneira, ele nos deu as suas grandiosas e preciosas promessas, para que por elas vocês se tornassem participantes da natureza divina e fugissem da corrupção que há no mundo, causada pela cobiça. (2 Pedro 1.4) ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 22-23 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 00:35:40 Quando alguém se converte, nasce de novo, recebe o Espírito Santo e com Ele, recebe a própria natureza de Deus. ========== Kriptonita 01 - Somos_como_ele_nesse_mundo.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 17-19 | Added on Saturday, 24 February 2018 01:15:13 Dessa maneira, ele nos deu as suas grandiosas e preciosas promessas, para que por elas vocês se tornassem participantes da natureza divina e fugissem da corrupção que há no mundo, causada pela cobiça. (2 Pedro 1.4) ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 5-5 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:47:07 Pergunta: Quem aqui já ouviu falar do Rei Saul? O que poderia nos contar a respeito deste rei? ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 6-6 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:47:35 Leitura Bíblica: 1Samuel 15.1-9 ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 17-19 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:49:27 Pergunta: Qual foi a ordem dada por Deus ao Rei Saul? Ele obedeceu a Deus? Obedeceu 100%? Se você acha que não, então, percentualmente, quanto ele obedeceu a Deus? ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 17-19 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:49:35 Pergunta: Qual foi a ordem dada por Deus ao Rei Saul? Ele obedeceu a Deus? Obedeceu 100%? Se você acha que não, então, percentualmente, quanto ele obedeceu a Deus? ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 29-29 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:51:17 Pergunta: Por que Deus não focou em tudo o que Saul fez, ao invés do 1% que ele não fez? ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 29-30 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:52:09 A partir deste episódio, podemos aprender que ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 29-29 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:52:17 Pergunta: Por que Deus não focou em tudo o que Saul fez, ao invés do 1% que ele não fez? ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 25-26 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:53:35 Então o Senhor falou a Samuel: “Arrependo-me de ter posto Saul como rei, pois ele me abandonou e não seguiu as minhas instruções”. (1 Samuel 15.10-11) ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 34-37 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:53:51 Acaso tem o Senhor tanto prazer em holocaustos e em sacrifícios quanto em que se obedeça à sua palavra? A obediência é melhor do que o sacrifício, e a submissão é melhor do que a gordura de carneiros. Pois a rebeldia é como o pecado da feitiçaria, e a arrogância como o mal da idolatria. Assim como você rejeitou a palavra do Senhor, ele o rejeitou como rei. (1 Samuel 15.22-23) ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 43-44 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:55:26 Somos idólatras sempre que a nossa vontade, nossa agenda, nossos desejos e anseios forem colocados acima dos ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 57-58 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:57:30 A auto idolatria vem do descontentamento do coração. Uma pessoa sempre insatisfeita com tudo acaba sentindo-se insatisfeita com Deus também e facilmente coloca ídolos em sua vida. ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 57-58 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:57:40 A auto idolatria vem do descontentamento do coração. Uma pessoa sempre insatisfeita com tudo acaba sentindo-se insatisfeita com Deus também e facilmente coloca ídolos em sua vida. ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 62-62 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:58:28 Adorar é obedecer. ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 68-68 | Added on Thursday, 1 March 2018 23:59:02 Pergunta: E qual foi a reação do Rei Saul quando foi confrontado por Samuel? ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 78-78 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 00:00:01 Obediência parcial é idolatria. ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Note at location 78 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 00:00:39 Main point ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 16-17 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 09:30:49 Pouparam tudo o que era bom, mas tudo o que era desprezível e inútil destruíram por completo. ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Note at location 17 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 09:31:33 Obediência parcial e conveniente ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 47-50 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 13:02:11 obediência ao que Ele pede. Como Saul, o idólatra não enxerga o seu pecado e começa a se enganar e a achar que Deus está do seu lado. Acha que Deus entende o seu coração, que tolera aquele comportamento e que aprova o seu estilo de vida. Mas a verdade é que , como Saul, quem age assim está em oposição a Deus e se torna seu inimigo A ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 46-47 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 13:02:33 Saul tornou-se um idólatra porque deixou de dar a Deus a adoração que lhe é devida: obediência ao que Ele pede. ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Note at location 47 | Added on Friday, 2 March 2018 13:04:37 Essa é a relação entre desobediêcia e idolatria ========== Lição - Idolatria_do_Crente.indd (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 34-37 | Added on Saturday, 3 March 2018 01:11:52 Acaso tem o Senhor tanto prazer em holocaustos e em sacrifícios quanto em que se obedeça à sua palavra? A obediência é melhor do que o sacrifício, e a submissão é melhor do que a gordura de carneiros. Pois a rebeldia é como o pecado da feitiçaria, e a arrogância como o mal da idolatria. Assim como você rejeitou a palavra do Senhor, ele o rejeitou como rei. (1 Samuel 15.22-23) ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178212-178214 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:51:22 So  e whatever you wish that others would do to you, ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178212-178214 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:51:34 So  e whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178209-178212 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:51:42 how much more will  z your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him! ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178255-178260 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:53:47 And then will I declare to them, ‘I  w never knew you;  x depart from me,  y you workers of lawlessness.’ ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note at location 178259 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:56:19 Jesus is comparing son vs workers. A son obbey the Father and his commandments and that's how he is recognized . The other is just worke and God doesn't know them. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178255-178260 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:56:41 And then will I declare to them, ‘I  w never knew you;  x depart from me,  y you workers of lawlessness.’ ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note at location 178259 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:57:31 06/03/18: Jesus is comparing son vs workers. A son obbey the Father and his commandments and that's how he is recognized . The other is just worke and God doesn't know them. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note at location 178259 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:58:39 06/03/18: Jesus is comparing son vs workers. A son obbeys the Father and his commandments and that's how he is recognized . The other is just worker with a job and God doesn't know them. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178276-178277 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 16:59:37 for he was teaching them as one who had authority, and not as their scribes. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note at location 178277 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 17:01:59 06/03/18: Who are you, in the reunion of your cell? Jesus or the scribes? As shown, theorically, they did the same thing. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note at location 178277 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 17:02:23 06/03/18: Who are you, in the reunion of your cell? Jesus or the scribes? As shown, theorically, they did the same thing. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note at location 178273 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 17:03:00 Test ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 178273-178273 | Added on Tuesday, 6 March 2018 17:03:00 28And ========== Aprenda como Einstein: Técnicas de aprendizagem acelerada e leitura efetiva para pensar como um gênio: Memorize mais, se concentre melhor e leia eficazmente ... aprender qualquer coisa (Allen, Steve) - Your Highlight on page 12 | location 212-213 | Added on Thursday, 8 March 2018 23:46:20 segredo está em aprender a aprender. Há uma arte nisso, e quando você for capaz de dominá-la terá uma habilidade por toda a sua vida. ========== Aprenda como Einstein: Técnicas de aprendizagem acelerada e leitura efetiva para pensar como um gênio: Memorize mais, se concentre melhor e leia eficazmente ... aprender qualquer coisa (Allen, Steve) - Your Highlight on page 12 | location 212-213 | Added on Thursday, 8 March 2018 23:46:26 O segredo está em aprender a aprender. Há uma arte nisso, e quando você for capaz de dominá-la terá uma habilidade por toda a sua vida. ========== Aprenda como Einstein: Técnicas de aprendizagem acelerada e leitura efetiva para pensar como um gênio: Memorize mais, se concentre melhor e leia eficazmente ... aprender qualquer coisa (Allen, Steve) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 217-218 | Added on Thursday, 8 March 2018 23:47:12 Aprender a aprender é uma das habilidades mais valiosas a serem desenvolvidas, é a raiz do êxito acadêmico, nos negócios, na liderança, em relacionamentos pessoais e em todas as áreas da vida. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Note at location 16 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:18:33 Cuidado! ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 16-16 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:18:33 homossexualismo, ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 17-17 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:19:00 Mas será que devemos seguir sem questionar os padrões da nossa sociedade? ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 22-22 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:21:21 Salvador, o Senhor Jesus Cristo. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 22-22 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:21:25 Salvador, o Senhor Jesus Cristo. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 25-25 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:22:36 devemos viver como cidadãos do Céu. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 26-26 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:24:03 demonstra a verdade em sua vida. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 26-26 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:24:08 mas alguém que demonstra a verdade em sua vida. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 21-21 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:24:20 só pensam nas coisas terrenas. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 21-21 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 09:24:30 eles têm orgulho do que é vergonhoso; ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 45-45 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:04:33 que são hoje aceitos pela sociedade, não são aceitos por Ele e serão julgados por Ele. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 50-50 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:04:58 mas será que não fomos para um outro extremo? ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 51-53 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:05:25 Pergunta: Como o padrão do Céu será conhecido se continuarmos com a nossa atual filosofia de não confronto e de uma mensagem agradável e politicamente correta? ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 51-53 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:05:29 Pergunta: Como o padrão do Céu será conhecido se continuarmos com a nossa atual filosofia de não confronto e de uma mensagem agradável e politicamente correta? ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 55-56 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:05:40 Vamos ler juntos Atos 24.24-25. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 68-68 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:06:49 Se Paulo fizesse uma oração de salvação ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 68-68 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:06:54 Se Paulo fizesse uma oração de salvação com ele sem confronto e sem arrependimento genuíno, Félix teria sido enganado. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 69-71 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:07:19 Deus está pronto a derramar sua graça e a salvar qualquer pessoa que se arrependa, confesse os seus pecados e esteja disposto a, capacitado pela mesma graça que salva, se esforçar para viver o padrão da graça. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 69-71 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:10:29 Deus está pronto a derramar sua graça e a salvar qualquer pessoa que se arrependa, confesse os seus pecados e esteja disposto a, capacitado pela mesma graça que salva, se esforçar para viver o padrão da graça. ========== Kyptonita - Padrões do Céu (IBHBH) - Your Highlight at location 25-25 | Added on Friday, 9 March 2018 19:36:33 A nossa esfera de vida não é mais terrena. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 95-97 | Added on Thursday, 15 March 2018 16:47:02 This is about being easy and sustainable, but it’s not a free ride. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 114-116 | Added on Thursday, 15 March 2018 16:53:05 Not only does it allow you time for things you often neglect, but waking up before you “need” to get up is representative of taking control of your life. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 42-45 | Added on Thursday, 15 March 2018 22:28:41 O servo voltou e relatou isso ao seu senhor. Então o dono da casa irou-se e ordenou ao seu servo: “Vá rapidamente para as ruas e becos da cidade e traga os pobres, os aleijados, os cegos e os mancos”. Disse o servo: “O que o senhor ordenou foi feito, e ainda há lugar”. Então o senhor disse ao servo: “Vá pelos caminhos e valados e obrigue-os a entrar, para que a minha casa fique cheia. Eu lhes digo: Nenhum daqueles que foram convidados provará do meu banquete”. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 206-206 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 17:57:20 Willpower is a limited resource. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 218-220 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 17:59:59 The purpose of our routine is to create an activity that habituates waking up and getting you ready for the day. It’s something to guide you out of the waking up phase, get you in a positive state of mind, and prep you for a productive morning. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 217-218 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:00:19 Athletes have their pre-game warm-ups, students have their favorite study spots, and pilots have their pre-flight checklists. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 7-10 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:06:59 Leitura Bíblica: Lucas 14:16-20 Jesus respondeu: Certo homem estava preparando um grande banquete e convidou muitas pessoas. Na hora de começar, enviou ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 7-10 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:07:07 Leitura Bíblica: Lucas 14:16-20 Jesus respondeu: Certo homem estava preparando um grande banquete e convidou muitas pessoas. Na hora de começar, enviou ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 7-10 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:07:10 Leitura Bíblica: Lucas 14:16-20 Jesus respondeu: Certo homem estava preparando um grande banquete e convidou muitas pessoas. Na hora de começar, enviou seu servo para dizer aos que haviam sido ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 7-10 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:07:12 Leitura Bíblica: Lucas 14:16-20 Jesus respondeu: Certo homem estava preparando um grande banquete e convidou muitas pessoas. Na hora de começar, enviou seu servo para dizer aos que haviam sido ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 7-13 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:07:23 Leitura Bíblica: Lucas 14:16-20 Jesus respondeu: Certo homem estava preparando um grande banquete e convidou muitas pessoas. Na hora de começar, enviou seu servo para dizer aos que haviam sido convidados: “Venham, pois tudo já está pronto”. Mas eles começaram, um por um, a apresentar desculpas. O primeiro disse: “Acabei de comprar uma propriedade, e preciso ir vê-la. Por favor, desculpe-me”. Outro disse: “Acabei de comprar cinco juntas de bois e estou indo experimentá-las. Por favor, desculpe-me”. Ainda outro disse: “Acabo de me casar, por isso não posso ir”. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 15-15 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:08:20 A palavra-chave nesse texto é DESCULPAS. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 18-19 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:08:46 O que as desculpas comunicam? É bem simples. É uma questão de agenda. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 28-29 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:09:50 Entretanto, quando se tornar dono de uma propriedade se torna mais importante do que a Palavra de Deus, aí sim, é pecado. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 32-32 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:10:11 Porém, quando experimentar algo novo for mais importante que a Palavra de Deus, isso se torna pecado. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 35-36 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:10:33 Quando o cônjuge se torna maior que a Palavra de Deus, isso é pecado. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 48-49 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:11:18 É um banquete da Palavra, de sabedoria, de presença dele, de conselho, de poder ou outra coisa maravilhosa que somente Jesus pode dar. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 55-55 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:12:45 embora lícitos, têm se tornado pecado de idolatria, uma verdadeira Kriptonita em nossas vidas. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 55-55 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:12:48 embora lícitos, têm se tornado pecado de idolatria, uma verdadeira Kriptonita em nossas vidas. ========== Kryptonita 4: O Pecado Que Não É Pecado (IBCBH) - Your Highlight at location 61-62 | Added on Friday, 16 March 2018 18:13:09 Coloque o Senhor em primeiro lugar na sua vida. Coloque o Senhor como o seu ÚNICO DEUS. ========== Agile Modeling With UML (Unknown) - Your Highlight at location 20-21 | Added on Monday, 19 March 2018 22:45:37 Even the UML [1], which is regarded as a de-facto standard, is seen as a family of languages rather than a single notation and by far doesn’t cover all needs. This leads to an ongoing proliferation of methods, notations, principles, techniques and tools in the software engineering domain. ========== Paper-UmaAbordagemModNegocioEmRequisitos - Your Highlight on page 1 | Added on Monday, 2 April 2018 14:16:07 Assim ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 187071-187073 | Added on Sunday, 8 April 2018 12:36:01 35And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them,  c “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.” ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 187296-187301 | Added on Sunday, 8 April 2018 12:45:54 45For even the Son of Man came not to be served but  u to serve, and  v to give his life as a ransom for  w many.” ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 187411-187416 | Added on Sunday, 8 April 2018 12:51:07 24Therefore I tell you,  p whatever you ask in prayer,  o believe that you  q have received [3] it, and it will be yours. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 187751-187754 | Added on Tuesday, 10 April 2018 08:16:15 Heaven and earth will pass away, but  h my words will not pass away. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 187750-187754 | Added on Tuesday, 10 April 2018 08:16:28 31 g Heaven and earth will pass away, but  h my words will not pass away. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 187750-187754 | Added on Tuesday, 10 April 2018 08:16:31 31 g Heaven and earth will pass away, but  h my words will not pass away. ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 121-123 | Added on Tuesday, 10 April 2018 16:05:41 Há faixas de áudio para cada conceito importante, você pode baixá-las em www.fundamental-changes.com/audio-downloads ========== O Guia Prático de Teoria Musical Moderna para Guitarristas: Edição em Português (Alexander, Joseph) - Your Highlight at location 121-123 | Added on Tuesday, 10 April 2018 16:12:55 Há faixas de áudio para cada conceito importante, você pode baixá-las em www.fundamental-changes.com/audio-downloads ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 188088-188090 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:29:21 10For he perceived that  p it was out of envy that the chief priests had delivered him up. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 188183-188189 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:34:27 39 c And when the centurion, who stood facing him, saw that in this way he [8] breathed his last, he said,  d “Truly this man was the Son [9] of God!” ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 190996-191004 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:44:24 3it seemed good to me also, having followed all things closely for some time past, to write  h an orderly account for you,  i most excellent  j Theophilus, 4that you may have  k certainty concerning the things  l you have been taught. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191108-191115 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:49:23 32He will be great and will be called the Son of  h the Most High. And the Lord God  i will give to him the throne of  j his father David, 33and he will reign over the house of Jacob  k forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191047-191050 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:50:25 he will be  h filled with the Holy Spirit,  i even from his mother’s womb. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191150-191151 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:52:35 44For behold, when the sound of your greeting came to my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191274-191281 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:56:18 being delivered from the hand of our enemies, might serve him u without fear, 75 v in holiness and righteousness before him w all our days. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191336-191337 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 11:58:34 wrapped him in swaddling cloths and  v laid him in a manger, ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191416-191418 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 12:02:25 28he took him up in his arms and  d blessed God and said, ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191425-191428 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 12:02:39 for g my eyes have seen your h salvation ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191453-191454 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 12:03:39 worshiping with  r fasting and prayer night and day. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191497-191500 | Added on Saturday, 14 April 2018 12:05:58 51And he went down with them and came to Nazareth and was submissive to them. And  h his mother treasured up all these things in her heart. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191550-191551 | Added on Monday, 16 April 2018 14:47:11 8Bear fruits  f in keeping with repentance. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191661-191663 | Added on Monday, 16 April 2018 14:55:00 and was led  v by the Spirit ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 191727-191743 | Added on Monday, 16 April 2018 15:02:17 18 y “The Spirit of the Lord z is upon me, because he has anointed me to  a proclaim good news to the poor.  b He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives and  c recovering of sight to the blind,  d to set at liberty those who are oppressed, 19  e to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.” ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Bookmark at location 191842 | Added on Tuesday, 17 April 2018 21:04:10 ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Bookmark at location 191842 | Added on Tuesday, 17 April 2018 21:06:16 ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 13:50:10 We begin by under- taking a study of the economics of daily deals on the web ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 13:51:35 We then marry our daily deals dataset with additional datasets we compiled from Facebook and Yelp users to study the interplay between social net- works and daily deal sites ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 13:57:10 The deal provides a coupon for some product or service at a substantial discount (generally 40-60%) to the list price ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 13:57:47 We use the term size of a deal to represent the number of coupons sold, and the term revenue of a deal to represent the number of coupons multiplied by the price per coupon ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:00:35 This paper represents an attempt to gain insight into the success of this business model, using a combination of data analysis and modeling. ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:04:46 We show that deal sizes can be predicted with moder- ate accuracy based on a small number of parameters, and with substantially better accuracy shortly after a deal goes live ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:06:52 We o er evi- dence that propagation of Groupon deals is consistent with predictions of social spreading made by cascade models ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:07:47 We nd that reviewers mentioning daily deals are signi cantly more negative than their peers on average, and the volume of their reviews ma- terially lowers Yelp scores in the months after a daily deal o ering ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:16:48 Edelman et al. consider the bene ts and drawbacks of using Groupon from the side of the merchant, modeling whether the advertising and price discrimination e ects can make such discounts pro table [9] ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:16:53 Dholakia polls businesses to determine their experience of providing a deal with Groupon [8], ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:17:16 and Arabshahi examines their business model [2 ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:24:31 Each Groupon deal is associated with a set of features: ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:33:48 With each Groupon deal, we collected intraday time-series data which monitors two time-varying parameters: cumula- tive sales, and whether or not a given deal is currently fea- tured ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:34:02 From these basic features we compute further quantities of interest such as the revenue derived by each deal, the deal duration, and the percentage discount. ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:34:43 LivingSocial deals di er from their Groupon counterparts in that they have no tipping point, and in that they do not explicitly indicate whether they are available in limited ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:34:52 . In total, our LivingSocial dataset contains 2,609 deals. LivingSocial deals di er from their Groupon counterparts in that they have no tipping point, and in that they do not explicitly indicate whether they are available in limited quantities ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:36:21 We refer to the value of the counter as the number of likes a deal has received, and we collected this value for each Groupon and LivingSocial deal in our dataset. As a technical aside, we mention that Groupon and ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:36:25 We refer to the value of the counter as the number of likes a deal has received, and we collected this value ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:36:33 We refer to the value of the counter as the number of likes a deal has received, and we collected this value ========== Daily Deals - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Wednesday, 18 April 2018 14:36:44 We refer to the value of the counter as the number of likes a deal has received, and we collected this value for each Groupon and LivingSocial deal in our dataset. ========== Undeniably Yours (A Porter Family Novel Book #1) (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 148 | location 1775-1775 | Added on Thursday, 19 April 2018 17:00:37 through Cole Oil computer files. In the ========== Lista4_Equaes_Diferenciais - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 24 April 2018 19:14:30 ) y = e t  C1sen(2t) + C2 ========== Lista4_Equaes_Diferenciais - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 24 April 2018 19:14:49 ) y = e t  C1sen(2t) + C2 cos(2t)  ========== Lista4_Equaes_Diferenciais - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 24 April 2018 20:24:36 Questão 8. Resolva o problema de valor inicial ========== Lista4_Equaes_Diferenciais - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 24 April 2018 20:24:50 Questão 8. ========== Lista4_Equaes_Diferenciais - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 24 April 2018 20:26:11 Questão 9 ========== Lista4_Equaes_Diferenciais - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 24 April 2018 20:26:25 Questão 10 ========== Pattern Recognition and Machine Learning (Information Science and Statistics) (M. Bishop, Christopher) - Your Highlight at location 2668-2669 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 14:22:32 supervised learning, starting with regression ========== Pattern Recognition and Machine Learning (Information Science and Statistics) (M. Bishop, Christopher) - Your Highlight at location 2669-2669 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 14:23:08 The goal of regression is to predict the value of one or more continuous target variablest ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 20-20 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:29:40 that we wish to predict based on a set of features (such as diet and clinical measurements) ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 21-21 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:30:12 Using this data we build a prediction model, or learner, which will enable us to predict the outcome for new unseen objects. A good learner is one that accurately predicts such an outcome. ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 21-21 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:31:47 It is called “supervised” because of the presence of the outcome variable to guide the learning process ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 21-21 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:35:24 This is a supervised learning problem, with the outcome the class variable email/spam. It is also called a classification problem. ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 23-23 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:37:54 This is a supervised learning problem, known as a regression problem, because the outcome measurement is quantitative. ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 23-23 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:39:23 255. Some sample images are shown in Figure 1.2. The images have been normalized to have approximately the same size and orientation. The task is to predict, from the 16 × 16 matrix of pixel intensities, the identity of each image (0, 1, . . . , 9) quickly and accurately. If it is accurate enough, the resulting algorithm would be used as part of an automatic sorting procedure for envelopes. ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 23-23 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:39:29 This is a classification problem for which the error rate needs to be kept very low to avoid misdirection ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 24-24 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 16:52:09 We could view this task as a regression problem, with two categorical predictor variables—genes and samples—with the response variable being the level of expression. ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 28-28 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:03:48 For each example the goal is to use the inputs to predict the values of the outputs. This exercise is called supervised learning ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 29-29 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:07:34 This distinction in output type has led to a naming convention for the prediction tasks: regression when we predict quantitative outputs, and classification when we predict qualitative outputs. We will see that these two tasks have a lot in common, and in particular ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 29-29 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:07:41 This distinction in output type has led to a naming convention for the prediction tasks: regression when we predict quantitative outputs, and classification when we predict qualitative outputs ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:29:22 How do we fit the linear model to a set of training data ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:29:28 training data? There are many different methods, but by ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:29:34 How do we fit the linear model to a set of training data? ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:29:50 arbitrary input x0 the prediction is ˆy(x0) = x T 0 βˆ ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:29:57 and the fitted value at the ith input xi is ˆyi = ˆy(xi) = x T i βˆ . At an arbitrary input x0 the prediction is ˆy(x0) = x T 0 βˆ . The ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:30:03 and the fitted value at the ith input xi is ˆyi = ˆy(xi) = x T i βˆ . At an arbitrary input x0 the prediction is ˆy(x0) = x T 0 βˆ . The ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:30:14 and the fitted value at the ith input xi is ˆyi = ˆy(xi) = x T i βˆ . At an arbitrary input x0 the prediction is ˆy(x0) = x T 0 ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 31-31 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:30:20 and the fitted value at the ith input xi is ˆyi = ˆy(xi) = x T i βˆ . At an arbitrary input x0 the prediction is ˆy(x0) = x T 0 βˆ ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 30-30 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:33:51 Often it is convenient to include the constant variable 1 in X, include βˆ 0 in the vector of coefficients βˆ , and then write the linear model in vector form as an inner product ========== ESLII - Your Highlight on page 30-30 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 17:34:00 we predict the output Y via the model ========== ESLII - Your Bookmark on page 32 | Added on Wednesday, 2 May 2018 18:01:36 ========== Undeniably Yours (A Porter Family Novel Book #1) (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 183 | location 2205-2206 | Added on Friday, 4 May 2018 12:22:30 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 226896-226903 | Added on Sunday, 6 May 2018 19:10:44 do not be anxious about anything,  s but in everything by prayer and supplication  t with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And  u the peace of God,  v which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 226896-226903 | Added on Sunday, 6 May 2018 19:10:49 do not be anxious about anything,  s but in everything by prayer and supplication  t with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And  u the peace of God,  v which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 149-149 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 08:27:16 even knowing I’d fall asleep if I took that 10-minute nap. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 74-76 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 17:56:07 E para alcançar o nível de eficiência de uma organização de alto desempenho, a empresa se esmerava em contratar e manter os trabalhadores mais produtivos e combater o distúrbio comportamental da procrastinação, típica dos menos produtivos, dentro do ambiente de trabalho. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 88-89 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 17:57:26 sistema ou método utilizado na produção de um produto ou serviço importa, e muito. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 92-93 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 17:58:26 Em síntese, Ford criou um sistema capaz de impedir o adiamento de tarefas, de modo que cada trabalhador completaria o passo no processo de forma rápida e eficiente, o que reduziu as chances de problemas decorrentes de erro humano. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 100-102 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 17:59:19 Quando adiamos tarefas importantes, é possível notar um condicionamento mental padrão que nos leva a pensar que haverá mais tempo e melhores condições de execução no dia seguinte. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 110-111 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 18:01:01 a procrastinação implica PERDA em algum sentido. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 112-112 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 18:01:11 A procrastinação é, em última análise, a ausência de progresso. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 142-144 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 18:04:22 Muitas pessoas adiam tarefas, com base nos seguintes argumentos, em síntese: ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 154-156 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 18:05:02 De forma alternativa, tais pessoas esperam até que a pressão esteja em vigor, antes de começar a adotar medidas adequadas. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 192-195 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 18:08:54 Evidentemente, o primeiro grupo aprendeu que não podia fazer nada e se acostumou tanto com aquela situação que, mesmo quando transportado para outro local, com o mesmo incômodo, mas com clara apresentação da solução, ele não mais a buscava. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 192-195 | Added on Friday, 18 May 2018 18:09:00 Evidentemente, o primeiro grupo aprendeu que não podia fazer nada e se acostumou tanto com aquela situação que, mesmo quando transportado para outro local, com o mesmo incômodo, mas com clara apresentação da solução, ele não mais a buscava. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 203-205 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:16:36 qualquer circunstância que traz um estímulo aversivo é suficiente para que os organismos se acostumem com a situação, como se... ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 214-216 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:18:22 Enquanto alguns conseguem agir, quando devidamente pressionados ou expostos a riscos futuros, outros se sentem paralisados, incapazes de reagir. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 230-230 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:20:18 Ele não alcança o próprio potencial e vive com uma profunda angústia ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 234-235 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:20:40 Muito do tempo precioso do procrastinador é gasto com lazeres indevidos que intensificam a sensação de pânico. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 239-239 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:20:53 Costume com o padrão “Eu tenho que...”, em vez de “Eu quero fazer...”. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 242-245 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:22:14 Entretanto, quando se trata de atividades que envolvem a expansão das experiências ricas e felizes, como compor uma música, por exemplo, os procrastinadores são peritos em relegá-las para um futuro muito distante, ou melhor, um dia qualquer. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 256-258 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:23:23 A inconsistência temporal se refere à tendência do cérebro humano de valorizar as recompensas imediatas em detrimento das recompensas futuras. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 256-258 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:23:29 A inconsistência temporal se refere à tendência do cérebro humano de valorizar as recompensas imediatas em detrimento das recompensas futuras. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 265-267 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:24:23 Entretanto, enquanto o Eu Futuro pode estabelecer metas, somente o Eu Presente pode agir. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 267-268 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:24:35 Neste exato momento, por exemplo, o seu cérebro está sedento por gratificações instantâneas e pouco interessado em recompensas de longo prazo. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 279-281 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:25:46 Por razões evolutivas, nosso cérebro valoriza mais as recompensas imediatas do que as recompensas de longo prazo. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 281-283 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:26:04 Haja vista, esse é o motivo pelo qual você pode ir para a cama se sentindo motivado a fazer mudanças em sua vida, mas quando acorda, encontra-se novamente submerso nos padrões antigos. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 285-287 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:26:31 Assim, para solidificar o entendimento, grave: você não pode confiar nas consequências e recompensas de longo prazo para motivar o Eu presente. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 287-291 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:27:44 Em vez disso, você precisa encontrar uma maneira de transferir futuras punições ou algum tipo de satisfação para o momento presente. Você deve fazer com que as consequências futuras se tornem consequências presentes. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 319-321 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:30:24 A tendência de substituir ações de alta prioridade por tarefas de menor prioridade possui uma base psicológica, e não está necessariamente relacionada à ausência de raciocínio lógico. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 325-327 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:33:38 Quando o sistema límbico vence – e isso é bastante frequente – o resultado será o adiamento para amanhã do que poderia (e deveria) ser feito hoje. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 327-331 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:34:04 O sistema límbico, uma das partes mais antigas e dominantes do cérebro, é automático. Ele diz para você correr do cão feroz que se aproxima – e também para fugir de tarefas desagradáveis. Em outras palavras, ele orienta você a optar pelo "reparo imediato do humor", explica Timothy A. Pychyl, Ph.D., professor de psicologia da Universidade Carleton, em Ottawa. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 331-333 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:34:33 O córtex pré-frontal é uma porção mais nova e mais fraca do cérebro. É o que permite integrar informações e tomar decisões. "Esta é a parte do cérebro que realmente separa os seres humanos dos animais, que são apenas controlados por estímulos", diz Pychyl. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 342-343 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:36:00 Nesse momento, o cérebro está nos protegendo contra possíveis sentimentos negativos. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 331-331 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:37:09 O córtex pré-frontal é uma porção mais nova e mais fraca do cérebro. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 334-335 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:37:19 O córtex pré-frontal, localizado imediatamente atrás da testa, desempenha importantes funções, mas não trabalha de modo automático. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 336-337 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:37:52 Já a amígdala é a seção do cérebro associada à nossa reação emocional automática a uma situação. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 339-342 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:38:15 Por isso, no momento em que você não está conscientemente envolvido em uma tarefa, o seu sistema límbico assume o controle. Você cede ao que se sente bem – você procrastina. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 352-353 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:39:24 Afinal, o nosso cérebro é viciado em dopamina, um tipo de neurotransmissor que é liberado, quando experimentamos sensações agradáveis. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 355-357 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:40:07 O vício em dopamina se expressa através de nossos comportamentos. Nós dizemos: “Ele é viciado em jogos de computador, quando ele provavelmente é viciado na dopamina produzida ao jogar”. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 358-359 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:40:30 Elas devem ser projetadas para aperfeiçoar o seu senso de propósito em relação a objetivos pessoais importantes de longo prazo ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 372-374 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:41:17 A procrastinação é geralmente um comportamento desenvolvido ao curso de um longo período de tempo, mesmo que você não tenha conseguido perceber esse processo abstrato. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 380-381 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:45:33 A raiz do problema está incorporada em sua história ou no modo pelo qual você se vê. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 389-390 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:48:57 a regulação do humor pode fazer parte do enfrentamento do problema. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 401-402 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:50:08 Na comunidade científica, essa resposta, conhecida como contrafactual descendente, reflete o desejo de melhorar o humor em curto prazo. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 403-406 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:50:41 Por outro lado, ao mesmo tempo, os procrastinadores raramente faziam declarações como "Se ele tivesse ido ao médico mais cedo, as coisas teriam sido diferentes". Esse tipo de resposta, conhecida como contrafactual ascendente, abraça a tensão do momento na tentativa de aprender algo para o futuro. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 414-416 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:51:55 As evidências sugerem que os procrastinadores se confortam no presente com a falsa crença de que eles estarão mais emocionalmente equipados para lidar com uma determinada tarefa no futuro. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Note at location 416 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:52:20 That's me! ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 414-417 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:54:03 omportamento prejudicial até se habituar ao novo modo de agir. As soluções não são rápidas. Afinal, o nosso cérebro é viciado em dopamina, um tipo de neurotransmissor que é liberado, quando experimentamos sensações agradáveis. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 492-494 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:56:12 De alguma forma, acreditam que desenvolverão essas habilidades de enfrentamento milagrosas para lidar com determinadas emoções que simplesmente não conseguem enfrentar no momento presente. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 512-513 | Added on Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:58:24 O resultado fez com que Pychyl percebesse que os procrastinadores reconhecem o dano temporal provenientes das más escolhas, mas não conseguem superar o impulso emocional em direção a uma diversão. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 477-478 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:08:45 os procrastinadores se concentram em como se sentir melhor no momento em vez de buscar entender o que os faz se sentirem mal. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 524-525 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:17:47 o dever de executar algo importante é uma espécie de Kriptonita do procrastinador. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 530-531 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:18:27 Não raro, eles criam mais um mecanismo de autoengano que os deixam perfeitamente configurados ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 530-532 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:18:32 Não raro, eles criam mais um mecanismo de autoengano que os deixam perfeitamente configurados para adiar as tarefas elencadas. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 544-545 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:20:14 A configuração padrão da mente de um procrastinador favorece um trabalho ruim de quebrar grandes projetos em etapas fáceis. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 551-553 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:21:11 O planejamento efetivo, por outro lado, prepara você para o sucesso. Ele considera os pequenos passos diários e traduz a ideia de ser implacável em evitar ou limitar tarefas que não fornecem muito valor. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 558-559 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:23:09 O nível de compromisso de se fazer um único item é pequeno e, por isso, não existe uma enorme quantidade de pressão. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 577-578 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:23:50 Então, faça menos. E seja incrível nessas coisas. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 572-576 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:24:10 Claro, uma grande lista pode ser uma fase inicial do planejamento, mas o plano final deve conter um único item vencedor que requer prioridade rigorosa: o item que ganha deve ser o que mais significa para você – o que é mais importante para sua felicidade e bem-estar. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 581-582 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:25:25 Se itens urgentes estiverem envolvidos, eles terão que vir primeiro e devem ser eliminados o mais rápido possível para abrir caminho para os itens importantes ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 584-585 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:25:37 A matriz urgente-importante, que traduz o conceito, conhecido como “Princípio Eisenhower”, ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 601-601 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:30:03 É assim que passamos do perfil "apagador de incêndios ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 592-592 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:30:33 importantes ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 595-595 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:30:36 urgentes ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 603-604 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:31:21 Para usar esse princípio, liste todas as atividades e projetos que você acha que precisa fazer. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 620-622 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:33:55 Para que você fixe a ideia de que precisa agir o quanto antes para executar as tarefas importantes e urgentes que estão pendentes, a cor “vermelha” foi escolhida, de forma criteriosa. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 627-629 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:34:22 Aqui são listadas as atividades que o ajudam a alcançar seus objetivos pessoais e profissionais e completam o trabalho importante. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 629-629 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:34:33 Certifique-se de que você tem bastante tempo para fazer essas coisas corretamente, para que elas não se tornem urgentes. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 632-633 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:35:30 Esse quadrante é muito importante, pois aqui permanecerão as atividades relacionadas ao desenvolvimento pessoal e profissional ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 635-639 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:36:15 A cor laranja foi escolhida de forma criteriosa para traduzir a ideia de que a pessoa que planeja corretamente e leva em consideração os seus reais objetivos na vida, merece tomar suco da laranja, na orla da melhor praia do mundo. 3. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 635-638 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:36:22 A cor laranja foi escolhida de forma criteriosa para traduzir a ideia de que a pessoa que planeja corretamente e leva em consideração os seus reais objetivos na vida, merece tomar suco da laranja, na orla da melhor praia do mundo. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 640-640 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:36:37 mas ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 641-643 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:37:08 Tarefas urgentes, mas não importantes, são coisas que impedem que você atinja seus objetivos. Pergunte a si mesmo se você pode reprogramar ou delegá-las. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 643-644 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:37:45 Uma fonte comum de tais atividades é proveniente das pessoas que solicitam nossa atenção de forma inesperada. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 647-648 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:38:24 Uma boa maneira de fazer isso é organizar reuniões regulares com aqueles que o interrompem com frequência, ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 650-653 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:38:52 A cor amarela foi escolhida de forma criteriosa para mostrar o quanto você fica “amarelo(a)” de raiva de ter que paralisar o que estava fazendo porque lembrou que precisa pagar um boleto, com data de validade prestes a vencer, e a lotérica mais próxima está com uma fila quilométrica. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 656-658 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:39:24 Essas atividades são apenas uma distração, evite-as, sempre que possível. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 663-666 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:40:05 A cor cinza foi escolhida, de forma criteriosa, para que você se lembre de que as distrações, quando em excesso, vão lhe arrastar para a zona cinzenta, em que nada de produtivo acontece, e os seus sonhos viram cinzas. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 695-697 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:42:16 E qual é o problema aqui? A maioria de nós está “se afogando nas águas rasas”, ou seja, superficiais. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 691-693 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:42:25 Em resumo: coisas que realmente não instigam talentos. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 693-695 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:42:30 Ele produz resultados de alto valor e melhora nossas habilidades. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 707-709 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:43:05 O trabalho superficial até pode impedir que você seja demitido, mas o trabalho profundo é o que lhe promove. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 709-712 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:43:26 Haja vista, produtividade raramente é uma questão de fazer mais esforço. Muitas vezes é uma questão de trabalhar de forma mais inteligente, criando habilidades-chave como foco, aptidão para lidar com diferentes situações e autonomia para cuidar de si mesmo. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 715-716 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:44:15 Novamente Cal Newport em seu parecer sobre a era digital argumenta que a internet teve um efeito corrosivo sobre a nossa capacidade de concentração. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 721-723 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:44:26 “Gaste tempo suficiente em um estado de superficialidade e você reduzirá permanentemente sua capacidade de realizar trabalhos profundos”. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 729-729 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:45:02 fizeram um bom trabalho sem ter que pensar no problema representado pelo excesso de distrações. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 736-738 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:49:09 Newport sugere, com base em pesquisa científica que, quanto mais você faz alguma coisa, mais você desenvolve a camada de mielina de tecido em torno de circuitos neuronais correspondentes. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 747-748 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:50:43 Por isso os trabalhadores precisam de estrutura e critérios para fazer a melhor escolha sobre como gastar a oferta limitada de atenção. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 749-751 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:51:02 Assim, dentro de um planejamento efetivo, é recomendável que se desenvolva um método rítmico de trabalho profundo – agendando um horário fixo todos os dias para um trabalho profundo a ser realizado, de preferência, em locais distantes de distrações. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 760-761 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:52:01 A propósito, você sabia que as pesquisas mais modernas apontam que os escritórios de plano aberto são um desastre, em termos de produtividade? ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 770-773 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:54:22 pesquisa constatou também que existe algo em comum em relação aos programadores de computador mais produtivos: Todos eles tinham empregadores que criaram um ambiente livre de distrações. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 790-792 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:57:19 Os executivos trabalhavam em casa todas as manhãs, em média, por 1:30h (uma hora e meia), antes de virem para o escritório. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 794-795 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:57:25 O Planejamento também precisa ser estratégico. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 778-778 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:57:36 Encontre um lugar para se esconder ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 770-773 | Added on Sunday, 3 June 2018 15:57:43 A pesquisa constatou também que existe algo em comum em relação aos programadores de computador mais produtivos: Todos eles tinham empregadores que criaram um ambiente livre de distrações. ========== My Stubborn Heart (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 468-469 | Added on Thursday, 7 June 2018 17:31:30 She was only sorry and guilty that at times like this He didn’t feel like enough. ========== My Stubborn Heart (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 476-478 | Added on Thursday, 7 June 2018 17:33:27 The hardest and the truest thing was the supremacy of God’s will, which meant that no matter how much she prayed for a husband and a family, she wasn’t guaranteed that she’d ever receive what she asked for. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 693-695 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 14:27:43 O trabalho profundo, por sua vez, empurra nossas habilidades atuais para seus limites. Ele produz resultados de alto valor e melhora nossas habilidades. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 812-815 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 14:40:05 Com efeito, itens vagos – em que você não tem certeza por qual ponto começar ou como fará a execução ou onde obterá respostas para suas perguntas – são a receita do desastre para um procrastinador. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 837-839 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 14:41:29 Fato é que, ao identificar o que era essencial, a tarefa se tornou mais clara e, diga-se de passagem, executável. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 846-846 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 14:43:11 Método Ivy Lee, ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 919-921 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 14:59:15 Você não pode ser ótimo em uma tarefa, se estiver dividindo constantemente seu tempo de dez maneiras diferentes. O domínio requer foco e consistência. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 921-924 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 14:59:25 Independente do método que você use, memorize a diretriz principal: faça o mais importante primeiro a cada dia e deixe o impulso da primeira tarefa levá-lo (a) para o próximo nível. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 819-822 | Added on Monday, 25 June 2018 15:01:32 De acordo com a teoria do nível conceitual, os eventos distantes no tempo tendem a ser representados de forma mais abstrata do que os eventos próximos. ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:51:26 Leitura Bíblica: 1 Pedro 3.10-12 ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:52:29 Pode ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:52:35 Pode ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:53:08 Pode ter certeza de que isso é “fake news”, ou seja, são argumentos falsos inventadas pelo nosso maior inimigo, afinal sabemos que Deus anela a nossa felicidade ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:53:15 Há um grande debate e preocupação com a quantidade de “fake news” surgindo a todo instante. Alguém saberia definir o que são “fake news”? Poderiam citar alguns exemplos reais dos quais tomaram conhecimento? Qual seria, na sua opinião, o maior perigo ou malefício das chamadas “fake news ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:53:30 Há um grande debate e preocupação com a quantidade de “fake news” surgindo a todo instante. Alguém saberia definir o que são “fake news”? Poderiam citar alguns exemplos reais dos quais tomaram conhecimento? Qual seria, na sua opinião, o maior perigo ou malefício das chamadas “fake news”? ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:54:33 Guardar a língua do mal é também vigiar-se e refrear-se de falar com incredulidade, falar de forma negativa, falar o oposto do que Deus disse.Infelizmente, muitos são “viciados” em falar negativamente de tudo e, principalmente, de si mesmos. Deus disse para o povo de Israel que estava levando-os para uma terra que manava leite e mel, mas aqueles espias falaram mal da terra e disseram que era uma terra que devorava os seus moradores ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:54:48 Provérbios 18.21 diz que a língua tem poder sobre a vida e sobre a morte ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:55:41 Entretanto, precisamos considerar um outro aspecto; é que posso amar alguém mas não estar satisfeito com sua atitude. Depende de mim o fato de Deus estar satisfeito comigo ou não. Uma coisa é o amor de Deus por nós, outra coisa a sua satisfação conosco. Muitas pessoas presumem que, uma vez que Deus nos ama, Ele sempre estará satisfeito. Mas veja o que Paulo disse: “É por isso que também nos esforçamos, quer presentes, quer ausentes, para lhe sermos agradáveis. ” 2Co 5.9 ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:55:58 . O pecado tem consequências que fazem com que não amemos a vida. ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:56:20 Mas como vamos promover a paz se não temos paz em nosso interior? Por isso podemos considerar algo mais profundo quanto a buscar a paz. Vejamos os salmos a seguir: “O Senhor é o meu pastor e nada me faltará. Ele me faz repousar em pastos verdejantes.Leva-me para junto das águas de descanso. ” Sl 23.1-2 “O que habita no esconderijo do Altíssimo e descansa à sombra do Onipotente. ” Sl 91.1 ========== ibc013118_licao_de_celula_1_jul - Your Highlight on page 2-2 | Added on Tuesday, 3 July 2018 19:56:27 Não temos paz interior porque vivemos preocupados e ansiosos com tudo ========== Lista6_Calculo_3 - Your Highlight on page 1-1 | Added on Wednesday, 4 July 2018 10:44:04 ) F (s) = 3 s 2+4 (b) F (s) = 4 (s1) 3 (c) F (s) = 2 s 2+3s4 (d) F (s) = 3s s 2s6 (e) F (s) = 2s+2 s 2+2s+5 (f) F (s) = 2s3 s 24 (g) F (s) = 2s+1 s 22s+2 (h) F (s) = 8s 24s+12 s(s 2+4) (i) F (s) = 12s s 2+4s+5 (j) F (s) = 2s3 s 2+2s+10 Questão 5. Use transformada de Laplace para resolver o problema de valor inicial dado.(a) y 00 y 0 6y = 0, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 1 (b) y 00 + 3y 0 + 2y = 0, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 0 (c) y 00 4y 0 + 4y = 0, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 1 (d) y 00 2y 0 + 4y = 0, y(0) = 2, y 0 (0) = 0 (e) y 00 + 2y 0 + 5y = 0, y(0) = 2, y 0 (0) = 1 (f) y (4) 4y 000 + 6y 00 4y 0 + y = 0, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 1, y 00 (0) = 0, y 000 (0) = 1 (g) y (4)y = 0, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 0, y 00 (0) = 1, y 000 (0) = 0 (h) y (4) 4y = 0, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 0, y 00 (0) = 2, y 000 (0) = 0 (i) y 00 + ! 2 y = cos 2t, ! 2 = 6 4 , y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 0 (j) y 00 2y 0 +2y = cos t, y(0) = 1, y 0 (0) = 0 (k) y 00 2y 0 + 2y = e t , y(0) = 0, y 0 (0) = 1 (l) y 00+2y 0+y = 4e t , y(0) = 2, y 0 (0) = 1 Questão 6. Esboce o gráco da função dada no intervalo t  0.(a) g (t) = u1(t) + 2u3(t) 6u4(t) (b) g (t) = (t 3)u2(t) (t 2)u3(t) (c) g (t) = f (t )u(t), em que f (t) = t 2 (d) g (t) = f (t3)u3(t), em que f (t) = sen t (e) g (t) = f (t 1)u2(t), em que f (t) = 2t (f) g (t) = (t 1)u1(t) 2(t 2)u2(t) + (t 3)u3(t) Questão 7. Em cada item abaixo: (a) Esboce o gráco da função dada.(b) Expresse f (t) em termos da função degrau unitário ua(t) ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 117-119 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 21:43:25 Choosing to go the extra mile is taking a stand. It says, “I’m in charge.” ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 120-121 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 21:44:26 I wanted waking up early to become a natural part of my life, and I didn’t want there to be a dramatic struggle every time the alarm went off. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 156-157 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:12:14 If I tried to wake up early my alarm going off was a cue I used to reward myself with a “10-minute” nap. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 162-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:13:06 The main obstacle stopping us from waking up any earlier and actually enjoying it is this habit we’ve conditioned ourselves with. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 163-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:13:22 For most people there is ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 163-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:13:29 For most people there is ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 163-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:13:35 For most people there is ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 163-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:13:56 For most people there is no sense of reward attached to waking up any earlier (at ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 163-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:14:02 For most people there is no sense of reward attached to waking up any earlier ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 163-163 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:14:05 For most people there is no sense of reward attached to waking up any earlier ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 168-169 | Added on Wednesday, 1 August 2018 23:15:53 As soon as my alarm went off, no matter what time it was set for, I would pop a chocolate almond in my mouth. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 178-181 | Added on Thursday, 2 August 2018 23:09:18 Cue: Alarm going off Action: Turn off alarm Reward: Chocolate almond ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 192-194 | Added on Thursday, 2 August 2018 23:11:07 In the beginning when I was still fixed on my 10-minute nap trap it was very effective to use two alarms. Sleep Cycle by my bed woke me 1-20 minutes before I planned on getting up, and another alarm across the room with my chocolate set for when I wanted to get out of bed. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 204-204 | Added on Thursday, 2 August 2018 23:13:53 We never know what will pop up during the day, ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 202-204 | Added on Thursday, 2 August 2018 23:13:59 two more reasons why having time in the morning is a worthy endeavor: ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 216-216 | Added on Thursday, 2 August 2018 23:18:00 World-class results are built around world-class routines. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 48-50 | Added on Wednesday, 8 August 2018 10:37:31 horrível, eu bem sei o quanto é horrível. As oportunidades e a própria vida parecem “escorrer pelos dedos”. Tudo o que se deseja é parar de apagar incêndios a todo instante. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 48-50 | Added on Wednesday, 8 August 2018 10:37:35 É horrível, eu bem sei o quanto é horrível. As oportunidades e a própria vida parecem “escorrer pelos dedos”. Tudo o que se deseja é parar de apagar incêndios a todo instante. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 48-50 | Added on Wednesday, 8 August 2018 10:37:42 É horrível, eu bem sei o quanto é horrível. As oportunidades e a própria vida parecem “escorrer pelos dedos”. Tudo o que se deseja é parar de apagar incêndios a todo instante. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 90-91 | Added on Wednesday, 8 August 2018 10:44:22 O sistema ou método utilizado na produção de um produto ou serviço importa, e muito. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 90-91 | Added on Wednesday, 8 August 2018 10:44:27 O sistema ou método utilizado na produção de um produto ou serviço importa, e muito. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 123-124 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:42:57 Um estudo recente liderado pela cientista PhD, Dra. Fuschia Sirois ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 123-124 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:43:03 Um estudo recente liderado pela cientista PhD, Dra. Fuschia Sirois ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 133-135 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:45:30 costumam de forma reiterada adiar as coisas para "mais tarde", tal como faz o grupo 1, prejudicam o coração porque, ao terem menos tempo para executar as atividades tidas como difíceis ou indesejadas, ficam sob o efeito contínuo de mais estresse do que o necessário. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 132-135 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:45:36 A pesquisa sugere que aqueles que costumam de forma reiterada adiar as coisas para "mais tarde", tal como faz o grupo 1, prejudicam o coração porque, ao terem menos tempo para executar as atividades tidas como difíceis ou indesejadas, ficam sob o efeito contínuo de mais estresse do que o necessário. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 137-137 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:45:56 também adiam comportamentos importantes para a manutenção da saúde, ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 109-110 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:48:01 traduzido em emoções e sentimentos negativos, como a culpa e vergonha. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 109-110 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:48:04 traduzido em emoções e sentimentos negativos, como a culpa e vergonha. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 115-116 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:48:37 Isso explica por que pode ser tão atraente acumular culpa e vergonha em nós mesmos – essa situação ativa o centro de recompensa do cérebro e faz com que a gente permaneça nesse estado. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 122-122 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:49:20 mas também afeta seriamente a saúde. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 142-143 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:50:20 culpa causador da perda de motivação, dificuldade na tomada de decisões e improdutividade pessoal. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO:: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 142-144 | Added on Monday, 20 August 2018 10:51:13 culpa causador da perda de motivação, dificuldade na tomada de decisões e improdutividade pessoal. É uma espécie de erro sistemático que pode levar o indivíduo a estados emocionais desadaptadores, como a depressão, ========== Reunion (Redemption Book 5) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 177 | location 2326-2327 | Added on Wednesday, 22 August 2018 18:16:28 But life had a way of moving on, even when hard times were at hand. ========== Reunion (Redemption Book 5) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 233 | location 3077-3077 | Added on Friday, 24 August 2018 18:13:42 The fear was gone, yes, but this journey would still be marked with sorrow. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 231-232 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 16:45:59 quarrelling. Sometimes it sounds funny and sometimes ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 284-285 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:19:20 we have failed to practise ourselves the kind of behaviour we expect from other people. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 289-290 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:21:20 I do not succeed in keeping the Law of Nature very well, and the moment anyone tells me I am not keeping it, there starts up in my mind a string of excuses as long as your arm. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 296-296 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:25:07 earth, have this curious idea that they ought to behave in a certain way, and cannot really get rid of it. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 296-297 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:25:18 Secondly, that they do not in fact behave in that way. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 311-312 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:44:15 The Moral Law tells us the tune we have to play: our instincts are merely the keys. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 312-313 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:45:08 If two instincts are in conflict, and there is nothing in a creature’s mind except those two instincts, obviously the stronger of the two must win. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 317-318 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:49:05 But clearly we are not acting from instinct when we set about making an instinct stronger than it is. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 319-320 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:49:11 The thing that tells you which note on the piano needs to be played louder cannot itself be that note. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 327-328 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:50:46 Strictly speaking, there are no such things as good and bad impulses. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 328-329 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:51:26 It has not got two kinds of notes on it, the ‘right’ notes and the ‘wrong’ ones. Every single note is right at one time and wrong at another. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 335-335 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:52:51 ‘Isn’t what you call the Moral Law just a social convention, something that is put into us by education?’ ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 342-343 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:54:07 The question is to which class the Law of Human Nature belongs. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 336-337 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:54:35 The people who ask that question are usually taking it for granted that if we have learned a thing from parents and teachers, then that thing must be merely a human invention. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 336-337 | Added on Monday, 10 September 2018 17:54:47 The people who ask that question are usually taking it for granted that if we have learned a thing from parents and teachers, then that thing must be merely a human invention. But, of course, that is not so. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 373-374 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 07:04:20 First, that they were haunted by the idea of a sort of behaviour they ought to practise, what you might call fair play, or decency, or morality, or the Law of Nature. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 374-375 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 07:04:28 Second, that they did not in fact do so. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 376-377 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 07:06:03 only means that people are not perfect. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 376-377 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 07:06:28 only means that people are not perfect. And why on earth should I expect them to be? ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 379-380 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 10:53:10 And from that point of view the very idea of something being imperfect, of its not being what it ought to be, has certain consequences. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 389-390 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 10:57:08 any law about what ought to happen, as distinct from what does happen. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 390-391 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 10:59:56 The laws of nature, as applied to stones or trees, may only mean ‘what Nature, in fact, does’. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 393-393 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 11:00:38 but the Law of Human Nature tells you what human beings ought to do and do not. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 391-392 | Added on Tuesday, 11 September 2018 11:00:48 That law certainly does not mean ‘what human beings, in fact, do’; ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 403-404 | Added on Friday, 14 September 2018 07:04:19 Sometimes the behaviour which I call bad is not inconvenient to me at all, but the very opposite. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 405-405 | Added on Friday, 14 September 2018 07:05:38 So you cannot say that what we call decent behaviour in others is simply the behaviour that happens to be useful to us. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 456-458 | Added on Monday, 17 September 2018 16:52:11 But why anything comes to be there at all, and whether there is anything behind the things science observes—something of a different kind—this is not a scientific question. If there is ‘Something Behind’, then either it will have to remain altogether unknown to men or else make itself known in some different way. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 461-463 | Added on Monday, 17 September 2018 16:56:42 Is it not plain that the questions, ‘Why is there a universe?’ ‘Why does it go on as it does?’ ‘Has it any meaning?’ would remain just as they were? ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 451-452 | Added on Monday, 17 September 2018 16:57:51 Science works by experiments. It watches how things behave. Every ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 451-452 | Added on Monday, 17 September 2018 16:57:56 Science works by experiments. It watches how things behave. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 464-465 | Added on Monday, 17 September 2018 17:01:19 That one thing is Man. We do not merely observe men, we are men. In this case we have, so to speak, inside information; ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 468-469 | Added on Monday, 17 September 2018 17:04:11 for his observations would only show what we did, and the moral law is about what we ought to do. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 260-261 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:17:39 but the reality is what makes the most difference is getting a good night’s sleep. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 261-263 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:17:47 The Evening Routine is about winding down and bringing closure to the day, getting relaxed and stopping everything going on in your life from running around your head. I’ve found this dramatically increases the quality of my sleep and is a great way to make sure I get to bed on time. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 265-270 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:22:33 Step 3: Create an Evening Routine Cue: Alarm goes off at 9:00pm Action: Evening Routine Reward: Read a good book ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 279-280 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:23:58 This is key. It’s my core system for keeping track of my goals, and allows me to relax and ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 279-280 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:24:04 This is key. It’s my core system for keeping track of my goals, and allows me to relax ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 282-283 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:25:51 but those 15 breaths mark my day as complete and what I didn’t get to will be left for tomorrow. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 292-293 | Added on Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:28:14 Remember that life’s not about finishing everything on your list because it’s on your list. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 279-280 | Added on Thursday, 20 September 2018 21:17:54 This is key. It’s my core system for keeping track of my goals, and allows me to relax ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight at location 86595-86601 | Added on Wednesday, 3 October 2018 17:57:45 but his  g delight is in the law [2] of the LORD, and on his  h law he meditates day and night. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 107-107 | Added on Wednesday, 17 October 2018 10:39:26 traduzido ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 108-109 | Added on Wednesday, 17 October 2018 10:42:30 Esses sentimentos, tão comuns aos procrastinadores crônicos, curiosamente ativam o centro de recompensa do cérebro ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 115-116 | Added on Wednesday, 17 October 2018 10:42:55 associação do adiamento de determinada tarefa com algum tipo de bem-estar, ainda que acompanhado de futuras sensações desagradáveis, faz com que você fique mais propenso a repetir o comportamento novamente. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 115-116 | Added on Wednesday, 17 October 2018 10:42:59 A associação do adiamento de determinada tarefa com algum tipo de bem-estar, ainda que acompanhado de futuras sensações desagradáveis, faz com que você fique mais propenso a repetir o comportamento novamente. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 119-120 | Added on Wednesday, 17 October 2018 10:49:39 mecanismo adaptativo do cérebro para reforçar um comportamento tão indesejável ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 125-125 | Added on Wednesday, 17 October 2018 17:43:28 a procrastinação é, em última análise, a ausência de progresso. ========== PROCRASTINAÇÃO: Guia científico sobre como parar de procrastinar (definitivamente) (Soares, Lílian) - Your Highlight at location 136-136 | Added on Tuesday, 23 October 2018 10:04:24 personalidade, ========== My Sister's Grave (Tracy Crosswhite Book 1) (Dugoni, Robert) - Your Highlight on page 324 | location 4231-4231 | Added on Saturday, 27 October 2018 03:53:02 where the metal spikes had been driven through ========== My Sister's Grave (Tracy Crosswhite Book 1) (Dugoni, Robert) - Your Highlight on page 324 | location 4231-4231 | Added on Saturday, 27 October 2018 03:53:07 where the metal spikes had been driven through ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 2315-2316 | Added on Thursday, 1 November 2018 12:36:09 Ele fala com todos pessoalmente. Só que a maioria das pessoas não lhe dá atenção. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 2556-2557 | Added on Thursday, 1 November 2018 21:13:15 Ele nunca se zangava quando ela cometia erros. Ele a elogiava e a encorajava. Compartilhava os erros dela com um senso de humor que fazia com que ela se aborrecesse menos com a própria incompetência. Transmitia-lhe esperança de que aprenderia e orgulho quando conseguia. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 2978-2978 | Added on Thursday, 1 November 2018 22:00:09 Suas mãos eram muito carinhosas. Ele era muito cuidadoso. Depois de limpar seus pés, massageou suas panturrilhas, ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3863-3864 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 00:21:39 Qual era a diferença entre o assassinato concreto e o realizado em pensamento ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3863-3864 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 00:21:49 Qual era a diferença entre o assassinato concreto e o realizado em pensamento? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3898-3900 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 00:24:47 Já faz tempo que aprendi que controlamos muito pouco deste mundo, Amanda. Ele não pertence a nós. Está fora de nosso alcance. Como nascer, ou ser vendida para a prostituição aos 8 anos. Nós só podemos mudar nossa forma de pensar e nosso modo de viver. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 3945-3946 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 07:22:17 Esperava agradá-lo trabalhando feito uma escrava, quando tudo o que ele queria era seu amor. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4577-4577 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 14:48:11 Ele tinha suportado os piores insultos calado, com toda paciência. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 4687-4688 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 15:01:06 Atiçou a brasa que havia dentro dela com as mãos até virar uma chama, mas não abafou depois. Deu-lhe o espaço e a liberdade que ela pensava que queria e deixou aquele fogo arder. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5032-5033 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 16:48:07 Era tranquilo e constante, resoluto, como uma rocha. Como podia olhar para ela sem odiá-la, depois de tudo que tinha feito? Como podia amá-la? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5032-5033 | Added on Monday, 5 November 2018 16:48:16 Era tranquilo e constante, resoluto, como uma rocha. Como podia olhar para ela sem odiá-la, depois de tudo que tinha feito? Como podia amá-la? ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5388-5388 | Added on Tuesday, 6 November 2018 13:36:42 ternura. Ele passou os dedos em ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 5706-5707 | Added on Wednesday, 7 November 2018 16:22:05 Mamãe era carente demais do amor dele. Toda a sua vida girava em torno das idas de Alex Stafford à pequena casa. Sua felicidade dependia exclusivamente dele. Era uma obsessão. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 6036-6038 | Added on Wednesday, 7 November 2018 17:01:07 Ele era muito bonito, mas a atração que ela sentia era por outra coisa. Talvez fosse o que ele tinha dito. Por algo que não se vê. Havia alguma coisa dentro dele que a atraía, como a chama atrai a mariposa, só que uma chama que não queimava nem destruía. Ao contrário, acendia alguma coisa lá no fundo, e ela sentia que estava se tornando parte dele. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 6388-6389 | Added on Thursday, 8 November 2018 18:20:42 Ele via Deus em tudo. No vento, na chuva e na terra. Nas plantações que cresciam. Via Deus na natureza dos animais que habitavam suas terras. E nas chamas do fogo que se acendiam à noite. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 6532-6533 | Added on Monday, 19 November 2018 16:01:19 Um dia dissera que só começava a ler quando a mente estivesse aberta para receber. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 8264-8265 | Added on Thursday, 22 November 2018 10:19:21 Mas ele sempre responde, no tempo dele, não no seu. Quando chegar a hora, você vai saber o que deve fazer. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 8296-8298 | Added on Thursday, 22 November 2018 10:21:47 Então é porque ele tem alguma outra coisa em mente, uma coisa melhor do que somos capazes de imaginar. ========== Amor de redenção (Rivers, Francine) - Your Highlight at location 8337-8338 | Added on Thursday, 22 November 2018 13:09:45 “Confie no Senhor de todo coração e não se apegue à sua compreensão.” ========== Transformada de Fourier - Reginaldo - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Monday, 26 November 2018 10:18:57 (ω) e ´ real se, e somente se, f e ´ par. Neste caso tamb em ========== Transformada de Fourier - Reginaldo - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Monday, 26 November 2018 10:19:04 (ω) e ´ real se, e somente se, f e ´ par. Neste caso tamb em ========== Transformada de Fourier - Reginaldo - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Monday, 26 November 2018 10:19:08 (ω) e ´ real se, e somente se, f e ´ par. Neste caso tamb em ========== Transformada de Fourier - Reginaldo - Your Highlight on page 3 | Added on Monday, 26 November 2018 10:19:15 f ========== Transformada de Fourier - Reginaldo - Your Highlight on page 3-3 | Added on Monday, 26 November 2018 10:19:23 f (ω) e ´ real se, e somente se, f e ´ par. Neste caso tamb em´ f ˆ e ´ par ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 59-59 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 15:51:38 Ten years after you’re married, what kind of tears will you be crying? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 63-64 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 15:52:56 I’m writing this book because I want you to cry tears of joy on your tenth anniversary. I want you to be able to say, with all sincerity, “Next to becoming a Christian, marrying _______ is the best decision I’ve ever made.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 66-67 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 15:54:06 it’s just that asking and settling the “why” question first will set you up to make a wise choice about the “who.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 16 | location 82-82 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 15:58:20 I want you to have moments like that—where, even when you’re apart, you wish you could be together. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 90-92 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 22:35:04 They rushed the process or made the decision for poor reasons and now are fighting the consequences every day of their lives. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 95-96 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 22:37:24 When husband and wife are committed in Christ, growing together in the Lord, supporting each other in their spiritual walks, raising children in the fear of the Lord, loving each other out of reverence for God, joy abounds and miracles happen. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 99-101 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 22:37:47 they make their marital choice based on the best person with whom they can accomplish this mission—they are far more likely to have a fulfilling and soul-building marriage. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 99-101 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 22:37:53 if they make their marital choice based on the best person with whom they can accomplish this mission—they are far more likely to have a fulfilling and soul-building marriage. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 108-110 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 22:39:52 Such problems usually erupt from trying to build a life together without purpose, without mission, without something that not only establishes a connection but keeps you caring about each other for the next fifty to sixty years. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 113-114 | Added on Monday, 21 January 2019 22:41:25 No matter how intensely you feel in love now, the same thing will happen to you if you get married without a shared mission. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 146-148 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:31:37 Let me ask you: do you trust Jesus? Do you believe that He truly has your best interests at heart, that He would never mislead you—that if you follow His advice, you’re setting yourself up for the best, most meaningful, and most fulfilling life imaginable? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 149-150 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:32:04 Do you believe every significant decision we make should be run through this grid? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 152-154 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:32:50 I want to make a promise to you: if you will seek first God’s kingdom and His righteousness and let that agenda drive your decision regarding whom you choose to marry and refuse to compromise on that, you will set yourself up for a much more fulfilling, spiritually enriching, and overall more satisfying marriage. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 23 | location 165-166 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:35:40 Our culture is still stuck on viewing marriage through the lens of happiness first and foremost—defining happiness by romantic intensity and sexual chemistry. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 173-174 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:37:48 Notice the trend: most people marry on the basis of perceived happiness, but few remain very happy for very long. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 181-181 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:39:51 Psychologically, women are more likely to experience romantic love with dominant men, even though dominant ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 181-183 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:40:01 Psychologically, women are more likely to experience romantic love with dominant men, even though dominant men typically demonstrate less ability to express the kind of companionship, relational skills, and emotional attachment that women ultimately desire in a lifelong mate. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 25 | location 184-186 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:41:00 Guys, on the other hand, are more inclined to experience romantic love with women they are attracted to physically, yet physical appearance is the thing most likely to change in a person’s life. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 207-208 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 13:43:53 just because you’re “in love” with someone doesn’t mean you should seriously consider marrying them. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 29 | location 232-232 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:25:46 There is enough sand in that hourglass, on average, to last you about twelve to eighteen months. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 29 | location 235-235 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:27:11 but they cease to be the main glue that holds a relationship together on a day-to-day basis. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 29 | location 236-237 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:27:50 God simply did not design our brains to sustain a lifelong infatuation (for some very good reasons). ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 239-239 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:31:59 overlooks or minimizes flaws. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 240-240 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:32:07 mood swings. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 244-244 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:32:38 and they even experience separation anxiety when apart. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 244-245 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:32:59 Empathy is so powerful ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 250-251 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:50:34 It should be clear that in this state you’re in no position to make an objective choice if you rely only on your feelings. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 255-256 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:52:26 We may not be able to choose the initial onslaught, but we can choose how we manage it. We can feed it, starve it, indulge it, or test it. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 257-257 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:52:57 given us His Holy Spirit to empower us, correct us, and guide us. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 267-269 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:56:12 Neurologically, a person’s sense of security, self-esteem, spiritual maturity, and personality all affect how they fall in love, what that experience feels like, and the intensity with which they feel those emotions. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 274-275 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 14:57:42 While the experience of infatuation is not exactly the same for any two individuals, when it comes, it is thrilling, powerful, promising, and even transcendent. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 285-286 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:00:02 Since you asked for it, my advice is this: don’t marry this guy until you can tell me how he stumbles, ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 290-291 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:00:43 Wisdom says we should try to make a relationship work not because we have strong feelings but because it’s a good match. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 292-293 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:01:03 In other words, most of us are motivated more by feelings than by wisdom. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Bookmark on page 34 | location 291 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 15:37:00 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 277-278 | Added on Tuesday, 22 January 2019 17:53:47 And here’s something you need to know: the state of infatuation actually impedes your ability to objectively discern your partner’s faults and weaknesses. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 318-319 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:23:13 Your brain is focused on two tasks during infatuation: getting that person and keeping him or her. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 314-315 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:23:24 But for now you need to understand that as soon as you become infatuated, you are vulnerable and stupid. I say this with all compassion. Don’t trust yourself. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 321-322 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:26:07 If you enter this battle without the guidance of friends, family members, and pastoral support, you’re likely to ignore obvious cues and even defend indefensible behavior. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 329-331 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:29:12 Psychologically, “hearts broken from love lost rate among the most stressful life events a person can experience, exceeded in psychological pain only by horrific events such as a child dying.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 338-338 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:33:35 Some men react with rage (which is why you don’t want to commit to a man until you know he can handle anger): ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 351-354 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:37:51 If I’m going to make myself extremely vulnerable with someone, I want that person to be ruled by the Holy Spirit, who can check those negative thoughts and actions, rather than, in biblical language, someone who is ruled by “the flesh.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 354-355 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:38:57 All of this, I hope, is an argument for not getting married too hastily. Wisdom waits. Wisdom is patient. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 365-367 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:40:52 How many of your friends have told you, after being let down by someone they truly loved, “He’s not the person I thought he was”? That’s because he wasn’t. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 368-368 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:41:40 Most couples won’t wait two years, and since our brains vary, I’m not one to create an artificial barrier. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 375-376 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:43:33 The cure for lonely and single is almost always less painful and more hopeful than lonely and married. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 386-387 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:45:15 Your commitment to “seek first the kingdom of God” should be every bit as strong as my commitment to my marital vows. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 386-387 | Added on Wednesday, 23 January 2019 11:45:31 Your commitment to “seek first the kingdom of God” should be every bit as strong as my commitment to my marital vows. If an infatuation would compromise that prior commitment, you dare not follow it. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 309-310 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:08:05 it’s easier to say no to physical sexual passion than it is to regulate the rush of emotional infatuation ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 317-318 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:12:42 you can expect that once you fall in love, it’s hard to fall out of love until the neurochemical reaction fades. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 320-321 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:13:15 The person you’re obsessed with can do some awful, awful things, but infatuation is not easily discarded. It’ll hang in there and won’t let go, despite all evidence that this isn’t a person you should be with. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 328-329 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:14:44 Not only are you stupid when you’re infatuated, but you also become extremely vulnerable. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 335-336 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:16:22 Your hurt is real, even though it’s emotional ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 371-372 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:23:03 On your own, you’re making a bet, with lifelong consequences, while in a mind-set that has been proven to be at least somewhat delusional. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 370-371 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:23:12 Given all that we’ve looked at, however, I think wisdom says you’re being a bit foolish if you get engaged in less than a year. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 378-379 | Added on Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:24:48 How foolish it would be to let a neurochemical reaction guaranteed to fade in a matter of months lead you to make a lifelong decision. How equally foolish to insist on a short-term neurochemical reaction to consider a lifelong decision. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 48 | location 490-493 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:31:23 Find a godly wife who is motivated by God, not just her own desires. God will never stop loving you, God will never stop caring about you, so if a woman is motivated by God and listens to God, she’ll keep loving you, too (including sexually), because she’ll get that love and motivation from God. And, not to be mean or anything, but there are times when you won’t be all that lovable. If your future wife isn’t motivated by God, there’s not enough about you to keep her interested. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 512-515 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:37:37 The world values a brief, intense, romantic attraction that makes us both vulnerable and stupid and that lasts, on average, about twelve to eighteen months. It celebrates making rash decisions in a storm of emotion. It evaluates “love” by the intensity of an emotional attachment that science tells us will never really last. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 50 | location 515 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:38:14 Wisdom says: do the opposite! ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 522-523 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:40:35 In contrast, Jesus taught us to base our decisions on something eternal: seeking God’s kingdom and His righteousness. Jesus’s words urge us to find someone with whom we can share a mission instead of an emotional infatuation. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 524-526 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:40:48 to seek someone who will inspire us toward godliness, who will confront us when we go astray, who will forgive us when we mess up, who can encourage us with wisdom when we are uncertain about how to proceed. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 527-528 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:44:08 The crucial “third stage” of relationship—beyond sexual desire and romantic attachment—is long-term affection. This is a bond that is best fostered through friendship and a shared mission. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 527-528 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:44:44 The crucial “third stage” of relationship—beyond sexual desire and romantic attachment—is long-term affection. This is a bond that is best fostered through friendship and a shared mission. It lasts until death and, unlike romantic ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 527-528 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:44:47 The crucial “third stage” of relationship—beyond sexual desire and romantic attachment—is long-term affection. This is a bond that is best fostered through friendship and a shared mission. It lasts until death and, unlike romantic ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 527-529 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:44:53 The crucial “third stage” of relationship—beyond sexual desire and romantic attachment—is long-term affection. This is a bond that is best fostered through friendship and a shared mission. It lasts until death and, unlike romantic infatuation, gets deeper with age. Time serves intentionally cultivated intimate affection, even as it kills infatuation ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 527-529 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:44:57 The crucial “third stage” of relationship—beyond sexual desire and romantic attachment—is long-term affection. This is a bond that is best fostered through friendship and a shared mission. It lasts until death and, unlike romantic infatuation, gets deeper with age. Time serves intentionally cultivated intimate affection, even as it kills infatuation ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 52 | location 537-539 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:47:16 Two people who genuinely care for each other, are kind to each other, share a mission together, and want to grow together naturally feel a desire to serve each other, and that includes sexual expression. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 52 | location 544-545 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:48:47 Never compromise on Matthew 6:33. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Bookmark on page 52 | location 545 | Added on Sunday, 27 January 2019 12:49:27 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 512-515 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 12:01:51 The world values a brief, intense, romantic attraction that makes us both vulnerable and stupid and that lasts, on average, about twelve to eighteen months. It celebrates making rash decisions in a storm of emotion. It evaluates “love” by the intensity of an emotional attachment that science tells us will never really last. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 56 | location 580-580 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:23:01 The forceful cutting in two supposedly left both halves desperate to be reunited. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 57 | location 589-591 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:27:55 So it is really from such early times that human beings have had, inborn in themselves, Eros for one another—Eros, the bringer-together of their ancient nature [i.e., man and woman as one being], who tries to make one out of two and to heal their human nature. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 57 | location 591 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:28:58 OMG. I didn't know about this. What a lie has been hanging around our culture! ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 57 | location 595-596 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:30:13 According to the Bible, our problem is not that we’ve been sliced apart from an ancient human half, but that we have been separated from God by our sin and need to be reconciled to God through the work of Jesus Christ on the cross. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 57 | location 597-598 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:30:43 Marriage is a wonderful, even glorious reality, but it is secondary to our spiritual identity as children of God ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 58 | location 598-600 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:31:05 Our search for a life mate, then, isn’t one of desperation, but rather one of patiently looking for someone with whom we can share God’s love and live out God’s purpose. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 58 | location 603-604 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:33:49 They sense a connection unlike anything they’ve ever known before. But we’ve already established that infatuation is powerful, all-consuming—and short-lived. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 58 | location 606-608 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:36:39 Discerning someone’s character, true values, and suitability for marriage is hard work. It takes time, counsel, and a healthy dose of objective self-doubt and skepticism. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 58 | location 610-611 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:38:32 considering character, compatibility, life goals, family desires, spiritual health, and other important concerns ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 59 | location 611-612 | Added on Monday, 25 February 2019 15:39:04 Then when the infatuation fades and the relationship requires work, one or both partners suddenly discover that they were “mistaken.” This person must not be their soul mate after all; ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 59 | location 617-618 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 13:54:13 The way someone chooses to get married is a good indicator of the work they’ll put in after the wedding takes place in order to make the marriage grow. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 59 | location 618 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 13:59:03 "Como cultivar um coração detinado?" "Clareza. Quando você tem plena clareza daquilo que você quer, todos os pontos, positivos e negativos, você tem condições de se comprometer com algo e ser determinado quanto a isso." ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 60 | location 626-627 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:03:14 Christians should never be defined by the word desperate. We are well loved, well cared for, adored by the One who knows us best, and secure in His acceptance, love, affirmation, and purpose. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 60 | location 627 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:07:24 After all, you still more than a conqueror. You can leave the old stickers and live with these ones. You are already a winner and on of God. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 59 | location 622-622 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:08:07 but it will never define you. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 60 | location 623-624 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:08:20 Let the pursuit of marriage be one of joy, one you undertake with your closest eternal companion—God Himself—walking with you. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 637-638 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:14:14 Rather, all the teaching passages seem to suggest that there are wise and unwise choices. We are encouraged to use wisdom, not destiny, as our guide when choosing a marital partner. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 639-639 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:14:41 “A wife of noble character who can find?” (31:10). ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 639-640 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:15:18 “A wife of noble character who can find?” (31:10). This verse assumes that we are involved in a serious pursuit, actively engaging our minds to make a wise choice. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 640-641 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:15:45 “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (Prov. 31:30). The ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 640-641 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:15:51 “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (Prov. 31:30). ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 645-646 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:19:10 Kindness, generosity, spiritual companionship—these all grow deeper and truer and more pleasant over time. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 62 | location 649-650 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:22:07 If you reverse those two categories, you can expect to find short-term satisfaction at the risk of long-term frustration. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 63 | location 667-668 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:27:56 But God does care about why we decide to marry and the kind of person we marry. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 63 | location 668-670 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:28:51 however, the one the “Christian Platonists” are going to have a difficult time overcoming, is Paul’s advice in 1 Corinthians 7:39, where Paul clearly left the choice of marriage up to us in the clearest, most explicit of terms: “She is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 63 | location 670 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 14:29:36 Destroy that demonic lie! ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 63 | location 675-675 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 16:09:50 God has given you an awesome responsibility, so choose wisely. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 680-682 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 16:14:20 The Bible views us as recipients of God’s perfect love, already charged with an important life mission (seeking first the kingdom of God), and thus the decision to marry, though crucial, won’t define us. Nor will who we marry define us. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 687-688 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 16:16:02 Focusing on marriage too much is, ironically enough, the best way to kill it. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 688-692 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 16:16:50 Men and women, find a partner with whom you can seek first the kingdom of God, someone who inspires you toward righteousness, and when you do, “all these things will be added to you.” MAKING THE CHOICE The reason it is so crucial to adopt the Bible’s view of a wise choice over “finding the one” is that the former attitude allows you to objectively consider the person you marry. There ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 688-690 | Added on Wednesday, 27 February 2019 16:17:01 Men and women, find a partner with whom you can seek first the kingdom of God, someone who inspires you toward righteousness, and when you do, “all these things will be added to you.” ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 141-143 | Added on Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:04:25 When you really think about it, why is it so hard waking up in the morning? The short answer is that it all comes down to habits. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 154-154 | Added on Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:06:14 Our brains trigger actions in response to cues, with the expectation of some kind of reward. ========== How To Love Waking Up: A Hands-On Guide To Becoming A Morning Person (Uyama, Sam) - Your Highlight at location 240-241 | Added on Wednesday, 6 March 2019 19:54:17 I have clear objectives that act as a guidepost for how I go about my activities. ========== Meant to Be Mine (A Porter Family Novel Book #2) (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 144 | location 1979-1981 | Added on Monday, 1 April 2019 17:20:20 But there were no guarantees in life. You had to navigate the path the best you could, try to discern what was right, and then hope mightily for the best. They were going to move to Texas. ========== Meant to Be Mine (A Porter Family Novel Book #2) (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 295 | location 4053-4053 | Added on Sunday, 7 April 2019 16:35:38 collection of teacups and saucers ========== Meant to Be Mine (A Porter Family Novel Book #2) (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 295 | location 4053-4053 | Added on Sunday, 7 April 2019 16:35:42 her collection of teacups and saucers ========== Meant to Be Mine (A Porter Family Novel Book #2) (Wade, Becky) - Your Highlight on page 295 | location 4053-4053 | Added on Sunday, 7 April 2019 16:35:49 collection of teacups and saucers ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 55 | location 568-569 | Added on Friday, 17 May 2019 17:47:59 Our culture has widely embraced the notion that there is just one person who can, in the words immortalized by Tom Cruise in Jerry Maguire, “complete us.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 81 | location 882-882 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 14:48:39 Learn how to hold your own in a conversation. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 81 | location 882 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 14:48:50 Monologue. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 84 | location 909-910 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:13:18 At a certain point, for some of you it will become overwhelmingly difficult, to the point of courting temptation, to delay the marriage ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 86 | location 942-943 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:15:56 “Love marriages start out white-hot and almost immediately cool down; arranged marriages often start out lukewarm and slowly warm up.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 88 | location 970-971 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:22:20 If it’s about delaying marriage for a year or so to get settled in your job and gain a more solid financial footing, that’s one thing. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 89 | location 983-985 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:25:39 You’re building a character, right now, by how you approach the choice to get married. And that character is the person you’ll either bless or frustrate a spouse with. It’s also the character you’ll draw on to raise your children. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 90 | location 985-986 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:25:57 Make this a season of growth, not a season you’ll one day wish to forget. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 91 | location 1011-1013 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:35:42 When choosing someone to marry, when it comes to this issue, don’t ask yourself what’s “politically correct” to desire or what you should desire. Be honest: what do you really want? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1014-1015 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:36:35 “Seeking first the kingdom of God” is a very wide umbrella. There are different ways of seeking that kingdom and expressing God’s righteousness. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1017-1018 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:36:51 There are many different styles of marriages, but few singles ever explore this disconnect. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1014-1016 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:37:01 “Seeking first the kingdom of God” is a very wide umbrella. There are different ways of seeking that kingdom and expressing God’s righteousness. You can be businesspeople or missionaries, you can live a life focused on the arts or athletics or media. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1014-1016 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:37:04 “Seeking first the kingdom of God” is a very wide umbrella. There are different ways of seeking that kingdom and expressing God’s righteousness. You can be businesspeople or missionaries, you can live a life focused on the arts or athletics or media. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1018-1019 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:38:09 Here’s what I want you to ask yourself as you embark on your search for a vibrant sole mate: what will your ideal marriage look like? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1023-1024 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:39:10 We have an image in our mind of what our marriage will be like, but we don’t usually label it or even express it. We just assume that our partner shares it. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1025-1025 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:40:55 two people who want to get married are not necessarily seeking the same style of relationship. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 93 | location 1036-1038 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:43:57 You shouldn’t get too serious with someone until you’ve carefully considered your own motivations and future desires and also developed a somewhat objective understanding of what your partner is looking for. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 93 | location 1041-1041 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:46:47 there isn’t just one person you can marry, you’ll be more objective and honest when going through this exercise. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1045-1045 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:49:57 A spiritual sole mate is someone who is ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 94 | location 1045 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:50:06 ... ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1051-1052 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 18:51:13 I’m also realistic that spiritual maturity is something we grow into and that maturity brings evolving motivations. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 96 | location 1067-1068 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:05:05 Diana appeared to be seeking romance, fulfillment, and a storybook life. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 96 | location 1071-1072 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:05:21 Together, they can build a business, a family, a church, a name, or even rule a nation. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 96 | location 1072-1073 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:06:21 They want a suitable partner for a satisfying and productive relationship. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 96 | location 1075-1075 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:07:07 fairly utilitarian mind-set. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 96 | location 1077-1078 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:07:42 Romantic idealists—like Diana—expect to get much of their joy and fulfillment in life from a consistently intimate marriage. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 96 | location 1078-1079 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:08:03 expect their true love to be their best friend and constant lover, and to work hard at keeping the romance alive. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1083-1085 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:09:37 For whatever reason, a romantic idealist’s sense of security, self-worth, and happiness are directly tied with a very short leash to the current health, vibrancy, and romantic intensity of the relationship. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1085-1088 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:10:40 If you’re a romantic idealist, you’re going to become very disappointed when your partner focuses on his business or hobby. If you’re married to a romantic idealist and you’re not one yourself, you may become exhausted with the demands placed on you emotionally, physically, and relationally. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 97 | location 1091 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:14:24 7 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1091-1092 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:14:24 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 97 | location 1091 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:15:25 05/06/19: 7 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 97 | location 1092 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:15:42 05/06/19: 5 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1092-1093 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:15:42 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 97 | location 1091 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:18:27 05/06/19: 5 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1095-1097 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:19:38 While physical attraction is a key component for marital satisfaction, if it becomes the main attraction, what are you going to do when your body ages? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1097-1098 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:20:09 To be fair, sometimes such attractions are due to lifestyle more than appearance. Healthy living, healthy eating, and fitness are noble values. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1100-1101 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:21:12 because marriage is about growing old together more than it is about being young together. Is this a person ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1100-1100 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:21:17 because marriage is about growing old together more than it is about being young together. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1093-1093 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:23:55 This is a relationship based on sexual attraction and beauty. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 98 | location 1105 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:25:32 05/06/19 lifestyle:8 beauty: 5 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1105-1106 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:25:32 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1106-1108 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:27:30 A “cookbook” relationship exists when one partner thinks they just need to find the right strategies, add in the correct ingredients, and then they’ll get just what they want out of the relationship. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1110-1110 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:27:51 You’re supposed to celebrate your first Christmas/Valentine’s Day/anniversary like this.…”) ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1110-1111 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:27:56 Such people typically read a lot of how-to books, fill out several relationship surveys, and want many sessions of relationship-oriented discussion ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1114-1115 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:29:06 and you can all but be assured that they will give you books and articles now and then that they will want you to read—and be very frustrated if you don’t. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1116-1116 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:29:28 And yeah, you’re going to have to reserve some weekends for marriage conferences ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 100 | location 1121 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:30:11 05/06/19: 7 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 100 | location 1121-1122 | Added on Wednesday, 5 June 2019 19:30:11 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 100 | location 1122-1123 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:07:12 A passionate partnership is marked by two people who are committed to making each other their highest priority—above recreation, child-rearing, vocation, extended family, ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 100 | location 1128-1128 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:08:00 than spend forty-five minutes reliving his day with her. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 100 | location 1129-1130 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:08:25 Other couples think any hobby in which both can’t participate is simply unacceptable. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 100 | location 1132-1133 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:09:04 Whatever they experience, they want to experience together, so if one is called away on a business trip, the other will try to come along. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 101 | location 1138 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:10:00 18/06/19: 3 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 101 | location 1138-1139 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:10:00 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 101 | location 1140-1141 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:11:21 This is a relationship style that has no upside, and I mention it so you can avoid it. Some people become interested in a relationship only when they are terrorized by or terrorizing their partner. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 102 | location 1150-1152 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:12:56 Does everything seem fine between the two of you—until your partner unleashes some kind of crisis? He or she gets in trouble, cheats on you, or does or says something particularly cruel? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 102 | location 1155 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:13:40 18/06/19: 0 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 102 | location 1155-1156 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:13:40 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 103 | location 1164-1165 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:15:23 Others see the house as a place to retreat to, but the shape, size, state, and picture-book quality have zero to do with their ego or sense of worth. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 103 | location 1165-1166 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:15:39 They may not want to live in a messy house, and they may even enjoy living in an aesthetically pleasing house, but they certainly don’t want to sacrifice Saturday or Sunday afternoons to keep up the house. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 103 | location 1171-1171 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:16:29 Be honest. How will you focus your energies: on a mansion or a mission? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 104 | location 1175 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:17:06 18/06/19: 3 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1175-1176 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:17:06 _____________ ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1176-1177 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:17:21 Kids Are Us couples can’t wait to have children—usually lots of children—and have a relationship that is often focused on the children. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1179-1179 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:17:55 This means an extra part of the budget, space in the house, or time on the clock are spent focusing on the kids. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1180-1181 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:18:43 You can love kids, enjoy kids, and even miss parenting without being a Kids Are Us couple. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Note on page 104 | location 1184 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:19:05 18/06/19: 5 ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1184-1185 | Added on Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:19:05 _____________ ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 175-177 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:39:34 I had to rely on small habits to rebound from my injury, to get stronger in the gym, to perform at a high level on the field, to become a writer, to build a successful business, and simply to develop into a responsible adult. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 134-136 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:51:23 These improvements were minor, but they gave me a sense of control over my life. I started to feel confident again. And this growing belief in myself rippled into the classroom as I improved my study habits and managed to earn straight A’s during my first year. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 136-137 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:51:48 As each semester passed, I accumulated small but consistent habits that ultimately led to results that were unimaginable to me when I started. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 146-146 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:53:17 However, looking back on those years, I believe I accomplished something just as rare: I fulfilled my potential. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 148-149 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:55:06 changes that seem small and unimportant at first will compound into remarkable results if you’re willing to stick with them for years. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 153-154 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:55:31 It was a gradual evolution, a long series of small wins and tiny breakthroughs. The only way I made progress—the only choice I had—was to start small. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 190-191 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 21:57:55 it lacked a good explanation for how our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs impact our behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 213-215 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 22:00:41 What made him different from previous coaches was his relentless commitment to a strategy that he referred to as “the aggregation of marginal gains,” which was the philosophy of searching for a tiny margin of improvement in everything you do. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 215-217 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 22:02:26 Brailsford said, “The whole principle came from the idea that if you broke down everything you could think of that goes into riding a bike, and then improve it by 1 percent, you will get a significant increase when you put them all together.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 238-239 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 22:05:12 Too often, we convince ourselves that massive success requires massive action. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 241-242 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 22:05:29 Meanwhile, improving by 1 percent isn’t particularly notable—sometimes it isn’t even noticeable—but it can be far more meaningful, especially in the long run. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 246-249 | Added on Monday, 12 August 2019 22:07:29 1% worse every day for one year. 0.99365 = 00.03 1% better every day for one year. 1.01365 = 37.78 FIGURE 1: The effects of small habits compound over time. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 16 | location 251-253 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:24:49 Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement. The same way that money multiplies through compound interest, the effects of your habits multiply as you repeat them. They seem to make little difference on any given day and yet the impact they deliver over the months and years can be enormous. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 16 | location 255-256 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:25:55 We often dismiss small changes because they don’t seem to matter very much in the moment. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 261-262 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:27:19 But when we repeat 1 percent errors, day after day, by replicating poor decisions, duplicating tiny mistakes, and rationalizing little excuses, our small choices compound into toxic results. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 263-264 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:27:45 The impact created by a change in your habits is similar to the effect of shifting the route of an airplane by just a few degrees. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 267-268 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:28:16 Similarly, a slight change in your daily habits can guide your life to a very different destination. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 270-271 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:28:37 That said, it doesn’t matter how successful or unsuccessful you are right now. What matters is whether your habits are putting you on the path toward success. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 274-275 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:29:24 Your outcomes are a lagging measure of your habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 279-279 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:30:10 Tiny battles like these are the ones that will define your future self. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 280-281 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:30:28 Good habits make time your ally. Bad habits make time your enemy. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 19 | location 285-286 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:31:00 Accomplishing one extra task is a small feat on any given day, but it counts for a lot over an entire career. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 19 | location 296-297 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:31:20 The more you think of yourself as worthless, stupid, or ugly, the more you condition yourself to interpret life that way. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 306-307 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:31:43 Breakthrough moments are often the result of many previous actions, which build up the potential required to unleash a major change. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 309-310 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:31:57 Similarly, habits often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold and unlock a new level of performance. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 312-313 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:32:38 It’s a hallmark of any compounding process: the most powerful outcomes are delayed. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 312-314 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:33:04 It’s a hallmark of any compounding process: the most powerful outcomes are delayed. This is one of the core reasons why it is so hard to build habits that last. People make a few small changes, fail to see a tangible result, and decide to stop. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 316-317 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:33:23 habits need to persist long enough to break through this plateau—what I call the Plateau of Latent Potential. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 318-319 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:33:44 Complaining about not achieving success despite working hard is like complaining about an ice cube not melting when you heated it from twenty-five to thirty-one degrees. Your ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 318-320 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:33:49 Complaining about not achieving success despite working hard is like complaining about an ice cube not melting when you heated it from twenty-five to thirty-one degrees. Your work was not wasted; it is just being stored. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 325-325 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:36:47 Mastery requires patience. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 329-331 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:37:17 THE PLATEAU OF LATENT POTENTIAL ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 336-337 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:40:29 But as that decision is repeated, a habit sprouts and grows stronger. Roots entrench themselves and branches grow. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 337-338 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:40:36 The task of breaking a bad habit is like uprooting a powerful oak within us. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 23 | location 345-346 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:44:52 Eventually, I began to realize that my results had very little to do with the goals I set and nearly everything to do with the systems I followed. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 23 | location 347-348 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:45:03 Goals are about the results you want to achieve. Systems are about the processes that lead to those results. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 354-355 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:50:02 if you were a basketball coach and you ignored your goal to win a championship and focused only on what your team does at practice each day, would you still get results? I think you would. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 357-358 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:51:23 In the words of three-time Super Bowl winner Bill Walsh, “The score takes care of itself.” The same is true for other areas of life. If you want better results, then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 359-359 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:52:44 Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 24 | location 360-361 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:56:45 Problem #1: Winners and losers have the same goals. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 25 | location 364-365 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:57:03 then the goal cannot be what differentiates the winners from the losers. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 25 | location 368-368 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:57:15 Problem #2: Achieving a goal is only a momentary change. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 25 | location 371-372 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 08:59:32 You treated a symptom without addressing the cause. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 25 | location 372-372 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 09:00:20 Achieving a goal only changes your life for the moment. That’s the counterintuitive thing about improvement. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 25 | location 372-373 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 09:00:34 Achieving a goal only changes your life for the moment. That’s the counterintuitive thing about improvement. We think we need to change our results, but the results are not the problem. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 375-376 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 09:02:37 Problem #3: Goals restrict your happiness. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 377-377 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 09:04:39 The problem with a goals-first mentality is that you’re continually putting happiness off until the next milestone. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 384-384 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 09:05:07 You can be satisfied anytime your system is running. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 385-386 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:30:35 Problem #4: Goals are at odds with long-term progress. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 389-392 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:32:43 The purpose of setting goals is to win the game. The purpose of building systems is to continue playing the game. True long-term thinking is goal-less thinking. It’s not about any single accomplishment. It is about the cycle of endless refinement and continuous improvement. Ultimately, it is your commitment to the process that will determine your progress. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 392-393 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:33:29 you’re having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn’t you. The problem is your system. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 396-397 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:36:02 By now, you’ve probably realized that an atomic habit refers to a tiny change, a marginal gain, a 1 percent improvement. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 397-401 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:36:11 They are little habits that are part of a larger system. Just as atoms are the building blocks of molecules, atomic habits are the building blocks of remarkable results. Habits are like the atoms of our lives. Each one is a fundamental unit that contributes to your overall improvement. At first, these tiny routines seem insignificant, but soon they build on each other and fuel bigger wins that multiply to a degree that far outweighs the cost of their initial investment. They are both small and mighty. This is the meaning of ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 396-397 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:36:19 of the deeper meanings behind the word atomic. By now, you’ve probably realized that an atomic habit refers to a tiny change, a marginal gain, a 1 percent improvement. But atomic habits are not just any old habits, however small. They ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 396-397 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:36:39 By now, you’ve probably realized that an atomic habit refers to a tiny change, a marginal gain, a 1 percent improvement. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 397-398 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:36:50 They are little habits that are part of a larger system. Just as atoms are the building blocks of molecules, atomic habits ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 397-398 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:36:59 They are little habits that are part of a larger system. Just as atoms are the building blocks of molecules, atomic habits ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 397-398 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:37:04 They are little habits that are part of a larger system. Just as atoms are the building blocks of molecules, atomic habits are the building blocks of remarkable results ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 29 | location 414-415 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:41:01 It often feels difficult to keep good habits going for more than a few days, even with sincere effort and the occasional burst of motivation. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 29 | location 418-419 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:41:45 Changing our habits is challenging for two reasons: (1) we try to change the wrong thing and (2) we try to change our habits in the wrong ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 29 | location 418-419 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:41:53 Changing our habits is challenging for two reasons: (1) we try to change the wrong thing and (2) we try to change our habits in the wrong way. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 422-424 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:43:03 THREE LAYERS OF BEHAVIOR CHANGE ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 426-426 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:44:47 This level is concerned with changing your results: ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 427-428 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:44:53 This level is concerned with changing your habits and systems: ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 429-430 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:44:56 This level is concerned with changing your beliefs: ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 432-433 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:45:53 building habits that last—when it comes to building a system of 1 percent improvements ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 439-441 | Added on Tuesday, 13 August 2019 14:47:49 FIGURE 4: With outcome-based habits, the focus is on what you want to achieve. With identity-based habits, the focus is on who you wish to become. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 444-446 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:27:28 The second person declines by saying, “No thanks. I’m not a smoker.” It’s a small difference, but this statement signals a shift in identity. Smoking was part of their former life, not their current one. They no longer identify as someone who smokes. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 446-447 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:27:42 “I want to be skinny (outcome) and if I stick to this diet, then I’ll be skinny (process).” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 448-449 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:29:08 They never shift the way they look at themselves, and they don’t realize that their old identity can sabotage their new plans for change. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 453-454 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:34:38 There are a set of beliefs and assumptions that shape the system, an identity behind the habits. Behavior that is incongruent with the self will not last. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 457-457 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:40:25 It’s hard to change your habits if you never change the underlying beliefs that led to your past behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 466-468 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:45:02 The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. It’s one thing to say I’m the type of person who wants this. It’s something very different to say I’m the type of person who is this. The ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 466-468 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:45:08 The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. It’s one thing to say I’m the type of person who wants this. It’s something very different to say I’m the type of person who is this. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 468-469 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:46:22 The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 471-472 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:47:18 Once your pride gets involved, you’ll fight tooth and nail to maintain your habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 473-474 | Added on Wednesday, 14 August 2019 10:50:01 but if you don’t shift the belief behind the behavior, then it is hard to stick with long-term changes. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 429-430 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:32:56 This level is concerned with changing your beliefs: ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 429-430 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:33:03 This level is concerned with changing your beliefs: your worldview, your self-image, your judgments about yourself and others. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 432-432 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:33:27 Identity is about what you believe. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 434-434 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:35:54 The problem is the direction of change. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 443-443 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:38:13 believes they are a smoker who is trying to be something else. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 468-469 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:44:33 The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with it. If you’re ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 468-469 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:44:38 The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 475-477 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:46:26 The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader. The goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner. The goal is not to learn an instrument, the goal is to become a musician. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 33 | location 457 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:57:01 Ele esta fazendo um adentro sobre habitos passados. Precisamos avaliar qual o conjunto de crenças que levou a construção desse habito ruim. O objetivo principal é mudar as nossas crenças, principalmente àquelas sobre nós mesmos. Isso é idtidade. Assim, formamos habitos baseados em quem qeremos ser. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 477-478 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 11:59:46 What you do is an indication of the type of person you believe that you are ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 475-476 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 12:00:40 The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 34 | location 478 | Added on Thursday, 15 August 2019 12:05:55 Então esse treco opera como fé. Nos cremos em algo que ainda não podemos ver. E a prova disso é agir como se isso fosse real. O seu objetivo é se tornar um leitor. Creia que você já é um. Assim você vai agir como um e vai trabalhar por esse habito. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 485-487 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:52:15 Once you have adopted an identity, it can be easy to let your allegiance to it impact your ability to change. Many people walk through life in a cognitive slumber, blindly following the norms attached to their identity. “ ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 485-487 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:52:29 Once you have adopted an identity, it can be easy to let your allegiance to it impact your ability to change. Many people walk through life in a cognitive slumber, blindly following the norms attached to their identity. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 485-487 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:52:32 Once you have adopted an identity, it can be easy to let your allegiance to it impact your ability to change. Many people walk through life in a cognitive slumber, blindly following the norms attached to their identity. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 487-488 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:55:38 “I’m not a morning person.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 490-490 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:57:36 When you have repeated a story to yourself for years, it is easy to slide into these mental ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 490-490 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:57:43 When you have repeated a story to yourself for years, it is easy to slide into these mental ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 35 | location 490-491 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 09:58:01 When you have repeated a story to yourself for years, it is easy to slide into these mental grooves and accept them as a fact. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 497-498 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:02:13 however, the real reason you fail to stick with habits is that your self-image gets in the way. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 503-504 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:07:57 Every belief, including those about yourself, is learned and conditioned through experience. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 36 | location 505-506 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:08:33 More precisely, your habits are how you embody your identity. When you make your bed each day, you embody the identity of an organized person. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 509-510 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:08:49 Your identity is literally your “repeated beingness.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 512-513 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:09:52 The more evidence you have for a belief, the more strongly you will believe it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 37 | location 513 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:10:41 I think this comes right out of the Bible! ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 515-515 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:11:32 I didn’t start out as a writer. I ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 515-516 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:11:39 I didn’t start out as a writer. I became one through my habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 520-521 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:12:52 In this way, the process of building habits is actually the process of becoming yourself. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 523-523 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:13:26 Each habit is like a suggestion: “Hey, maybe this is who I am.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 526-528 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:15:09 This is one reason why meaningful change does not require radical change. Small habits can make a meaningful difference by providing evidence of a new identity. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 535-536 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:16:32 The good news is that you don’t need to be perfect. In any election, there are going to be votes for both sides. You don’t need a unanimous vote to win an election; you just need a majority. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 540-541 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:17:19 Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins. First, ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 540-540 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:17:28 Decide the type of person you want to be. P ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 538-540 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:17:33 New identities require new evidence. If you keep casting the same votes you’ve always cast, you’re going to get the same results you’ve always had. If nothing changes, nothing is going to change. It is a simple two-step process: D ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 538-539 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:17:57 New identities require new evidence. If you keep casting the same votes you’ve always cast, you’re going to get the same results you’ve always had. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 540-541 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:18:09 Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 542-543 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:18:33 What do you want to stand for? What are your principles and values? Who do you wish to become? ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 543-551 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:20:09 where to begin—but they do know what kind of results they want: to get six-pack abs or to feel less anxious or to double their salary. That’s fine. Start there and work backward from the results you want to the type of person who could get those results. Ask yourself, “Who is the type of person that could get the outcome I want?” Who is the type of person that could lose forty pounds? Who is the type of person that could learn a new language? Who is the type of person that could run a successful start-up? For example, “Who is the type of person who could write a book?” It’s probably someone who is consistent and reliable. Now your focus shifts from writing a book (outcome-based) to being the type of person who is consistent and reliable (identity-based). This process can lead to beliefs like: “I’m the kind of teacher who stands up for her students.” “I’m the kind of doctor who gives each patient the time and empathy they need.” “I’m the kind of manager who advocates for her employees.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 543-545 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:20:28 where to begin—but they do know what kind of results they want: to get six-pack abs or to feel less anxious or to double their salary. That’s fine. Start there and work backward from the results you want to the type of person who could get those results. Ask yourself, “Who is the type of person that could get the outcome I want?” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 549-550 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:21:01 “I’m the kind of teacher who stands up for her students.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 40 | location 550 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:21:48 I'm the kind of person who... ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 554-555 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:23:03 She figured if she acted like a healthy person long enough, eventually she would become that person. She was right. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 40 | location 555 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:23:35 Fake it, till you make it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 556-556 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:23:57 Your habits shape your identity, and your identity shapes your habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 560-561 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:24:56 build better habits in yourself, your family, your team, your company, and anywhere else you wish. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 40 | location 561-562 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:25:32 But the true question is: “Are you becoming the type of person you want to become?” The first step is not what or how, but who. You need to know who you want to ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 569-570 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:26:44 They are the channel through which you develop your deepest beliefs about yourself. Quite literally, you become your habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 567-567 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:27:03 It’s not about achieving external measures of success like earning more money, losing weight, or reducing stress. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 567-568 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:27:26 Habits can help you achieve all of these things, but fundamentally they are not about having something. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 567-569 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:27:32 Habits can help you achieve all of these things, but fundamentally they are not about having something. They are about becoming someone. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 44 | location 598-598 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:34:23 A habit is a behavior that has been repeated enough times to become automatic. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 45 | location 604-605 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:37:01 You’re mentally exhausted from a long day of work, and you learn that playing video games relaxes you. You’re exploring, exploring, exploring, and then—BAM—a reward. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 45 | location 609-610 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:37:39 Your habits are just a series of automatic solutions that solve the problems and stresses you face regularly. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 45 | location 612-612 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:38:38 You learn to lock in on the cues that predict success and tune out everything else. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 46 | location 616-617 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:39:55 Habits are mental shortcuts learned from experience. In a sense, a habit is just a memory of the steps you previously followed to solve a problem in the past. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 46 | location 621-623 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:40:53 Whenever possible, the conscious mind likes to pawn off tasks to the nonconscious mind to do automatically. This is precisely what happens when a habit is formed. Habits reduce cognitive load and free up mental capacity, so you can allocate your attention to other tasks. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 47 | location 638-639 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:43:34 FIGURE 5: All habits proceed through four stages in the same order: cue, craving, response, and reward. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 47 | location 640-641 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:46:05 First, there is the cue. The cue triggers your brain to initiate a behavior. It is a bit of information that predicts a reward. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 48 | location 645-645 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:46:32 Your mind is continuously analyzing your internal and external environment for hints of where rewards are located. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 48 | location 650-650 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:48:30 Every craving is linked to a desire to change your internal state. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 48 | location 646-647 | Added on Friday, 16 August 2019 10:48:46 Cravings are the second step, and they are the motivational force behind every habit. Without some level of motivation or desire—without craving a change—we have no reason to act. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 48 | location 654-655 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:11:03 The response is the actual habit you perform, which can take the form of a thought or an action. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 49 | location 659-660 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:12:24 Rewards are the end goal of every habit. The cue is about noticing the reward. The craving is about wanting the reward. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 49 | location 659-660 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:12:33 Rewards are the end goal of every habit. The cue is about noticing the reward. The craving is about wanting the reward. The response is about obtaining the reward. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 49 | location 661-661 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:13:32 The first purpose of rewards is to satisfy your craving. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 49 | location 664-664 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:14:38 Second, rewards teach us which actions are worth remembering in the future. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 49 | location 666-667 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:15:08 Feelings of pleasure and disappointment are part of the feedback mechanism that helps your brain distinguish useful actions from useless ones. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 677-677 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:17:13 becomes associated with the cue. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 676-677 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:17:35 In summary, the cue triggers a craving, which motivates a response, which provides a reward, which satisfies the craving and, ultimately, becomes associated with the cue. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 681-681 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:18:06 learning from the results. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 680-681 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:18:14 The brain is continually scanning the environment, predicting what will happen next, trying out different responses, and learning from the results. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 683-685 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:24:28 We can split these four steps into two phases: the problem phase and the solution phase. The problem phase includes the cue and the craving, and it is when you realize that something needs to change. The solution phase includes the response and the reward, and it is when you take action and achieve the change ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 683-685 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:25:07 We can split these four steps into two phases: the problem phase and the solution phase. The problem phase includes the cue and the craving, and it is when you realize that something needs to change. The solution phase includes the response and the reward, and it is when you take action and achieve the change you ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 683-685 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:25:13 We can split these four steps into two phases: the problem phase and the solution phase. The problem phase includes the cue and the craving, and it is when you realize that something needs to change. The solution phase includes the response and the reward, and it is when you take action and achieve the change you desire. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 51 | location 691-691 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:25:42 Either way, the purpose of every habit is to solve the problems you face. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 54 | location 738-742 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:34:33 How to Create a Good Habit The 1st law (Cue): Make it obvious. The 2nd law (Craving): Make it attractive. The 3rd law (Response): Make it easy. The 4th law (Reward): Make it satisfying. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 54 | location 743-747 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:35:20 How to Break a Bad Habit Inversion of the 1st law (Cue): Make it invisible. Inversion of the 2nd law (Craving): Make it unattractive. Inversion of the 3rd law (Response): Make it difficult. Inversion of the 4th law (Reward): Make it unsatisfying. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 54 | location 750-754 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 15:36:29 Whenever you want to change your behavior, you can simply ask yourself: How can I make it obvious? How can I make it attractive? How can I make it easy? How can I make it satisfying? ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 60 | location 790-791 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:06:19 your brain begins noticing what is important, sorting through the details and highlighting the relevant cues, and cataloging that information for future use. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 796-796 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:08:09 You are much more than your conscious self. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 800-802 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:09:21 This is one of the most surprising insights about our habits: you don’t need to be aware of the cue for a habit to begin. You can notice an opportunity and take action without dedicating conscious attention to it. This is what makes habits useful. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 62 | location 813-815 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:12:06 Our responses to these cues are so deeply encoded that it may feel like the urge to act comes from nowhere. For this reason, we must begin the process of behavior change with awareness. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 837-839 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:21:18 We need a “point-and-call” system for our personal lives. That’s the origin of the Habits Scorecard, which is a simple exercise you can use to become more aware of your behavior. To create your own, make a list of your daily habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 65 | location 849-849 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:22:25 The marks you give to a particular habit will depend on your situation and your goals. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 65 | location 852-854 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:22:48 The labels “good habit” and “bad habit” are slightly inaccurate. There are no good habits or bad habits. There are only effective habits. That is, effective at solving problems. All habits serve you in some way—even the bad ones—which is why you repeat them. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 65 | location 852-854 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:23:05 The labels “good habit” and “bad habit” are slightly inaccurate. There are no good habits or bad habits. There are only effective habits. That is, effective at solving problems. All habits serve you in some way—even the bad ones—which is why you repeat them. For this exercise, categorize your habits by how they will benefit you in the long run. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 65 | location 857-857 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:23:18 here is a question I like to use: “Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 65 | location 857-857 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:23:29 here is a question I like to use: “Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? Does this habit cast a vote ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 65 | location 857-858 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:23:34 here is a question I like to use: “Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? Does this habit cast a vote for or against my desired identity?” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 870-870 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:25:37 You’re getting yourself to acknowledge the need for action—and that can make all the difference. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 864-865 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:26:06 If you feel like you need extra help, then you can try Pointing-and-Calling in your own life. Say out loud the action that you are thinking of taking and what the outcome will be. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 870-872 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:26:40 The process of behavior change always starts with awareness. Strategies like Pointing-and-Calling and the Habits Scorecard are focused on getting you to recognize your habits and acknowledge the cues that trigger them, ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:13 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:21 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:23 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:26 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:31 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:40 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:43 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 66 | location 873-874 | Added on Monday, 19 August 2019 16:27:48 With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without consciously thinking about it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Bookmark on page 71 | location 910 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 10:34:44 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 73 | location 940-941 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 10:45:50 The Diderot Effect states that obtaining a new possession often creates a spiral of consumption that leads to additional purchases. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 73 | location 944-944 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 10:52:02 Many human behaviors follow this cycle. You often decide what to do next based on what you have just finished doing. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 73 | location 946-946 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 10:52:07 No behavior happens in isolation. Each action becomes a cue that triggers the next behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 948-949 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 10:53:49 One of the best ways to build a new habit is to identify a current habit you already do each day and then stack your new behavior on top. This is called habit stacking. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 948-949 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 10:54:11 One of the best ways to build a new habit is to identify a current habit you already do each day and then stack your new behavior on top. This is called habit stacking. Habit stacking is a special form of an implementation intention. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Bookmark on page 74 | location 953 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 17:57:46 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 955-955 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 17:58:08 Exercise. After I take off my work shoes, I will immediately change into my workout clothes. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 77 | location 983-985 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:04:21 Forgetfulness. When I leave a public place, I will check the table and chairs to make sure I don’t leave anything behind. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 75 | location 961-964 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:05:13 HABIT STACKING FIGURE 7: Habit stacking increases the likelihood that you’ll stick with a habit by stacking your new behavior on top of an old one. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 78 | location 1006-1007 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:10:35 Habits like “read more” or “eat better” are worthy causes, but these goals do not provide instruction on how and when to act. Be specific and clear: ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 79 | location 1008-1009 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:10:46 The more tightly bound your new habit is to a specific cue, the better the odds are that you will notice when the time comes to act. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1033-1034 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:17:36 People often choose products not because of what they are, but because of where they are. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1037-1038 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:18:26 Environment is the invisible hand that shapes human behavior. Despite our unique personalities, certain ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1037-1038 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:18:31 Environment is the invisible hand that shapes human behavior. Despite our unique personalities, certain behaviors ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1037-1038 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:18:43 Environment is the invisible hand that shapes human behavior. Despite our unique personalities, ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1037-1038 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:18:52 Environment is the invisible hand that shapes human behavior. Despite our unique personalities, certain behaviors tend to arise again and again under certain environmental conditions. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 83 | location 1041-1041 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:19:21 Behavior is a function of the Person in their Environment, or B = f (P,E). ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 83 | location 1050-1052 | Added on Monday, 26 August 2019 18:20:56 We like to think that we are in control. If we choose water over soda, we assume it is because we wanted to do so. The truth, however, is that many of the actions we take each day are shaped not by purposeful drive and choice but by the most obvious option. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 84 | location 1061-1062 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 09:56:45 Given that we are more dependent on vision than on any other sense, it should come as no surprise that visual cues are the greatest catalyst of our behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 85 | location 1075-1076 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 09:57:02 By comparison, creating obvious visual cues can draw your attention toward a desired habit. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 86 | location 1084-1085 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 09:59:29 Here are a few ways you can redesign your environment and make the cues for your preferred habits more obvious: ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 86 | location 1092-1092 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:13:15 By sprinkling triggers throughout your surroundings, you increase the odds that you’ll think about your habit throughout the day. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 86 | location 1092-1092 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:13:22 By sprinkling triggers throughout your surroundings, you increase the odds that you’ll think about your habit throughout the day. Make sure ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 86 | location 1092-1092 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:13:29 By sprinkling triggers throughout your surroundings, you increase the odds that you’ll think about your habit throughout the day. Make sure ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 86 | location 1092-1093 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:13:34 By sprinkling triggers throughout your surroundings, you increase the odds that you’ll think about your habit throughout the day. Make sure the best choice is the most obvious one. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 87 | location 1095-1096 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:13:52 But you can alter the spaces where you live and work to increase your exposure to positive cues and reduce your exposure to negative ones. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 87 | location 1098-1099 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:15:46 The cues that trigger a habit can start out very specific, but over time your habits become associated not with a single trigger but with the entire context surrounding the behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 87 | location 1104-1106 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:18:07 Stop thinking about your environment as filled with objects. Start thinking about it as filled with relationships. Think in terms of how you interact with the spaces around you. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 88 | location 1108-1109 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:18:24 The good news? You can train yourself to link a particular habit with a particular context. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 88 | location 1111-1113 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:24:31 Their brains learned that sleeping—not browsing on their phones, not watching television, not staring at the clock—was the only action that happened in that room. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 88 | location 1116-1117 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:26:02 It can be hard to study in the living room without getting distracted if that’s ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 88 | location 1116-1117 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:26:07 It can be hard to study in the living room without getting distracted if that’s where you always play video games. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 88 | location 1116-1117 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:26:08 It can be hard to study in the living room without getting distracted if that’s where you always play video games. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 89 | location 1123-1124 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:27:36 Create a separate space for work, study, exercise, entertainment, and cooking. The mantra I find useful is “One space, one use.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 89 | location 1130-1131 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:30:58 Whenever possible, avoid mixing the context of one habit with another. When you start mixing contexts, you’ll start mixing habits—and the easier ones will usually win out. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 89 | location 1133-1134 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:31:38 But when you can use your phone to do nearly anything, it becomes hard to associate it with one task. You want to be productive, but you’re also conditioned to browse social media, check email, and play video games whenever you open your phone. It’s a mishmash of cues. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 90 | location 1136-1137 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:32:08 If your space is limited, divide your room into activity zones: a chair for reading, a desk for writing, a table for eating. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 90 | location 1136-1138 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:33:50 If your space is limited, divide your room into activity zones: a chair for reading, a desk for writing, a table for eating. You can do the same with your digital spaces. I know a writer who uses his computer only for writing, his tablet only for reading, and his phone only for social media and texting. Every habit should have a home. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 90 | location 1141-1142 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 10:35:36 If you want behaviors that are stable and predictable, you need an environment that is stable and predictable. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1169-1171 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:18:26 If you’re overweight, a smoker, or an addict, you’ve been told your entire life that it is because you lack self-control—maybe even that you’re a bad person. The idea that a little bit of discipline would solve all our problems is deeply embedded in our culture. Recent ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1169-1170 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:18:31 If you’re overweight, a smoker, or an addict, you’ve been told your entire life that it is because you lack self-control—maybe even that you’re a bad person. The idea that a little bit of discipline would solve all our problems ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1169-1170 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:18:36 If you’re overweight, a smoker, or an addict, you’ve been told your entire life that it is because you lack self-control—maybe even that you’re a bad person. The idea that a little bit of discipline would solve all our problems ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1169-1171 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:18:39 If you’re overweight, a smoker, or an addict, you’ve been told your entire life that it is because you lack self-control—maybe even that you’re a bad person. The idea that a little bit of discipline would solve all our problems is deeply embedded in our culture. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1172-1174 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:19:18 Instead, “disciplined” people are better at structuring their lives in a way that does not require heroic willpower and self-control. In other words, they spend less time in tempting situations. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 93 | location 1176-1177 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:21:20 improve these qualities is not by wishing you were a more disciplined person, but by creating a more disciplined environment. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1189-1190 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:25:58 Researchers refer to this phenomenon as “cue-induced wanting”: an external trigger causes a compulsive craving to repeat a bad habit. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 93 | location 1185-1186 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:26:23 Bad habits are autocatalytic: the process feeds itself. They foster the feelings they try to numb. You feel bad, so you eat junk food. Because you eat junk food, you feel bad. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1195-1196 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:28:12 And that means that simply resisting temptation is an ineffective strategy. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1196-1197 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:28:20 In the short-run, you can choose to overpower temptation. In the long-run, we become a product of the environment that we live in. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1198-1199 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:28:27 One of the most practical ways to eliminate a bad habit is to reduce exposure to the cue that causes it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1199-1200 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:29:55 If you can’t seem to get any work done, leave your phone in another room for a few hours. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 95 | location 1203-1204 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:30:02 If you’re playing too many video games, unplug the console and put it in a closet after each use. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 95 | location 1205-1207 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:32:07 Remove a single cue and the entire habit often fades away. Self-control is a short-term strategy, not a long-term one. You may be able to resist temptation once or twice, but it’s unlikely you can muster the willpower to override your desires every time. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1277-1278 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:45:44 Look around. Society is filled with highly engineered versions of reality that are more attractive than the world our ancestors evolved ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1277-1278 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:45:53 Look around. Society is filled with highly engineered versions of reality that are more attractive than the world our ancestors evolved in. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 104 | location 1281-1283 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:46:35 These are the supernormal stimuli of our modern world. They exaggerate features that are naturally attractive to us, and our instincts go wild as a result, driving us into excessive shopping habits, social media habits, porn habits, eating habits, and many others. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 105 | location 1299-1300 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:51:36 The ability to experience pleasure remained, but without dopamine, desire died. And without desire, action stopped. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1304-1306 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:52:29 Every behavior that is highly habit-forming—taking drugs, eating junk food, playing video games, browsing social media—is associated with higher levels of dopamine. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1308-1309 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:53:06 When it comes to habits, the key takeaway is this: dopamine is released not only when you experience pleasure, but also when you anticipate it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1310-1312 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:53:40 see the powder, not after they take it. Whenever you predict that an opportunity will be rewarding, your levels of dopamine spike in anticipation. And whenever dopamine rises, so does your motivation to act. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1311-1312 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:54:53 Whenever you predict that an opportunity will be rewarding, your levels of dopamine spike in anticipation. And whenever dopamine rises, so does your motivation to act. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1314-1315 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:55:08 This is one reason the anticipation of an experience can often feel better than the attainment of ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1314-1314 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:55:19 This is one reason the anticipation of an experience can often ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1314-1314 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:55:22 This is one reason the anticipation of an experience can often ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1314-1314 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:55:24 This is one reason the anticipation of an experience can often ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1314-1314 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:55:27 This is one reason the anticipation of an experience can often ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1314-1315 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:55:31 This is one reason the anticipation of an experience can often feel better than the attainment of it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1317-1319 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:57:30 THE DOPAMINE SPIKE FIGURE 9: Before a habit is learned (A), ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 108 | location 1327-1328 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:57:50 Your brain has far more neural circuitry allocated for wanting rewards than for liking them. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 108 | location 1333-1333 | Added on Tuesday, 27 August 2019 18:58:46 Desire is the engine that drives behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 109 | location 1342-1344 | Added on Wednesday, 28 August 2019 08:45:51 Temptation bundling works by linking an action you want to do with an action you need to do. In Byrne’s case, he bundled watching Netflix (the thing he wanted to do) with riding his stationary bike (the thing he needed to do). ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 110 | location 1358-1361 | Added on Wednesday, 28 August 2019 08:50:35 the principle states that “more probable behaviors will reinforce less probable behaviors.” In other words, even if you don’t really want to process overdue work emails, you’ll become conditioned to do it if it means you get to do something you really want to do along the way. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 110 | location 1362-1365 | Added on Wednesday, 28 August 2019 08:52:29 The habit stacking + temptation bundling formula is: After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [HABIT I NEED]. After [HABIT I NEED], I will [HABIT I WANT]. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Bookmark on page 110 | location 1359 | Added on Wednesday, 28 August 2019 08:52:35 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Bookmark on page 39 | location 540 | Added on Wednesday, 28 August 2019 09:04:43 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Bookmark on page 64 | location 837 | Added on Wednesday, 28 August 2019 09:07:43 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 114 | location 1406-1409 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:24:12 The Polgar sisters grew up in a culture that prioritized chess above all else—praised them for it, rewarded them for it. In their world, an obsession with chess was normal. And as we are about to see, whatever habits are normal in your culture are among the most attractive behaviors you’ll find. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 115 | location 1415-1416 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:25:21 We don’t choose our earliest habits, we imitate them. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1425-1425 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:26:55 Behaviors are attractive when they help us fit in. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1425-1428 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:27:22 We imitate the habits of three groups in particular: The close. The many. The powerful. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1430-1431 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:34:57 We pick up habits from the people around us. We copy the way our parents handle arguments, the way our peers flirt with one another, the way our coworkers get results. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1435-1436 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:35:47 stop. As a general rule, the closer we are to someone, the more likely we are to imitate some of their habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1435-1436 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:35:55 As a general rule, the closer we are to someone, the more likely we are to imitate some of their habits. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 117 | location 1444-1445 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:37:28 One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is to join a culture where your desired behavior is the normal behavior. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 118 | location 1452-1454 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:39:12 Many people feel out of place the first time they go to the gym or try to change their diet, but if you are already similar to the other members of the group in some way—say, your mutual love of Star Wars—change becomes more appealing because it feels like something people like you already do. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 118 | location 1455-1457 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:40:51 Previously, you were on your own. Your identity was singular. You are a reader. You are a musician. You are an athlete. When you join a book club or a band or a cycling group, your identity becomes linked to those around you. Growth and change is no longer an individual pursuit. We are readers. We are musicians. We are cyclists. The shared identity begins to reinforce your personal identity. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 120 | location 1481-1484 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:45:29 Whenever we are unsure how to act, we look to the group to guide our behavior. We are constantly scanning our environment and wondering, “What is everyone else doing?” We check reviews on Amazon or Yelp or TripAdvisor because we want to imitate the “best” buying, eating, and travel habits. It’s usually a smart strategy. There is evidence in numbers. But ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 120 | location 1481-1483 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:45:33 Whenever we are unsure how to act, we look to the group to guide our behavior. We are constantly scanning our environment and wondering, “What is everyone else doing?” We check reviews on Amazon or Yelp or TripAdvisor because we want to imitate the “best” buying, eating, and travel habits. It’s usually a smart strategy. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 120 | location 1481-1484 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:45:37 Whenever we are unsure how to act, we look to the group to guide our behavior. We are constantly scanning our environment and wondering, “What is everyone else doing?” We check reviews on Amazon or Yelp or TripAdvisor because we want to imitate the “best” buying, eating, and travel habits. It’s usually a smart strategy. There is evidence in numbers. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 120 | location 1487-1488 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:46:21 The reward of being accepted is often greater than the reward of winning an argument, looking smart, or finding truth. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 121 | location 1491-1493 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:48:02 When changing your habits means challenging the tribe, change is unattractive. When changing your habits means fitting in with the tribe, change is very attractive. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 121 | location 1500-1500 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:50:10 Many of our daily habits are imitations of people we admire. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 122 | location 1503-1504 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:50:39 And that means if a behavior can get us approval, respect, and praise, we find it attractive. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 122 | location 1504-1504 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:50:43 We are also motivated to avoid behaviors that would lower our status. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 126 | location 1533-1535 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:58:03 He systematically reframes each cue associated with smoking and gives it a new meaning. He says things like: You think you are quitting something, but you’re not quitting anything because cigarettes do nothing for you. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1543-1544 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 17:59:27 Every behavior has a surface level craving and a deeper, underlying motive. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1545-1546 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:00:02 I have to eat to survive. The underlying motive is to obtain food and water even if my specific craving is for a taco. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1546-1550 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:01:31 Some of our underlying motives include:* Conserve energy Obtain food and water Find love and reproduce Connect and bond with others Win social acceptance and approval Reduce uncertainty Achieve status and prestige A ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1550-1550 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:01:44 A craving is just a specific manifestation of a deeper underlying motive. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1550-1552 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:02:00 A craving is just a specific manifestation of a deeper underlying motive. Your brain did not evolve with a desire to smoke cigarettes or to check Instagram or to play video games. At a deep level, you simply want to reduce uncertainty and relieve anxiety, to win social acceptance ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1550-1552 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:02:03 A craving is just a specific manifestation of a deeper underlying motive. Your brain did not evolve with a desire to smoke cigarettes or to check Instagram or to play video games. At a deep level, you simply want to reduce uncertainty and relieve anxiety, to win social acceptance ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1550-1552 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:02:12 A craving is just a specific manifestation of a deeper underlying motive. Your brain did not evolve with a desire to smoke cigarettes or to check Instagram or to play video games. At a deep level, you simply want to reduce uncertainty and relieve anxiety, to win social acceptance and approval, or to achieve status. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1550-1552 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:02:14 A craving is just a specific manifestation of a deeper underlying motive. Your brain did not evolve with a desire to smoke cigarettes or to check Instagram or to play video games. At a deep level, you simply want to reduce uncertainty and relieve anxiety, to win social acceptance and approval, or to achieve status. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 128 | location 1556-1556 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:02:44 Achieve status and prestige = playing video games ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 128 | location 1556-1557 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:03:16 Your habits are modern-day solutions to ancient desires. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 128 | location 1558-1558 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:03:32 Here’s the powerful part: there are many different ways to address the same underlying motive. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 128 | location 1559-1561 | Added on Thursday, 29 August 2019 18:04:40 Your current habits are not necessarily the best way to solve the problems you face; they are just the methods you learned to use. Once you associate a solution with the problem you need to solve, you keep coming back to it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1568-1570 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:42:30 Life feels reactive, but it is actually predictive. All day long, you are making your best guess of how to act given what you’ve just seen and what has worked for you in the past. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1574-1574 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:43:30 These predictions lead to feelings, which is how we typically describe a craving—a feeling, a desire, an urge. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1578-1579 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:44:12 but it is only when you predict that you would be better off in a different state that you take action. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1579-1579 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:44:29 A craving is the sense that something is missing. It is the desire to change your internal state. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 130 | location 1582-1583 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:45:19 Even the tiniest action is tinged with the motivation to feel differently than you do in the moment ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 130 | location 1587-1588 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:46:01 To summarize, the specific cravings you feel and habits you perform are really an attempt to address your fundamental underlying motives. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 130 | location 1594-1598 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:47:42 your family. Now, imagine changing just one word: You don’t “have” to. You “get” to. You get to wake up early for work. You get to make another sales call for your business. You get to cook dinner for your family. By simply changing one word, you shift the way you view each event. You transition from seeing these behaviors as burdens and turn them into opportunities ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 131 | location 1602-1603 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:48:37 Reframing your habits to highlight their benefits rather than their drawbacks is a fast and lightweight way to reprogram your mind and make a habit seem more attractive. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 131 | location 1604-1605 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:50:41 Instead of telling yourself “I need to go run in the morning,” say “It’s time to build endurance and get fast.” ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 132 | location 1614-1615 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:50:51 These little mind-set shifts aren’t magic, but they can help change the feelings you associate with a particular habit or situation. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 132 | location 1615-1616 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:52:20 If you want to take it a step further, you can create a motivation ritual. You simply practice associating your habits with something you enjoy, then you can use that cue whenever you need a bit of motivation. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 133 | location 1628-1629 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 18:53:59 breaths and smile. Three deep breaths. Smile. Pet the dog. Repeat. Eventually, you’ll begin to associate this breathe-and-smile routine with being in a good mood. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 142 | location 1684-1685 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:00:52 Sometimes motion is useful, but it will never produce an outcome by itself. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 142 | location 1689-1690 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:01:33 And that’s the biggest reason why you slip into motion rather than taking action: you want to delay failure. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 142 | location 1686-1687 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:01:49 If motion doesn’t lead to results, why do we do it? Sometimes we do it because we actually need to plan or learn more. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 143 | location 1694-1695 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:02:32 When preparation becomes a form of procrastination, you need to change something. You don’t want to merely be planning. You want to be practicing. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 143 | location 1695-1696 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:03:26 If you want to master a habit, the key is to start with repetition, not perfection. You don’t need to map out every feature of a new habit. You just need to practice it. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 143 | location 1696 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:04:17 I was exactly thinking the opposite ! ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Note on page 143 | location 1694 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:05:50 I dothis so much! Planning give me the feeling of moving , but now I know that it's just feeling! ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 143 | location 1699-1700 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:06:50 Neuroscientists call this long-term potentiation, which refers to the strengthening of connections between neurons in the brain based on recent patterns of activity ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 144 | location 1708-1709 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:08:11 Like the muscles of the body responding to regular weight training, particular regions of the brain adapt as they are used and atrophy as they are abandoned. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 144 | location 1715-1716 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:09:57 This means that simply putting in your reps is one of the most critical steps you can take to encoding a new habit. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 144 | location 1719-1722 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:11:04 It looks something like this: THE HABIT LINE ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 144 | location 1722-1723 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:11:19 FIGURE 11: In the beginning (point A), a habit requires a good deal of effort and concentration to perform. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 145 | location 1727-1728 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:11:44 The shape of these charts, which scientists call learning curves, reveals an important truth about behavior change: habits form based on frequency, not time. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 146 | location 1732-1734 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:12:31 One of the most common questions I hear is, “How long does it take to build a new habit?” But what people really should be asking is, “How many does it take to form a new habit?” That is, how many repetitions are required to make a habit automatic? ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 151 | location 1773-1775 | Added on Monday, 2 September 2019 19:17:44 But the truth is, our real motivation is to be lazy and to do what is convenient. And despite what the latest productivity best seller will tell you, this is a smart strategy, not a dumb one. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 151 | location 1775-1777 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:09:38 It is human nature to follow the Law of Least Effort, which states that when deciding between two similar options, people will naturally gravitate toward the option that requires the least amount of work. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 151 | location 1779-1780 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:10:01 We are motivated to do what is easy. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 152 | location 1780-1781 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:11:02 The more energy required, the less likely it is to occur. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 152 | location 1786-1788 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:12:46 In a sense, every habit is just an obstacle to getting what you really want. Dieting is an obstacle to getting fit. Meditation is an obstacle to feeling calm. Journaling is an obstacle to thinking clearly. You don’t actually want the habit itself. What you really want is the outcome the habit delivers. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 152 | location 1792-1794 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:22:25 Certainly, you are capable of doing very hard things. The problem is that some days you feel like doing the hard work and some days you feel like giving in. On the tough days, it’s crucial to have as many things working in your favor as possible so that you can overcome the challenges life naturally throws your way. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1800-1800 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:30:22 Trying to pump up your motivation to stick with a hard habit is like trying to force water through a bent hose. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1800-1801 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:30:31 Trying to pump up your motivation to stick with a hard habit is like trying to force water through a bent hose. You can do it, but it requires a lot of effort ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1800-1801 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:30:37 Trying to pump up your motivation to stick with a hard habit is like trying to force water through a bent hose. You can do it, but it requires a lot of effort and increases the tension in your life. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1805-1805 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:32:42 Habits are easier to build when they fit into the flow of your life. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 154 | location 1809-1811 | Added on Tuesday, 3 September 2019 17:33:58 We try to concentrate while using a smartphone filled with distractions. It doesn’t have to be this way. We can remove the points of friction that hold us back. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 155 | location 1834-1837 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:23:09 The central idea is to create an environment where doing the right thing is as easy as possible. Much of the battle of building better habits comes down to finding ways to reduce the friction associated with our good habits and increase the friction associated with our bad ones. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 156 | location 1845-1845 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:26:08 Whenever you organize a space for its intended purpose, you are ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 156 | location 1845-1845 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:26:15 Whenever you organize a space for its intended purpose, you are priming it to make the next action easy. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 157 | location 1854-1855 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:27:47 Want to improve your diet? Chop up a ton of fruits and vegetables on weekends and pack them in containers, so you have easy access to healthy, ready-to-eat options during the week. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 158 | location 1870-1872 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:31:42 Whether we are approaching behavior change as an individual, a parent, a coach, or a leader, we should ask ourselves the same question: “How can we design a world where it’s easy to do what’s right?” Redesign your life so the actions that matter most are also the actions that are easiest to do. ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 160 | location 1893-1895 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:39:51 It seems to be easier to continue what you are already doing than to start doing something different. You sit through a bad movie for two hours. You keep snacking even when ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 160 | location 1901-1902 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:41:40 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 162 | location 1913-1915 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:46:25 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 162 | location 1917-1919 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:47:57 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 163 | location 1925-1926 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:54:17 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 163 | location 1945-1948 | Added on Wednesday, 4 September 2019 18:56:44 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 164 | location 1948-1949 | Added on Tuesday, 10 September 2019 17:12:19 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - Your Highlight on page 164 | location 1956-1957 | Added on Tuesday, 10 September 2019 17:15:20 ========== Atomic Habits (Clear, James) - 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Your Highlight on page 4-4 | Added on Tuesday, 1 October 2019 18:51:49 frequency from a series of harmonically-related components does not change our sensation of pitch ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xiv | location 262-263 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:26:03 In other words, work used to be about making things. Then all of a sudden, work was about making us. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xiv | location 264-265 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:26:31 But for this generation, a job is about more than a paycheck—it’s about a purpose.” ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xiv | location 266-268 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:27:10 When our work becomes who we are and we derive our ultimate value and meaning from it, it runs the risk of becoming our god. The thing we worship. Bow down to. Become slaves of. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xv | location 276-279 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:29:46 said that “having a job or career they enjoy would be ‘extremely or very important’ to them as an adult.”6 It is the very thing we are all running toward to give us meaning. To give us life. To tell us we matter. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xvi | location 293-294 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:33:11 To hell with being anxious, lonely, and burned out. This isn’t God’s design. We are meant to flourish by the Spirit of God under the reign and rule of our King Jesus. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xvii | location 298-299 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:35:30 And this isn’t just our personal anxieties; it’s our culture and our generation at large. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xvii | location 308-311 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:38:30 The values and pace of our culture, the speed at which it is moving, the demands and pressure we all collectively feel, the ethos of hustle injected into us all at birth—it’s all boiling us alive. But we don’t notice it because it has happened steadily over the last century or so. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xviii | location 314-314 | Added on Tuesday, 15 October 2019 17:39:06 So I say to hell with the hustle. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page xviii | location 317-317 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:47:50 And if hustle isn’t him, there’s only one other place it could come from. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 1 | location 336-336 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:51:49 Bethke Family Summit. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 2 | location 342-343 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:53:20 One of our rules for the summit is no talking about goals. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 350-351 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:54:29 And here’s why: for our family, goals haven’t really helped us become who we want to be. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 355-358 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:55:02 One is about the end. The other is about the present. One is about doing. The other is about being. One is about results. The other is about process. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 363-364 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:56:24 is that the same human Jesus envisioned for our flourishing and our lives? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 365-366 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:56:47 we as humans are the summation of our repeated practices and rituals. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 373-374 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:58:34 To follow Jesus we need to not just follow his teaching, but also follow his way. His process. His cadence. His demeanor. His spirit. His very essence. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 368-369 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 18:58:52 One, it feels more human. We are designed and primarily wired for becoming, not achieving ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 374-375 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:01:36 Who am I becoming through the practices I’m doing? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 375-377 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:01:43 That’s the better and truer question. A couple of the small changes Alyssa and I have pursued are honoring a family sabbath, never allowing phones in the bedrooms, and turning off our phones once a week for a twenty-four-hour period. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 376-377 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:02:13 A couple of the small changes Alyssa and I have pursued are honoring a family sabbath, never allowing phones in the bedrooms, and turning off our phones once a week for a twenty-four-hour period. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 380-380 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:02:39 Becoming like Jesus is the one and only “goal” ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 407-409 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:08:27 The truth is, we are informationally obese. Gorging ourselves on information until we are sick and unhealthy. Just one more podcast, one more YouTube video, one more hack to achieve a more optimized life. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 397-397 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:08:54 We are earthen vessels of dust with the very Spirit of God in us. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 413-413 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:10:40 Maybe they didn’t know everything we know and that was actually the blessing. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 417-418 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:11:37 What if we are attempting to exchange wisdom for shortcuts? One requires years of life experiences, while the other simply requires a Google search. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 421-422 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:12:14 Whatever you call it, it’s killing us, and it’s doing it silently. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 451-453 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:16:59 We are fat and drunk on information. Stumbling through our lives. Except this abuse is the most culturally accepted in the history of mankind ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 460-462 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:18:13 but our telos is that picture we all hold in our minds of that’s where I want to go, that’s who I want to be, and that’s how I want it to look when I get there. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 464-465 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:19:06 We lean into information because we believe it’s going to give us a certain future (our telos). But how’s that going for us? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 12 | location 466-466 | Added on Wednesday, 16 October 2019 19:19:27 we can’t research or think ourselves to a better version of ourselves. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 494-495 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 16:49:31 Because the hard truth is, finish lines and end-result motivators do not change us. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 497-498 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 16:51:18 We need to stop thinking, I’m not that awesome or good enough right now, but if I can just do this one thing, then maybe I’ll feel better about myself. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 501-501 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 16:53:44 Formations, on the other hand, aren’t about doing something but about being someone. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 502-504 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 16:55:15 Formations look more like a circle, where you are constantly coming back to the same place to seek renewal and refreshment in a particular practice. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 534-536 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:03:31 (Actually that’s the thing that most bothers me about all the self-help and business leadership books currently—just hustle and work harder and then you can reach your dreams and have the life you want. Cringe.) ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 536-537 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:04:35 what forms our identities are the million, tiny, micro-sized actions we all do every day without ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 536-537 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:04:39 what forms our identities are the million, tiny, micro-sized actions we all do every day without ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 536-537 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:04:44 what forms our identities are the million, tiny, micro ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 536-537 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:04:51 what forms our identities are the million, tiny, micro-sized actions we all do every day ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 541-542 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:05:53 Here’s the thing about habits: they are less about doing something and more about loving something. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 548-549 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:07:01 And ritual to me is a habit of meaning. A repeatable action that draws us into a sacred moment. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 552-552 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:09:01 And our habits are simply the things we love deeply without ever realizing it. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 19 | location 560-561 | Added on Thursday, 17 October 2019 17:11:29 The smell conjures up deep and fond memories of quiet, tranquil morning time, with journals and books and thinking. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 567-568 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:02:18 Now I essentially do it out of ritual, with a little mix of duty. But it’s still an act of love. And continually doing it, even once it got mundane, is maybe even more an act of love. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 568-569 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:04:02 I think following Jesus with rhythm is the same. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 571-573 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:04:15 But what if it’s right in the middle? Take the coffee again. I set myself up for failure if I expect to serve my wife only when I feel like it, or to make the coffee only on the mornings when my love for her is really pumping in my veins that day. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 574-575 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:04:42 But it would also be equally bad if I made the coffee every morning purely out of duty and harbored bitterness while thinking, ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 577-577 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:05:19 Love is a habit. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 580-580 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:06:30 Just because we do something over and over doesn’t mean it’s legalistic. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 588-589 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:07:13 It’s to make sure your heart is right if you do. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 21 | location 589-589 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:07:54 I once heard someone say that rules before love equals legalism, and love before rules equals gospel formation ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 597-598 | Added on Monday, 21 October 2019 20:09:21 We are who we are because we loved something and chased it, often unwittingly, and we continued to do it, over and over like a liturgy. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 23 | location 615-616 | Added on Tuesday, 22 October 2019 17:25:36 And then we perform a certain behavior over and over and over again. Sound familiar? Swipe. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 648-648 | Added on Tuesday, 22 October 2019 17:28:16 But then I wondered, what is the commercial ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 26 | location 648-649 | Added on Tuesday, 22 October 2019 17:28:25 But then I wondered, what is the commercial really saying? That the things I so desperately want in life—connection, meaning, deep sense of family—this phone can give me? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 659-660 | Added on Tuesday, 22 October 2019 17:30:13 Because I want to be more than an efficient, driven, ambitious, goal-oriented, achievement-based human. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 659-661 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 12:43:24 Because I want to be more than an efficient, driven, ambitious, goal-oriented, achievement-based human. When I envision that person in the future, I don’t see a loving human presence. I see a machine. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 662-663 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 12:47:26 Yet there’s a bigger and better and more truthful telos that our hearts long for deep down. The telos of flourishing as the image of God found in Jesus. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 27 | location 664-667 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 12:48:03 I want to be formed and shaped and molded into his image. To be more like him. To look like him. To walk at his pace. To respond to the world with his gentleness and grace. To reign and rule, build, create, and cultivate under his loving and sacrificial authority. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 28 | location 667-669 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 12:48:12 To live in repeatable practices and formations that consistently put myself before him. I have to shape my space and my habits away from my false self and push myself into becoming a true full image bearer of him. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 679-680 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 13:00:34 But when individual freedom becomes more than just a really helpful and good idea, when it becomes our god and our religion, when it becomes ultimate, then it is an object of worship. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 30 | location 684-685 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:36:51 If it stands in the way of our desires and what we want, it’s wrong and harmful and bad according to our culture’s current view. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 689-691 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:39:16 we also have simultaneously disconnected ourselves from our humanity—from family, from sleep, from our neighborhoods, from community, from craft, from time, from rest, and from who we are. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 696-698 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:41:16 Will we ever feel more fulfilled? Will we reach a point where we are finally satisfied, when we will find shalom, that meaty, dense Hebrew word for peace and fullness? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 31 | location 695-696 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:41:44 We only need to work harder, hustle more, sacrifice more. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 701-702 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:43:32 Our pursuit of freedom is not actually freeing us. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 706-707 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:44:45 Our sexual freedom means having and enjoying the most personal benefit and pleasure possible with the fewest limits, least commitment, and least sacrifice. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 32 | location 708-709 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:46:27 We have made the pursuit and gratification of our sexual wants and desires absolutely frictionless. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 720-721 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:47:01 We’re supposed to be more connected, yet we are easily the loneliest generation yet. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 722-723 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:47:09 We are chasing freedom. Yet becoming slaves. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 33 | location 724-724 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:47:29 True freedom has inherent restraint. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 733-734 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:53:00 Our current hustle culture is no different; it’s all about exceeding limits. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 735-737 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:53:14 believe there is freedom in limits. Freedom in living within a design. A blueprint. An external reality. And we are trying to loosen those limits at our own peril. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 735-737 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:53:19 believe there is freedom in limits. Freedom in living within a design. A blueprint. An external reality. And we are trying to loosen those limits at our own peril. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 34 | location 735-737 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 16:53:24 I believe there is freedom in limits. Freedom in living within a design. A blueprint. An external reality. And we are trying to loosen those limits at our own peril. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 768-769 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 17:01:26 People must be trained to desire, to want new things even before the old has been entirely consumed. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 768-770 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 17:01:33 People must be trained to desire, to want new things even before the old has been entirely consumed. Man’s desires must overshadow his needs.2 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 37 | location 772-773 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 17:04:05 If hustle needed a birthdate I’d say it was the day the assembly line was born. It made efficiency a god. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 782-785 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 17:04:24 It’d take too much time to connect each one of those people with another person in the church and maybe have a family or person “adopt” this person spiritually to walk with them, ask them hard questions, eat meals together . . . so let’s just have everyone repeat after me. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 787-788 | Added on Thursday, 24 October 2019 17:04:41 What I am saying is, there are always tradeoffs. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 817-819 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:27:52 The time period when we fundamentally changed how we work, live, commune, and see many things in life. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 816-819 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:27:58 that massive shift. Industrial Revolution. The time period when we fundamentally changed how we work, live, commune, and see many things in life. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 817-819 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:28:03 Industrial Revolution. The time period when we fundamentally changed how we work, live, commune, and see many things in life. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 39 | location 800-802 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:29:09 Whether we realize it or not, we treat everything we touch in life—relationships, possessions, our jobs, and more—as nothing more than the plastic straw we get every time we get a drink from the drive-through. Disposable ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 823-824 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:31:15 The first is that agriculture and industrialization tend to approach work in fundamentally different ways. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 824-825 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:31:25 Farmers tend to submit to limits. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 41 | location 825-826 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:31:37 Proponents of industrialization do the opposite. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 42 | location 829-831 | Added on Monday, 28 October 2019 15:32:08 However, we certainly have lost the visual reminders found in the soil, sun, water, and seasons that tell us we are creatures of limits. And creatures of ritual. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 42 | location 835-836 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:34:36 You might ask, What makes something agrarian? I believe it’s rhythms. Ritual. Seasons. And integration. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 42 | location 836-837 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:35:41 Rituals are the habits of meaning that give us an anchor and add depth to our lives. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 43 | location 847-848 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:37:39 Think of rhythms as your daily vitamins of nourishment, which is different from an ordinary routine. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 43 | location 849-850 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:41:46 Our family having a big blowout Shabbat ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 43 | location 849-850 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:41:51 Our family having a big blowout Shabbat dinner together every Friday night is a rhythm. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 43 | location 849-851 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:42:01 Our family having a big blowout Shabbat dinner together every Friday night is a rhythm. It is the high moment of our week, a practice we have cultivated over the past five years of setting one full day apart for our family for resting, delighting in Jesus, filling up our tanks, and dancing to the music of grace. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 44 | location 854-855 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:42:23 We’re losing rootedness and depth and anchoredness. Because time and rhythm and ritual, these things are no longer external forces that we must submit to. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 44 | location 862-865 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:44:17 We are desperate for depth and wholeness and fulfillment. Craving and crawling for every sense of meaning and richness we can find. Another way to put it is, we can’t live without purpose. And something about that purpose gives us an anchoring that nothing else can. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 44 | location 860-862 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:44:24 We wonder why people flock to rites like this, but we are creatures of meaning—we are hunting for it and pursuing it our whole lives, whether we realize it or not. Our entire life has us metaphorically nose to the ground trying to catch the faintest scent of something that will make us feel something. We ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 44 | location 862-865 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:44:32 We are desperate for depth and wholeness and fulfillment. Craving and crawling for every sense of meaning and richness we can find. Another way to put it is, we can’t live without purpose. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 46 | location 883-884 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:50:34 a full-blown religion with the sacrifice being ourselves, the priest being Mark Zuckerberg, and the god we are worshiping being the god of someone tell me I’m good enough. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 46 | location 887-888 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:50:41 “Millennials are leaving the church!” No they aren’t. They are just going to a different one. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 47 | location 890-891 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:51:02 Things we come back to, again and again, in search of meaning. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 47 | location 898-901 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:52:50 Do you think it’s just a coincidence that we have a crisis of extended adolescence, with boys having no vision and purpose and many still wasting their thirties doing things that were inappropriate even in their teens, like sleeping around, playing video games, taking no responsibility for their lives, and leeching off of family and friends? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 48 | location 908-912 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 11:55:12 And while there surely have been advances in how we structure culture, I wonder what we’ve lost. Have we left behind some of the things we believed were harmful but replaced them with an anxiety-ridden, insanely overconnected, self-absorbed, individualistic society? I’ll tell you what we have left behind. We left behind meaning. And I want it back. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 934-934 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:14:33 What if God’s idea of success isn’t about what you do, but who you are? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 931-932 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:14:49 The world’s idea of success might be to do a bunch of stuff ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 50 | location 935-935 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:16:15 Stepping into the person you were created to be ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 53 | location 968-968 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:24:02 Edison hated sleep, so he invented something that helped him cheat it ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 53 | location 971-973 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:25:06 We have used it to cheat ourselves out of the rest we need as we hustle and push against limits. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 54 | location 981-982 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:27:08 Our modus operandi is to push the limits as far as they can go, and when we hit a wall, ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 55 | location 985-987 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:28:29 Sounds a lot like our bodies, right? Made for a balance of work and rest but powered by the god of economics, we would rather push the limits to extract some cash. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 55 | location 992-994 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:29:27 And that obscurity, the place of being unknown and not famous, which is the telos for most of us, isn’t a curse but an enormous gift. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 56 | location 1000-1002 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:30:59 It’s why we press a bunch of buttons on a computer for work all week and somehow get to Friday and wonder, What even did I do all week? What did I accomplish? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 56 | location 1008-1009 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:32:34 The earth was tohu wa-bohu (Hebrew). Guess what tohu can be translated as? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 56 | location 1008-1009 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:32:40 The earth was tohu wa-bohu (Hebrew). Guess what tohu can be translated as? Chaos. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 57 | location 1016-1019 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:34:10 God isn’t scared of chaos in our lives. He won’t disappear. He’s not distant. But he does encourage us to fly. And so what’s the antidote to chaos? To the splintering and fracturing of all things? It’s shalom, ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 58 | location 1026-1027 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:35:04 True shalom carries weight. It means to have the teeth to destroy the authority of chaos. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 58 | location 1029-1031 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:35:48 So Jerusalem means “you will see the mouth of peace destroy the authority of chaos.” It’s the city where peace and blessing and fullness reigns. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 59 | location 1047-1048 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:38:35 Those primordial waters that were rushing and tossing and churning about in the very first few sentences of Genesis seemed to be in my heart. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 60 | location 1063-1065 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:41:00 I never actually let what I believed enter into my normal daily habits or rituals, which is where change, growth, joy, and meaning actually happen. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 1067-1068 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:41:37 Here’s another way to put it: the big difference between chaos and shalom is rhythm. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 61 | location 1073-1074 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:42:46 It’s the force that keeps the music going forward, but it’s also something the music keeps coming back to. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 62 | location 1082-1082 | Added on Tuesday, 29 October 2019 17:44:18 but no sane person would look at our dancing and call it beautiful ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 63 | location 1094-1094 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:36:11 think God gave each of us a desire for rhythm in the music he creates. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 63 | location 1094-1094 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:36:25 I think God gave each of us a desire for rhythm in the music he creates. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 63 | location 1096-1097 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:36:35 And when it starts getting louder, we know we’re getting closer to where God is playing a symphony of shalom. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 1102-1103 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:38:13 But it was beyond comparison, the most beautiful noise he had ever heard. It was so beautiful Digory could hardly bear it. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 1106-1107 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:38:32 learning to dance takes work. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Bookmark on page 67 | location 1116 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:40:11 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 68 | location 1125-1126 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:43:38 Here’s the reality, though: we actually do take noise with ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 68 | location 1125-1126 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:43:44 Here’s the reality, though: ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 68 | location 1125-1126 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:43:48 Here’s the reality, though: we actually do take noise with us. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 68 | location 1129-1130 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:44:21 But there is one I rarely hear about from politicians or those on the nightly news: noise pollution. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 68 | location 1134-1135 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:45:34 Your brain is “sensory gating,” or blocking out all the irrelevant noise and stimuli. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 69 | location 1142-1143 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:47:52 In other words, our brains are literally exhausted because of the noise. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 69 | location 1140-1140 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:47:56 That part of the brain sounds like a Ferrari engine pushing the gas pedal as hard as it can go—with no breaks. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 69 | location 1140-1141 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:48:00 That part of the brain sounds like a Ferrari engine pushing the gas pedal as hard as it can go—with no breaks. Ever. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 69 | location 1138-1138 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:48:46 But an increased level of noise taxes the body and brain more than it can handle. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 69 | location 1145-1147 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:52:05 whereas our culture’s unprecedented noise and stimulation may also be at fault by overwhelming and exacerbating people mentally. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 71 | location 1163-1165 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:55:22 That article made me think twice about how much we have normalized insane levels of noise. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 72 | location 1176-1178 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:58:04 Some research shows that people drink more when music is loud (read: spend more money) and chew faster (finish their meals and leave faster) when louder music is present. The noise sets your pace whether you realize it or not. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 72 | location 1184-1186 | Added on Thursday, 31 October 2019 18:00:10 So if loud music and overstimulation and strobe lights are used as tactics of war and torture, why do we willingly subject ourselves to them in everyday life? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 1201-1202 | Added on Friday, 1 November 2019 19:54:09 Because in silence we feel exposed and naked, and weirdly we become noisy. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 1203-1205 | Added on Friday, 1 November 2019 19:54:42 our aversion to that nakedness and the awkwardness and ugliness we feel are actually why we need to do it. If we never experience it, we are continually buzzing, always anxious, wired, and on edge, empty and spiritually thin and malnourished. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 1207-1209 | Added on Friday, 1 November 2019 19:55:12 It’s not a therapeutic place. It’s where you go to die. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 1210-1211 | Added on Friday, 1 November 2019 19:58:23 No calls to make. No meetings to attend. No tasks to accomplish. No music to listen to. It’s complete nothingness. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 74 | location 1210-1213 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:18:55 No calls to make. No meetings to attend. No tasks to accomplish. No music to listen to. It’s complete nothingness. “A nothingness so dreadful that everything in me wants to run to my friends, my work, and my distractions so that I can forget my nothingness and make myself believe that I am worth something.” ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 75 | location 1216-1216 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:19:26 But to stay put in the quiet place is to stay put in the desert. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 76 | location 1227-1228 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:25:15 But at the same time, every time I’d get quiet and sit at his feet, it was brutal. The minute I’d get still was the minute I’d start to be tormented by vivid pictures of choices I’d made that I was wearing in my body. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 75 | location 1221-1222 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:25:32 Silence and solitude are like a graveyard for all the worst in you and your false self. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 76 | location 1235-1236 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:26:13 Where did I get this picture that time alone with Jesus was therapeutic, beautiful, serene, and peaceful? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 78 | location 1259-1259 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:30:09 “streams in the wasteland” (43:19). He meets us in the place of death with sustaining life. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 78 | location 1262-1264 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:30:44 This is your true self. The one I saw when I died for you. I’ve been here the whole time, waiting for you to get here. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 79 | location 1272-1273 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:31:45 slow, methodical, and pointed talking. Yet silence and slowness are now treated like diseases to be eradicated. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 79 | location 1272-1273 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:31:51 treated like diseases to be eradicated. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 79 | location 1272-1273 | Added on Monday, 4 November 2019 20:31:54 Yet silence and slowness are now treated like diseases to be eradicated. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 79 | location 1275-1276 | Added on Thursday, 7 November 2019 18:08:58 Today most animated shows are an assault on the senses, causing violence to our more sensitive awareness. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 80 | location 1285-1286 | Added on Thursday, 7 November 2019 18:11:02 “Silence is the greatest gift we have,” he once said.11 And he fought for that silence everywhere. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 80 | location 1287-1289 | Added on Thursday, 7 November 2019 18:11:42 He’d instruct his staff and team to take one minute at the beginning of the meeting to think of a person who had a positive impact on their life. And he’d watch the time and tell them when the minute was up. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1311-1312 | Added on Thursday, 7 November 2019 18:20:08 Empty space does not need to always, inherently, be filled. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 82 | location 1311-1313 | Added on Thursday, 7 November 2019 18:20:47 Empty space does not need to always, inherently, be filled. It can just be. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 84 | location 1336-1337 | Added on Monday, 11 November 2019 16:59:30 First, we have to seek silence. To chase after it. Trek into the deep centers of sacred space, looking for where we might find it. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 85 | location 1348-1349 | Added on Monday, 11 November 2019 17:01:45 And in that silence you’ll find a space where your old self begins to suffocate, your new self begins to be renewed, and the truth of God begins to slowly but surely fill and rewire and recalibrate your new humanness ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 91 | location 1403-1404 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 17:55:17 Time hasn’t been precisely measured, divided, and tracked forever. That’s fairly recent. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 91 | location 1407-1408 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 17:55:56 left this deal unscathed? Since the modern era, and all the innovation ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1408-1408 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 17:56:01 Since the modern era, and all the innovation that came with it, time has taken on a life of its own. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1414-1415 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 17:57:35 At first, our machines operated like “clockwork.” Now it’s us. Our lives are being formed every day into a more mechanized, robotic, and calculated existence. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 93 | location 1427-1428 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 17:59:24 When our limits become our load, that’s when we experience burnout and depletion. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1440-1440 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:01:18 So why do we not do the same with time? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 94 | location 1444-1446 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:02:07 But as my friend John Mark likes to say, “Hurry is violence on the soul.” One of the quickest ways to curb that violence to our own humanity is learn how to say no in a world full of yeses. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 95 | location 1451-1452 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:03:44 Last time I checked, it’s easy to fill an entire week. I’m more interested in people who schedule as little as possible, only what is essential and best for their flourishing. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1474-1475 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:07:38 Just hang out and get to know each other and love one another and serve each other and walk with God and love your neighbor. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1477-1477 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:07:51 Make your default answer no. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 97 | location 1478-1478 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:09:19 We specifically believe that time is a more abundant resource in the future than it is now, ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1489-1490 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:09:56 This is about loving our neighbor better. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1493-1498 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:11:23 The first is saying no to the incredibly, awesome, “once in a lifetime” things. And the other is saying no to the daily micro-mundane asks and decisions that eat away at our flourishing like water damage in a house. Slow and steady, and methodical and toxic. This has been hard. Especially for me. My default position is, “This won’t come around again. I have to say yes.” For some people, it might be a free paid work trip, but you are having a busy month already. Or it could mean a chance for one of your kids to play for an elite sports team, but your family’s energy is already maxed out. These decisions are tempting and hard to turn down. But where we see the most change is in the million little ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1493-1494 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:11:29 The first is saying no to the incredibly, awesome, “once in a lifetime” things. And the other is saying no to the daily micro-mundane asks and decisions that eat away at our flourishing ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1493-1495 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:11:37 The first is saying no to the incredibly, awesome, “once in a lifetime” things. And the other is saying no to the daily micro-mundane asks and decisions that eat away at our flourishing like water damage in a house. Slow and steady, and methodical and toxic. This ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 98 | location 1493-1495 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:11:42 The first is saying no to the incredibly, awesome, “once in a lifetime” things. And the other is saying no to the daily micro-mundane asks and decisions that eat away at our flourishing like water damage in a house. Slow and steady, and methodical and toxic. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1499-1500 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:12:58 school or church. Don’t buy the lie that a full schedule means productivity ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1500-1500 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:13:02 Don’t buy the lie that a full schedule means productivity or holiness or achievement. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 99 | location 1501-1502 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:14:20 If you lead a small group, or you’re the president of your student council, or manager of a team at work, or you pastor a church, you’ll feel an enormous pull that no other leaders in history have ever had to deal with. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 100 | location 1519-1519 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:19:02 I’ve learned to carve up my time ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 101 | location 1526-1527 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:19:40 It’s about creating a life centered around priorities we care about most, making sure they don’t fall by the wayside. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 101 | location 1528-1528 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:20:16 I come alive because it gives me permission to be all in with my family, Jesus, close friends, ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 101 | location 1528-1529 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:20:21 I come alive because it gives me permission to be all in with my family, Jesus, close friends, my community, and my neighbors. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 102 | location 1535-1536 | Added on Tuesday, 12 November 2019 18:21:51 We aren’t God. And so we should stop acting like it. Being human means embracing the limits, not trying to cheat them. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 102 | location 1534-1534 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:39:10 Thinking we have all the time in the world is costing us something. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 102 | location 1543-1545 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:41:00 think there are some seasons when an intense focus is totally appropriate, where a sprint, rather than a marathon, is a worthwhile pursuit to get somewhere. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 103 | location 1554-1556 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:43:52 The Torah commanded ancient Israelites to honor Shmita, which is a period of time when the people stopped working for one full year to give the land a rest. It happened every seven years. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 105 | location 1579-1581 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:46:44 Maybe the Shmita is trying to teach us that “people are indeed like the land, in ways that are more obvious in the modern world: For both, when overwork leads to exhaustion, we engineer continued ‘vitality’ not ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 105 | location 1579-1582 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:46:49 Maybe the Shmita is trying to teach us that “people are indeed like the land, in ways that are more obvious in the modern world: For both, when overwork leads to exhaustion, we engineer continued ‘vitality’ not with true renewal, but with chemicals.”7 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 106 | location 1588-1589 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:48:51 While we might not all be able to take a year off work, the question that haunts me is, do I trust God enough to do ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 93 | location 1423-1424 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:50:29 In his bestselling book Margin, Dr. Richard Swenson defined the term as “the space between our load and our limits.” ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 107 | location 1596-1597 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:52:25 And when we have margin, we have freedom. Freedom to give, freedom to invest, and freedom from stress. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 107 | location 1597-1599 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:52:39 Same goes with our time. Don’t spend all the time you have. So you can be free and use it to serve. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 107 | location 1602-1603 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:53:24 To me there is no better way to show someone you love them than to bear an inconvenience of someone else’s burden with joy. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 107 | location 1604-1606 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:53:50 flexibility for interruptions. When we read through the Gospels, some of the craziest stories about Jesus happened because he let himself ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 107 | location 1604-1606 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:53:59 When we read through the Gospels, some of the craziest stories about Jesus happened because he let himself ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 107 | location 1604-1606 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:54:04 When we read through the Gospels, some of the craziest stories about Jesus happened because he let himself be interrupted. He wasn’t in a hurry. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 108 | location 1609-1610 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:54:38 Leading a small group (but never seeing any of them the rest of the week). ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 108 | location 1616-1618 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:56:16 or the Great Commission (Jesus’ command in Matthew 28:19–20 to go into all the nations and “make disciples”) is actually our excuse to not have to know the people who live next door? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 109 | location 1621-1622 | Added on Wednesday, 13 November 2019 19:57:01 So why do we have to go do some crazy big thing for God, when the command he gave us can be fulfilled by just being faithful and loving well over and over again? ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 110 | location 1631-1632 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:30:14 But we create space at night and on the weekends to really be open, and we’ve seen our kids come to life in it. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 110 | location 1634-1635 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:31:52 Alyssa and I have discovered that if you faithfully do your work, love your spouse, love your kids, love your neighbor, meet with Jesus, and get in bed on time, burnout tends to disappear ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 115 | location 1676-1677 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:40:39 The gift and beauty, and desperate need, of the desert. Of the place of wandering. Alone. The place where God does his best work. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 115 | location 1680-1681 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:42:27 We can’t hear him in our trauma or problems or hurt or pain, because we let everyone else speak into it first. We blog about it. We share it on Facebook. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1687-1688 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:44:04 So then, true obscurity is walking through wastelands that are dry, quiet, not applauded, and isolating with Jesus—whatever that wasteland may be. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1691-1692 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:45:23 It’s quick and gives us the feedback we want. Cheap consolation. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1693-1694 | Added on Tuesday, 19 November 2019 18:45:43 Because there’s only one way to heal and find wholeness. And it can’t be found online. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 117 | location 1700-1702 | Added on Thursday, 21 November 2019 18:58:47 I’m more concerned about the healing part. Sometimes we share too quickly with the world—the Internet, the fringe friends, the public record—before we have truly processed, dealt with it, healed. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 117 | location 1700-1702 | Added on Thursday, 21 November 2019 18:59:49 I’m more concerned about the healing part. 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The crowd heaved; ========== The Last Wish: Introducing the Witcher (Sapkowski, Andrzej) - Your Highlight on page 151 | location 2221-2221 | Added on Thursday, 30 January 2020 15:59:38 shame to waste her on that red-haired lout, ========== The Last Wish: Introducing the Witcher (Sapkowski, Andrzej) - Your Highlight on page 177 | location 2616-2617 | Added on Thursday, 30 January 2020 17:18:36 she said, “has stones of the right hue. ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 159 | location 2210-2212 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:43:49 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 159 | location 2210-2213 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:43:56 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 160 | location 2215-2216 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:45:00 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 160 | location 2215-2216 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:45:06 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 163 | location 2250-2251 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:51:00 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 164 | location 2267-2270 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:54:12 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 165 | location 2280-2281 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:57:16 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 165 | location 2284-2285 | Added on Monday, 2 March 2020 20:59:36 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 166 | location 2296-2297 | Added on Friday, 6 March 2020 15:55:34 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 166 | location 2299-2300 | Added on Friday, 6 March 2020 15:56:13 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 168 | location 2315-2316 | Added on Friday, 6 March 2020 16:00:23 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 168 | location 2318-2320 | Added on Friday, 6 March 2020 16:01:19 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 170 | location 2339-2341 | Added on Friday, 6 March 2020 16:04:56 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 172 | location 2365-2367 | Added on Monday, 9 March 2020 21:00:53 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 172 | location 2372-2373 | Added on Monday, 9 March 2020 21:03:15 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 172 | location 2374-2375 | Added on Monday, 9 March 2020 21:03:45 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 173 | location 2383-2384 | Added on Monday, 9 March 2020 21:05:05 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 175 | location 2408-2409 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:01:52 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 175 | location 2410-2412 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:01:59 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 176 | location 2420-2422 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:03:51 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 176 | location 2425-2426 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:04:31 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 177 | location 2434-2435 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:05:34 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 178 | location 2452-2453 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:07:54 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 179 | location 2455-2456 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:08:28 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 179 | location 2460-2460 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:09:26 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 182 | location 2476-2477 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:10:33 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 182 | location 2476-2477 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:10:40 ========== To Hell with the Hustle (Bethke, Jefferson) - Your Highlight on page 182 | location 2485-2487 | Added on Friday, 13 March 2020 17:11:47 ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 238-238 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 18:39:49 He is appealing to some kind of standard of behaviour which he expects the other man to know about. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 242-243 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 18:42:12 It looks, in fact, very much as if both parties had in mind some kind of Law or Rule of fair play or decent behaviour or morality or whatever you like to call it, about which they really agreed. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 244-245 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 18:43:16 Quarrelling means trying to show that the other man is in the wrong. And there would be no sense in trying to do that unless you and he had some sort of agreement as to what Right and Wrong are; ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 249-251 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 18:45:08 so the creature called man also had his law—with this great difference, that a body could not choose whether it obeyed the law of gravitation or not, but a man could choose either to obey the Law of Human Nature or to disobey it. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 258-259 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:00:37 they thought that the human idea of decent behaviour was obvious to every one. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 259-261 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:03:09 If they were not, then all the things we said about the war were nonsense. What was the sense in saying the enemy were in the wrong unless Right is a real thing which the Nazis at bottom knew as well as we did and ought to have practised? ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Note on page 6 | location 261 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:06:45 Absolute truth vs. Relative truth. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 270-271 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:19:01 But they have always agreed that you ought not to put yourself first. Selfishness has never been admired. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 273-273 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:20:56 Whenever you find a man who says he does not believe in a real Right and Wrong, you will find the same man going back on this a moment later. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 276-277 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:21:08 and if there is no such thing as Right and Wrong—in other words, if there is no Law of Nature—what is the difference between a fair treaty and an unfair one? ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 279-280 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:26:20 but they are not a matter of mere taste and opinion any more than the multiplication table. ========== Mere Christianity (Lewis, C. S.) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 291-292 | Added on Thursday, 16 April 2020 19:39:23 If we do not believe in decent behaviour, why should we be so anxious to make excuses for not having behaved decently? ========== The Last Wish: Introducing the Witcher (The Witcher Saga Book 0) (Sapkowski, Andrzej) - Your Highlight on page 207 | location 3487-3488 | Added on Sunday, 19 July 2020 23:50:07 Plants were everywhere. They grew out ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 91 | location 1010-1011 | Added on Thursday, 6 August 2020 13:33:39 The problem is that couples often aren’t honest about what they want before they get married, which leads to great conflict (and sadly, divorce) after marriage. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 91 | location 1012-1013 | Added on Thursday, 6 August 2020 13:33:46 Be honest: what do you really want? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1014-1015 | Added on Thursday, 6 August 2020 13:34:42 “Seeking first the kingdom of God” is a very wide umbrella. There are different ways of seeking that kingdom and expressing God’s righteousness. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 92 | location 1017-1017 | Added on Thursday, 6 August 2020 13:38:38 There are many different styles of marriages, ========== What Is Faith? (Crucial Questions) (Sproul, R.C.) - Your Highlight on page 2 | location 50-51 | Added on Thursday, 27 August 2020 18:12:14 When we use the word hope, we usually are referring to an emotional state of desire in our hearts regarding what we would like to happen in the future but are not sure will come to pass. ========== What Is Faith? (Crucial Questions) (Sproul, R.C.) - Your Highlight on page 2 | location 47-48 | Added on Thursday, 27 August 2020 18:12:23 This passage also reveals that there is a distinction between faith and hope. ========== What Is Faith? (Crucial Questions) (Sproul, R.C.) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 53-54 | Added on Thursday, 27 August 2020 23:16:02 There is a kind of hope that does not make us ashamed (cf. Rom. 5:5), ========== What Is Faith? (Crucial Questions) (Sproul, R.C.) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 55-56 | Added on Thursday, 27 August 2020 23:16:29 when the Bible speaks of hope, it is not referring to a desire for a future outcome that is uncertain, but rather a desire for a future outcome that is absolutely sure. ========== O poder da autorresponsabilidade (Vieira, Paulo) - Your Highlight on page 42 | location 499-500 | Added on Friday, 11 September 2020 21:35:05 consciência de todo o arcabouço científico que está ========== Across the Winding River (Runyan, Aimie K.) - Your Highlight on page 212 | location 3043-3044 | Added on Wednesday, 30 September 2020 23:39:39 not moving on, but maybe moving forward? ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 128-128 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:15:34 or the subject makes the author desperate enough to spend years finding the answers. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 133-133 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:19:12 was spiraling fast into discouragement ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 133-133 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:19:22 say. I was spiraling fast into discouragement ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 3 | location 133-133 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:19:33 I was spiraling fast into discouragement ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 143-145 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:24:23 The Bible records his bold declaration that we are to “take every thought captive to obey Christ.” ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 4 | location 150-151 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:24:42 Because honestly my thoughts run wilder than that hyperactive sparrow. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 155-156 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:25:48 It’s incredible, if you think about it: ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 170-172 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:28:35 Did you know that, with what we know about the brain today, when Scripture is talking about the heart, it really could be talking about the mind and the emotions we experience in our brains? ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 5 | location 163-164 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:28:46 that she was going to cure Alzheimer’s disease someday. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 173-175 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:29:33 Because she taught me that what she is learning in science is also scattered throughout my Bible and many of the truths in the Bible concerning our thought lives have been backed up by science. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 6 | location 180-182 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:30:17 But inevitably at some point they’d slip back into old habits, old patterns of doing life. Maybe you know exactly what I mean. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Note on page 7 | location 181 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:31:06 Clear says something like this, right? ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 7 | location 191-192 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:34:03 It’s all in our heads. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 196-197 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:39:52 In hopes of discovering how women can break free from our problematic patterns, I started ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 200-202 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:41:54 Our emotions were leading us to thoughts, and those thoughts were dictating our decisions, and our decisions were determining behaviors, and then the behaviors were shaping our relationships, all of which would take us back to either healthy or unhealthy thoughts. ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Note on page 8 | location 202 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:42:22 Cicle ========== Get Out of Your Head (Allen, Jennie) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 207-209 | Added on Thursday, 8 October 2020 13:44:34 The reality is that our emotions are a by-product of something else. Our emotions are a by-product of the way we think. ========== Across the Winding River (Runyan, Aimie K.) - Your Highlight on page 282 | location 3981-3981 | Added on Wednesday, 4 November 2020 23:11:00 I’d kept myself waiting long enough. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 38 | location 494-495 | Added on Thursday, 31 December 2020 16:40:09 A love that rolled up its sleeves and worked together, played together, and raised a family together, all while looking happier and more enamored with each other all the time? ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 42 | location 549-550 | Added on Thursday, 31 December 2020 16:51:10 he was the first to help the younger boys with their makeup, first to clean up the greenroom, and quick to pull out his guitar and sing praise songs with the rest of the cast between Saturday shows. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Bookmark on page 224 | location 3014 | Added on Wednesday, 27 January 2021 16:33:40 ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 841 | location 11331-11332 | Added on Wednesday, 24 February 2021 17:15:48 “Unless God put that in their hearts. God alone.” He ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 841 | location 11331-11334 | Added on Wednesday, 24 February 2021 17:16:04 “Unless God put that in their hearts. God alone.” He paused. “See, Dayne, the Bible says that God has set eternity in the hearts of men, and His creation stands as proof of His existence. If we doubt God, creation will speak on His behalf, so if we choose not to believe, we will be without excuse one day when we face Christ.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 957 | location 12881-12882 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:51:35 Isn’t there something wonderful about the word found? It implies that something was lost—something or someone. But now, everything’s okay. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 957 | location 12884-12885 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:52:08 What would my life be like if someone hadn’t prayed for me, if my husband hadn’t taken the time to show me God’s Word? ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 958 | location 12887-12887 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:52:19 “All roads lead to hell except Jesus.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 958 | location 12891-12893 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:53:31 It’s not often that we take another look and realize that for every one of them—for every one of us—the life that has us getting up each morning, smiling and succeeding and returning to our beds at night—is a road that leads nowhere without Jesus. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 958 | location 12895-12896 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:53:48 Wholeness is always and only found in finding that relationship with Jesus. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 958 | location 12896-12897 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:54:00 I guess the thing that stayed with me as I wrote Found was this—we need to pray for the people in our lives who haven’t yet found their hope in Christ. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 959 | location 12903-12904 | Added on Monday, 1 March 2021 08:54:23 So be encouraged. If you or someone you love hasn’t found the One who will make life whole and complete, don’t give up. Keep praying. God wants us all to come to a saving knowledge of Him—and until we do, He wants us to pray. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1098 | location 14738-14739 | Added on Tuesday, 2 March 2021 14:57:20 But Bob Asher had told him something that came to him now: “Moral failure begins with the smallest compromise.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1211 | location 16249-16249 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 09:00:09 The other thing, John, is thanks for making family such a priority in our lives. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1265 | location 17001-17003 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:33:47 All of that can get us by, and to the world we can look like we’re doing pretty well. But without family, it’s a lonely life we come home to. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1265 | location 17001-17003 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:33:56 Not fame or success or wealth or popularity, not having the right job or the right car or the right clothes. All of that can get us by, and to the world we can look like we’re doing pretty well. But without family, it’s a lonely life we come home to. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1266 | location 17005-17006 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:34:32 Churches are supposed to be families, and whether you have one waiting for you at home or not, becoming part of a church family will make your life rich. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1266 | location 17007-17008 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:35:07 but who gather around the dinner table with you each night or show up at birthdays and Christmastime. Think about those people. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1266 | location 17009-17009 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:35:28 God has put your family members in your life for a reason. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1266 | location 17012-17012 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:35:49 They need our time, our touch, and our testimony ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1267 | location 17022-17023 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:37:58 It was supposed to be a day with the kids, time to make memories together and appreciate the sights at the park. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1267 | location 17026-17027 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:38:19 A pat on the back, a hand hold, a hug—these are very real ways to communicate love. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1268 | location 17033-17035 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:39:38 Every one of you reading this has a story, something you’ve overcome or a lesson you’ve learned. A journey of faith. Take time to work your history into the conversations you have with your families. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1268 | location 17040-17041 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 17:40:33 pray for you daily, that God would use the power of story to deepen your faith and change your relationships. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1268 | location 17042-17043 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 21:40:30 pray this finds you healthy and happy and drawing closer to the families you’re a part of. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1268 | location 17042-17043 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 21:40:38 pray this finds you healthy and happy and drawing closer to the families you’re a part of. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1268 | location 17042-17043 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 21:40:44 I pray this finds you healthy and happy and drawing closer to the families you’re a part of. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1230 | location 16529-16529 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 21:44:17 Spend two days staring at the water and making a list.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1230 | location 16531-16533 | Added on Wednesday, 3 March 2021 21:44:30 “So I figure out what matters most and then what?” There was a smile in Bob’s voice. “Then you spend the rest of your life going after it.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1371 | location 18387-18389 | Added on Tuesday, 9 March 2021 10:20:37 Having an affair isn’t the answer.” She lifted her shoulders and let them fall. “What is?” Here was his chance to be a light, like he’d read about in the Bible earlier that week. He took a swig of his coffee and set his cup down. “The answer is God, Randi. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1371 | location 18387-18389 | Added on Tuesday, 9 March 2021 10:20:47 Having an affair isn’t the answer.” She lifted her shoulders and let them fall. “What is?” Here was his chance to be a light, like he’d read about in the Bible earlier that week. He took a swig of his coffee and set his cup down. “The answer is God, Randi. Placing your faith in Him.” His tone was serious. He was tired of dancing around the truth. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1488 | location 19982-19983 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 13:01:16 God was always faithful, whether a person was in a season of blessing or a season of growing, whether in triumphs or trials. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1495 | location 20074-20075 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 15:58:44 At the top it said Ten Secrets to a Happy Marriage—from Mom. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1496 | location 20086-20087 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:01:57 Be patient. Love crumbles quickly under the weight of unmet expectations. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1496 | location 20078-20079 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:02:29 1. God has you here to serve one another. Love acted out is serving. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1496 | location 20079-20081 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:02:35 2. Women need respect and nurturing. Love your wife so she knows you’d lay your life down for her. Continue to date her and admire her. Share a hobby—find something you can do to have fun together. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1496 | location 20081-20082 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:02:41 3. Laugh often. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1496 | location 20086-20087 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:02:49 4. Be patient. Love crumbles quickly under the weight of unmet expectations. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1496 | location 20088-20089 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:02:54 5. Spend more time trying to fix yourself than your spouse. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1497 | location 20089-20091 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:02:58 6. Keep short accounts. The Bible says, “Do not let the sun go down while you are angry.” Make it a habit to forgive. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1497 | location 20091-20092 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:03:10 7. Determine up front that divorce is not an option. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1497 | location 20092-20095 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:03:15 8. Learn about love languages. Not all people show love or receive it the same way. You want a back rub and your spouse wants a clean kitchen. The love languages are fairly simple: acts of service, time, physical touch, gifts, and words of affirmation. Learn them. Love is better received when it’s in the language that person speaks. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1497 | location 20095-20096 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:03:18 9. Words of affirmation are a love language for all men. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1497 | location 20096-20098 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:03:24 10. Men are born to be leaders. He cannot lead unless she gives him the confidence to do so. If you love your husband, build him up. Confident men do not seek love outside the home. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1500 | location 20136-20137 | Added on Wednesday, 10 March 2021 16:18:50 Change could come only if she acted out of love for Christ, believing that in the process He would give her the marriage she dreamed about. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1358 | location 18201-18203 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:35:07 Dayne felt a twinge of guilt. He could get his way with this argument, but it wasn’t the entire truth. His faith, his dedication to Katy—those were the real reasons ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1358 | location 18203-18203 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:36:00 But if he said so, Ross would never take him seriously again. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1358 | location 18203-18204 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:36:11 Hollywood didn’t look fondly on a principal actor or actress making requests for morality’s sake. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1358 | location 18205-18206 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:36:27 Again he felt like he wasn’t saying enough. God . . . they’ll think I’m weird. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1358 | location 18205-18206 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:36:38 Again he felt like he wasn’t saying enough. God . . . they’ll think I’m weird. “No one lights a lamp and hides it in a jar.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1358 | location 18205-18207 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:36:49 Again he felt like he wasn’t saying enough. God . . . they’ll think I’m weird. “No one lights a lamp and hides it in a jar.” The verse sliced through his conscience. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1359 | location 18211-18211 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:37:55 But the man kept quiet about the Lord day after day. “Someday, God,” he’d say at night when he prayed. “Someday.” ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1359 | location 18215-18216 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:38:39 Then and there he had promised God that he wouldn’t wait, that he would shine the light of Christ’s truth and grace whenever he had the chance. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1359 | location 18219-18220 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:39:01 And now here he was, hiding the light again. He swallowed hard. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1360 | location 18227-18229 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:39:56 Dayne thanked Ross, but when he was out in the hall, when the door was shut behind him, he leaned hard against the wall and closed his eyes. He’d had the perfect chance to be a light, to tell the man the truth. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1360 | location 18230-18231 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 09:40:23 Instead Dayne had taken the low road, the easy way out. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1362 | location 18253-18253 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 13:04:45 Here was another chance to be a light. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1591 | location 21320-21322 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 13:25:14 The lesson is one God gives us throughout the Bible. Love one another. Love through forgiveness and love through service. Keep short accounts and don’t let a bitter root grow. If we’re going to love the way Jesus wants us to love, then we need to let go of the hurts from our past and let God bring about healing. ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1592 | location 21325-21326 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 13:25:48 It’s at the end of any story that we must all ask how it applies to us, what we can take away from it. So what about you? ========== The Firstborn Collection: Fame / Forgiven / Found / Family / Forever (Baxter Family Drama—Firstborn Series) (Kingsbury, Karen) - Your Highlight on page 1594 | location 21363-21364 | Added on Thursday, 11 March 2021 13:30:24 But I am enjoying every minute all the same, trying to remember the lessons from Forever—love one another through forgiveness and service. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 149-151 | Added on Friday, 2 April 2021 21:50:02 I’ve watched myself return persistently to the sources which are no source. For example, when wanting to get revitalized from a draining day, we will look to television, as though its distractions will renew us—only to be left empty for the umpteenth time. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 149-151 | Added on Friday, 2 April 2021 21:50:19 I’ve watched myself return persistently to the sources which are no source. For example, when wanting to get revitalized from a draining day, we will look to television, as though its distractions will renew us—only to be left empty for the umpteenth time. Or, we will attend a church service ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 149-152 | Added on Friday, 2 April 2021 21:50:26 I’ve watched myself return persistently to the sources which are no source. For example, when wanting to get revitalized from a draining day, we will look to television, as though its distractions will renew us—only to be left empty for the umpteenth time. Or, we will attend a church service in the hope that the preacher’s walk with God will infuse us with fresh energy for the journey. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 149-153 | Added on Friday, 2 April 2021 21:50:32 I’ve watched myself return persistently to the sources which are no source. For example, when wanting to get revitalized from a draining day, we will look to television, as though its distractions will renew us—only to be left empty for the umpteenth time. Or, we will attend a church service in the hope that the preacher’s walk with God will infuse us with fresh energy for the journey. But deep down we know that sermons and teachings, although edifying, can never replace the carrying power we find when we sit at His feet and hear His word for ourselves. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 156-157 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 11:58:58 When we learn to dwell in the secret place of the Most High, we are positioning ourselves to discover the key to true kingdom fruitfulness. Reproductive power is unlocked in the shadow of the Almighty ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 167-169 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:01:30 It’s an awesome secret: The call of God burning in your breast will be uncontainable and unstoppable as you devote yourself to the fiery passion of intimate communion with the Lover of your soul. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 166-169 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:03:24 As you devote yourself to the secret place with God, He will birth something within you that will spread, in His time, to the four corners of your sphere. It’s an awesome secret: The call of God burning in your breast will be uncontainable and unstoppable as you devote yourself to the fiery passion of intimate communion with the Lover of your soul. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 166-167 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:03:42 As you devote yourself to the secret place with God, He will birth something within you that will spread, in His time, to the four corners of your sphere. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 11 | location 167-169 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:03:46 It’s an awesome secret: The call of God burning in your breast will be uncontainable and unstoppable as you devote yourself to the fiery passion of intimate communion with the Lover of your soul. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 12 | location 178-178 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:09:34 In fact, the first thing He taught concerning prayer was the primacy of the secret place. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 12 | location 184-185 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:11:16 Jesus gave us this secret in the above verse when He said, “Your Father who is in the secret place.” ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 191-192 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:12:45 To get there, all you have to do is shut your door! ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 192-193 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:12:58 Regardless of your soul’s climate at that moment, you know with absolute confidence you have stepped into the chamber of your Father in heaven. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 196-197 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:13:31 The knowledge of this truth will set your spirit free to soar. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Note on page 13 | location 196 | Added on Sunday, 4 April 2021 12:14:23 Thruth = freedom, from ever thining that His far away ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Note on page 13 | location 196 | Added on Sunday, 18 April 2021 14:03:16 Thruth = freedom, from ever thinking that He is far away ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 144-145 | Added on Monday, 19 April 2021 12:50:22 this present world system is strategically designed to squeeze out your time and energy for the secret place; the church usually focuses its best energies on getting saints busy; ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 145-147 | Added on Monday, 19 April 2021 12:50:33 and there seem to be relatively few believers whose secret life with God is so vibrantly life-giving that it kindles a contagious desire in others to follow their example. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Note on page 10 | location 147 | Added on Monday, 19 April 2021 12:54:22 I want to be the old man from "Did Not Our Hearts Burn" from Jess Ray ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 218-218 | Added on Monday, 26 April 2021 12:49:57 God has always designed that the secret place be a place ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 218-219 | Added on Monday, 26 April 2021 12:50:04 God has always designed that the secret place be a place where He answers us and speaks to us. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 220-221 | Added on Monday, 26 April 2021 12:50:16 We close the door to our secret place so that we might shut out all distracting voices and tune our hearts to the one voice which we long to hear. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 228-229 | Added on Monday, 26 April 2021 12:51:35 My paradigm of kingdom living was radically realigned because I was awakened to the fact that everything changes when I hear from God and act upon that word. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 130-131 | Added on Tuesday, 11 May 2021 22:54:53 “He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.” ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 132-133 | Added on Tuesday, 11 May 2021 23:08:32 The inference was that God would direct their steps related to their financial needs as they gave themselves to the intimacy of abiding in the presence of the Almighty. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 136-138 | Added on Tuesday, 11 May 2021 23:11:49 My earnest prayer is that with each devotional you will gain renewed momentum and a holy fascination to pursue the greatest pearl of human existence—a personal, intimate, passionate, living relationship with the glorious Creator of the universe. ========== A Morte de Ivan Ilitch (Tolstói, Leon) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 1049-1050 | Added on Sunday, 18 July 2021 01:21:50 “Mas, como, se eu sempre fiz o que devia fazer?”, ========== A Morte de Ivan Ilitch (Tolstói, Leon) - Your Highlight on page 64 | location 1049-1049 | Added on Sunday, 18 July 2021 01:23:00 “Talvez eu não tenha vivido como deveria,” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 105 | location 1186-1187 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:34:53 checking out the latest indie movie, having an apartment or house full of books, going to concerts, regular foreign travel, and fulfilling (as opposed to lucrative) vocations? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 111 | location 1264-1266 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:45:01 If you’re in a serious relationship, set aside at least two, and perhaps three, “talking” dates, just the two of you, at a restaurant, a park, or anyplace you can talk without being disturbed. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 111 | location 1264-1265 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:45:11 If you’re in a serious relationship, set aside at least two, and perhaps three, “talking” dates, ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 111 | location 1266-1266 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:45:20 Beforehand, take the time to write out a description of your ideal marriage style. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 112 | location 1276-1277 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:46:16 don’t try to make yourselves fit into each other’s lives. We find our fulfillment in God alone; ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 112 | location 1280-1281 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:46:59 You are accepting a life sentence because you don’t want to endure a difficult season. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 114 | location 1290-1291 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:48:46 Remember, your goal is to build a life together. If two builders are trying to build two different houses on the same foundation, that building is going to collapse. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 114 | location 1293-1294 | Added on Friday, 17 September 2021 14:50:26 giving God a chance of leading you toward someone who might be a better fit. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1326-1327 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 08:11:42 don’t enter the most difficult relationship of your life without doing so. Life is not going to be easy. Prepare for it to be really hard—twice as hard as you think it’s going to be. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 117 | location 1332-1332 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 08:14:53 Some people may want to be married to you, but they may not have what it takes. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 117 | location 1336-1337 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 08:15:39 Is the person you’re thinking about marrying capable of facing crises like the following? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 117 | location 1343-1344 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 08:16:48 A shockingly high percentage of marriages with severely disabled children end in divorce, because it’s not easy. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1362-1363 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:10:07 The spiritual capacity to hope, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles, is an essential quality in life ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1366-1366 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:11:53 the vast majority of you will have to navigate something else that will ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1366-1367 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:12:02 the vast majority of you will have to navigate something else that will test you to your core: having children. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 120 | location 1374-1376 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:13:42 The most significant act of love, however, takes place before they’re born. Before you agree to marry anyone, ask yourself, “Is this the best mother/father I can find for my children?” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 120 | location 1377-1378 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:17:17 For starters, what you’ll want more than anything else is for those babies to be with you for all eternity. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 121 | location 1394-1394 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:17:34 You’re choosing your kids’ future dad. Is this person worthy of that job? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 121 | location 1394-1395 | Added on Saturday, 18 September 2021 23:17:41 Is this person worthy of that job? Does he or she have what it takes? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 116 | location 1325-1327 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 16:50:04 Just as you wouldn’t try to scale a mountain without making sure you have what you need, don’t enter the most difficult relationship of your life without doing so. Life is not going to be easy. Prepare for it to be really hard—twice as hard as you think it’s going to be. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1361-1362 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 16:55:24 You don’t know what the future holds, but you can know the kind of character you’re marrying. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1366-1367 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 16:56:12 the vast majority of you will have to navigate something else that will test you to your core: having children. Does the person you’re planning on marrying have what it takes in this regard? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1366-1367 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 16:56:53 the vast majority of you will have to navigate something else that will test you to your core: having children. Does ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 119 | location 1366-1367 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 16:56:59 the vast majority of you will have to navigate something else that will test you to your core: having children. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 121 | location 1393-1394 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 17:00:09 You’re not just choosing a life partner. You’re choosing your kids’ future mom. You’re choosing your kids’ future dad. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 122 | location 1402-1403 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 17:02:17 you’re not just choosing your kids’ future parent, you’re choosing your kids’ future grandparents. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 122 | location 1403-1405 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 17:04:07 It’s a huge assist to have another couple who will actively pray for your child and who will speak and act in such a way that affirms what you’re trying to do at home ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 122 | location 1410-1411 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 17:09:36 Because both Rebecca and Jake come from strong families, two sets of grandparents were there, praying over little Molly, reading Scripture to her, and singing songs of worship along with her parents. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 125 | location 1438-1439 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 17:10:02 You have a chance—one opportunity—to choose such a legacy for yourself and for your children. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 126 | location 1452-1453 | Added on Wednesday, 22 September 2021 17:21:15 Or does your potential spouse barely qualify on his or her own and have a nightmare extended family as well? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 126 | location 1450-1451 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:16:06 Never forget: you’re building a family. To make a wise investment, you need to consider the other “partners.” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1464-1464 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:18:35 Consider marrying a certain kind of Christian, one with a humble spirituality ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1464-1465 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:21:16 Does your Christian pray? Not just in church and not just with you, but on his or her own? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1466-1467 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:21:31 You’ll be married to someone who isn’t opening themselves up to God’s conviction, encouragement, and support ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 127 | location 1470-1471 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:21:44 Is your potential future spouse a student of the Bible? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 128 | location 1474-1475 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:22:40 Finally, by “humble” spirituality I mean, does your Christian understand he or she is not perfect and needs to grow? ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 128 | location 1479-1479 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:24:06 Worse, you’ll be married to someone who doesn’t even think he or she needs to change ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1486-1488 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:26:24 He might be a great guy, but for my daughters I’d take an average guy who is growing in God over a great guy who is spiritually stagnant any day, because it’s only a matter of time until that average guy starts treating his wife like gold and the great guy becomes a little less so. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1486-1488 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:26:31 He might be a great guy, but for my daughters I’d take an average guy who is growing in God over a great guy who is spiritually stagnant any day, because it’s only a matter of time until that average guy starts treating his wife like gold and the great guy becomes a little less so. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 129 | location 1490-1490 | Added on Thursday, 23 September 2021 16:27:02 So, to sum it all up: ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 131 | location 1521-1523 | Added on Friday, 24 September 2021 08:24:16 But a strong, intimate, God-honoring marriage that leads to a lifelong partnership and that fosters a sense of oneness? That’s something you make, and it takes a long time to make. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 132 | location 1524-1524 | Added on Friday, 24 September 2021 08:24:22 good marriage isn’t something you find, it’s something you make. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 132 | location 1524-1524 | Added on Friday, 24 September 2021 08:24:30 a good marriage isn’t something you find, it’s something you make. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 132 | location 1526-1528 | Added on Friday, 24 September 2021 08:28:39 Intimacy is created stitch by stitch, through verbal sharing, dedicated praying, acts of love and service, expressions of commitment, and building increased understanding through regular communication and by experiencing life together. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 133 | location 1539-1540 | Added on Friday, 24 September 2021 08:37:26 You are no longer evaluating this person; you are dedicated to sacrificially loving them. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 133 | location 1544-1545 | Added on Friday, 24 September 2021 08:44:00 choose someone who is both capable and willing to “climb Mount Everest,” ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 133 | location 1548-1549 | Added on Monday, 27 September 2021 09:20:24 You can’t expect a twenty-two-year-old to possess all of them in their full mature form, but you should see the foundations of these elements. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 134 | location 1554-1554 | Added on Monday, 27 September 2021 17:22:30 a humble person is someone who has experienced and is experiencing conviction of sin: ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 134 | location 1558-1558 | Added on Monday, 27 September 2021 17:23:46 No, you’re a good wife who has a sinful issue that needs attention. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 135 | location 1565-1566 | Added on Monday, 27 September 2021 17:27:01 Humility is the cornerstone of character and the foundation of a growing, intimate relationship ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 135 | location 1569-1569 | Added on Monday, 27 September 2021 17:28:34 A humble person: ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 136 | location 1575-1576 | Added on Monday, 27 September 2021 17:32:22 She is more concerned with walking in light and truth than with being right. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 136 | location 1578-1578 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 07:48:56 If you believe the Bible, you are going to stumble many times throughout your marriage (James 3:2). ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 136 | location 1585-1587 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 07:49:30 It’s hard to accept that we are going to hurt someone we love so much, but if we marry them, we will. That’s a biblical promise. Which means forgiveness is absolutely essential ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 137 | location 1592-1593 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 07:52:56 When you live together and raise a family together, sins become more apparent, more common, and more consequential. If that person ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 137 | location 1592-1593 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 07:53:02 When you live together and raise a family together, sins become more apparent, more common, and more consequential. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 138 | location 1604-1604 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:05:10 Unhealthy conflict resolution includes the silent ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 138 | location 1604-1604 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:05:26 Unhealthy conflict resolution includes the silent treatment or stonewalling—a pathetic, passive-aggressive ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 138 | location 1604-1606 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:05:39 Unhealthy conflict resolution includes the silent treatment or stonewalling—a pathetic, passive-aggressive refusal to act like a person in a relationship. Also unhealthy is any form of violence—threats, yelling, and any physical violence. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1627 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:06:35 Another form of unhealthy conflict resolution is to talk about your partner ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1627 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:06:40 Another form of unhealthy conflict resolution ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1627 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:06:46 Another form of unhealthy conflict resolution ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1627 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:06:54 Another form of unhealthy conflict resolution ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1627 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:07:09 Another form of unhealthy conflict ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1627 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:07:17 Another form of unhealthy conflict ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1627-1628 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:07:24 Another form of unhealthy conflict resolution is to talk about your partner before you talk to your partner. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1633-1634 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:08:55 But it is not healthy to confess wrongdoing when there is no wrongdoing to confess. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1635-1636 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:09:29 You want to find someone humble enough to admit personal failings, wise enough to recognize yours, and courageous enough to hold his or her ground if you are acting arrogantly and refusing to see your sin. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 140 | location 1636-1637 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 08:10:47 Finally, people who resolve conflict in a healthy way will be willing to seek a third opinion in the face of stalemate. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 141 | location 1645-1646 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 20:42:05 Intimacy is built through sharing, listening, understanding, and talking through issues. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 142 | location 1656-1656 | Added on Tuesday, 28 September 2021 20:44:03 I’d want to marry someone who knows how to pray, who practices prayer, and who is growing in prayer. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 142 | location 1660-1662 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 11:48:46 If someone is twenty-eight years old and doesn’t really have many or even any close connections, that’s a signal that person may not be very skilled at building intimate friendships. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 144 | location 1680-1681 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 11:55:52 Once the infatuation ends, relational skills are essential to take your marriage to the next level. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 148 | location 1713-1713 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 12:07:31 One issue I’ve noticed that fewer couples address today concerns gender roles. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 149 | location 1731-1732 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 12:11:44 Reasonable complementarians believe that the Bible describes this role more as one of responsibility than privilege, however. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 150 | location 1732-1733 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 12:12:32 The husband essentially becomes a living martyr in his commitment to and service for his wife (Eph. 5:25–33), and she becomes his helper. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 150 | location 1733-1733 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 12:19:21 Part of the man’s martyrdom is lovingly leading her. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 151 | location 1749-1751 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 12:23:07 Most of the common misconceptions about gender roles aren’t at a biblical level. Who handles finances, who cleans and cooks, who chooses where to go on vacation, or even what will constitute 99.9 percent of the general household decisions—biblical gender roles don’t usually speak to such issues. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 151 | location 1751-1753 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 12:27:24 But the notion of gender roles does affect marital expectations, how to raise children, what church you will attend, and how one views Scripture, all of which matters deeply. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1781-1782 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 13:15:32 In essence, God is giving you an opportunity for a “do-over” based on His Word, not your experience. ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1773-1773 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 13:16:30 Avoid rejecting the complementarian mind ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1773-1773 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 13:16:34 Avoid rejecting the complementarian mind ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1773-1773 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 13:16:41 Avoid rejecting the complementarian mind ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1777-1777 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 13:16:46 have seen a lot of unhealthy marriages, and ========== The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? (Thomas, Gary) - Your Highlight on page 153 | location 1773-1774 | Added on Wednesday, 29 September 2021 13:16:52 Avoid rejecting the complementarian mind-set simply because you’ve seen it abused. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2700 | location 124189-124191 | Added on Friday, 1 October 2021 10:02:41 fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2700 | location 124189-124194 | Added on Friday, 1 October 2021 10:02:51 fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with  cmy righteous right hand. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2136 | location 95762-95763 | Added on Tuesday, 5 October 2021 08:06:05 in his word I hope; ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2136 | location 95758-95763 | Added on Tuesday, 5 October 2021 23:27:57 I  jwait for the LORD,  kmy soul waits, and  lin his word I hope; ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 1949 | location 85143-85147 | Added on Wednesday, 6 October 2021 23:56:55 And those who  tknow your name put their trust in you, for you, O LORD, have not forsaken those who seek you. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2064 | location 91553-91555 | Added on Thursday, 7 October 2021 23:26:25 For a day  hin your courts is better than a thousand elsewhere. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2063 | location 91510-91517 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 22:57:44 My soul  tlongs, yes,  ufaints for the courts of the LORD; my heart and flesh sing for joy to  vthe living God. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221356-221356 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:12:33 Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221355-221356 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:12:41 4 pRejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221359-221367 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:15:35 6 rdo not be anxious about anything,  sbut in everything by prayer and supplication  twith thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And  uthe peace of God,  vwhich surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note on page 4644 | location 221356 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:32:33 The next verses presents to us 3 parts on how to do this ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221359-221359 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:32:43 The Lord is at hand; ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note on page 4644 | location 221359 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:34:11 #1: we cant rejoice in the lord if we dont understand that God itself is near us ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221361-221367 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:34:43 sbut in everything by prayer and supplication  twith thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And  uthe peace of God,  vwhich surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221359-221361 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:34:59 6 rdo not be anxious about anything, ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note on page 4644 | location 221361 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:36:13 This is an order! Why? Anxiousness steals the joy in our hearts ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4644 | location 221359-221367 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:36:46 6 rdo not be anxious about anything,  sbut in everything by prayer and supplication  twith thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And  uthe peace of God,  vwhich surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note on page 4644 | location 221363 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:40:09 2#: the remedy for our anxious heart is this! Less anxiousness, more joy in the Lord ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Note on page 4644 | location 221366 | Added on Tuesday, 12 October 2021 23:42:31 Grace is something that we can hardly understand. This same grace takes form in this peace that does not simply comes to us, but GUARD us like a soldier ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2156 | location 96862-96862 | Added on Thursday, 14 October 2021 22:56:52 takes pleasure in those who fear ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2155 | location 96857-96877 | Added on Sunday, 17 October 2021 23:43:32 10 His delight is not in  cthe strength of the horse, nor his pleasure in the legs of a man, 11 but the LORD  dtakes pleasure in those who fear him, in those who  ehope in his steadfast love. 12 Praise the LORD, O Jerusalem! Praise your God, O Zion! 13 For he strengthens  fthe bars of your gates; he blesses your children within you. 14 He  gmakes peace in your borders; he  hfills you with the  ifinest of the wheat. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2155 | location 96857-96865 | Added on Sunday, 17 October 2021 23:43:39 10 His delight is not in  cthe strength of the horse, nor his pleasure in the legs of a man, 11 but the LORD  dtakes pleasure in those who fear him, in those who  ehope in his steadfast love. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2075 | location 92157-92160 | Added on Monday, 18 October 2021 23:15:50 12  nSo teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2074 | location 92103-92107 | Added on Monday, 18 October 2021 23:17:45 90 Lord, you have been our  udwelling place [1] in all generations. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2075 | location 92187-92191 | Added on Tuesday, 19 October 2021 22:41:11 91 He who dwells in  athe shelter of the Most High will abide in  bthe shadow of the Almighty. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2077 | location 92327-92331 | Added on Thursday, 21 October 2021 23:45:50 13 They are planted in the house of the LORD; they flourish in  ythe courts of our God. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2079 | location 92424-92428 | Added on Monday, 25 October 2021 23:40:26 12  hBlessed is the man whom you  idiscipline, O LORD, and whom you teach out of your law, ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2079 | location 92453-92460 | Added on Tuesday, 26 October 2021 22:31:16 18 When I thought,  t“My foot slips,” your steadfast love, O LORD,  uheld me up. 19 When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2082 | location 92609-92614 | Added on Tuesday, 2 November 2021 23:34:13 The LORD reigns,  ylet the earth rejoice; let the many  zcoastlands be glad! ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2089 | location 93040-93043 | Added on Thursday, 18 November 2021 23:02:44 8 The LORD is  jmerciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2089 | location 93048-93051 | Added on Thursday, 18 November 2021 23:08:24 10 He does not deal with us  maccording to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2089 | location 93081-93091 | Added on Thursday, 18 November 2021 23:10:11 17 But  ythe steadfast love of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting on  pthose who fear him, and his righteousness to  zchildren’s children, 18 to those who  akeep his covenant and  bremember to do his commandments. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2091 | location 93153-93156 | Added on Sunday, 28 November 2021 23:53:52 The mountains rose, the valleys sank down to the place that you  cappointed for them. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2093 | location 93297-93301 | Added on Monday, 29 November 2021 23:43:56 4 Seek the LORD and his  xstrength; yseek his presence continually! ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2096 | location 93507-93511 | Added on Tuesday, 30 November 2021 23:18:47 6  pBoth we and  qour fathers have sinned; we have committed iniquity; we have done wickedness. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2101 | location 93747-93751 | Added on Monday, 6 December 2021 22:54:12 For he  rsatisfies the longing soul, sand the hungry soul he fills with good things. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2101 | location 93738-93742 | Added on Monday, 6 December 2021 22:54:29 He led them by  pa straight way till they reached  ma city to dwell in. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2108 | location 94152-94156 | Added on Wednesday, 15 December 2021 23:24:02 Great are the  sworks of the LORD, tstudied by all who delight in them. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2108 | location 94152-94156 | Added on Wednesday, 15 December 2021 23:24:11 2 Great are the  sworks of the LORD, tstudied by all who delight in them. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2109 | location 94225-94230 | Added on Wednesday, 15 December 2021 23:26:11 7 He is not  tafraid of bad news; his  uheart is firm,  vtrusting in the LORD. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2109 | location 94217-94220 | Added on Wednesday, 15 December 2021 23:26:32 5 It is well with the man who  qdeals generously and lends; who conducts his affairs with justice. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2110 | location 94271-94277 | Added on Friday, 17 December 2021 01:19:05 Who is like the LORD our God, who is seated on high, 6 who  llooks far down on the heavens and the earth? ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2110 | location 94270-94277 | Added on Friday, 17 December 2021 01:19:13 5  kWho is like the LORD our God, who is seated on high, 6 who  llooks far down on the heavens and the earth? ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4619 | location 220023-220024 | Added on Thursday, 30 December 2021 13:11:22 10and  ftry to discern what is pleasing to the Lord. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 2063 | location 91505-91517 | Added on Monday, 21 March 2022 19:32:26 How  rlovely is your  sdwelling place, O LORD of hosts! 2 My soul  tlongs, yes,  ufaints for the courts of the LORD; my heart and flesh sing for joy to  vthe living God. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 208-210 | Added on Saturday, 2 April 2022 12:52:25 Those who hear this word and do it will not only enjoy intimacy with the Father on a daily basis, but they will also be equipped to sustain the greatest storms—whether they originate from hell’s fury or the world’s distractions or the floodgates ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 208-209 | Added on Saturday, 2 April 2022 12:52:33 Those who hear this word and do it will not only enjoy intimacy with the Father on a daily basis, but they will also be equipped to sustain the greatest storms ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 225-226 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:20:17 I realized that everything in the kingdom depends upon whether or not we hear the word of God. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 234-235 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:21:55 Things don’t change when I talk to God; things change when God talks to me. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 234-235 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:22:02 I’ve discovered that He has more important things to say than I do. Things don’t change when I talk to God; things change when God talks to me. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 237-237 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:27:19 Most days I come away with unfulfilled longings, ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 237-238 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:27:22 Most days I come away with unfulfilled longings, unrequited initiatives, unanswered prayers, unrealized aspirations, deferred hopes, and incomplete understandings. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 237-238 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:31:25 Most days I come away with unfulfilled longings, unrequited initiatives, unanswered prayers, unrealized aspirations, deferred hopes, and incomplete understandings. But then ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 237-239 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:31:32 Most days I come away with unfulfilled longings, unrequited initiatives, unanswered prayers, unrealized aspirations, deferred hopes, and incomplete understandings. But then along comes one of those days ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 242-242 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:32:45 If He doesn’t speak to me, my time spent in silent ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 242-243 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:33:03 If He doesn’t speak to me, my time spent in silent listening is not futile or in vain. I haven’t missed something or failed to connect. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 245-246 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:33:15 But I can position myself in the secret place so that, when He chooses to speak, I am found listening. ========== Secrets of the Secret Place (Sorge, Bob) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 247-248 | Added on Sunday, 10 April 2022 13:35:39 We make the choice by setting aside time to listen quietly. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4766 | location 227087-227089 | Added on Saturday, 16 April 2022 10:49:44 14For by a single offering  mhe has perfected for all time those who are being sanctified. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4766 | location 227100-227102 | Added on Saturday, 16 April 2022 10:51:02 18Where there is forgiveness of these, there is no longer any offering for sin. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4767 | location 227131-227138 | Added on Saturday, 16 April 2022 10:53:04 26For  dif we go on sinning deliberately  eafter receiving the knowledge of the truth,  fthere no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, 27 gbut a fearful expectation of judgment, and  ha fury of fire that will consume the adversaries. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4768 | location 227179-227181 | Added on Saturday, 16 April 2022 10:55:01 39But we are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who have faith and preserve their souls. ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4765 | location 227047-227048 | Added on Saturday, 16 April 2022 11:06:31 2Otherwise, would they not have ceased to be offered, since the worshipers, having once been cleansed, would no longer have ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4765 | location 227047-227048 | Added on Saturday, 16 April 2022 11:06:38 2Otherwise, would they not have ceased to be offered, since the worshipers, having once been cleansed, would no longer have any consciousness of sins? ========== The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (with Cross-References) (Bibles, Crossway) - Your Highlight on page 4280 | location 202829-202831 | Added on Saturday, 30 July 2022 12:12:26 55But he,  nfull of the Holy Spirit, gazed into heaven and saw  othe glory of God, ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 80-81 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 11:42:28 It’s about creating an environment where life has a chance to spread and organically and naturally extend itself in every direction ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 8 | location 89-90 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 11:45:39 What we imagine or dream about regarding the kind of group we hope for will shape the way we form our groups. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 9 | location 106-107 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 11:47:45 Some of the conclusions seemed to go against logic and challenge common understanding about what makes a group work well. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 112-112 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 11:49:59 the best leaders are team players ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 10 | location 112-113 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 11:50:16 The best way to multiply a group is to develop each member’s potential. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 12 | location 152-153 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 11:57:58 While he was leading this part of the meeting, he only talked about thirty percent of the time. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 169-172 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:02:11 Although he had scrutinized the Bible passage over and over, he led the group to dig up the treasures for themselves. He peppered each person with questions that forced them to delve into the text. He placed the burden in the middle of the group and others picked it up. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 172-173 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:02:51 Self-sufficient leaders kill group life! ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 174-175 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:08:52 recognize the Holy Spirit in each member and release them for ministry ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 178-178 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:09:19 Members take ownership for the vision and direction of the ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 13 | location 178-178 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:09:23 Members take ownership for the vision and direction of the group ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 185-186 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:10:33 Those leaders who actively engage their members, delegate responsibility, and instill the “our group” mentality were far more likely to produce new leaders and new groups ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 188-188 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:10:50 Facilitator describes the leader’s role of empowering each member to develop and grow. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 189-195 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:11:21 Facilitators encourage people to step out, attempt new things, and even embrace the idea of making mistakes while they share, use their gifts, and contribute to the life of the group. When facilitators leave the group, members have the confidence to continue the group through the help of the Holy Spirit. Above all else, the members have learned to depend on God. When Brent first stepped into the home group, he was a mess—fearful, nervous, and self-conscious. He was not accustomed to communicating with others and felt like he had little to share. Over the years of sitting in church on Sunday, he had become conditioned to sit, hear, nod his head, talk to a few people after the church worship service, and then go home. He loved Jesus but had little community and interaction with others. When ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 189-190 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:11:53 Facilitators encourage people to step out, attempt new things, and even embrace the idea of making mistakes while they share, use their gifts, and contribute to the life of the group. When ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 14 | location 189-190 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:11:58 Facilitators encourage people to step out, attempt new things, and even embrace the idea of making mistakes while they share, use their gifts, and contribute to the life of the group. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 15 | location 202-203 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:12:41 Groups that involve everyone don’t have a problem keeping their people. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 16 | location 206-207 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:12:50 One reason is because the facilitator is quick to ask, “what do the rest of you think?” ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 16 | location 207-208 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:13:02 The fact is: people want to be a part of “our” group, not “your” group. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 227-228 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:16:37 They freely shared their weaknesses and struggles with their small groups. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 17 | location 233-234 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:17:15 The Coles simply participate like the rest of the group and stay mostly behind the scenes. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 18 | location 243-244 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 12:19:28 Leaders gain vital experience as they make mistakes, reflect on them, and chart mid-course corrections. The small group is the perfect laboratory for developing leadership. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 19 | location 262-262 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:09:41 Christ knew that theoretical information separated from practical experience would have little lasting value. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 279-280 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:11:44 Look for opportunities to use your gifts. Just remember that the group meeting is not the place to practice this gift! ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 279-280 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:11:49 Just remember that the group meeting is not the place to practice this gift! ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 280-282 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:12:12 The small group focus is the personal application of Bible knowledge to daily life. It’s a time when confession, inner healing, transparent sharing and renewal happen. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 288-289 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:14:40 definition of “facilitator” is to make easy. The role of the facilitator is to make it easy for others to participate ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 20 | location 289-289 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:14:45 The role of the facilitator is to make it easy for others to participate ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 314-315 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:17:45 The best group leaders are facilitators who transparently share their lives with those in their groups, praying always that Christ will be formed in a new way within each person. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 316-318 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:18:27 A facilitator’s job description focuses more on guiding the communication process, praying for members, calling, visiting, and reaching the lost for Christ. Facilitators are trained to guide discussions, encourage others, and grow with the rest of the group. ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 22 | location 320-320 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:23:19 A “facilitator,” on the other hand, is a servant of the group, ========== Groups that Thrive: 8 Surprising Discoveries About Life-Giving Small Groups (Comiskey, Joel ) - Your Highlight on page 23 | location 353-354 | Added on Tuesday, 2 August 2022 18:24:45 People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. ==========