mgr: limit changes to pg_num

[liewegas]

We need to avoid making drastic changes to pg_num that outpace pgp_num or
else we will may hit the per-osd pg limits.

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/53442

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[kamoltat]

LGTM