Fix spine's crash due to destroy called after animation play complete.

[bofeng-song]

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• changes public API, and have ensured backward compatibility with deprecated features.
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[bofeng-song]

Node destroy maybe called while trigger update, but skeleton still exist at _updateList, thus skeletonAnimation will visit a destroyed object.

[dumganhar]

@cocos-robot run test cases

[github-actions]

Code Size Check Report

Wechat (WASM)	Before	After	Diff
2D Empty (legacy pipeline)	1001884 bytes	1001884 bytes	✅ 0 bytes
2D All (legacy pipeline)	2408866 bytes	2408866 bytes	✅ 0 bytes
2D All (new pipeline)	2498355 bytes	2498355 bytes	✅ 0 bytes
(2D + 3D) All	5381005 bytes	5381005 bytes	✅ 0 bytes

Web (WASM + ASMJS)	Before	After	Diff
(2D + 3D) All	16604469 bytes	16604469 bytes	✅ 0 bytes

Interface Check Report

This pull request does not change any public interfaces !

[github-actions]

@bofeng-song, Please check the result of run test cases:

• Test Platform: PR-Test
• Editor Version: v3.8.6
• Task Result: FAIL
• Task URL: https://cctest.cocos.org/#/reportview/PR-TEST/f59b7cd1-6b00-404e-8f4c-858b0944d06c/-1
• GitHub Action: https://github.com/cocos/cocos-engine/actions/runs/13368166502

Task Details

Platform	build	boot	runned	crashScene	FailScene
web-mobile	PASS	PASS	FAIL
ios	PASS	PASS	FAIL
mac	PASS	PASS	FAIL		reflection-probe

[github-actions]

@bofeng-song, Please check the result of run test cases:

• Test Platform: PR-Test
• Editor Version: v3.8.6
• Task Result: PASS
• Task URL: https://cctest.cocos.org/#/reportview/PR-TEST/6a2634ca-ee6e-4b27-aa57-c5a8c4737ac9/-1
• GitHub Action: https://github.com/cocos/cocos-engine/actions/runs/13368166502

Task Details

[dumganhar]

Merge for daily build. Probably we need to refactor the code later.