Let's play a little game. I'll describe someone and you try to guess who it is.
Ok. I'm really bored at the moment.
Ok. This man is tall and slim. He's got blue eyes and curly brown hair.
Does he have a moustache or a beard?
Good question. Yes, he has a moustache, but no beard.
Sounds like Mike, is it?
Yes, it is. You describe someone we both know.
Right. She's not very tall and she's quite plump. She's got blonder hair, but I don't know what color her eyes are.
Is she attractive? I don't think I know anyone like that.
Well, I don't find her attractive, but I'm sure you will disagree.
I like slim girls, so I doubt I would find a plump girl attractive. You'll have to give me some more information.
She's got tiny feet and wears really unfashionable shoes. In fact, she wears unfashionable clothes too.
This doesn't sound like anyone I know. I give up. Teel me who she is.
She's your mother!
How embarrassing! I don't even recognize a description of my own mother! How important do you think appearance is?
I think that unfortunately it's more important than a person's character. Advertising and stuff tells us that we have to be attractive. I think it's wrong, but that's the way the world is now.
I'm afraid you're right. I chose my girlfriend because she has a wonderful personality.
Well, you certainly didn't choose her because of her looks! Hey, I was joking! Don't hit me!