chore: bump arrow and tonic

[sundy-li]

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This pull request's title is not fulfill the requirements. @sundy-li please update it 🙏.

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[sundy-li]

flaky tests about sharing: https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/actions/runs/4689069723/jobs/8310584277?pr=11059

cc @lichuang