Tally should update on add/remove, not all events

[frzyc]

This is more of a nit to how we do this in GO, I think these gets rerendered every time we change an artifact/relic, but it should rerender every time an artifact/relic is added/removed (since it only display the total).

It make sense to use the DataManagerCallback.reason string, and check against 'remove' | 'new'. Would also make sense to store total as a state instead of useForceUpdate, so when total is set as the same value again, it doesnt trigger a revalue.

Originally posted by @frzyc in #2025 (comment)

Psudocode:

const [tally, setTally] = useState(database.relics.length)
useEffect(()=>databse.relics.followAny((_,reason)=>['remove','new'].includes(reason) && setTally(database.relics.length),[database])

Example implementation #2061

[AlexVascon]

@frzyc I'm happy to look at this for you if that's ok?

[frzyc]

Thanks, let me know if you have any questions