alternate release pom: release.xml
updated dependency to JActor 3.1.0
Conforms to the new API for requests.
Now depends on 3.1.0-RC1-SNAPSHOT
Removed bogus host & port from JANettyService
Added remoteHost and remotePort to JANettyService.
Simplification: there is only one Protocol1 instance per port.
Added com to incoming request
Split RemoteRequest into OutgoingRequest and IncomingRequest
Dropped protocol registry from JACom--not needed.
Updated pom file
fix grammar in README
mention project's alpha-state in README
first batch of code