[9.x] Add new DetectLostConnections for Vapor with Octane and Proxy RDS

[d8vjork]

As we're receiving a lot of Sentry errors since we moved our Vapor application to Octane

I create this PR to ensure that these queries get retried before we ignore this kind of exceptions from being reported to our Sentry.

Example:

Illuminate\Database\QueryException
PDO::prepare(): SSL: Operation timed out (SQL: select * from `processes` where (exists (select * from `workspaces` where `processes`.`workspace_id` = `workspaces`.`id` and (`workspaces`.`id` = ... or `workspaces`.`slug` = ...) and `workspaces`.`deleted_at` is null) and `is_shared` = 1 and `slug` like %-preview) and `processes`.`deleted_at` is null order by `created_at` desc limit 31)