seems to goof up when talking to windows clients? haven't validated.
Adding this via setsockopt in conn_listening case would be easily done, no?
Can be done easily. Someone needs to validate and document that it's necessary and fixes the reported problem. I don't have windows anywhere so my best option would be internet digging.
I have a windows machine, but I'm not sure about a "client" for windows except maybe the php memcached dll