Emit internal events on stream consume and cancel (backport #13105)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #13105 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   deps/rabbit/src/rabbit_stream_queue.erl
	new file:   deps/rabbit/test/rabbit_list_test_event_handler.erl
	modified:   deps/rabbit/test/rabbit_stream_queue_SUITE.erl
	modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/src/rabbit_stream_metrics.erl
	modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/src/rabbit_stream_reader.erl
	new file:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/test/rabbit_list_test_event_handler.erl

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add <file>..." to mark resolution)
	both modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/test/rabbit_stream_SUITE.erl
	both modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/test/rabbit_stream_reader_SUITE.erl

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