I feel like I am the most hated kind of American.
Why do you think you are hated?
I'm not very emotional and I let people die in my country that's why I'm hated
It does not feel good to be hated and you should try to change it so that you won't be hated. It could lead you to have a better life.
WTF you want me to help all the people?
You don't need to help all people. You could start in your local community and do some volunteer work or make a donation to a good cause. I doubt anyone likes to be hated.