I always have the urge to think men who are nice to women are disgusting.
I'm a nice guy, so does that make me disgusting to you?
You actually aren't that nice to women and you treat them like shit, so I don't really care what you say.
If that's what you think, so be it. I treat women with much respect as they should be, women are marginalized everywhere and deserve every ounce of niceness and respect they can get. They don't deserve any hate and anguish.
Shit, I mean women in general are disgusting and I really don't like when guys act nice. I think it's disgusting how all men can be sucked into that and play the role.
Again I disagree with your generalization of women and how men treat them. Having this mindset is going to be very detrimental to interacting with women socially. I would recommend talking to someone on why you have these thoughts, such as a therapist.