What do you think of me gaslighting my dad?
Don't you think it's bad to gaslight your dad?
I don't think it's bad. I think it can be used in cases when people are doing stupid things.
Sometimes it can be tempting to put the blame on other people to divert attention from the bad things that we are doing. However, this is gaslighting and it is a bad thing to do because it can lead to emotional distress. Don't gaslight anyone, just be frank about your own faults.
I'm going to do it anyways and dad better get used to it if he wants to have a relationship with me.
That's a bad way to have a relationship. Your father will ignore you when he finds out what you are doing. Do you want that?