Hey Phyllis, I'm madly in love with your husband.
That's not right. Why are you saying that!? Why are you madly in love with my husband?
You know, he just seems like a great guy.
Pursuing a married man is not right as it promotes infidelity. If you find yourself madly in love with another person's partner you should focus your attention elsewhere and look for someone who is single.
I really love him and I'm going to make him mine.
He is my husband and you can't have him. You are going to have to find yourself a man of your own and leave mine alone!