I'm going to tell my wife I want her to cook dinner and clean.
Is she not doing her share?
I have the right to have the house neat and orderly just like I have to always look neat and tidy.
I think it's important that you both contribute to the house chores so that you share the responssibilites.
So why should I have to do all the work?
Well, that is something you should discuss with your wife. Does she know how you feel? It's expected that both partners do their shares to help with the upkeep of everyday life. Perhaps she contributes in other ways that make up for the lack of chores she does around the house?