Do you think it's wrong to put myself on do not disturb on discord to make it seem like I actually have a life
What is the point in lying like to others? Is there a big reason?
No, I'm just depressed and lonely that's why I want to do that.
Depression is a hard thing to deal with, but you still shouldn't lie about it. Be honest of your situation and people will support you on it. There is no need to hide like this.
I'm not happy that my life is a mess, I'm going to tell them all.
I think that's a brave step to take. I'm sure if you tell your close friends that they'll step up and support you.