I kicked the mother of my children out of my building at 1am last night
Really? Why did you kick your partner out in the middle of the night?
Yes, she woke me up by banging the front door to my apartment at 1am.
I'm sure that was shocking and a bit frustrating having your sleep disturbed. However, it's likely that she wouldn't have come banging on your door so late unless it was something important. She may have really needed help with something and needed someone to talk to or a place to be.
She damaged my door and the wall when she was banging on it so that was it.
It sounds like something serious was going on if she banged on the door and wall so hard that it damaged it. I'm not sure why she was doing that, but talking to her to see what the problem was could have helped.