I'm not going to move out of home and take my cat.
What would cause you to leave your cat?
I don't want to hear my cat complaining on the way.
You have to help your cat with the transition, it isn't complaining. It is scared of what to expect. This is really not a human thing that cats do, they are animals who have different feelings, etc.
Alrite, you win. I'm going to take my cat with me and move out tonight coz it's going to change me.
That is good because abandoning your cat is not the right move. When you get a pet you are agreeing to take care of it, so having a sudden change of heart to abandon it is not a very moral thing to do. And you have always shown me morals before that you have had so why stop there.