I'm upset about my wife's job.
Why are you upset about the job? Do you want her to quit.
Yes but she doesn't want to.
If she enjoys her job it's insensitive of you to ask her to quit. It probably gives her a sense of purpose.
I think it's fine. She knows I have a lot of irons in the fire.
Why do you want her to quit? You should have a good reason not to support your wife's job.