I'm in love with a married woman, now what do I do?
Did you not know she was married?
I didn't, but I still love her anyway.
I understand you can't control who you are attracted to, but you need to move on. She is taken, and trying to insert yourself between her and her partner is wrong.
It is not as easy as you think to move on. If I could I would have already.
Married people have attachments to their spouses even if they cheat on them, too. You should either get a therapist to help you get out of this mess, or walk away on your own from the married woman. The latter might be a cheaper bet for you however.