I'm starting to hate my life because I work 60+ hours a week to provide for my family.
What is is that makes you want to work so much in a week?
I never wanted to live off welfare.
It is not good to hate your life. There should be some balance in your work life routine. Maybe you can cut back on expenses at home so you don't have to work as much.
I don't want to live off welfare and creating a start-up would be way too hard.
Working that much sounds very stressful and it's understandable that it's impacting your happiness. Perhaps there are ways to save money or find a better paying job that could allow you more time for your personal life and hobbies and such that give you pleasure.