I'm starting to hate my son
Why would you hate your son?
He somehow manages to be such an ugly kid and such a smartass
I don't feel like you should show such hate towards your own child. Even if you have issues with him, it's important that you show him love and support.
You're all a bunch of judgemental pricks.
I just don't think there should be any situation where you hate your own son. You should try to love the positives about him instead.