I'm angry at my friend because she doesn't appreciate the gift I got for her
For what occasion did you give her a gift?
It's an anniversary gift in honor of our friendship.
It is not realistic to expect for someone to go crazy every time you give them a gift. While it is a nice thought to even give someone a gift, it can still be something that they didnt necessarily want.
It's not about what she wanted. I think she should care more about me and consider my feelings more.
It would be polite of her to thank you for the gift. But once you give someone a gift, you have no control over how much they love it. The gift should be about them, and not about your feelings anyway.