Do you think it is wrong to not let my grandparents hold my newborn daughter because they won't get a flu shot despite no one else having the flu shot?
You don't want your grandparents to hold your daughter because of a flu shot?
I think the flu shot gave them both Alzheimer's.
It is nice to let grandparents hold and visit with their grandchildren. Family bonds are important for everyone.
Facts are bullshit, opinions are more important. I have the rights to decide what's best for my daughter.
While your grandparents will feel left out, it is up to you who gets to coddle your baby. You seem very protective of your baby and if your grandparents are physically unfit to hold the baby properly, then let them know your disapproval.