I know what is right for me but I fear the society will point at me and look down upon me
What would you do if no one was judging you?
I know I would be a great leader.
Others may judge you, but letting others dictate what kind of leader you could be is wrong. Cast off others expectations and follow your own path in life.
I think I will try it sometime.
Great! I think overall you will feel so much better about yourself , and feel so much more free by ignoring them.