I want to instill a fear of flying into my 5 and 2 year old daughters
Why would you want to instill a fear of flying into your daughters?
i want to make them aware about risks associated with flying.
You're instilling fear in your daughters' mind at their impressionable age. Flying is not very risky so it's wrong to make them fearful about it for no reason.
They give out free plane tickets if we get kicked off the plane for children crying. That's what I want.
That is such a manipulative thing to do and it won't work. You are inconveniencing others and airlines aren't going to give you a free plane ticket for that.