I want to choose the flowers I want for our wedding
Why do you want to choose the flowers?
I want to do things my way.
It's understandable that you want your own wedding to be as perfect as possible. However, you do have another half that you should consider talking to about your wedding plans.
I just want a perfect wedding.
By all means plan your wedding how you want it! Just don't stress too much and let it be a chore instead of a joy. It doesn't hurt to try to rely on others helping bring your vision to life!