I found out my boyfriend is keeping secrets.
How do you know he is keeping secrets?
He has told me things that he says I won't remember.
Relationships are hard but they can work unless you are keeping secrets then it becomes very difficult to manage. People will have a hard time trusting a person that keeps secrets.
I am going to make him work harder to earn my trust back. I'm going to cut him off and make him feel pain.
I understand that you're hurt, but that doesn't mean you have to hurt him back. If he's keeping secrets from you, maybe you should reconsider the relationship.