I'm going to refer to abortion as yeeting out the ball of cells to my infertile mother
Why would you talk about it in such a vulgar way?
I'm an awful person because I wanted to scold my mother
It is extremely rude to refer to a sensitive topic to offend someone on purpose.  It is wrong to scold people for things they cannot control with their body.
You just do not get it. I know for a fact that my mom can control this, she just does not want to put forth the effort.
I think that you could talk in a nicer way though. You should not say things like that that you know might offend the members of your family.