I feel like ending a degrading relationship.
What makes the relationship emotionally degrading?
He reports my every move and he is a terrible leader
Breaking up is the right thing to do when your partner is abusing you emotionally.  If you stay in an abusive relationship it can have a negative impact on your mental health and could cause you unwanted stress.
No, this is fine, I want to hurt my boyfriend.
You don't have to put up with it. Two wrongs doesn't make it right.