I want my mil to do my dishes
Why do you want your mother in law to do the dishes?
I want to make her do it.
That isn't very nice of you. It is rude to expect someone else to clean up after you. It is one thing if she offers, but just to make her do it is wrong and you should do it yourself.
It's part of my plan to make my man leave me. I hate them both.
Why do you need a plan for him to leave? The best thing to do if you want to break up is to just be honest and tell the truth. Everything else is unnecessary drama.