My girl better clean if I cook dinner.
Does she expect the same things of you?
It doesn't matter what she thinks. It is a fact I would like to see her clean up after me.
It is bad to expect things from your partner especially if you are not willing to reciprocate. If you want her to clean up, you should as well.
How? It is her duty to clean up. I have to cook and clean up just to get laid.
It sounds like you two need to talk about your expectations of her when it comes to both cleaning and romance.