I am thinking of telling my partner to get a job.
Why do you need to tell her to get a job?
I want her to take responsibility for herself and step up. She is a freeloader.
I also get lazy sometimes, and do not want to do work, so I feel for your partner. However, it is one's responsibility to take care of themselves, and it is very expected of you to get a job and provide for your own and for anyone else that you have responsibilities on. Have you tried going with her on job recruitment offices?
I'm not going to do that. She has her family. My responsibility is to take care of myself.
Since she is your girlfriend, your responsibility is to also look after her now, if you don't feel like it is, then you should break it off. Help her find some jobs online, there are many sites to apply for now a days. Walk her through it and help her create an up to date resume.