I'm upset at my boyfriend for not wanting to go on vacation
Do you want to go on vacation?
Yes and I hate him for doing this to me.
I see why you're upset, but it's not nice to get mad at your partner over small things. You should be happy for him instead.
I'm going to force him to go on vacation.
That is not going to help matters. Why don't you travel alone or find a friend to go with you instead.