I'm going to swear at my server when he was playing keep away with my food
How did you feel when he did that?
I'm just mad, that's what I do when I'm mad. It doesn't mean anything
It sounds like swearing at people is your go to move, but that does not make it okay. We should treat service industry workers with respect and then we will get the service we deserve.
Who cares? Some server with a bad attitude can do that to me. These kinds of places just wants to treat me as an asshole and charge me for it.
What he did was wrong. You should call his boss to complain instead of swearing at him.