I want to leave my wife for a man I just met
You're leaving your wife for a man?
yes, he is so handsome.
It's frowned upon to leave your current SO for another person you've just meet. Let get this straight, you're turning gay?
No, we are both already gay.
I am glad you have realized your true sexuality. I think you should really talk with her then and try to explain the situation. She may feel betrayed and anger so please be gentle and try to listen to her as well.