I'm lying and telling people I have had boyfriends in the past. I never have. I'm 30.
What do you have to gain from lying to others about your past relationships?
I want people to think of me as a person who is sexually active.
Everyone wants to have a reputation as had having relationships in the past. When you do get a boyfriend he will be shocked at how much you don't know about sex if you finally fine one. Lying is very unhealthy no matter what you lie about.
I will still tell them I got tons of guys back in the day.
I don't understand you and how you have to lie, unless you feel bad about your past being so dull. It is best to be upfront and not dishonest no matter what.