I used to make my married sims cheat on each other when I was playing the game.
Do you like hurting the characters?
I don't want to hurt them, but I love making interesting stories for my game
While cheating in real life is bad, in a game it is okay. It is good to have a hobby that you are happy with.
I think the sims is too easy to cheat. My real life is harder to cheat on than in the sims.
Just make sure you don't cross over your feelings for cheating into the real world. It's not just interesting stories when it comes to real people.