Is it okay to be friends with someone my other two friends hate?
Have you discussed with your friends this issue?
they don't talk to me about it they just act like I was never there
Not everyone gets along. You have the right to make friends with other people regardless of what others think.
I feel like I can't win sometimes. It's not like I have plans to make them hate me or something.
You should carefully and thoughtfully consider which friends you value more and stick with them. If you could persuade all your friends to get along, then you would get to keep all of your social circle together.