I realized that I have to do everything alphabetically
Interesting need. Have you alphabetized everything in your house?
I'm sorry to say this but my house doesn't have anything in alphabetical order
If you like to arrange things alphabetically, that is your prerogative. You should just be careful that you don't take your alphabetizing to an obsessive level.
I don't see what's so wrong with how I am. Sometimes I like to mix things up and begin with the first letter of the word.
Everyone has their own little quirks, so I believe it's best to not take offense to any of it! You can do things however you want in your house, as long as it makes you happy. Others might get quite impressed too to see how much work you put into it.