I think I'm judging people seeking help
Why would you judge someone that is trying to better themselves?
People seek help every time they got into trouble,
It usually takes a major event to want to change your life. You should not judge a person for wanting to be better.
But what are they doing wrong why they have to seek help. They should just figure out everything on their own.
It's a normal part of life to face challenges, that's what helps us to grow. Seeking help when you need it is wise and can ensure that a person makes the best choice possible for themself.