I want to tell my friend that she should get over her dead mom. I mean how long can she mourn for a person?
What makes you want to tell her to get over her dead mom? I am praying you are just making a sick joke. Even a sick joke is better than being honest that way.
Her mom was my friend who has been dead for a long time already.
Accept that you can't fix the situation or make your friend or relative feel better. Instead just be present and offer hope and a positive outlook toward the future.
It seems like the situation won't ever be fixed, she is such a drama queen.
Your friend is mourning longer but she was her mom. It takes longer to get over that than it is for a friend sometimes. Just make sure she is okay and try to do things together to have fun and cheer her up to help.