Next time we go to church, I'm just going to leave my Mom and brother there.
Why are you leaving them behind in a church?
Because I hate my mom and I'm tired of taking my brother
It is understandable being upset with your family but you shouldn't leave them behind. It will cause them problems to get home and cause somebody else to have to take them.
Don't tell me what to do, f*ck you.
There's no reason to get defensive about it, I'm only trying to help you. Next time when someone is offering a piece of good advise just take a second to think about it before blowing them off or lashing out. It could do you a lot of good.