Do you think I should skip thanksgiving and go to the hospital to see my boyfriend?
Why is your boyfriend in the hospital? Sorry to hear that.
My boyfriend has the flu. I've been given time off for this holiday so I want to see him instead.
I'm sorry he's not feeling well!  I'm sure everyone will understand that you want to support him since he's not doing so well.  Maybe you can have a makeup thanksgiving dinner at a later date?
I am spending Thanksgiving with someone who I care about. What is there to understand?
Yeah, I guess you are right since you care a lot about your boyfriend. It's really nice of you to sacrifice your family for him. It shows how much you love him, and I am sure your family will understand if you don't show up this year.