Can I tell my boyfriend that I don't want him enlisting as a marine?
What do you have against him enlisting in the Marines? People respect military people.
I want him to live longer for me.
It's important to support your partner in the decisions they make and give them the strength they need to get through this. Not everything about you so sit down and talk to them about your concerns and get their side of it too, so you can come to a mutual understanding.
He can talk to me after he decides to never enlist as a marine.
Please don't put him on the spot to choose between you and his dream of being a marine. It's unfair to him when all he wants is to serve his country. It's a huge honor, and I think you should be proud of him instead of caring only about what you want.