'm going to never invite my friend to my family's holiday
Are you going to invite everyone to the location?
No, just the people who are important to me.
If this is to be closer to your family then that's fine. Friends usually spend time with their own family during the holidays.
I am close with my family and I don't want my friend to meet them.
It is okay to want to keep your friends and family apart. It is also good that you care so much about your family to spend time with them.