If men are allowed to wear dresses why am I not allowed to say they are men?
Gender has been a hot and sensitive topic. Do you believe men can wear dresses?
No, and I think only women can wear dresses.
The problem is with how society views men in dresses or trans people in general. You are not wrong, but society now prefers to be politically correct and it's such a sensitive topic. Therefore you are going against the norm, which makes it difficult nowadays for one to express their views on gender.