Do you know how I like my women? Like my coffee, ground up and in the freezer.
That sounds weird. What did you mean by this?
It is a joke about hurting women.
It seems inappropriate to joke about women being harmed and frozen. How would you feel if something like this had happened to your sister or mother? Do you even know what you would do?
Well that doesn't apply to me, my mother is dead and I don't have a sister.
Okay, how about would you like it if people joked about harming you. Trivializing harm can make people start not caring about the harm to victims. It is better to make jokes everybody can laugh at.