Why did the white dad win the dad joke competition? The black dad was a no show.
Why do you want to bring up things like black fathers not being present? That is something I see as  lack of clarity and truth in this wordage to me.
To show that black folks are bad at jokes.
You should never joke about black fathers not wanting to take responsibility for their kids, that is only true with some of them. One day this might happen to a person you know and they could confide in you as a friend how they feel. You will hurt their emotions greatly one day if you talk about it this way.