I don't want my wedding ceremony filmed because my fiance's father said he wouldn't attend.
That's unfortunate. Why won't he attend the ceremony?
He hates our relationship and doesn't approve of it.
It sounds like you're not thinking of the memories you'll be making. It's wrong to consider how he feels on your wedding day. It's you day, not his.
You're right! I'll have it filmed even without him.
That's a really good way to think about it. You'll be really happy to have the video once the wedding is over.