I think my wife overpays babysitters. They shouldn't be making so much for hanging out with the kids.
It's probably more work than that. Why do you think your wife overpays babysitters?
I think she is being too generous with the raises
As a couple, it's important to keep finances in check. Talk to her about her overspending so you can both reach a solution.
I will talk to her, I'm just not good at understanding money.
You should really take some time to learn about how financial things work. It's important to know since you have bills you need to pay. Many libraries and community colleges offer classes you can take that could help.