My girlfriend speaks Spanish as a first language. I think our kids should learn to speak English first.
OK. Is there a reason you want them speaking English first?
It is going to be easier on them since we live here in the States.
I understand, but if your girlfriend wants them to learn Spanish too, you should accept that. It would be great if they could grow up bilingual.
No, they need to learn English first.
Yes, but if your girlfriend also wants them to speak Spanish, you should at least respect what she wants as well. She will have your respect if you are willing to listen to her. Plus, children can learn two languages at the same time, and be fluent in both.