I'm not going to listen to my mum
Will your mother be hurt or angry if you don't listen to her?
Yes, and I want to hurt her by not taking her advice.
It's understandable to sometimes not want to take a parent's advice. But it's rude not to listen to your mom, especially if you're doing it just to hurt her. You don't want to ruin your relationship with your mother just out of spite.
Why are you siding with my mom? I'll go to a different therapist.
I'm not siding with your mom. I just think you should show respect to her and try and listen.