I managed it, but I had to fight to end my abuse
This is serious, did you win?
Because he has been abusing me from day one
Now you have a new life ahead of you. Make sure to not contact the abuser and stay away from that person.
I think he's an idiot for abusing me and now feels like I'm being victimized. I feel sorry for his wife.
You are very strong for enduring all of this abuse, you should be proud of what you overcame! Now I believe it's best to just forget about him because he wants you to remember what you did.