I'm going to bail on my boyfriend.
Why do you plan on bailing on your boyfriend?
I can't spend my whole life just doing what he wants me to.
it is not nice to just bail on your partner. Talking to your partner about how you feel would be much more useful in this situation. If you truly do not want to be in the relationship then just breaking up with them is more of a moral thing to do.
Maybe you're right but I don't want to talk to him.
It may be time to end the relationship if he bosses you around. But it's always best to communicate rather than just disappearing.