Can I take my 3-year-old on a 7-hour round trip to visit my boyfriend's mom for her birthday?
Sounds stressful. Why do you want to take your 3 year old on this trip?
I need to check on his mother for my own good.
It's good to want to improve your relationship with your boyfriend's parents. Just be mindful of your child's behavior on this trip.
I guess you are right. I don't want anything bad to happen.
Good luck on your trip and good luck with the in-laws. It will be good for your relationship to spend more time with them.