I'm angry my dad had me call my uncle to tell him grandma died
What were your last words to your grandma?
I think you were very kind and loving and I just wish you would understand what you mean to me
It is sad that your grandma passed away but it is understandable why it would be harder for your father to give the news. That was his mom and his relationship with her is much closer so the loss is stronger.
Why can't I take it easy on my dad? He's a nice guy, he just had to do this.
I am glad that you are understanding your dad better. It might make it easier for both of you to deal with your grief together.