What should I do about my 19 year-old friend? I'm secretly upset that she's decided to keep her baby from an accidental pregnancy.
What makes you so upset about it?
We had talked before about having some fun with an older guy, but she blew it off. I can't believe she's had a baby.
I don't think you have a right to be upset about this. You should support a friend that is going through an accidental pregnancy at a young age. You should be there for her and let her make the decisions on what to do with her life.
I guess you're right. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in myself, I miss the big picture.
Glad to hear you say that. Don't be too hard on yourself, being self-absorbed is not unusual for young people. The important this is you're self-aware enough to grow and learn to be a better friend and better human being.