I'm not going to visit my gravely ill grandmother
Is there some reason why you don't want to visit your grandma?
Yes , seeing her in such a state scares me.
I understand how you feel, but not visiting your sick grandmother is not very nice. It's expected that people see their family members who are sick, as that can make them feel better or help them become well. I think you should try to overcome your fear and visit your grandma.
I think you're right. I'm going to ask my girlfriend to go with me so I don't have to go by myself.
I'm glad to hear that! Your grandmother will be so happy to see you and you will feel better knowing that you didn't avoid her while she was ill.