I really do feel like looks matter way more than personality. Lying about it doesn't help anyone.
That's an interesting take, what makes you bring that up?
I work with people who aren't attractive all the time, but their personalities don't ever make up for that.
People like each other for different reasons, both looks and personality. That said, it's not great to like someone just for their looks. Looks change, but personality tends to be the same.
I don't know. I want someone who looks good but is also sharp witted. Someone I respect and can learn from. Should I be looking at personality over looks?
Based on what you said I would have to say yes. Again, looks aren't permanent but a personality is more sound and less likely to change over time. You also seem to have a good grasp on what you like in a personality so I would say you should start prioritizing that.