Being a director in Hollywood, I'm always having girls knocking and screaming on my wardrobe door. Sometimes, I let them out.
Is that a joke about abusing women?
I'm not making fun of anyone, it is a simple joke I tell.
I don't think making fun of the victims of abuse is a kind thing to do. Women who have been mistreated by people in power should not be made to feel like what happened to them was trivial. There are lots of pieces you can read about these kinds of situations which might help you to empathize more with them.