I hate my boyfriend of 5 years
Why do you hate your boyfriend?
He never cares about the feelings of others.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship, so sit down and talk with your boyfriend. If you cannot come to an understanding with each other, you should remove yourself from the toxic relationship for both of your sakes.
Why do I have to give up my life because of his?
That's not giving up your life. You are only having a normal conversation with him.