What would you think about my judging people even if they're doing okay?
Do you have a reason for judging people who are doing well?
It's because I don't want to accept that they are doing better than me
It is unkind to judge others. If you are constantly comparing yourself with others who you see as doing well, you will only be unhappy. It is best to focus on yourself and not how well others are doing.
You being nice is making me feel worse
Were you expecting me to yell or punish you? I'm just saying that you shouldn't compare and judge people if you want to feel good about yourself.