What's the difference between a refugee and E.T, E.T learned English and wanted to go home.
Wow did you really mean to be this offensive?
It's not meant to be offensive.
It can be hurtful to tell people escaping bad situations that they are unwanted. Some probably would like to go home but they are afraid of being killed or tortured. If you were in their shoes don't you think you might try to find a way to flee too?