I don't want to be friends with someone that only wants to be friends on their terms. Who would?
What makes you say that?
I'm a person who tries to make good life decisions and I want to be treated right by my friends.
That makes perfect sense to me. You shouldn't bother being friends with someone who needs for you to change who you are just to be their friend. Those kinds of people are toxic and you'll be better off avoiding them.
Exactly, I know what I want and I don't want anything toxic in my life to prevent me from getting it.
Real friends are supposed to value you all the time and not just at their own discretion. They sound like users, and those are also something to avoid. Find new friends and enjoy life with them.