Do you think there's any validity to the idea that women "test" guys they're attracted to or is that just redpill bs?
Are you perhaps suggesting that women challenge men?
I wouldn't say challenge but yes it's very normal in my opinion. It's like a man paying for a meal, a sign of affection.
It's not really a women and men thing for people to be in conflict with one another. Women testing men is just reading too much into it as that is just normal social behavior. To imply it's wrong to act normally is wrong.