I can't believe it's been over a year since we broke up.
How did it happen?
Well, she went out with me for nine months and abruptly told me she was in love with someone else. I wasn't good enough for her.
I'm sorry you had to go through that but holding onto it isn't going to help. You need to pick yourself up and move on. I'm sure when you do you'll feel much better.
It doesn't matter whether it helps, it makes me feel better knowing that I feel this way.
If you keep focusing on this you will only be hurt. If you feel emotionally stunted you can see a therapist to work through the issues.