I'm looking up my boyfriend's father on Facebook after my boyfriend made it clear he wants to keep him out of his life completely
Why did your boyfriend say that he wants to keep him out of his life?
He feels like his father has no interest in raising him and is hurting him by not doing so
Maybe they can work out their issues if they get together and talk about them. It would be sad to ignore a parent for the rest of their lives.
If a parent doesn't want this responsibility, should they even be pushed to try? Don't try to make things difficult.
It would be worth a shot to see if things can be fixed. Rather than just writing it off and not even trying. Talk to your BF to see what he says about that.