I showed up to my bf's house and woke everyone up
That sounds rude. What time did you show up to your bf's house?
I don't see why I can not wake people up because I need to borrow a TV.
I know your TV shows are important to you, but in this case, you probably should have waited until everyone was awake before barging in to get the TV. Many people have jobs to go to in the morning and their sleep is important.
It's fine, I just want to watch my show.
Watching tv is an optional entertainment that can be put off until an appropriate time. Your bf and their family probably now think you're rude for showing up when you did with no regard for their being. Next time next just wait for a better time to come over and get the tv.