I want advanced notice from my sister on when I can see her and her kids
Why do you need advanced notice for this?
I want to know when I can hang out with them, if they have fun activities going on that they want to go to or just plain hanging out.
It is good to see and be involved in your families lives. It can be a real joy for the kids to spend time with you and create great memories.
Are you a life coach. It's none of your business?
I wasn't trying to imply something. I was saying it is good that you want to be active and involved in others lives and make time for them.