Is it okay to kick my son off of the payroll and tell him he has to fend for himself now since he won't get a job?
Why would you do this? Will your son be able to get a job?
He has a good chance to get a job and not leach.
It is good to try and help your kids find a job. You should not let them free ride forever they might end up with problems that cant be fixed or drug addiction.
It's okay for him to kick the can for a little bit. He's a lazy bum
You're being the responsible parent and I commend you for taking this action. Sometimes it can be difficult to get your kids to be more proactive and by doing this, you are showing them what it takes to be out in the real world.