People who take those blue pills think that a fat chick who refuses to settle is incel: "It's not my preferred choice, but I'm not going to fling myself at someone out of desperation."
Are you attacking people who have problems finding a partner?
No. but it's not my preferred choice if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't go to her house, because it would be a mess.
You need to stop shaming fat people. It's not right and very hurtful.