I fight with my boyfriend about grouping utensils together when loading the dishwasher
Are you joking with me right now, why would you fight over something as trivial as that?
We argue about whose turn it is to wash the dishes and who does it, and he always takes up my excuse.
It's fine to have your own way of doing things, like loading a dishwasher. You should learn to compromise and get along, though.
I just can't wait till the day I buy a house and hire a maid
It's good to have dreams of hiring a maid, but for now while you and your boyfriend are doing it, you should have a system. You each have your own way of doing things and that is understandable and acceptable, but fighting is not.