I need to get up up and ask a lady to make her kid be quiet and stop crying
Why would you pick a fight with this woman?
Who the fuck made you the mother of the plane?
You shouldn't tell people how to treat their kids. You'll end up looking crazy and demanding. She might get upset and start something with you.
I'm fine by just telling the mother to shut the baby up.
I feel like it would be more kind to just mind your own business and let the mother do what she has to do. How are you sure that she doesn't know that she's bothering people? It would keep her motivation and mood up if you didn't try to tell her what to do.