Can you believe that I'm still angry about a comment my father made to me years ago? I was like 15 when it happened.
That must have been a real mean comment. What did he say?
The comment actually came from an innocent conversation. He asked me if I had a girlfriend and in the middle of my answer he made a dry joke and said: Oh no, don't go for blonds!
I get how that comment is a bit harsh but it's been years. Holding onto something that small is just making things harder for you. If it's really affecting you that much though I would suggest getting some help.
Supportive and kind as usual, you are a great friend.
I really appreciate you saying that. Moving past that event will hopefully help to improve your relationship with your father as well. If talking to someone else isn't what you're looking for, you can always try just talking to your dad as well.