Exercise is ruining my body again. I hate how when I try to get in shape I get so muscular and look like a dike
Did I really hear you say that? Is it your intent to offend lesbians?
No, but it has always been a problem for me since I am also gay. And you should also know that I don't mean to offend you if you are a lesbian
The two terms should not be associated with each other because one has a negative connotation to it. Lesbians shouldn't be labelled with the other term to prevent unnecessary emotional harm.
Never mind then, sorry that I offended you.
It's okay. You didn't offend me, but I hope you understand that the term you used can offend people.