I get irrationally angry when people stare at me
What makes you angry about people staring at you?
I was falsely accused of being a stalker, which made me very upset.   Staring reminds me of that.
If you feel that you are being singled out, then you should remove yourself from the toxic situation. Get to a safe place where you know you will be accepted.
Part of me hates people that are so judgemental. I can't even say hi to someone without them sending in complaints!
I would try to get to the bottom of why this reaction is perceived by yourself.    Find a way to get around people who will accept you for who you are.