I'm going to go off on my girlfriend because she is not careful when she cooks.
What happened?
She mistakenly came into contact with the hot skillet recently. I refused to go anywhere with her after that.
It's just an accident. There's no need to hold some grudge against her because she hurt herself.
My behavior towards her is simply to teach her a lesson. If she doesn't listen, she doesn't deserve pleasant treatment.
It's wrong to scold someone for a simple accident. It didn't even involve you. You should really just appreciate her cooking in the first place.