I want to dote on my kids and not my wife.
So you want to prioritize time for your kids?
Yes, they are special. I don't want to give any time to my wife.
It is good to treat your kids well but should not overly spoil them. You should also pay attention to your wife because if she divorces you she's going to take the kids.
But I prefer spending time with my kids.
It's great that you like spending time with your kids, but you should spend time with your wife also. You should try to keep your marriage healthy, as that would also be good for your kids.