Oh, that's so sweet; I was a feminist when I was your age, too.
Why would you say something like this? Do you think that all women should outgrow feminism?
I don't see a problem with it. Women aren't equal to men and they need to be taken care of by the men in their lives.
We are all born equal, and should be treated equally.  It is disrespectful to suggest that women need to be coddled by men.  It is likely that disadvantages they face are the result of discrimination and unfair treatment, not because of their inherent lack of abilities, so I hope that you can find ways to reduce barriers to women's success.