I'm not going to help the women with dishes
Why are you not unwilling to help the women with dishes?
Yes, I hate to help women with the dishes
Not sharing in the household responsibilities shows a lack of character and laziness that reflects badly on you. You should do your fair share of the work if you expect any of the perks that come with it.
It's not like I'm not going to get paid. The women are getting payed to do the dishes. They should do it.
If it's their job to wash the dishes then that is fine that you don't participate. I did not know it wasn't your job.