I'm thinking of telling my friend he was being a self absorbed jerk the day after his grandma died. Think I should?
How was he acting self-absorbed?
He wouldn't talk to me about my problems.
Telling your friend that he's been acting self-absorbed right after the death of his grandma is extremely inappropriate. People are expected to be kind to someone that's just lost a family member. You should give him time to grieve before bringing up any issues with him.
I'm only doing it because he didn't do it before. He had time to self-absorbed and guess what? My grandma died.
Everybody handles death different. You just need to give him space and let him figure it out.