I'm going to go off on my ex.
What is going to be a trigger?
She takes my credit card without telling me.
I understand why you;re angry if she does that. You should break up with someone if they are using your credit card behind your back.
It's because she has me under her thumb. She won't let me go anywhere and left me with no money. I can't escape.
Yeah, she shouldn't be stealing your credit card. I'd report her if I was you.