I'm 25m and I just realized I have been living a lie. I'm not as confident as I thought
What kind of lie are you talking about?
I'm not confident at all. I can hardly talk to girls
Okay, then perhaps you should work on your confidence. Counseling would be a good start.
It's easier said than done. I think a shrink could help me out. I'm just bummed about losing my confidence. I guess it's a thing with guys.
I'm glad to hear you're considering getting help. If you're experiencing a deep, pervasive lack of confidence, counseling will help.