I want more initiative and work from my wife
Do you feel like your wife doesn't work enough? Does she have a full time job?
I'm doing all the housework here.
It's only fair for both partners to split the household chores. You should talk to her and try to work out a compromise for the household duties.
I love her, but she has a bad habit of skipping duties.
I understand how you feel. It's frustrating when someone does not do their fair share of the work. Speak to her and tell how you feel, I'm sure she'll understand.