I'm begging you if you are 17 do not date a 30 year old
Oh my gosh! Did you do this?
Yes and it was horrible.
Thank you for the advice, it's good to learn from mistakes and give others advice. Without good advice I might make the same mistakes you did.
Why did I even tell you this?
I am glad you told me. Have you named or reported your abuser? No 30 year old man needs to date underaged kids.