I don't think that I am a good wife
why do you think you're not a good wife?
It's my husband's fault. He's a liar, he's impatient.
If you think you're doing a poor job as a wife, you should introspect and think how you can improve yourself. Talk to your husband try to work on your marriage.
Well he never respected me so I have the right to disrespect him back. It's his fault for being such a jerk.
Just because he doesn't respect you, doesn't mean you can retaliate back which can only hurt your marriage. How about the both of you try out marriage counseling, so the both of you can become the best version of yourselves?