I'm going to ignore my neighbor who thinks I'm being too loud
Is your neighbor being rude about it?
Yes, I'm not pleased with the way he talks to me, especially when I'm in trouble.
You should take the noise complaint from your neighbor seriously and try to keep it down a bit. Discuss the problem and try to be as friendly and compassionate as you can.
I'd prefer to have "The party from Hell!"
That's not going to solve your problem -- it might even get you evicted. You need to change the tone of your interactions and let your neighbor know you hear him and that you'll make an effort to keep the noise down. How would you feel if the roles were reversed?