I'm successful in every aspect of my life and I think people hate me for it.
Why do you think people hate you for your success?
They are jealous of me.
Confidence inspires others and will help you get the job done, but arrogance turns everyone off. If you're being overly boastful, try to tone it down so that you don't look like you're better than everyone else.
I work hard to get to where I am, everyone else is just handout seekers.
Not everyone is a handout seeker. Plenty of people work hard like you.