My would be lover came out as trans and I am skeptical and done.
How did this make you feel?
I was confused, sad and also disappointed.
Your confusion is understandable as this is new, but you shouldn't judge this person for coming out to you as trans. People come out on their own timeline and you should be proud that they felt comfortable opening up to you.
We're meeting up on Friday and we will see how it goes.
Hopefully you can be openminded and accept who this person truly is. There is nothing wrong with them being trans and it doesn't change who they are deep down.