I'm going to ask her to be a homemaker
Why do you want her to do that?
They are not giving me enough money to run the house
If you both live there you both should split the jobs around the house. She might resent you if you force her to do all of it.
She can't handle it now.
Everybody needs to pitch in and take care of the chores. If you guys clean up after yourselves as you go the burden will be a lot less.