Should I guilt trip my ex into staying with me?
Are you serious? What did you do to guilt trip your ex into staying with you?
I visited her yesterday. I told her that our 3 years together were nothing but lies, that she destroyed my trust in women, and love in general. I said all this in tears because I meant it, but in the end I blackmailed her into staying with me by claiming I can't live without her.
While the breakup of a long term relationship can be a difficult event to experience, you should respect your partner's decision to break up rather than try to guilt trip her into staying. Guilt isn't valid reason to keep a relationship together and it won't last. Rather than guilt trip your ex, you should move on and try to find someone who will actually and truly love you.
Nah I'm going to keep talking to her and I'm going to let her know how I feel and then she will see I'm right and that she would feel terrible if we broke up.
But that means that she will not be with you because she really wants to but because you are guilting her into it. And do you really want someone who does not really care about you.