What if I'm a confused person?
That's awful. What are you confused about?
I am just confused in general and I hate myself for it.
We all get confused at sometime in our lives, but talking bad about ourselves because of it is counterproductive. Give it time and your direction in life will become clear.
I don't think so. It's hard for me find my true self while people just keep changing for fun.
People change for many reasons maybe because they are trying to find their true selves themselves. So don't be so negative about yourself, you can also take time to be yourselves and experiment in the mean time.