I'm a man with an abusive wife
What does your wife do that she is considered abusive?
She hits me and calls me names.
I'm sorry to hear your wife is abusive, you should leave that relationship now! If you stay in an abusive relationship the abuse will only get worse.
It's fine, it's normal behaviour. Our arguments are mainly about me being lazy and she is right.
Your behavior may be bad but she shouldn't be resorting to verbal and physical abuse. It is encouraged to leave a relationship where this is abuse. This is not a normal relationship and you shouldn't have to feel that way.