I'm going to ignore my grandma's calls after she said mean things to me.
What did she say to you?
She said I am a bum who doesn't have a job
I understand how upsetting it is for someone to insult you like that but you shouldn't ignore it. For someone to understand why they did wrong, you must confront them about the wrong thing they did.
Eh, we don't need to talk about it
Old folks have old fashion ways to tell you straight up and not beat around the bush. You should thank your grandma for making you see the truth about yourself.