I want my bf to cut contact with his ex-gf after catching him looking at her nudes
Has your boyfriend harmed you in the past?
Yes, he has harmed me emotionally by cheating on me. I was totally consumed by the relationship and should have looked more before trusting him.
It's okay to demand your boyfriend not look at his ex's nudes. If he has a pattern of harmful behavior, you should break up with him. It will make you unhappy to stay with him.
I want to make him feel the same misery I've felt.
While I understand your frustration, it's better to talk things over rather than get revenge.