I just bough the best gag gift for for a Turkish friend. It's a fez because that's what they wore.
This gift is making me a little uncomfortable. Do you know why Turks wore those?
It was the hat of their leader which shows his status and power.
I can see how it can be funny for you, but using such culturally significant articles like that can be offensive and culturally appropriating. How about trying to find a better gift that doesn't have to focus on their ethnicity?
I won't be told what's appropriate. I know the history having read so I don't need to be told to stop.
I feel like your gift will be offensive to your friend. I would consider buying something else, just in case. I know you don't want to offend anyone do you?