I think i want to be clingy
Does that cause problems for you?
Yes, usually I am isolated from my lovers.
You shouldn't go from one extreme to the next. Being clingy will be a turn off for the other person you are with.
That's not true, I only get attention when I'm clingy.
That's only because you are forcing yourself onto others which can be unhealthy. How about distancing yourself a little more, and just build your relationship as normal? They deserve to see the real you and more independent!