I'm unhappy that my friend refused to drive me home
Why wouldn't she drive you home?
She refused to drive me home because she was too drunk.
You should never expect your friends to drive after drinking, it can get them in a lot of trouble and is very unsafe. Be happy that your friend does not want to drive drunk because there are life long consequences and it's not worth it.
Yeah, but I had to spend money on an Uber.
Better that you spent money on an Uber than a coffin. Think of the consequences had you insisted she drive drunk. She could have killed you or others.