I lied to my husband about why we were going to a couples only club with new friends. Think I should have told him the truth?
Are you worried about your husband finding out about your lie about the couple's only club with new friends?
No, it's not like he cares anyway. He has been all over the place for the last couple of years. He just thinks we are spending time together.
Your husband has not been giving you enough attention, that makes it difficult to be close to him. But you are still together and things will not improve if you don't be honest with him. Stop the lies, and be more open in order to make everyone happy and healthy about this relationship you are in.
I want to spend some time with my friends and you don't know what I'm going through. I think I deserve some peace and happiness.
Everyone wants to and deserves to be happy but you should be more honest with your spouse and just sit down and talk through any issues either of you have.