I always want to ask old ladies if they were hot when they were younger
Do you want to go out with them or something ?
Noooo... I just want to know if they were hot then.
That is a rude thing to ask. You shouldn't do that unless you want a reputation of being a creep.
You need to chill out. I'm one of your best friends.
That's the reason for calling you out for your behaviour. It's inappropriate to ask such questions.