I think I might be an enabler.
Have you done something that makes you feel like an enabler?
Yes, I am always giving my friends money and watching them waste it.
Enabling people with money is just going to cause them to be reliant on you and never able to take care of themselves, which will end up ruining their lives in the long run. You should take a hard stance and tell them that you won't give them any more cash until they've proven that they can pay it back.
But I want to help them.
I understand that you want to help, but it isn't helpful to just keep giving them money, especially if they aren't using it responsibly. It might help them more to stop giving them money so they can learn to rely on themselves.