I'm a bit annoyed that as the only bridesmaid I've paid for everything for myself for my friends wedding
How does being the only one paying for things make you feel?
I don't like friends taking advantage of me because I'm such a nice person.
You are right. People shouldn't expect you to pay for everything. You should confront them about this so they can pay their fair share.
I can't do that because they would talk down on me and not want to pay me back.
You don't deserve to be taken advantage like that, you definitely should bring it up because they might not realize that they are using up all your money. it's good to give them a chance, because weddings are super stressful!