I feel like not supporting my child's college decision.
Why aren't you supportive of your child's colege choices, because of the cost?
That's one of my reasons, but the other is because I only want them to go to specific ones.
While it's reasonable that you would have opinions on what your children do with their lives, ultimately they are free to make their own choices. If you can't say anything supportive to your child about their decisions, perhaps you should just keep your silence aout it so you don't start fights.
No one can force me to say anything about this. I'm not going to change my mind on my decisions about this.
I know your opinions weigh heavily on you, but you should really let your child choose his own college. If you try to block them from his own choice, this will likely cause issues in your relationship with them.