What's the first thing a woman does when she comes home from the Battered Women's shelter? The dishes, if she knows what's good for her.
I find that to be in poor taste.  Do you really believe what you are saying about domestic violence?
It's my beliefs and experience.
Domestic violence and abuse against women is not a joking matter and is not a subject one should make light of. Rather than making light of such things, I'd encourage you to research reality of such violence and the true harm and effects women suffer from when they've experienced such horrors. Being supportive is a much better thing to do.