I'm going to join the military while my family is falling apart.
Why would you join the military while your family is falling apart?
I can't deal with all of their problems and drama anymore.
Well, when they are in shambles is when they'd need you the most. Perhaps help them out and be a hero to your family.
I just don't think I can help them and it's best for me to leave.
I'm sure dealing with family problems is very stressful for you, but you should try to help them solve their problems. You'll feel better about going into the military if you know your family has worked out some of it's issues.