I want to call out a co-worker for being an incel.
Do you have anything against your coworker?
Not really, but I want her to see and understand who is the winner and who's the loser.
Judging your co-worker based on her ability to have a romantic partner is wrong and hurtful. Instead, you should reassure her that when the time is right, the right person will come along.
It's okay, I'm going to win this.
You should not make judgements like this because it is not okay. Not everything needs to be a competition.