Gonna tell this girl off for her rudeness.
Why do you want to call her out?
We are not friends. I'm upset that she was that rude to me on her birthday.
She was in the wrong, then. It being her birthday doesn't excuse her rude behaviour.
I don't think so, either. We don't even like each other and I was going to make a big deal about it but she found out that I was going to tell her off.
Well if she is aware that she has upset you, then it sounds like you have a handle on the situation.  See if you can handle this appropriately by telling her what she did wrong, and maybe she can improve.