How do you feel if I told you I refuse to let my kids drink soda or cheetos?
Kids love soda and cheetos. Why would you not want kids to eat snacks and drink soda?
I don't care if they want them, I am looking out for their own good.
It is ok if you want your kids to eat healthy. It is bad to ban things outright, they might start sneaking things behind your back.
I don't care they can sneak in my backyard.
Why not just let them have snacks and sodas on special occasions like birthdays? That way, it's in moderation. Also, you are a good mother to watch what they eat, but being too protective when it comes to food might have some kind of negative effect.