I'm freaking out because the wife didn't clean
Maybe there were extenuating circumstances.
There's no excuse. She's a home all the time, so she needs to get housework done.
Maybe she had other commitments that day. It's not fair to assume she has to get non-vital chores done an a specific schedule.
She's a shitty parent and I'm going to go on a Facebook post telling me how much she sucks.
Your assumption that a housewife s do all the housework is outdated thinking. There's no reason why you can' help her do house work after coming home.