I'm going to be honest to my ex (when I was with her) and my gf (now) about her/our pet ownership
Why do you want to be honest to them about pet ownership now?
I'm tired of my gf talking shit about my ex
It is good to be honest with how you feel about things. You should not have to deal with people trying to cause problems in your relationships.
Yes I am going to be honest. I have nothing to hide.
I think that is the best thing. The easiest and best way to go is to tell the truth.