My ex-husband kept taking the kids out of school so I got an order against him that bans it.
Why did you say he can't take the kids to school?
I have a bad feeling about him, it's unusual for the kids to have to leave school so often.
If you think your kids will be unsafe, you have the right to protect them by getting an order. Protecting kids is the highest priority as a parent.
They said he has to be treated equal but I don't think he can do it.
Well it sounds like you've already handled the problem, and if you thought that he was dangerous then hopefully it is resolved now.