My friend Cindy lost her husband a couple months ago.
How did she lose her husband?
She was cheating on him with her boyfriend
I'm sorry their relationship wasn't going well, but sometimes it's for the best that a relationship ends. If a partner is willing to cheat in a relationship, then it's probably good to just end the relationship rather than causing more potential pain.
She wanted to get a divorce before she ever cheated on him. She's dumb and overreacted by cheating.
Everyone makes mistakes, but cheating was definitely a mistake and not something she should have done. I agree with you that divorce was the better option instead of cheating.