What's the difference between a baby and a baked potato? 140 calories
Why are you implying against babies? That they are the same as eating potatoes?
Yes, women should be more responsible when it comes to birth control. Interesting fact, female babies actually tend to have 140 calories more than male babies, go figure.
I feel like you're being a sexist and a misogynist if you talk about women should eat babies like a potato, so unless you really want to be sexist and misogynist I recommend you stop telling that joke. What you can do instead is try to go to your women's clinic and try if you can volunteer to help with women their and see if you can be of help emotionally with people who are having miscarriages there.