I'm going to tell my wife to go see a doctor on her birthday
Why do you want her to see a doctor?
I've discovered she has severe psychological problems
That's good you are concerned for your wife's mental health. Make sure the monitor it and hopefully the doctor can help her out in the situation.
Thanks but I don't need your help.
Sorry, I'm just saying that it's good for you to love your wife enough to care about her mental issues.