I think I legit hate men. and I don't think I could love my own hypothetical child if he was a boy.
Why would you hate all men?
I hate men for oppressing women and I think even a boy deserves the right to be raised as a girl.
I understand why you would hate men for those reasons, but part of that is something that is learned when you're growing up. If you were to have a son, you could teach him how to be a better man who doesn't oppress women.
I just think it would be easier on him if he was a girl. I would be okay with anything really.
Are you sure you'd be okay with a boy? It sounds like you're okay with generalizing all men and hating them. That would be unfair to your boy who would be born innocent.