I'm like playing loud videos in public.
Why do you think it's okay to play loud videos in public.
So that people notice me and talk to me.
Playing your videos at the highest volume doesn't make people curious. It is just inconsiderate of others right to enjoyment of their surroundings. Turn your music down and talk to people if you need company.
Everyone likes my music.
There are some situations where playing loud music and videos is okay. But generally it's pretty rude. Turn the volume down and the interested people can still check in on what you're up to.