I don't want to go to my mil's 1 year aa birthday
Why don't you want to go to her AA birthday celebration?
I don't want to celebrate the birthday of a cocaine addict
You should support your mil in accomplishment. Let her know that you are proud of her.
She's a bitch. I don't want to be near her.
Family trying their best to turn their life around should get support from family members. Not doing so is wrong.