I got arrested for causing a public disturbance last weekend. I was yelling racial slurs in the middle of the street and assaulted some lady. My wife doesn't even know about it yet
Is there something we need to talk about? Why would you be yelling slurs in the street and assaulting someone?
The woman abruptly grabbed my arm out of nowhere. I tried to get her to apologize but she wouldn't and it pissed me off.
Getting upset at her is fine but yelling racial slurs and assaulting her, why would you ever do that. Do you want people to call you a violent racist or something? Those are two things you should never want to happen and you should have expected you were going to get arrested before you even acted.
People like you think they are always right and judgmental. I was probably saving her from a much worse fate. I got carried away and I'm sorry, I made a mistake.
It's fine, I was not trying to judge you. Sometimes in the heat of the moment, we lose our temper and presence of mind. You should tell your wife what transpired though and let her know that you made a mistake.