What do you think about my plan to tell my girlfriend to stop faking her insecurities?
What makes you think she is faking?
I'm sick of her always wanting to be the victim. It's getting on my nerves.
I understand your frustrations, but it is wrong to assume you understand your partner's insecurities. You should talk to her more about it to figure out what's wrong. Otherwise you will just be hurting her.
I don't need to talk to her she is faking it.
Don't just assume she is lying. Talk to her and get her perspective. Then you can decide if she needs to go to therapy or not.