I'm trapped in a boring assed vanilla marriage
Why do you say that you are trapped?
I feel trapped mentally and emotionally.
You need to communicate with your partner about your happiness. Bottling it up will only build resentment within you.
I don't really think this will work. I heard marriage sucks and I don't want my husband to cheat on me like the other guy's spouse.
I think that the marriage is failing if you are unhappy. You should talk to your partner if you think that you are feeling trapped in your marriage.