If you are male and claim to be depressed you do not deserve to be called a man.
Why do you think it's not okay to feel depressed if you're a man?
Because men should be proud and cheer up. They should tough their life out.
Men are people too and they like others can suffer through depression and other mental problems. It is better for them to seek help rather than deny that they need help and hurt themselves and it is rude to think that they don't.
Men should not cry.
It's unhealthy to think that men can't be depressed and must always tough things out. When people can't express their real emotions and get help, it can lead to even worse depression and suicide.