I'm going to kick my boyfriend in the nuts this evening
Did he say something or what is going on?
No I'm going to kick him because he hurt my feelings again and again
It is wrong to be violent towards your partner. If you and your partner are making one another upset enough to come to blows then you probably should not be together.
He needs to learn a lesson.
I think you need to learn a lesson too, violence is not he answer. If you cant resolve a conflict without hurting someone you should go to therapy or anger management.