I'm going to insist my ex call our daughter before 9:30 pm and put a limit on the number of times he calls when there's no answer
Why would you limit his calls?
Because he lives in eastern europe and I live in China time zones are quite different, he just calls her when it's bedtime for her.
It sounds very complicated, but it's nice to still try to parent at a long distance. Children shouldn't be up late as it hinders their growth, and your limits sounds like a good idea.
What you mean by complicated? I'm the one that's doing all the work.
I understand, sorry if I offended. I'm just trying to say I'm happy you are looking out for your child.