I'm thinking of a year ago I assaulted my wife with no legal action taken. today I bailed her out of jail for domestic assault
I hope you are joking. Why did you assault her?
That was a really tough time for me back in 2015. I needed a friend to turn to in a time of need and she wasn't there.
We've all been through rough times, mentally and emotionally. But, assaulting your partner is never a fix to the problem. It seems like you and your wife have some anger management and relationship issues that would benefit from a professional.
We are in the process of the biggest change and drama in our marriage ever. She is a feminist and I am a traditionalist that hates feminism.
Well having a disagreement is no reason to hurt her. Maybe you are just too different and should divorce.