I'm disgusted at smoking and obesity after losing family members to both of them
Which family members have you lost?
My grandmother died of ovarian cancer due to smoking and my uncle was victim of a heart attack at 42 years of age due to obesity
It is reasonable for you to feel badly about obesity and smoking when you lost family to them, but you must not worry about what others do. It is their choice, you can only remind them a few times how bad it is going to be. But in the long run they have to decide for themselves weather life is worth the changes.
Yeah you're right, I guess. I just want to put that shit out there, you know. Probably shouldn't post this
It might not be perceived how you meant it to come across, so that is a good idea. You can only try to help people, but should not judge them for the way that they chose to live their life.