I plan to ask if it is a choice to be gay.
You are just curious and need answers is all. Isn't that the way when you ask questions?
I am just curious about how it feels to be gay.
I just thought it was obvious they were born that way, and not a choice but I'm just not considering the differences of others. Someone might have a different point of view than me on that one.
I'm not assuming, I'm a free thinker.
That is obvious to me now.  Thinking more freely is your first opinion of yourself that will make things go smoothly for you now from here on in about homosexuality.