I once said the n word without an n word pass
Why would you say the n word?
I was drunk and hanging out with a group of black men. At one point I heard a rap song which used the n word a couple of times. So because I felt like I knew the pass to say it I said it, but because I never got a ticket for it I wasn't allowed to.
It's never okay to say racist words. You could really upset some people if you do that.
Yeah I know, but all my friends did it, so I assumed it was a problem.
It is a taboo to use that word and no one should.  Even if if you thought that others didn't mind, I would say it is best to never use it and risk social consequences or retaliation.