I'm lacking intimacy with my boyfriend, do you have any advice?
Is it because you are afraid of commitment?
It is the nature of the relationship. I usually find him engaged in doing something else rather than talking to me
It's great you are asking for advice before acting on something. Your boyfriend might just be really distracted, so you need to talk to him one on one without those things to bother him. Does he love you?
Not really. He just doesn't want to talk to me. I'm going to tell him that he's not serious about our relationship.
That's a conversation that is definitely up to you to have. Be considerate of his feelings too. Sometimes we misunderstand the situation when really it's the complete opposite.