I'm not racist and I only say racial slurs to minorities when it is absolutely justified
When are racial slurs "absolutely justified"?
Its justified when you hungry and want to take a quick bite of food someone takes from the fridge.
I understand it's frustrating when someone takes your food with asking, but I don't see how that justifies using a racial slur. Would you do the same if the person were your own race?
I don't care about all that.
What you fail to understand is that to get respect, you have to give respect. If you continue to hurl racial slurs, you'll continue to have problems.