I'm going to flake on a visit
Who are you flaking on?
My parents. They have been on my back lately, and I'm tired of hearing it from them.
Parents can be annoying, but you shouldn't flake on a visit. They will be very disappointed and may nag you more.
It's not that big of a deal. I'm just not in the mood to go.
I mean, as long as you can live with that choice, alright.