I'm thinking of ghosting my husband
Why are you leaving your husband?
He always looks the same and doesn't make any effort to improve.
You made a commitment to your husband. Ghosting him over his appearance is incredibly mean. Maybe you should try encouraging him to want to be better to accept him for who he is.
Aww, why are you forcing me to be sensitive! I'm a fucking man!
You married another guy for what he is and you probably saw something in him before. Find that something again and rekindle your feeling for him.