I want to divorce my husband for being controlling and other sketchy things
So you want to leave him over being so controlling then?
Yes. I cannot be happy with a person who doesn't trust me
That sounds pretty reasonable!  A successful relationship is founded on mutual trust, if it doesn't exist things will never work out in the long run.  I hope you two can work through this but I think you may be right to leave him.
I agree leaving seems like the only reasonable option right now.
I am glad you have recognized this issue in your relationship. It is really hard for some people to admit. Do you need any resources to leave him like a place to stay?