I feel I need to call out my mom.
You sound upset. Are you sure you want to do that?
Yes, I need to talk with her.
You should be respectful when you confront your mother. You should also speak with her and have respect that she might have a different position.
No way! I will talk with my mother like a man.
it is good to be honest with her. You should refrain from being rude and try to find understanding without being hostile. You could damage your relationship further.