I don't want to celebrate Christmas with my family because we're not doing presents
Why don't you celebrate Christmas with your family?
I do not want to spend money or time on them.
It is fine if you do not spend the holiday with your family. Sometimes you need to take time off for yourself.
I don't appreciate you telling me what to do, I do not take kindly to orders.
I would not want to try and make you do what you did not want to do. You should find a way to spend time with family in a way that does not involve giving presents.