I'm going to tell my husband I won't be emotionally supporting him about his awful job if he won't make an effort to find a new one
How bad can it really be?
I'm prepared to lose him if there's no possibility
It's healthy to set a boundary around how much someone complains. He totally can find another job if he hates his current one. No one is forcing him to work there.
I'm all for it and I hope he succeeds.
Great. Do you think you can maybe help him look at job listing to find a better one? Maybe he just needs help looking in the right place.