I'm planning on telling my mom later that she can do whatever she wants. I don't care even if she wants to hurt herself.
Why don't you care if she hurts herself?
She's 56. She's old enough to know right from wrong.
I agree that she is old enough, but you should care about the well-being of your mother. Not caring if she hurts herself is taking it too far.
I need to chill, I'll of course take care of her.
I am glad you are seeing where you went wrong here. No matter how old you are, you can always use someone else's help in your life. It is good you want to be there for your mother.