I'm ignoring my grandmother and it's driving her crazy. I just can't deal with what I know she's going to talk about as soon as we speak.
Should you be doing that? What is it that she's going to talk about?
She's going to tell me to go to church. I've hurt her a lot talking about the issue, but it's not for me.
You shouldn't ignore your grandmother. Try talking to her clearly about how you feel regarding the issue and set some boundaries. Maybe with boundaries she will understand that it's better to talk about other things.
I'm not trying to hurt her and I care about her deeply.
But aren't you currently ignoring her, how is that not hurting her? I'm sure you love each other lots, but I believe it's best to communicate so you can deepen your relationship and avoid misunderstandings.