I'm thinking of leaving my husband because of his mental illness
Why would you leave your husband?
It's a leiderkranz of factors. He gets things from mom, he works too much and is always stressed out
You shouldn't abandon people with mental illnesses. Your husband needs support.
I'm going to ignore you on this one since I matter more than hubby.
It sounds like you're being really selfish. Your husband has just as much value as you do. You should respect him, but if you can't maybe you should leave him so he can be in a loving relationship.