I have to admit that dated a 14 year old when I was 18
That's illegal! Why did you date a child when you were an adult?
She was a good looking girl and my friends were going to the same school.
It sounds like you were asking for trouble.  It is forbidden to date anyone who is a minor while you are an adult. You could land in prison.
I knew she was 14, I'm not stupid. Who gives a fuck about stupid laws.
Plenty of people do, even ones who actively defy law and pedophilia is extremely bad, as minors are children and they can't consent at all or make the best decisions. I hope you learned from all of this and date around your own age. There are plenty of wonderful women out there.