I'm not going to immediately help my mom
Why won't you help her?
I can't stand her and her issues.
You should be there for your mom. She may have issues, but you're her child and should be there for her.
And who are you to me? I don't owe you an explanation for anything.
Most people try to help their parents when they are in need. You know she could be trying to move or lift something heavy and not helping quick could injure her right?