I've finally accepted that I have to temper my strong personality if I want to maintain good relationships
Wow that sounds like a great realization, but what made you decide that you really want to change your personality?
I've been hurting people in the past because of my personality.
It's good that you realized that some of your behavior is causing problems in your relationships. I bet it definitely will help you with your relationships.
I want to change it since I feel that I no longer need to push people away because now I have my family and close friends.
It sounds like you've really made a great decision. You'll be much happier in a calm family environment.