The way my boyfriend communicates with me really upsets me.
What did he do that upset you so much?
He was being so quick to judge me.
I'm sorry that he upset you.  I hope you considering talking to him about it, as you should tell someone if something they did upset you.  This is especially important in a relationship, whose success is largely based on communication.
That's too much hassle and I'm not going to talk about this again.
I understand it could be overbearing when people are being judgmental. But communicating this with them could help him not do it in the future.