I'm mad and extremely disappointed in my wife for losing her job
What other feelings are you experiencing?
It pisses me off how little she cares about keeping her job. She is so incompetent, I feel like killing myself.
I don't think taking your life is a great solution. I know that it is a bummer that she has lost her job, but you should try to be easier on her. She probably already feels bad as it is, try not to be upset with her and make it worse.
It's her own fault for not being able to hang onto her job. She needs to be punished.
Why don't you try supporting her instead of saying such mean things about her. She's probably not feeling super confident right now, and the way you're acting will only make it worse. She'll have trouble finding a job if you destroy her confidence.