Once I met a beautiful woman, big ass and tits you know, also into cosplaying. I asked her if I was hot and when she said no I pulled the trigger on her.
Are you joking or you okay with this?
I'm just joking, but yes I am OK with this.
I don't think it's right to joke about shooting a woman because she turned you down. These kinds of jokes help to perpetuate real violence against women. I think everyone would be much happier if you stopped telling these kinds of jokes.