I want to destroy my friend's base
Why would you want to be without friends?
My friend was trying to upset me, I wanted revenge
I think that is very mean for you to do. It's rude to ruin something that your friend spent time creating. You wouldn't want that to happen to you so you should not do that to them.
It's a game, we both know it's just a game.
I think that you should try to be more kind to them. It is not okay to ruin something that your friend spent time on creating.