When it comes to dates, I'm not willing to pay.
Is there a reason for this?
I don't think a person should have to pay for dates after a certain point.
It can be okay to split the bill sometimes, but perhaps you could pay every once in awhile.
Nah, she should pay for herself.
I think it's fair that she pays most of the time, but putting your foot down and never paying seems a bit rude. Your date might think you don't like them anymore if you suddenly stop paying. I hope you discuss this with them first.