I'm upset because my boyfriend said no to attending a work event of mine.
Why are you upset about your boyfriend not going to a work event with you?
I should be the only one to decide who he spends his time with. I should make him understand I am the boss.
I understand why you're upset, but you shouldn't expect him to spend all of his free time with you. You should respect his decision if he doesn't want to go.
If he truly loved me, he would spend all his time with me. I'm upset and I'm going to go home now.
It is wrong to create drama and be so clingy. It can really drive your partner away. I think it might best if you go see a therapist and try to find some new coping methods