I'm going to be rude to a friend who blew me off
Is that really a good idea?
Yes, because he did not fulfill his duties.
Your friend shouldn't have blown you off but you are still wrong to be rude to him. You should talk to him about the issue and try to resolve it.
Just really feel tempted to be rude to him since he fucked up.
It's wrong to be rude just for the sake of it. It's going to affect your friendship with him. If you think you made a mistake, talk to him calmly instead of making a big deal for no reason.