I'm going to try to encourage my partner to be healthy
Is there a reason you need to do this?
I think him being unhealthy is a big part of why we're having the issues that we're having
I think it's really great that you want to encourage him to be healthier and you're going about it in a good way. You should try working on it together so you can motivate each other and maybe it'll help solve your problems because it gives you something else to connect with.
Thanks, do you have any ideas why we could do?
Sure! There are things like cooking with more fruits and veg. You can exercise by taking an after dinner walk with your partner instead of watching tv.