How do you feel about me being mad at my parents?
Wait, why are you mad at your parents?
They constantly tell me I need to visit my aunts, uncles and cousins.
It's wrong to get angry at your parents for petty reasons. You should learn to let the small stuff slide.
They try to control my life, I like to live my life my way.
Wanting to live your life your way is fine but there's no reason to get mad about what they're asking. They just want you to be more involved with your family. Whether you do it or not is up to you, but you shouldn't get mad about it because it isn't even that big of a deal.