Do you think that I should say that my friends comment about me was hetero-phobic?
Is that right, why would you react that way?
Because I'm mad that he insulted me
If what they said really insulted you, you should let them know why. Its not good for them to continue to do things like that to people.
I'm trying to make them get a bad reputation by telling people.
If you take the high road and talk to your friends rather than slander them, there will be less drama and animosity between you in the future.  It's best to work things out and not burn bridges.