What do I do about being scared of being a dad
I hear that a lot. Why are you scared of being a dad?
I don't think I'm ready to be a dad yet.
It is normal to worry about becoming a parent. Every parent is nervous and you and your partner just need to communicate so you know when you will be ready.
It's too late, I don't want to think about it anymore and she's already pregnant.
In that case maybe you could talk about your fears with someone who is already a parent. What about your parents? They could probably give you some great advice.