I miss the kink so I took matters into my own hands
Is that why you broke up?
He still doesn't want to talk to me.
Sounds like your sex play got out of hand. You should apologize if you went too far. Do you guys have safe words?
I shouldn't have to apologize if he is the one who messed up.
You should always make sure to have a safe word with a partner if you are having kinky sex.