I failed No Nut November and now I feel like a terrible person.
Is failing No Nut November something you did on purpose or are you blaming yourself for this?
I messed up on my own so I'm blaming myself.
While No Nut November can be an interesting challenge to complete, you shouldn't consider yourself a failure or a terrible person for not being able to reach the goal that you set. Masturbation is completely okay and abstaining from it for a month can be difficult, especially if you aren't already in a relationship. Don't think less of yourself for not being to abstain, be instead more positive and thankful that you have a strong libido, which not everyone has.
I appreciate this advice and I'm sorry for calling you a close minded person.
Nobody is perfect. It's okay to make a mistake every now and then.