I'm planning to be on the phone instead of talking to family
Why do you not want to hang out with your family?
You should ask me if I have ever thought about cutting my family ties out of my life
I would but I am more curious as to why you are on the phone. You should want to spend time with your family whe n you are actually around them.
I want to show them how much I hate them and how toxic they are.
I'm sorry you're having such a bad experience with your family, but perhaps they are unaware of their effects on you? Why not talk to them and tell them why, instead of ignoring them? You might mend your relationship and be on good terms.