I like my coffee like I like my women Ground up and in my cabinet
I need to understand why you would say that.  Are you making a joke about women?
No, I'm serious. Women deserve to die or be abused. They betray their men anyways if they have a better offer
That is a harmful way to think about women even in the context of a joke, let alone in seriousness.  Being unfaithful in a marriage is not something that warrants a death penalty.  You wouldn't want to face death row if you were caught in an affair, so it's wrong to wish for women to be treated that way.