I used to have sex with this thirteen year old girl the funny thing was that she called me 'help' when my name was Dave
I can't believe what I am hearing. Is this funny to you? Did you suspect that she was being victimized or abused?
Actually it was me who manipulated the situation into getting what I wanted from her. And I didn't get a problem out of it.
I think those words are disrespectful and hurtful and not funny. It isn't right to try and marginalize assault victims in a joke. It could cause them pain over and over again and other people laughing will only hurt them more.
I don't see why they would be hurt or angry. They are just words afterall. What is the big deal?
Victims of assault carry a heavy burden and you should not say things that make it seem they should not be hurting. Don't you want to be seen as more kind and understanding?