Instead of going on "dates", it should just happen that the elders of the village choose a wife for you, and she should be forced to marry you
You really feel women should be forced into marriage?
Women are just obedient mothers, they should mind the rules and not go out when the sun is up.
It's hurtful to think women should have no choice in what they do. That type of thinking comes from harmful stereotypes. We should all come to respect both genders equally.
Overall I just want to marry a woman who will love me.
I think your views of women are extremely skewed. Women shouldn't be forced in to a marriage that they don't want to get into. Especially if you want to find someone that will love you, that is not the way to go about doing it.