Why do dudes have to play the "you're not serious, just wanting to fight" card when women call them out on solutions with ill consequences?
That sounds quite accusatory. What do you mean by this, do you intend to say there are men who bring confrontation deliberately?
I just want a serious conversation, what more is there to understand?
What you said is a big generalization to men. While I know some do, not all of them act this way which is unfair to assume. Men are always put down as well, so we need to let their voices be heard sometimes.
So what you're saying is when women call men out, then men to blame?
No I think you should look at things like that on an individual basis and then make your judgements.