I'm going to tell my girlfriend I was surprised she didn't want to look nice for dinner
You don't think she looked good enough for dinner?
No, I think she is stupid and ugly. She doesn't deserve to go out with me.
If you can't appreciate your partner and you want to cotrol her then you should break up. Obviously, you can't appreciate how she looks so don't be with her.
No, I like taking away her freedom. It's better to be with someone who doesn't care about you, and I like that she can't do things alone.
I'm sorry you feel that way about her. You shouldn't tell your partner what to do. If you care for her then you should be able to give her the freedom that she needs.