I'm attracted to guys who are bad for me. Do you think that's toxic?
Very likely. What attracts to you them?
Because being bad is sexy. Also I'm looking for sympathy. I want someone to be there for me no matter how much I hurt them
Attraction isn't something we can control, but acting on it is. You shouldn't use guys for your own personal gain.
I don't give a shit about the other fella. He's being used for my gain.
They're human beings, too, not objects to use. In the same way you want sympathy, you should also show some.