I want to accept a job in another country without consulting my significant other.
But this is a huge decision. Do you not want them to go with you?
He told me he didn;t want to get married so I would rather leave him behind.
Not wanting him to go with you because he won't marry you is understandable but you should still consult him or at least inform him of what's happening. He might change his mind about marrying you or if he doesn't then he knows the relationship wont work out and can move on without wondering what happened to you. At least do that so he won't be worried.
you're right but I'm going to do this without telling him anything. I still have feelings for him though even though he told me no.
I understand your hurt and pain, but communication is still very important in a healthy relationship. Do you think it's fair to hurt him back like this? You two are partners, and it would be awesome to get over these obstacles together and get stronger!