I'm going to cut contact with my mother until she cuts contract with my abusive ex
What do you think that she is trying to achieve by talking to him?
I'm sure she's trying to set me up again with that ass.
They should definitely stop talking to him if it makes you that uncomfortable. I can totally see why you want to cut her off!
You are missing the point. I'm going to make her pay back because she's giving me a lot of pain. I know exactly what I'm doing and I don't care.
I believe it's best for you and your mom to take a long and hard discussion about the matters. It is not fair she is giving you a lot of pain, and you two deserve to have a happy, familial relationship.