I want to know if it is okay to say I'm going to accuse my best friend of rape?
Why would you accuse her of rape? This is something I find to be concerning if it's not true!
She was drunk and didn't remember anything of that night
It's horrible to accuse your friend of rape. She's gonna be upset if she finds out the truth.
I'm not the one who needs to worry, she is.
If it is true then you can have a case. But if you are just accusing her for the fun of it it is all wrong. Please just get the facts straight as this will go to trial and you will have a long road ahead of you both, it will be such a hassle.