Can I tell my stepson who is paying for his education?
I think he probably don't care but why would you tell him?
He is now old enough to understand the situation
It is good to teach your kids financial responsibility. You should not try to hold it over him to control him because that is wrong.
It's not like that, I'll just ask him to keep me in his top 10 financial supporters when he becomes an alumni.
I guess you can tell him since it's not really that big of a secret. Plus, he might already know since all he has to do is go to the financial aid office and make an inquiry. Are you banking on him being a millionaire one day and giving you a lot of money for supporting his schooling?