At least you understand that woman != conventionally feminine   I would love to see all women embrace femininity.
Can you define your version of feminine?
A woman who is smart and intelligent, knows how to have fun, isn't afraid to be herself and when it comes to sex, she knows what she likes and doesn't put up with anything less.
It sounds like you take a more liberal view of feminine and not the traditional view. It is good to encourage people to be themselves and dress the way they want to. I can suggest some feminist books if you would like to learn more.