I'm going to explain that my bf son shouldn't wear a cub scout hat when he's not and has never been a scout
Why are you against him wearing the hat?
I don't think he should use stolen valor for something he has never done.
If he wants to be a boy scout maybe you can help him join the club. It is not good to appear like you are lying about memberships to groups.
I agree. I would just rather have him earn the hat than to wear it for no reason.
I think that you are right that he not wear the hat. If he aspires to be a scout though then that is something that you should look into.