I want a grilled cheese
Do you want that sandwich just for the bread?
No, who just wants bread?
Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to what they want to eat. It's perfectly normal and acceptable to want to eat a grilled cheese sandwich if that is what you prefer.
I feel like you are calling me stupid and calling me a cheapskate. I don't see how everyone needs to deal with their own choices and needs.
I never called you a cheapskate. That is not nice to say.