Anyone noticed that the women who bang on about the Patriarchy and gender roles the most also expect men to be very masculine and aggressive
Do you think that women who do not act as you would like to, tend to complain about men doing what you are talking about?
Yes, that is exactly what I'm trying to say. Women act like they are oppressed but at the same time each and every one of them violates the very rule she is talking about.
Women are striving to be equal to men in societal treatment. That does not mean they are being hypocritical. You can look at documentaries online about the unequal treatment women receive.