I'm mad at my fiance for not having the house clean when I got home.
Did you expect the house to be clean?
I expected it to be neat and tidy. This isn't the first time I have had to scour the house while looking for my stuff.
I'm sure it's frustrating having a messy home, but you shouldn't expect someone else to take care of all of it for you. It's selfish to think your fiance would do all the work. You two should work together to clean the house to make it go faster and to share the burden.
Nah, I'm going to make her clean it.
It's not appropriate to put the entire burden of keeping a clean home on your fiance. Working together is more productive and shows a mutual respect for each other. Don't you think it would make your fiance feel bad if you put it all on their shoulders?