Would it be okay if I snapped on a coworker for spilling my drink?
Why did your coworker spill your drink?
It was revenge for insulting me insulting her when I was taking my lunch break.
Snapping at your coworker is a rude thing to do. You have see her when you go to work, so you should try and be peaceful towards her.
You should relax. You don't know how many times I snapped at her. It's a normal thing.
It shouldn't be a normal thing to snap on someone and you really should think about why you are doing this. I know a great therapist who helped me through some anger issues and I could refer you to him.