I want to do something dramatic to test my friendship to see if my friend will be there for me.
I'm not sure you should do this. Do you think by testing it you might lose a friend?
I'm happy to be friends with her but I'm not really sure if she feels the same way
You could really offend someone by testing your friendship. You should ask them how they feel and not try to be sneaky it might push them away.
Alright then I wont do it.
I'm glad you've changed your mind. I bet she'd be open to an honest conversation if you want to just ask how she feels.