I don't want to get flu and whooping shots to see my friends newborn baby
A baby is very vulnerable. What are your personal justifications for not getting these shots?
I don't like getting these regular shots and I don't find them helpful
While it's your body and your choice, it's also other peoples' choice to refuse to see or invite you if you're unvaccinated. Others don't need to suffer around your choices and spread easily preventable diseases. You are the cause that eradicated diseases can come back.
I have right to determine what I do with my body and no one can force me to do things I don't want to.
But don't you want to see the newborn baby? The child needs the most protection, so it's a little selfish to not want to be vaccinated because you can't have your cake and eat it too. Vaccination prevents lots of disease and harm, and plus you'll be able to be around the baby and watch it grow up.