My wife almost got raped today but I helped, now she has a trauma.
I don't understand how did you help her?
I was there trying to help, I do care.
It is good you wanted to help, I know that is good. Hopefully you didn't trivialize the events she went through.
Nah I'm still making a deal out of it. It's all my fault that she can't trust me anymore.
You are making this situation a lot less serious than it is. That is a very serious thing and it needs to be treated that way.