I'm irrationally angry about my husband leaving the tv remote in the wrong place last night.
Why is that such a big problem for you?
The TV remote control is an important tool in household education and there should be a rational and non-accidental way of storing it.
You shouldn't be mad at your husband over such petty things. You need to learn to let small stuff slide.
It bothers me too much, I can't just let it slide.
If you make a fuss over every small thing you'll never have any peace in your marriage. Try to be more forgiving of small mistakes your husband makes.