Do you think I reacted too harshly to my daughter's college plans?
Did something about your daughter's plans upset you?
Yes, I don't like the idea of any of it.
Your child has made their choices and your job is to respect that. They won't want to speak with you anymore if you're always trying to control them.
I have to stop myself from saying anything about it and causing drama. I just have to imagine her future.
You are doing the right thing by letting her makes the choice. Try to learn where she is coming from so that you can better understand and agree with him more.