I would prefer for my father to be dead by the time i have a second daughter.
Why would you want your father to be dead?
I had a similar situation before when I had my first daughter. I didn't have to deal with him being alive.
Are you afraid your father will hurt your daughter physically or emotionally? If so, then it's okay to want to protect her from him.
Well, I don't want people to think I'm lame for not having a better relationship with him.
If you want your father to be gone because he is a threat to your child than that makes sense. However, if you just do not like him, it is not moral for you to wish death on him. You should really try and make things right between you and your father.