I hate being a mother.
why do you hate being a mother ?
I just hate it. Kids are so annoying.
I understand it is difficult to be a mother but your kids are your responsibility. You're supposed to take care of them so it's not okay to hate being a parent all the time.
They are not my responsibility. I'm just going to wait till they learn to stand on their own.
Legally, you are responsible for your own children as long as they are minors.  If you try to avoid taking care of them, you could get into trouble, and they could be taken away from you.  If you are too tired to care for them at the moment, you can get some help until you are ready.