What do you think about me dating a woman who was replete with red flags simply because she appealed to my fetish?
What did you make that decision?
I was scared that I might never have sex again if I stayed away from her
It's not wise to ignore warning signs when you are considering a new relationship.  If you don't think that this is the right partner for you, then you should not lead her on, as this could cause an ugly breakup later.  And you should never view any woman as simply a chance to have sex.
But I was really horny back then. We have sex like every day now, though, so all is fine.
It's generally not wise to base your relationship on sex alone. These types of relationships usually have red flags that you should pay attention to, before you end up being hurt.