I obsess about a mole on my face and hate seeing the same mole on others
Why do you hate that mole?
I just hate seeing it, I got bullied in my teenage years over that mole so I feel insecure when seeing the same thing on other people.
You shouldn't obsess over this or let it bring you down. I think you should embrace your unique aspects of your body.
I tried, but lost all hope since then.
Think about your positive traits and realize that people are seeing that instead of your mole.