In reality, I can see that being "gay" has been detrimental to my reputation but I don't care. As long as I'm real with self, that's what matters, because otherwise I'd be lying.
I'm not sure I understand, are you saying it doesn't matter whether people know you are gay or not?
When I say gay I don't mean it in a sexual way. I mean in the sense that I don't fit in with the norms of society. When people don't fit they get hated by others.
Treating being gay as a detriment is a harmful stereotype. It's wrong of society to treat you or anyone else as being less valuable.
Maybe I'll just be open minded on other people's point of view.
Normally it's a good thing for you to accept others' points of view on controversial topics. But when it comes to treating people equally, this is not something that should be compromised on. You need to stand up for your own rights, and those of others in the gay community.