I'm thinking of embarrassing my son
Why would you want to embarrass him?
It's mostly because he's so arrogant for being so young, so I'm planning to disembowel information of his sexuality on some social media.
It is wrong to harm your children and make them feel bad. You should try to take him to counseling if he is into sick things.
I think I've made the right choice since he arrived drunk from some club to my house.
You should leave social media out of this. That can do some serious harm. You should not embarrass you child, especially on social media.