I'm going to ask my friends to side with me when another friend blocked me because I didn't approve her drug usage
Why is your friend not taking your side?
She asked me to lend her my phone, I refused because I didn't want people to see inappropriate pictures of her on my phone.
It's not nice to put friends in the middle of arguments. You should deal with such a thing yourself.
Fuck you I'm doing what I want.
It sounds like a mess of drama involving personal conflicts. You should try to suggest a meeting place and hash it out. Everyone needs to listen to each other's problems and see if there is any common ground to start off on.