I'm not a homophobe anymore
What changed your mind in regards to homosexuality?
Homosexuality? You mean why am I not saying things like "gay" anymore? That's because humans are not so important to my self-esteem.
Your feelings seem rather complicated on this issue. Regardless, it is not good to judge people based on their sexual orientation. You will miss out on knowing really good people if you do this.
Haha. One time I asked this guy who he liked, he said me. "Dude, I kinda like you."
And that situation didn't harm you a bit. Maybe now you realize it's wrong to judge someone based on who they're attracted to.