Is it wrong that I think my boyfriend should inconvenience himself once in awhile for me?
No, I don't think it's wrong. Is he not doing things for you?
No, he never has time for me or listens to what I want to do. I'm very frustrated with him.
I think I also do not want to be inconvenienced like your boyfriend, but I think that you are also right where sometimes it is needed to be mildly inconvenient so that you and your partner can benefit in the end. Have you talked about this with him? Maybe try to discuss about the benefits of sacrificing a little bit so that he would understand better?
I'm afraid that if I talk to him I'll just end up yelling at him.
Try to stay calm and explain your point of view. He may not think he's being selfish, so you need to let him know. Relationships are all about sharing, they're a partnership.