Can someone tell me who exactly it was that said that both men and women should be working and started forcing women into the modern workforce?
Why do you think women are being forced to work?
It's not just feminism but the general effect of modern culture that treats women as equal to men.
Women and men are equal in many ways, and both can contribute to society by going to work. Feminism doesn't force anyone to do something they don't want to do, it allows women to be independent and control their life.