The woman who broke me was my mother in law
Why do feel that your mother-n-law broke you?
Because of the way she has treated me and my father, constantly, the whole time I've known her.
It's normal to have problems with your in-laws because of the background and cultural differences. It's important that you speak with your mother-in-law, if possible, to understand how the situation with your father truly played out. This will help you to heal and move forward.
I don't want to talk to her, she doesn't deserve it.
While I understand your frustration, nothing can get solved this way. You could always bring your spouse into the conversation since it's his mom. That might make it easier.