I hate feeling like no haircut style fits me. I just look nerdy.
Has it ever occurred to you that some haircuts suit some people and not others?
Maybe I don't want to clash with my own hair.
You're suggesting that male haircuts in general have an arrogance to them. It's not right to label all haircuts like that. Perhaps you should look for more hair cuts before you make judgements.
I'll be fine with my current hair.
You can't tell what someone is like by their hair style. You should get to know people before you judge them. Nice people might be bald and evil people might have long hair, you never know.