I'm not a victim
how does it make you feel that you're not a victim?
It's a terrible feeling, maybe I should have a fundraiser because I'm not a victim.
While it is good that you aren't a victim in life, it isn't an appropriate reason to hold a fundraiser. Fundraisers should only be held for charitable causes or when you have a pressing need like a medical emergency that you can't pay for.
Why not, there is nothing wrong with celebrating that I'm not a victim, right?
See if you can have a fundraiser for somebody that you know are in need. You will feel better when you can help somebody.