I think my ex that I loved so much and have been crying over for months is a scumbag and it makes me feel good to realize this.
Do you feel better because you now understand?
Yes, I now feel so much better.
That's awesome. We think of pain or rejection as our enemies when really they're just guideposts to helping you make the right choice.
I am feeling so much better now. Do you want to get food with me?
Yeah, sure. It's great to see your realization has opened your eyes.