I'm going to destroy the house of the guy who trashed my wife's apartment.
Is it supposed to be a revenge for what he did?
Yes, and thinking of it makes me furious.
I understand you're upset about your wife's apartment being trashed, but you should think about it more before you decide to destroy his house. Vandalizing someone's property could get you some serious jail time.
It'll be fine, I just want him to know what it feels like.
Eye for an eye doesn't solve the problem but it will get you in legal trouble. You should go to proper authorities to bring him to justice. I'm sure he'll have to pay for what he did.