I'm going to turn down a guy trying to pick me up at a bar because he sent his friend over to talk to me first
Is that the only reason you are not interested?
I don't like guys who make other guys do their dirty work. It's lame.
I hear you, but it is rude to dismiss a person simply because they are a bit awkward. You should give him a chance, and decide afterwards. Otherwise you will be too hasty and can miss out on some really cool relationships.
You're right and I'll give the guy a shot. Thanks!<br>
Shyness can be hard to overcome. I'm glad you are giving him a chance without rejecting him. It will do a lot for his confidence.