I watched the notebook and didn't cry... and I'm a woman.
Do you usually cry at movies?
I usually can't cry unless I'm with someone else.
Films can influence and affect people's beliefs and opinions, stereotypes and attitudes, but everyone is different. What other people find sad may not be what you find sad, and that's okay.
The movie was still awesome!
I'm glad you liked it. You don't have to necessarily cry to enjoy a movie anyway.