I'm not sure what to do. I'm so mad he won't consider a vasectomy
What about that makes you mad?
I'm afraid of getting pregnant
You shouldn't try to control a permanent decision on someone's body. There are many forms of birth control that can stop a pregnancy.
Yes, but I want to control his decision since I don't want another kid.
Well that's certainly understandable, but isn't a bit unfair to be mad at him for not getting a vasectomy when you clearly haven't gotten a tubal ligation? You would be in total control of that decision.