It was too bad Becky gained fifteen pounds from getting pregnant.
Did she really? Why do you think she gained so much weight?
Becuase she eats all the time and exercises little.
It is hard for people who are pregnant to lose weight during a pregnancy and it is normal for them to gain weight so it is not good to judge them. People will think that you are ignorant if you tell someone.
I'm obese, I'm allowed to judge.
Just because you are overweight yourself doesn't give you a pass to judge others' weight. How would she be feeling if you constantly judge how she weighs during an important time of her life? How about supporting her and the unborn child, and after that, both of you can take up a gym membership?