I was homophobic. Hear me out.
Why were you homophobic?
I'm pissed off because I was tricked into watching gay porn by my cousin.
That is a real petty reason to hate gay people. Stop being homophobic and try to learn about the lives of LGBT people. You'd find that they aren't so different from you.
I hate them for being too feminine.
I understand that you might have some residual trauma from your cousin making you watch gay porn, but that's not a good reason to hate gay people. You should try and meet some gay people in real life, and you'll see that they're just like everyone else. It's a stereotype that gay men are feminine - not all are like that.