I love hooking up with the daughter of racist parents
Did you love her enough that you were able to put her parents ideas aside?
No, I just needed to sleep with her
You should not hook up with someone without loving them or accepting them for who they are. Talk to your partner and see if you can find some common ground before moving on to the next level.
I'm mad that you are judging me.
It is wrong to go along with someone's bad traits just to sleep with them. You shouldn't try to get back at them in that way because you are hurting another person in the process.