I'm attracted to my coworker who has a boyfriend
Why do you like him?
How often do I get to hang out with men like this? It sure is hard to find hot guys in the city
It can be hard to meet people.  However, it can complicate work if you date a co-worker.
It would be so great to have the power to get him interested in me but I know it's wrong.
You are attracted to hot men but this one is involved already with someone else. Why not just be open to men who are not so attractive too as they can be really nice people. Dating people at work always gets people gossiping.