I'm going to lose my cool with my roommate/friend and tell him to stfu
Do you need to be harsh? Is it because he's being really lazy with house chores?
Yes, I've been patient with him since he is a good friend.
Your friend shouldn't be lazy with house chores, but yelling at him would hurt his feelings. Instead of yelling at him you should sit down and talk to him about the importance of chores.
I'll talk to him and get him up on his feet.
Thanks, he is a human like you and would appreciate it if you didn't yell at him. Sometimes habits are just so ingrained, we may just think of it as normal. This could be a good learning experience for the both of you.