Am I wrong to think trans men actually look like men and in most cases they are pretty attractive but most trans women look like men in dresses?
What makes you think this way about transpeople?
Trans women are very masculine in build and they don't look feminine enough.
You should not judge others by how they look. It's none of your business and it's not important like character.
I don't think it's fair to force people to have gender reassignment surgery to fit our molds. However, I don't agree with self mutilating genitals.
Judging people based on how they look is wrong. It's fine that you don't agree with the idea of a person changing their gender, however you should avoid making hurtful comments about the appearance of trans people.