Do you think it's alright that I left my husband a few years later after he cheated on me?
Do you think he still has the ability to love others after the event?
Yeah, it's about fidelity. He can love any other women he wants, but he has to stay faithful to the ones he loves.
I'm sorry that he cheated on you. It's good that you respected yourself and moved on. You probably would have had a hard time trusting him if you had stayed with him.
I'm secretly happy that I found out about his cheating early and didn't waste my time with him.
It's definitely better that you found out about the cheating sooner rather than later, and were able to leave him. Trust is important in a relationship, and he clearly violated that trust.