I'm going to cut out two of my best friends after they failed to show up to my father's funeral
That was an important event for you. Why would you cut your friends out?
I hate them for not coming to a very important event in my life.
I know you're upset, but you shouldn't expect people to just drop what they are doing for you. You need to be more understanding.
Oh, so I'm the bad guy because I want people to come to important events in my life?
People have unexpected things happening everyday. I am sure your friends wanted to attend but I guess, there were more important stuff they had to do.