The police phoned me to tell me my wife was in hospital. "How is she?" I asked.  "Very critical," replied the officer.  "What's she fucking complaining about now?" I said.
Do you think you should have been less harsh? Is she ok?
Maybe I wouldn't have said something so harsh. We still love each other... Sort of. Besides, she knew she was in the wrong.
I don't see a reason you would lose your temper at an injured spouse. How would you feel if she yelled at you when you were injured?