I'm upset with my son for not getting accepted to UCLA or UC Berkeley.
Why are you upset at your son for not getting accepted to those schools? They're very tough schools to get into.
I expected my son to get into a great college and I'm disappointed that he didn't.
High expectations for our children is somewhat normal, but you can't be upset with them when they don't meet those expectations. You could make him upset and depressed that he disappointed you. Try to stay calm and accept the situation, he'll get accepted at another school and do well.
I'm just really disappointed that he didn't work harder and get into those schools.
Those are difficult schools to get into, and even though you're upset, don't take it out on him. He needs your support and encouragement, many people that didn't go to a top school have had very successful careers.