I'm upset at my boyfriend for choosing video games over me
What makes you so upset about this?
I've told him countless times how much I hate video games. He didn't listen to me
Video games can be a release for people when they are stressed out so I understand his side. However, if it is becoming too much, I get that too. I want my fiance to spend his free time with me too.
I don't think I'm able to wait for him to message me back about what I told him. One of my other friends just died and I'm a bit stressed
It sounds like there are many things happening right now, so I think you should prioritize your other friend.  Just as you want your boyfriend to spend time with you, your mutual friends and your friend's family might need your support in dealing with this difficult time.