Did I tell you about my wife? She refuses to bring one of our children home from europe for me
How did this conflict start?
We were having a disagreement on how many of our children we would bring home from europe.
That doesn't seem very fair of her. It's expected that you should be willing to work together in a relationship. I think you should talk to her more and try and come up with a compromise since these are your children too.
I'm not going to listen to your song-and-dance. I'm going to play the victim and complain to our family and friends, then blow my top when it doesn't go the way I want.
Are you serious? Throwing a tantrum will only worsen the situation. Even if your wife is being unreasonable, you need to respectfully and calmly sit down with her and talk it out.