I'm upset that my husband doesn't give me more money
Why are you upset that your husband doesn't give you money?
I do everything around the house and he doesn't seem grateful at all.
It is understandable that when you work hard, people should appreciate the hard work you did. If the other person is greedy and won't share what should belong to both of you, it is understandable why you would feel upset and want to cut them off.
Why do you care so much?
I am just trying to sympathize with your situation. A lot of women have been there, if you feel you need to have some financial freedom have you considered of getting a part time job? You wont have to rely on him fully if you do.