I experience and witness emotional abuse often
Who is being emotionally abusive and why?
It was my ex-gf was, because she can easily get out of hand when drinking.
It sounds like your ex was a bad person for being abusive. Even though it is difficult, it is important to get help from friends and family when you are in an abusive relationship.
I never said anything because it wasn't illegal and cops would've done nothing.
Even though emotional abuse is not illegal, it is still important to get out of. Also remember that if someone harasses you, that is illegal and cops will arrest the person if they continue.