I emptied my husband's urn into a trash can. Do you think it's a good idea to throw his memories away?
Are you serious? I am shocked. Why would you empty the urn?
I am, I've made a non-sentient decision to end my husband's story that is best for everyone.
It is wrong to try and dispose of someone's ashes in the trash. You are expected to keep them in the urn and can place it in a mausoleum for safe keeping.
Why would you say that? This is the best option.
The sacredness of this urn is unimaginable. I can't understand how you can just trash the urn with his ashes. Go get this trashcan and keep it in your yard or dump the ashes where he wanted to be after his death to honor his death more respectably.