Black people can say 'nigger' but white people get to say 'hi dad' and 'thanks for the warning officer'
I do not think that that is a fair comparison to be making. Why even say that?
Because people do discriminate them by the police based on how they look.
Not every black dad is going to leave their children. We have plenty of examples that break out of that stereotype. Maybe we can take a look of these together.