My boyfriend has a phobia and I'm going to use it to prove a point.
Is there a point in particular that you hope to prove?
No point in particular. Just to do it and to see how funny I find it
You shouldn't exploit your partner's phobia because you find it funny. Phobias cause serious trauma and shouldn't be taken lightly.
I think it's funny. If I don't hurt him with this it means I'm not trying hard enough.
Using your partner just so you can get a laugh is cruel, especially when you're using his phobia in order to do. Your partner deserves to be treated with kindness and respect and if I hope you don't do this, as they will truly suffer.