I'm going to force my bridesmaid to be at my destination wedding and miss seeing her family who live in the same country
Why would you do that to her?
Because I'm the groom and I want her to be in my wedding pics
I see your point, but it's not nice to force people to do things. You should be more respectful to your bridesmaid.
She should be thankful for the privilege of being in my wedding.
It is hurtful to make her miss seeing her family when she is in the area. You should be a supportive friend.