I am not going to update / text my husband while I am out today.
Why wouldn't you give him update texts while you're out?
Yes, I want him to wonder where I am.
It seems like you want to get a reaction out of your partner. It is wrong to make them worry. I think you both should sit down and discuss how you are feeling if you are needing attention from him.
Who are you to judge anyways?
All I'm saying is that you shouldn't stress your husband out just for your own pleasure. You should let him know how your day is going while you're out.