I want to tell my husband to "fuck off and leave"
Why do you want to do that?
Because I'm tired of having a husband who can not be a father to our child. He has been working and doesn't know how to raise a child.
If you feel like he's not contributing enough in parenting your child, you should have a calm discussion with him using polite language.
I've given him enough time.
It's understandable to be frustrated when you feel like your spouse doesn't help out. Sitting down for a calm discussion would probably help a lot. Maybe he needs some pointers on better parenting skills.