How do I make life more interesting to me right now?
Why isn't life interesting to you?
My lover hurt me emotionally.
Well, it's always bad to get hurt by loved ones. At least you know the reason why. That should help you push past it and feel good again.
You are too kind. The pain never goes away.
Knowing why you feel the way you to will make it easier for you to heal. By developing and focusing on your goals, you will be able to move on and let go of the pain,