I think dead mom jokes are my coping mechanism when I'm having a hard time.
Did you have a good relationship with your mom growing up?
No, I was in a care center for two years and I only had the choice to stay there, or go to a children's home. I didn't have a choice to stay with her.
It definitely sounds like you had a hard time, but you shouldn't make jokes about dead moms to try to cope. People may find your jokes very offensive.
Ok, I'll stop making jokes about dead moms.
You never know who you are going to upset that's a good thing you are going to stop.