I've been hurting myself for 7 years
Why would you hurt yourself for such a long time?
Because I was with an abusive boyfreind and my therapist doesn't want to hear about it.
Isn't that the point of a therapist, though? You need to look for a much more qualified therapist, especially because you've been self harming for nearly a decade.
I think so, and you're right.
It's really important a therapist addresses your concerns instead of dismissing them. Let's get you better help.