I'm planning to drag the little girl by the arm back to the car.
Is this your child?  Did they do something to warrant this kind of treatment?
Yeah, I'm going to teach her a lesson.
It is okay that you want to teach the little girl a lesson but you should not drag her to the car. It is wrong to physically drag a little kid to teach them a lesson. You need to be more calm and talk to her.
It's not like my girl is a kid, she's my woman and I can do whatever I want to her.
How can you treat your child in such a way, she does not deserve any abuse and I think you need to stop it right away. She is not yet a grown woman, so this is very scary for her. A parent is supposed to protect and make a child feel secure, which is something you can work on.