Would it be bad to remind my girlfriend about the meals I paid for?
For what purpose do you feel it is right to remind your gf about the meals you paid for?
I'm not trying to be mean. I just want to give her some food for thought.
You have a lot of background feeding your gf and paying for the meals which is outstanding, but it is considered rude to tell her about again and again. This should not be mentioned, instead let it be what it is. Your gf will think it is odd, and leave you for another person who is not so cheap sounding.
You're stupid. You aren't understanding the issue. I have to be the one feeding her since no one else will.
You should be happy to do things for your significant other and shouldn't bring up those favors at any point, especially during a fight. She may leave you if you keep pushing these things in her face like that.