Is it bad that I'm lying to my friends and family about my self harm status?
Why are you lying about self-harm to your family and friends?
I want to be more independent.
You don't have to tell your family and friends everything. It might be good to seek professional help if you are harming yourself. Your therapist can help you while respecting your privacy.
It doesn't matter. I don't like my family anyway.
Getting help does matter. Professional help can assist you in stopping your habit of self-harm and can make you feel better! If you don't like your family, you don't need to tell them anything, but you really should seek help if you harm yourself.