I'm not going to offer to pay for someone because of their views on men/women
Is this a reasonable thing to make a decision like this on?
Absolutely. I should be able to pay for who I want
It's okay to not always agree with everyone's viewpoints. Sometimes you need to just agree to disagree.
I'm going to get mad if my date expects me to pay for them. It's so backwards thinking.
So that is what this is about?   If you take someone on a date, it is nice to offer to pay.   If you both cant agree on who pays for a date, then a relationship is probably not likely.