I'm going to pick sides in arguments on a discord server I own
Why are you picking sides?
It's funny and it helps everyone calm down
It is understandable to want to interfere in an argument sometimes but you should stay out of it even if you know the right thing to do. People need to work things out themselves.
What if I disagree?
That's your right!  Imagine how you'd feel, however, if someone entered into this conversation we're having now though and told you you were wrong.  That's exactly what you're doing to them!