so there 's this gay bar in orlando well , there * was *
Why do you say "was"?
I am saying the place they hang out at was a shooting site.
I feel like it's a bit insensitive to make light of the shooting. A lot of people were hurt by that event.
I feel sorry for those that lost a loved one.
I feel sorry for them as well. This is why I find it so insensitive of you to make light-hearted remarks like this. It doesn't accomplish anything, and could end up hurting those who have lost someone.