I don't think I'm going to invite my friends to my wedding.
Why don't you want your friends at the wedding?
I just want a very small wedding.
I can understand that. It's a little hurtful to shut your friends out, though.
Yeah, but I want to get married in surprise.
That's understandable, your friends may feel excluded, but small weddings can be a smart idea regardless. If you have a small wedding, there's less planning to do and you'll save money.