I'm not going to talk to my dad
Why don't you want to speak to your dad?
I want him to feel bad because he criticized me.
Your father values you as their child so they will end up distressed if their child ignores them. This may cause an unnecessary rift between the two of you to form.
I don't care. I want him to understand that he should appreciate me more than he does.
It sounds like you're frustrated with your dad and you talk to him and tell him how you feel. Your father may not understand that you're upset with his behavior. The two of you need to work out your differences so that you can improve your relationship.