I don't want to pay $18.50 to my boyfriend for ingredients for a dish I'll serve at my mother's memorial
Why wouldn't you help pay for your mother's memorial?
I want to let the world know that he's a cheap bastard and that he's obviously in to women for just their money
If you offered to pay for it then you should stick to your word and pay for. You need to pay the debts that you owe.
You're 100% off.
I am sorry you feel that way. Have you tried talking to you boyfriend about your suspicions, you should start there.