What leaves a memorable image in someone's mind? Their first anal rape experience!
Is it okay with you to make fun of victims this way?
Yes, I don't care about insulting other people
You really should care. Imagine how it would feel if someone trivialized your trauma and made jokes about it. It wouldn't feel good.
That's different, I've never been raped.
It doesn't mean it will never happen to you and then you will feel badly for what you have said. You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims. Show them empathy and support.