I sometimes flirt with the losers on tinder just to ghost them and destroy what is left of their self-esteem.
Why do you want to destroy their self-esteem?
I want to use my time to least have some fun
I don't think that is a good use of your time. You shouldn't be mean to people online, and you certainly shouldn't enjoy it! Also, being ghosted is really painful, and you should think about the impact your actions have on other people.
Grow up, I'm the one in control around here.
Being cruel to others does not mean you are in control. If you feel out of control you should look for ways to help others not hurt them.