I'm in love with a married woman who is not my wife
What contributes to your relationship with this married woman?
I am the only one who understands her pain. I want to free her from her shackles.
I understand, but it's terrible to cheat on your partner emotionally with this person. Your wife would be so upset.
I don't see it that way. The woman is a breath of fresh air and I want to free her from the abuse. In other words, her knight in shiny armor.
This is not a wise way of looking at things. It is one thing to help people, but not at the expense of your marriage. I understand that as men, we have a strong desire to assist those in need, especially if there is a helpless woman present, but you are in a good marriage, and it is not worth jeopardizing it.