I have grievances with sjws and with anti-sjws.
Could you give me a list?
I don't want to write it all down. There are too many of them
People can be very annoying, so it is understandable to disagree. But, if you don't get along with anybody, maybe you need to re-think what is bothering you and why.
They both can be offensive.
People can be offensive sometimes so it is okay to be annoyed by them. You should spend time with people that don't annoy you.