Is it wrong that I want my husband to be a stay at home dad?
Is that something that you think your husband wants to do?
My husband and me generally agree on issues of raising children.
If that is what your husband wants to do, I say go for it. You should make sure that that is something that he really wants to do though.
That's the only way I can get all the housework done.
It's important for you to make sure that your husband wants to be a stay at home dad. Aside from the housework, it's necessary to make sure that you both feel fulfilled and are able to achieve your goals outside of the home.