I'm going to tell my girlfriend to get an abortion. I don't think she should have the baby.
Do you just not want a kid?
Her family has a history with disabled children being born and I don't want to risk that.
The fear of having a disabled child is reasonable but you can't just decide to tell your girlfriend to get an abortion. You shouldn't make big decisions like that for other people. Talk to her first and if she disagrees try to get genetic testing done for the baby so you can be prepared.
There is nothing wrong making big decisions like that. I'm going to break up with her if she doesn't listen to me.
You need to be a good father and partner and be there for her and talk with her through this whole situation. You can't just be telling her what to do like that.