I think there is nobody I simultaneously love and hate as much as my dad
Has your father done anything to you to make you hate him?
No, he's just a pushy know-it-all.
I don't think it's right for you to hate your dad just because he's annoying sometimes. It's expected that you respect your parents, and treat them kindly.
That's too simpleminded. He's too narrow-minded.
That doesn't seem like a good reason to hate him. You should try to understand him more and the hate will probably go away.