I'm going to yell at my mom for using my debit card. I can't believe she did that!
Why did she use your card?
I don't know, but she should know better than use my money like that.
While it is wrong for your parent to use your debit card, it is also wrong for you to yell at your parents. Do your best to talk to your mom in a civilized manner without sounding to overly emotional.
Why does everyone think everything is best solved without yelling or being rude.
Because yelling gets people upset and makes the situation much worse. That's your mom and that's not someone you should shout or tell at.