I can't stop thinking about Michael Cera. Is this going to be something I need to address with you?
Oh for real? You like Michael Cera?
I'm watching a movie with Michael Cera. But I could never date anyone like him.
If you can't date him why are you thinking about him obsessively? People will think you are a hypocrite. Plus it's kind of wrong and creepy to obsess about people.
Fine I'll stop.
Obscession itself is really mentally draining for yourself. It is a good idea to stop. You should give others a chance to just be who they are and gravitate to you naturally if that is the way the universe wants it to be.