Is it bad that I'm going to tell a realtor that we aren't interested in a house because its in a Mormon community?
Why don't you want that house?
I'm not a mormon and the wife is not into that stuff either.
Buying a house is a serious commitment so you don't have to buy it if you don't want it. There are many other possibilities out there that you will be more happy with.
I don't care about the mormon crap just how long it would take to commute to work.
You need to look at all your options and pick out what is best for you. It's a huge commitment and decision and you need to find your best choice.