I physically hit my wife. She's from a wealthy family and grew up not having learned typical things women must do.
Are you joking? Why did you think this was ok?
I had to do it, she never does anything herself. She has no job or hobbies. At first I thought everything will be OK once we married, however I was wrong.
There is no reason that makes it right to hit your wife. If you have the feeling like you want to be violent to a spouse you should walk away and cool down. Abuse is not acceptable.
I love her and it's her fault for being lazy.
Wrong, you are the abuser. You have no right to beat her because she doesn't do what you want. You need to get therapy before you go to far and seriously injure her.