I'm so stressed thinking about a request that I received. The property's previous owner's daughter wants to spread his ashes here.
Wow, that's quite a decision to make. What are you going to do?
I don't want to allow her to spread his ashes here. I don't really like her and I don't want someone's ashes spread on my property.
While you really don't care for the daughter of the deceased man, it is her right to spread his ashes anywhere he requested. Telling people what to do is unfair, these are just ashes and if you stop her from spreading them you interfere with the deceased's wishes. Let her do what she wants out of respect for her father.
I don't need to grant her request because it's my property and if I don't want his ashes spread here, it's my right to say no.
I know you feel very strongly about this, but if it was the deceased last request, it would be very kind of you to grant that request. You'll do a very good deed for someone and make their family very happy.