Don't tell anyone, but if my wife and I die I don't want my infant daughter to be in my mom's custody.
I'll be sure to keep it to myself. Can you tell me why you don't want her to have custody, though?
I think my daughter wouldn't be well cared for by my mom and her husband. They don't have a good relationship and I don't want my daughter to be around that.
If it is a toxic environment, I understand why you would feel thing way. I would not want your daughter to be in your mom's care, either.
Yeah, my mom smokes, which I can't stand, and she and her husband constantly fight.
If that's the case then you should make arrangements so your daughter will taken care of by people that you feel will be good for her. Maybe one of your friends or other family members would be the better choice.