What do you think about me abandoning my mother at the nursing home?
Why did you abandon your mom at the nursing home?
I don't want to get blamed by my mom for abandoning her.
You should not neglect your parents when they need your support. Being there for your parents in their old age will ensure that you don't live with regrets when a parent passes away.
It's fine because she doesn't worry about me, I can leave her if I want.
You may think she doesn't worry about you, but she is your mother so I am sure she worries about you a lot. You should be good to your parents, as they raised you and now it is your turn to give back to them.