I'm not going to allow my mil to buy perfume for my daughter
Does she always buy the same fragrance?
She uses her perfume every day, it's been quite clear that it'll harm my daughter
I really think it is nice that she wants to buy something for my daughter. It is good to trust your daughter to be able to make her own decision on the fragrance she wants.
She will be able to pick it herself when she gets older. Do not worry about that.
I think that they are just trying to be endearing. I think that it is kind that they buy presents for their grand children.