My wife wanted me to do stuff around the house but I just felt like I didn't really want to.
Why would you not do what your wife asked you to do?
Because I didn't feel like listening to her.
You should probably listen to your spouse when she asks you to do something, especially if it's something you mutually benefit from like chores around the house. You'll probably find things go a lot smoother around the house when you do that!
I get that, but sometimes I'm just really lazy.
People can have days where they don't feel like doing much, but you should always be supportive of your spouse and do what they ask you to do. In the end it will be worth getting the task done so they will be happy.