I had a huge, expensive destination wedding and honeymoon in Hawaii, and I hated it!
Why would you hate a trip to Hawaii, especially for such a happy event?
The weather was too hot and Hawaii is not my style
That's understandable. Not everyone likes every climate, and I'm sorry you had to experience your wedding in a place you didn't enjoy. Was there anything good you can remember about your wedding instead of dwelling on the bad?
No! The weather sucks and the place is not my idea of vacation.
I'm sure you can think of something that was good, even if it's just the food or the company or the hotel pool. I know you're under a lot of pressure to appreciate it, and that can be grating when you disliked it, but you don't want to make people think badly of you by complaining about a vacation most people can't afford.