I'm mad and hurt at my husband for trying to be a good son/grandson/great grandson
Why would you be annoyed by something so positive?
I was just in a poor mood and annoyed with that people who do that kind of actions just to impress others.
Seems like they were just trying to help. You should want good role models to be present around your children.
I still feel like he shouldn't do it though.
It is normal to want good things to happen to those around us. If you have a problem with it i think it might be helpful to go to therapy and find out why you feel this way.