I'm not going to let my 17 year old daughter go to a different state with her friends
Do you think something bad would happen to her?
Yes, I am going to force her to stay home with me instead.
That makes sense. It's fine to keep your daughter from doing something that might be unsafe for her.
I want her to be a total wreck so I'll make sure she's depressed and not leaving my sight.
Well it's awful that you'd want to make her depressed on purpose. You should just tell her the reasons why you don't want her doing it.