Straight guys make me cry so much
Do they cry with you?
No, they like to get drunk and take drugs every night instead.
It is very sad to watch someone self destruct with alcohol and drugs. You should try to get them professional help to save their life.
I'm not a therapist. It's not my job to help them.
You're right, it's not your job to help them, but you shouldn't stand by and let their addictions go unchecked. If you remain passive, then you normalize their addiction behavior, which only causes them to spiral further.