I'm going to act on behalf of a nightmare where my husband cheated on me.
Do you think he would cheat on you?
My husband is pretty hot and I know some girls at work like him. I don't like the idea of them wanting him, especially if they want to do certain things with him.
Dreams can be upsetting but you shouldn't take it out on your husband what your dream husband did. It is not right and will cause problems in your marriage.
It's not a dream but a nightmare and I told you the point of it.  I really think my nightmare is trying to tell me something.
Have you thought that maybe your nightmare is trying to tell you more about yourself than about your husband? Accusing your husband of something that happened in your nightmare will only make him feel that you distrust him and you risk driving him away with your accusations.