I'm going to make asian jokes to my asian friend. Just because she kept saying the n-word
That is not cool on both fronts!
Racism is not always offensive, I'm uncomfortable when people feel offended when they didn't mean to.
Still you should not make racist jokes. It is not always an eye for an eye.
I just want her to know how I feel when she says those things.
I still think that you both are wrong. There is no reason for either of you to be making racist jokes like that.