Am I wrong to think about leaving my dad and my family?
Why do you want to leave your dad and your family?
I'm tired of living in this house and having him control me.
I wouldn't advise leaving unless you absolutely have to.  Abandoning your family for selfish reasons is not a good idea.  Try and talk to them about how you're feeling.
Fuck that, I'm going to show them that I'm not a tool for them to use and control.
Finding your own way and living own your own may be beneficial to your mental and emotional health. If your family won't hear you out, it may be best to leave. Just try to be a good position financial to do so.