I'm going to yell at my aunt on thanksgiving because she kept making passive aggressive comments about a crime I committed 10+ years ago
Why do you have to bring this up at Thanksgiving?
I'm just simply fed up with listening to yet another lecture about something I did when I was 10 years old. Besides my aunt is usually passive aggressive towards me anyway.
It's understandable you feel like you'll lose your temper, but it's Thanksgiving. I think it's best to politely tell her to keep her mouth shut in regards to your life decisions instead.
I'm going to yell at her and make a scene but if it gets bad I'll leave.
Holidays like Thanksgiving are the worst time to argue with relatives. You need to put these issues aside for just a bit.