I have a problem with the real reason my best friend doesn't use the n word
What do you think is your friend's reason for not wanting to use the N-word?
I'm his token black friend, he's scared to use the word in front of me.
But you have to understand from his perspective that he chooses not to use it as a form of respect for you as a friend. He knows well that using the N-word is culturally insensitive and does not want to make you uncomfortable. You should respect his choice and right or he might feel too much pressure from you.
I can't respect him, I'm going to use it as much as I want to prove he's a fake ass nigga.
Surely using it around him all the time is going to make the situation all the more uncomfortable right?  Do you really think using that word so frequently is the best solution?  Why don't you just talk to him about how you feel?