I'm going to refuse to say I love you to my partner
Are you having issues with your partner? Why don't you want to tell them that you love them?
I just don't feel like it.
It seems like there could be some issues in your relationship if you don't want to tell them that you love them. Are you having problems? Maybe you should rethink your relationship?
That would be horrible and I'm so mad that you're telling me to break up with my partner. No one has the right to tell me who I should love.
I'm just wondering if the two of you are having issues because you should want to tell your partner that you love them. Try to think about why you don't want to tell them that you love them.