I dont want a closer family friend to have my baby.
Why would they even have your baby? Can you elaborate?
I want to be able to raise my own child.
You have the freedom to choose who gets to spend time with your child. If you do not want your close family friend to look over and watch your child, then you do not have to let them.
I need to tell them that it's my right to watch my own child.
You totally have the right to choose who watches your kids. Even if you live with someone you can find a daycare or a baby sitter you approve of.