I think it's unfair that my grieving friend gets free passes for assignments
Why do you think your friend doesn't deserve some leeway?
No one helps me when I'm in pain or when I'm in grief. A lot of people don't see it that way.
Your friend is going through a lot. I am sure their mind is somewhere else and not thinking about school.
I'm still hurt that no one recognized my own grief. I guess I'm not important in my social circle.
It is unfortunate that your friends didn't show you the kind of love and support you needed at that time. You should realize then how much your friend needs that support now and give them some slack.