What if I can't stand my boyfriend's kids?
Why don't you like his kid?
Because he acts like an asshole most of the time
Children can be difficult but you should try to get along with them. If things work out with your boyfriend you are expected to be more in the child's life.
If I can handle the kid, I'm going to tell a counselor or someone else. I want someone to help me get things done.
It's important for you to work on the bond that you have with your boyfriend's children. Let your boyfriend know that you would like to improve the interaction between you and his kids and ask him what you can do.