My dad needs me to loan him money but I am going to refuse.
Why won't you loan him the money?
Because I'm grown man now and I don't need to look after my dad anymore
I get your point, but it's good to help people. You should loan your father the money if he needs it.
No, I think he's going to lose the house. He hasn't paid his mortgage for weeks. I'm going to talk to my accountant.
If he is in such dire straights don't you want to help? I'm sure he would do the same for you if you needed money and he had the ability to help.