I need constant validation.
What do you want from me?
I would appreciate if you did the dishes. Or at least thanked me for it.
I understand how you feel, but it's not good to always need others to help you feel good about yourself. If you think you've done a good job with the dishes, then that's all the validation you should need.
WTF, why can't people give me attention for doing the dishes?
You know other people don't expect to be thanked for normal every day tasks even those with messes that the person made themselves. Should I spill food on the floor and expect someone else to praise me for it?