Family isn't always first.
That's strange. Why do you think family shouldn't be first?
I think parents should not expect many things from their kids and they should be allowed to make their own choices
You are entitled to make your own choices but family will be there for you as friends and romantic relationships come and go. So since it will be your longest relationship you should put them first.
I disagree. Family is a hassle and I'm tired of playing the game.
Family can be indeed tiring, but I believe that they should always come first because they will be there for life. Don't you think it would be great to have an amazing support system wherever you go?