Is it wrong that I feel happy that I haven't responded to my family in a month?
Why don't you want to respond to your family?
My family is kinda controlling, they want to know my schedule. It just gets on my nerves
It's okay to want some space from your family every now and then. If we didn't take time from them they may end up getting on our nerves a lot.
I don't care, I don't want them getting on my nerves.
Don't avoid them forever but taking some time away might be healthy for you and for everyone to get along better.