"I'm incel because I don't try hard enough". If that's the case, then how is it that many if not most gay guys had gfs before they found out they were gay?
I don't understand this at all. Are you saying you deserve better because at least you're not gay?
That is what I am saying. It is not fair.
It's wrong to think people deserve less than you just because of their sexual orientation. Everyone should be treated equally and earn what they deserve.
They're just lucky then and I guess I am unlucky
I understand you are just trying to rationalize your situation, but it's not fair to all these people for you to think they don't deserve what they have because they are gay. Try and be more understanding of others.