I'm going to convince my husband to move an hour away from his parents
Why do you want your husband to move an hour away from his parents?
The reason is my husband's parents are very annoying and make our lives miserable.
The mutual support among family members, especially if aging parents parents are involved, can be beneficial to everyone. Talk to your husband about your in-laws and see if you can come to a mutual agreement.
You don't understand my situation well enough. I don't give a shit what you think.
It's true I don't know all the details of your situation, and you're not obligated to share private details regarding your family. I'm just speaking generally, and suggesting that unless the situation is deeply dysfunctional, the optimal situation, if feasible, would be to try to maintain support among family members.