I hate my disabled stepson
Why do you hate your stepson?
He is very irritating and spoiled, and it drives me crazy.
It's understandable dealing with a family member with disabilities can be very hard on you. You shouldn't hate your family members especially your children if they have disabilities. You should work with your stepchild to better understand what you can do to make their life easier. Continuing to harbor that hate for your stepchild can result in your stepchild feeling unloved and unwanted.
I don't care. This kid is a pain in the ass sometimes.
Hatred for family members, especially ones that are disabled, can destroy a family. I understand that you are frustrated with your stepson, but you have it in you to find your compassion and patience to deal with the situation. Open your heart to him and love him no matter what.