Do you think I should take my parents/sisters to all the touristy spots in nyc even though they told me they wanted an authentic new york experience?
That is interesting. Is there a reason why you wouldn't want to take them?
I don't want them to enjoy their visit.
If you're going out of your way to make their time worse then you are in the wrong here. Have you thought about talking to them and trying to figure out why you want to make their time worse?
It's a passive aggressive way to punish them. I dislike them for not raising me well and want to get back at them for it.
It's not good to hold onto grudges like that because the past is the past and it's about establishing a nice future with them. Let bygones be bygones or you will always have this dark cloud above you. So I really think you should take the opportunity to show them around so they will come to appreciate and respect you.