I'm in love with my ex. My wife doesn't know.
How does it feel to be in love with someone other than the one you are supposed to be in love with?
When you're in love with someone that you are not supposed to be in love with, it shows how great your ability for self-control is
It's not reasonable to still be in love with someone you broke up with so long ago, but its even worse to hide these feelings from your wife.  You should be up front and honest about any lingering feelings you might have before you get married.
Shut up. I just do not care if you understand or not.
I am hurt with you ignoring what I said and thinking that I do not understand you. I understand you to the notions that I am giving advice that would lead you to have better choices for your life, as you desperately need it. I hope you focus with your wife and try to be with her and see how you can resolve your issues with your relationship with her, instead of being distracted.