I think I hate my mother.
Did you mom do something to you to make you hate her?
Yes, she blames me too often about the things I do.
I see how you feel, but you should respect that your mom is trying to do what is best for you. Try having a conversation with her about how you feel when she blames you for things.
I don't think she'll listen to me.
I think if you let her know how you're feeling, then she'll listen. Holding on to this hatred for your mother without even letting her know why you feel like that isn't healthy.