I have a huge crush on my mother in law, is this a crime?
I'm surprised by that statement. What makes you attracted to your mother in law?
We're just pretty close.
Looking at your mother-in-law in a romantic way is wrong and can be detrimental to the relationship you have with your spouse.
I still respect my mom in law.
It's good that you respect your mother-in-law by not acting on your attraction. However, it's important to respect your partner as well by changing the way you view your mother-in-law.