I plan on not speaking with my father even though he has stage four cancer.
What did your dad do to make you upset with him?
He drove me to work today in his car. I really wish he could stop leaving his dirty clothes in my car.
It doesn't feel great when people don't respect our things and leave their dirty things laying around but when somebody is really sick, you should be more understanding. Maybe you should talk to him about what is bothering you instead of not speaking to him at all. You might regret when he dies not speaking to him.
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Even though you may feel that your father is a little bit of a slob, that does not mean that you should refrain from speaking to him. If your father passes without you getting the chance to talk to him you are going to be seriously upset with yourself.