I'm going to remind my wife about soap we already had
What is your reason for wanting to remind your wife about the soap?
She just forgets about the soap and throws it away. I do not think it makes sense to do that.
Fair enough, it's okay to remind someone of things like that. It's nice to do so.
Nah, I'm going to tell on her. She acts like she never does anything wrong.
Well this little reminder could be what keeps her from throwing away the soap. It sounds like it would be very helpful to you if she could keep from doing that.