I want to strangle my mom every time she clears her throat
Why do you want to strangle her?
Because her throat clearing sounds like she's summoning demons or suck up cow dung.
You shouldn't have such violent thoughts about your mother. You should be nicer to her.
Nah. She's just too annoying.
If she is annoying, you could always speak to her. Again, having  thoughts about strangling your mother is very unnatural.