Can I refuse to clean the kitchen?
Why are you going to refuse to clean the kitchen?
As long as my partner can do it, I have no intention to dirty my hands.
You shouldn't force your partner to do all of the cleaning. It is your responsibility as well to help out around the house.
But they are just supposed to do all these.
No, cleaning should be split by everyone in the house. You need to do you part to keep everything clean.