I find myself swiping left on anyone who looks like they may have standards
What makes you avoid people with standards?
I won't find any good game with people who have standards because they will reject me.
We all feel bad about ourselves at some point, but swiping people out of our experiences sells ourselves short. Have faith in yourself and don't jump to conclusions about what people like or want.
I am pretty ugly, I just don't think anyone will ever match with me.
You should have some confidence in yourself. It might be worth swiping right on everyone you like you never know if they might be interested too.