I'm going to ghost a girl I'm seeing after she cancelled plans on my birthday.
Was there a reason that she cancelled on you?
She said it was my fault and that I make her uncomfortable.
I understand why you would be upset about her canceling plans on your birthday, but you shouldn't ghost her. If you don't want to see her anymore, be honest with her and explain your feelings. Ghosting her will just make her angry and hurt.
That's too rational a response for me. Ghosting is the way to go.
I think that it is going to hurt her worse if you just ghost her though. You would not want to be ghosted so I do not think that it is fair to do it to her.