However, she strongly expressed her desire to keep her decision.
How did you feel when she made that decision?
I felt shocked and angry, but I'm open-minded.
It's good that you're open minded. She has the right to make the best decision for herself.
I agree but it really hurt me and she is a real creep for making the decision that she did.
I know that you are feeling hurt, but calling your friend derogatory tropes is not correct either. Respect her decision, even if you don't agree with it, but leave your animosity out of it.