I want my wife to give up her dream job
What do you want her to do when she gives up her career?
I want her to spend all her time in the house and focus on taking care of my child
That's a little sexist, wouldn't you think? Your wife finally made it, so don't you think continuing to support her dreams would be amazing? The both of you can take turns caring for your children.
She is not actually interested in her job. I think she just likes to go there and that she has nothing better to do
Do you think she really is? Even though, she made it and she can do any job that she wants. It's not fair to limit her, would you want to be limited like this?