I find it hard to respect short men
I hope that's a joke? Why don't you like short men?
It's like picking the wrong end of the stick.
Sometimes you can't help who you are attracted to but you shouldn't judge people for their height. You might miss somebody who could be perfect for you and people will think that you are too picky.
I rather be picky.
It's just not a good thing to judge someone on, and I hope one day you can move past it.