Do I really have to open this jar of pickles for this old lady?
Why don't want to do it? Do you dislike her?
I don't care for those people who call my name and they expect me to be there
It's just a jar of pickles, man. Help the woman and move on with your life.
I'm going to hold this grudge for a long time.
It doesn't matter if it upsets or annoys you, because when someone needs your help then you are expected to at least try and help. If one day you need help, you will want someone to be there for you.