I get sad everytime I speak with my mom. She's holding me back.
What does she do to hold you back?
She wants to know what I'm doing all day and I get depressed when I tell her
You cannot really blame your depression on your mom though, she just wants to be involved. Your depression is something just happens sometimes.
I know that, but she shouldn't bother me.
I think that you should talk to her about how you feel. I do think that it is wrong to place blame on others for how you are feeling about your life.