I think I'm going to kick out my tinder date. She came over to my place while she's on her period.
Why is her being on her period such a big deal?
I'm aggravated because she texted me to say that she was on her way, and then she texted me to say that she was still at home because of her period. And then she showed up really late.
I can understand why you are annoyed about her not leaving  her home after she already said that she was on her way and for being late. But you should tell her how you feel instead of kicking her out. That would make her feel that you only wanted her over for one thing.
I am so upset that I plan to make a Facebook post about how the girl never turned up, and how I missed out on a possible connection with an actual person.
I don't see why you would put her on blast on Facebook when she gave you a reasonable explanation for not coming over. Even if she hadn't given you a good reason, it would be immature to write about the experience on social media. The mature thing to do would be to let it go and move on to someone new.