One time I took a girl on a date to a graveyard. Let's say she didn't come back alive.
Oh my goodness! Are you telling me that you killed a girl?
It was just a joke.
That kind of joke marginalizes victims of violent assault, when they should actually be focused on and taken seriously. Imagine if somebody you love were a victim of such a terrible crime. I don't think you would be telling such jokes then.
Fair enough.
Yeah, you have to be more careful when you try to tell jokes! They can get very harmful or scary to people who actually knew someone who went through such a thing. Thanks for listening to this, you are great.