How about purposely picking fights with my wife?
Why do you want to pick a fight with your wife?
Because I'm angry with her, and I want to have a good reason to divorce her.
Relationships can be difficult and will always have arguments. However, intentionally trying to find reasons to fight with your spouse is not going to help anyone. If you want a divorce, just be honest with them rather than picking fights with her.
I actually think that initiating divorce is wrong, so I want her to be the one who tries to get out of the relationship.
There's nothing wrong in divorcing your partner if the marriage  is beyond repair. I recommend you to split with your wife if you think your marriage Is not working out.