Can I move past my ex and be happy?
Why did you leave your ex?
I realized my need for independence and stability is at odds with what she can provide
I know moving on is difficult but it's not okay to get stuck in the past. You'll miss opportunities with other people if you dwell on past relationships.
I should keep listening to my heart and follow through with my emotions.
You already took the first step in breaking up, so try to keep moving forward. Get rid of anything that reminds you of them and occupy your time with your passions and interests. In time you'll start to heal.