I'm going to make my friend feel like she had to exit out relationship
How do you think that you will achieve this?
I don't know how else I could make her feel the way she made me feel.
Have you thought about talking to her about the situation? You shouldn't try to make you friend feel bad just because they upset you.
I seem to think you're trying to control my life.
I am not, but I am trying to help you figure out why you would treat your friend that way. it is wrong to make them feel that bad about themselves.