I'm going to snap at someone for getting into my face about not participating in a dance
What happened to cause you to act this way?
I really don't want to dance, they acted like a jerk
You should not be forced to do anything you don't want to. You should say it kindly so you don't look like the bad guy if other people are around.
They are trying to embarrass me.
I don't think it is fair to be forced into doing something you don't want to do. You have a right to stand up for yourself and your personal space.