Is it wrong for me to not forgive my dad when everyone else did?
Did they try to apologize to you?
Yes, they (my dad and my boyfriend) already apologized and now I just want to hold them accountable.
A person cannot expect everyone to forgive them if they do something wrong. It might be worth considering forgiving them if they change.
I need to teach them a lesson of mistakes. I'm just lashing out.
It's important to remember that forgiveness is more for yourself than for the other person. When you forgive, you're no longer holding on to the hurt that they caused and can move past it. Then you get to decide if they are welcomed in your life again.