I was in a car accident tonight and my father didn't ask if I was okay.
Oh no, I am really sorry to hear this. Does he normally care about you?
He always hit me, he hit my mom for trivial reasons, he doesn't care about us. I told him I was not feeling well and he just left the room. He always does that and he hardly cares about my wellbeing.
That must be really painful, especially after a car accident. It can be tough being ignored and feeling like someone doesn't care.
I'm going to avoid him and make him feel bad. If he didn't care then I shouldn't care either.
You have every right to be upset about his behavior, just remember that this is his flaw and not yours.