I'm going to have my dad pay for my college but then ghost him for the rest of my life
Why do you want your dad to pay for your college if you don't want him in your life?
I won't have to work hard for a living, then I can enjoy life
It's wrong to deceive your dad especially if he is going to pay for your college. It's very selfish and greedy of you to think like that. You will gain way more by keeping your family close to you.
Nah, I'm going to ghost him and just spend dad's money.
I can understand not wanting to be in debt to pay for college but you shouldn't take advantage of your dad to pay for it. It is not nice to use people and people will think you are cold.