I don't understand why my girlfriend is so upset about a sensitive subject, can I say this to you without any backlash?
Really? Is it hard to talk to her about it?
I know, it's so complicated to talk with her about this
Maybe she's just more sensitive about the subject. You need to be more patient with her and respect how she handles the situation.
Okay, but I'll try to be more sensitive too.
Sensitive topics have a reaction on people that are totally different. One person might be easier to talk to about it and the next not. Have patience and be open to everything, and everyone.