How do you feel about if I refuse to meet with male fans after my shows because I was groped?
Have you told your fans this?
No, but they should know my boundaries and what I like and don't like it.
It's reasonable to not want to meet with male fans after such an experience. However, it's expected that you meet with all fans after a show.
I don't care, now you can say that I have mood swings and have a bad attitude. I was barely harassed and I deserve to dictate who I meet with.
You should be able to not meet with male fans after you're groped, but you should also at least try to meet up with them if you can. Just have extra people around so that no one thinks about ever touching you again. You could lose a lot of fans if you stop meeting with every single man.