I'm going to drive a friend off discord
Why are you booting him off? Did someone ask you to do it?
I'm just proud of myself for doing so.
It can be hard to talk to your friends when they are doing something wrong but you shouldn't make them feel unwelcomed. It is better to talk to them about what they are doing wrong so they can fix it.
FUCK NO. I'm better than that, if I can't change a person by myself, I'll use others to do it for me.
You are not meant to change a person but try to make him understand. Talking is where it all starts.