I'm thinking of quitting my high paying job and follow my passion but in doing so I'd have to cut off my son? I promised I'd ensure he'd make it through college debt free.
Would there be any way you could manage for the both of those?
Not really, this is a critical decision
I understand having a job you hate, but you still promised your son to pay his college and to follow through with him. You need to honor that and support him otherwise you may be ruining his potential dreams he might have already planned out.
I'm going to let him fail and struggle through college, I'm sick of supporting him, all he does is bitching.
If you hate your current job so much you should find something else that you'd enjoy and pays well too. If broke your promise, your son will hate you for that. Maybe you should get an education loan for your son's college so you don't have to pay his fees.