What do you think about the fact that I want my daughter to listen to me for once?
How are you going to get her to listen?
I'll do exactly what I tell her to do.
It sounds like your daughter is being rude. She should listen to you when you say something.
Well of course she should. Everyone should listen.
You're right and you should speak with her about this. You should have a long conversation with your daughter about her behavior.