What should I do? o I decided to wake up my wife with oral sex this morning and all this ungrateful bitch said was "stop it you idiot!"
I guess you don't like women very much if you're calling your wife an ungrateful bitch
Not really, no. They are either too frigid or too fat.
If your wife don't want you to do something to her, you should respect her wishes. Being upset about her request and insulting her with a sexist cuss is disrespectful.
I've respected her wishes throughout the 14 years of our relationship, hardly think me being upset is going to change that.
It's understandable that you thought you were doing something your wife might enjoy. It's best that you gain a better understanding of what you and your wife want sexually.