I'm going to push my friend to make the mother of his child take better care of herself
Is the mother that irresponsible? Hows the father?
My friend is responsible for the kid, I'm just giving him some needed advice.
It's understandable to be concerned for a friend, but its rude to butt into someone else's business uninvited. You may end up crossing a line and offending them if you do.
I understand that they need to be more mature but I've had enough.
Just don't cross that line. People don't want other people to dictate their life and how one of care of a child.