I feel like I should have more control on your life decisions
Are you certain you can choose correctly?
I know the right way to go
You seem to know what you want, but you shouldn't make life decisions that involve others without also taking their ideas into consideration. Don't make the decisions on your own.
No, I'll take the decisions that I think are right, even if they are opposite to everyone else's.
That's the best way to do it but a better way is to incorporate other people's decision to diversify more.