My dad left for the store when I was twelve and never came back. Just kidding. I'm not black.
Is this really what you believe about black fathers?
Why would you think so? I find it highly offensive that you would assume that I think like this.
I asked you that question because when people tell jokes like that, others will think that's what they actually believe. That's why those jokes can be so dangerous. They perpetuate racist stereotypes and make people believe that black fathers are inherently worse parents.