I want to tell my husband I didn't like his wedding vows
Was there something wrong with his vows?
He acted like a asshole when he said them.
It is wrong to not like someone's vow's and still marry them. You could have said no and called it off if they were so offensive.
I need a ring though and I'm nothing without a man to buy me things.
I hope you don't mean that, because you are a whole person and you are worthy, even without a man or money. If your husband doesn't respect you, then you should talk to him so that you can make your relationship healthier.