My love life has been devastating. I can't even make my boyfriend come.
Any chance that some video lesson on sex would help?
He won't try that and I can't order him to do it.
Maybe the problem is him and not you so don't try to beat yourself up over it. You guys should have a sit-down and talk about if there is anything that can solve and address the problem.
Maybe I should if he's ever ready.
You should try to convince him to talk about it. It can be awkward, but it's the only way to get past this issue.