I'm planning to set a bear trap to catch my ex wife.
Are you feeling OK?
I hated my ex wife for leaving me
Listen, it's not healthy to hate anyone. That much is evident based on the fact that you're trying to literally ensnare your ex in an animal trap.
I'm going to do it, no one will care.
The police will care. I doubt your ex, her family and friends will exactly be thrilled. If your ex needs to be snared in a bear trap to be near you, you're way past the time where you need to move on.