Should I tell my wife that I am having an affair?
Why do you want to tell your wife that?
I want to be truthful to her and get this guilt off my back.
I feel like you need to do that. What you did was unfair to her, and she deserves the truth from your mouth.
That's good that you agree with me. I'm glad I opened up to you.
It is always smart to be honest with those that you love and hope that they understand. Being truthful is one of the most important parts of any healthy relationship, or bad one to keep it from falling off completely.