Should I feel like a racist now?
What makes you feel that you're racist now?
I have been getting a lot of opinions from strangers about race and I know it's super hateful
If you've been getting negative information about race from others, you should stop soliciting information from them as it promotes racial hatred and that is wrong. You should not internalize negative racist thoughts as it will cause you to hate others.
I'm getting called names.
It sounds like you need to take a step back from a bad situation. Find a place where you can relax and get away from the negativity. This will help you regain your composure and remember whats important to you.