I hate that I have such a wonky life that almost everyone thinks I'm a fraud
Are you proud of being thought of as a fraud?
Why not? I might as well take it. I might even get perks because of it.
It sounds like you don't care what other people think of you and that is admirable. You do whatever it is that you do and just be happy and enjoy life. If people think you are a fraud because of your wonky life, it sounds more like they are jealous of you.
Wow, I never thought of it like that. I'm going to seek happiness now.
No problem, sometimes it's very nice to try to hear a different perspective to get a better grip on the situation. I believe the less you think of what others think about you, the happier you can be. Just keep continuing on and having a great time with what you are doing.