I've been stressing over what to do about my growing family, and I've decided that I want to ask my wife to abort one of the twins
Are you sure that is what you want? Shouldn't you feel honored to have 2 children who are twins?
I just want for my wife to actually consider my opinion. It is not a terrible idea.
You wish to be in control of your wife, but this is going to be strenuous for some to handle. Aborting one twin will be terrible for you once the other twin finds out when they get older. They will find out, trust me on that, so you better not ask her to abort anything!
The twins don't exist yet so they don't know they are being aborted. I just want to do what's best for my family
I'd advise against asking your wife to abort one of the babies. She'll likely get very upset and may hold it against you for a very long time.