Is it okay that I never wanted to be the designated driver?
why did you choose not to be a designated driver?
I see it as a pain, nobody wants to do that and I don't either.
If you're with a group of people say your family or friends you are supposed to share the responsibility of driving. It's inconsiderate to say you don't wanna be a designated driver at all.
It's a free country, I can do whatever I want and I don't have time to be a designated driver and it's not my job.
You should show some consideration back to the people who are driving you home. If your friends see how selfish you are, then they won't be so certain to return the favor next time.