I got myself into a situation at work. I'm in love with my secretary and she's playing hard to get to make me leave my wife.
That sounds tough. Would you consider ending things with her to get back to your relationship with your wife?
I can't bear being without her. I think she's prettier than my wife
You may love your secretary, but cheating on your spouse is wrong. Let your secretary go and patch things up with your wife.
My secretary just doesn't know her place.
You can't place the blame for this on your secretary. You shouldn't be cheating on your wife. How would your wife feel if she found out that you were disloyal to her?