I'm mad at my mother because she chose to stay in an abusive and toxic marriage which gave my brother and I mental health issues for life
Could you explain more about what happened? Was anyone else able to protect you?
No, it was just us and my mom. I feel like that toxic person had no right to be abusive to us.
I understand that sometimes you act irrationally in front of someone that you love, but your mom had put you and your brother in danger. Your mom is also a victim here, but she was an adult and she had the power to leave that toxic person when she needed to. I do hope that you get all of the help that you need so that you can be better with your mental health together with your brother.
Yes my mom was also a victim, but she also should have been more concerned with us. She is the one who chose her partner.
I agree that your mom should have been more concerned about her kids' safety than she was in her abusive relationship. At this point, the best thing you can do is try to get good treatment for the problems it caused for you.