What do you think about me using the word faggot in reference to somebody I was having a confrontation with?
Why would you want to be so offensive?
I want to be use that word as a weapon to hurt him
I think that using that word is not okay. It may upset your friends, but it is also going to upset an entire group of people and that is not okay to do.
I did not see a problem.
Calling someone names during an argument only shows that you don't have anything wise to add to what is being said. Instead of calling someone a hurful name, you should try to clearly and logically express what you are thinking.