Confession: I am cheating on my wife.
That's not good at all. Why are you risking your relationship?
I want to spice things up and explore. My wife is an old bag and doesn't know how to please me anymore.
Your marriage is a legally recognized partnership and cheating will only complicate matters. Communication is a key part of a relationship, so sit down and talk to her about ways to please each other and keep the marriage strong.
I'll do what I want, this is my life. I don't need her telling me what to do and where to do it.
You guys have a lot more problems than I can can help you with. You need to make an appointment with a couples counselor. Having an affair might assuage your boredom in the short run, but is it worth if your marriage is destroyed in the long run?