I'm not going to visit my grandma.
Why would you not want to visit your grandma?
My whole immediate family suffers from a genetic disease and my grandma has dementia.
I understand that she has dementia, but it's still important to visit family members like your grandmother. She will still feel loved in the moment.
maybe you should mind your own business. Considering the condition she is in, I should visit her but I don't really want to.
Doing things for family isn't about want, it is about what is right. I think it's always important to spend time with aging family members while they are still on this Earth.