What do you think of me using this girls father's death against her for being disrespectful?
Do you think she deserved to be treated that way?
She was always a backstabber. I heard that she did the same thing to another friend of mine by saying her lover died.
It's really unfortunate that she did this to other people but that doesn't give you an excuse to do the same. You would still be mocking the dead and that is highly disrespectful. It is not fair to her family, either. You need to talk to her like a normal person and sort out your issues, not be petty and use dead people like this.
Okay, good point. I'll try that.
I am glad you can see why this would be better. If things don't work out at least people who see how you interact will have respect for you.