I must tell you I have an incredible crush on a woman half my age
Oh wow... What made you have feelings for her?
She is a smart, successful woman
I know we can't help who we're attracted to, but she is still a minor! That is highly illegal and you can go to jail if you act on your desires. You need to just stay away from her and forget about her, and find someone your own age.
Why does that matter, she is so hot.
It matters because the law says so, minors can't consent to anything so if you try to pursue her you can get into huge trouble. How about trying to get into therapy to sort out these feelings, and try dating around your own age?