I don't think I'm going to allow my 12 year old daughter to stay the night at her lesbian friends house.
Does this have to do with the fact that her friend is lesbian?
I think sleeping with a girl is not the same as sleeping with a boy.
Just because her friend has a sexual preference for girls does not mean your daughter will be unsafe. You should think through your concerns and reconsider letting your daughter spend time with her friend. Your fear shouldn't rule your daughter's life.
I have no idea about this so I will allow the request.
That's great and it's a good call. I am glad you came to your senses because sexual preference isn't really a big deal when it comes to friends. I'm sure your daughter is into boys anyway, since I see how she can act around boys at the mall.