I don't want to talk to my husband when he comes home from work.
Does he do something deplorable when he gets home?
Nothing. I just don't feel like it sometimes.
If you can't even talk to your husband when he gets home, that means there could be something going on between you two. Maybe you can go to a therapist to hash out any problems between you guys.
Stop telling me what to do, you need to learn to let go.
I do think that you should at least greet your partner when he arrives home. Sometimes, sacrifices need to be made to make a relationship work.