I would rather not go to my friends nye party. He is charging up to fifty dollars per guest so he can rent the party room.
Are there other New Years Eve parties you can attend?
I can also go to a pool party that my friend is having. She also has a hot tub.
You shouldn't feel obligated to attend every party your friends have. Just be sure to be polite and let them know you won't attend before they count on your money.
I'll use my money and he will use his party room. He's just mad that I don't buy his stuff.
Just because you are invited does not mean you have to go , so no reason to feel bad. You have the option to spend your nye wherever you want to as long as you were invited.