Google "straw man"   Why is it that women want equal rights but also want to be catered at the same time?
I think you might be misunderstanding.  Are you really serious about that, or are you joking?
This is too obvious that it's funny. The only reasonable question is why people aren't getting it?
That might be true of some women. But it's also true of some men. Some people are just like that, but it's sexist to tie it to a gender.