I'm going to ditch a girl 40 minutes from her house on our first date
Why would you do something so mean to someone you just met?
Naughty girls deserve that treatment.
It's rude to end a date early without a good -- and inexcusable to leave someone stranded far from home. That's a really cruel thing to do to someone.
I'm not sure what you mean by cruel.
I can't comprehend your not understanding me. You attitude and behavior towards women is dangerously reckless and callous. You need to seek out a therapist and get to the bottom of you lack of empathy and remorselessness.