I don't want my dad at my wedding
Why don't you want your dad at your wedding?
He has hurt me and my mom before, I have abandonment issues.
It is a big decision to uninvite your dad from your wedding. But if he is not a good father to you, it is your right to tell him to stay away. Just make sure that is what you really want, because it will be a decision you can't take back about a day you'll always remember.
I want him to know how he has hurt me, and not let him ruin my wedding day.
I hope everything goes well when you tell him. Is your mom going to be there? Sometimes it is better to not invite people who might cause drama to family events.