I have little sympathy for my friend whose father just died.
Why do you feel this way?
I can't feel sad about her condition because I don't think it is a big deal.
I think it is good to have sympathy for others. It is upsetting that you don't think that her father dying is a big deal. I think you should try and put yourself in her shoes and imagine what it would feel like.
She doesn't deserve sympathy because she is weak if she can't handle a little death.
Everyone needs sympathy because not everyone can be strong in situations like this where loved ones die. Find your compassion and be there for your friend.