I say don't miss my mom but I do
What exactly do you mean here?f
I like my mom but I'm not afraid to offend her
It sounds like you love your mom, but maybe she's struggling to accept a part of you. It's OK to gently assert your individuality. She might discover an opportunity for growth by understanding you better.
She never tried to understand me before. I don't think she cares.
It is better to be yourself and not be liked by others, than to be someone you are not and liked by others. You only have a chance in life to be truly happy when you are happy with your true self.