I think I'm not going to give my dad's wife the stupidly expensive necklace he wanted me to give her after he passed away.
Why won't you give your dad's wife the necklace?
Because I don't want to give it to her.
Even if you don't want to give your dad's wife the necklace. it is wrong to ignore your father's wish for you to give it to her. If you don't follow your father's wishes you are dishonoring him and wronging his widow.
I don't care, my dad is dead and I'm done with family. Fuck this family shit, I'm going on vacation.
I really think it's awful that you would just ignore your father's dying wish. Don't you think it's better to honor what he wanted you to do?