I don't care that my wife doesn't know what she wants to eat
Why don't you care about your wife?
It's because she's a woman, you know. They're often unable to make decisions.
She's your wife, so you should care. She may just go along with your choices out of respect for you, her husband, so you should let her decide sometimes out of respect for her, your wife.
She definitely has to be taught a lesson. Men have to assert their power over women, if you know what I mean.
The issue of deciding about food doesn't seem that important. But I am concerned that you say you need to assert power over your wife. It's not okay to "teach her a lesson" and you might want to see a counselor if you feel this way.