It finally happened! After feeding her, changing her, and rocking her, Joanie calmed down!
That's wonderful! Any tips on how I can also calm her down if the need arises?
I'm her mom, you're not. What makes you think I'd tell you?
I am a caregiver for her when you are at work, you should want me to know what to do. I would love to be able to calm her as well.
You're the caregiver. It's your literal JOB to know what to do. Why should I have to tell you dumbass.
That's not a good way to talk to me or anyone for that matter. It's not a  way to treat people.