What do you think of me purposely taking my 5 year old daughter down the cold isles in the supermarket so she will hug me extra tight because she's cold?
That seems like a messed up thing to do. Do you really just want her to hug you?
Yes it's a really good thing.
You should be happy she hugs you like that. It's a good feeling to get hugs from those you love.
No I just want to hurt her.
You should not use manipulative tactics just so that your child will hug you. Instead, teach your child the proper way to show affection to those we love.