Is it wrong that I don't want to be apart of the wedding when I didn't make it into the bridal party?
What role will you be in the wedding?
I'm a guest, not a bridal assistant.
Weddings can be huge events and not everybody can have a big part of the wedding. Being there to celebrate the wedding can be good too. It will upset the groom and bride if you refuse to go to the wedding at all.
It's sickening that I had to go out of my way for these people for only a cameo. I'm better off staying home.
If you were not going to go the wedding, it's something that should have been said from the beginning. The bride and groom often puts out a lot of money for each guest that rsvps. It's inconsiderate and rude to not show up without a solid reason.