I'm going to ask my partner to not express his phobias in front of our children.
Does it bother you when your husband start talking about his phobias?
Talking about them can scare our children.
It's okay that you want to protect your children from hearing about disturbing things. Tell your partner that if they want to talk about these phobias to do it when the children aren't around.
He said he doesn't care.
You can talk to your children about leaving the premises when their dad starts talking about his phobia.