I don't want my husband to give his ex wife money
Why don't you want your husband to give money to his ex wife?
He can't stand her and I want her to be ruined.
I understand why you're upset, but if the judge decided that your husband needs to pay alimony to his ex wife, then you shouldn't try to stop him from doing so. If he stopped paying alimony he could get into serious trouble, which would be bad for both of you.
Okay. You're right. Thanks.
You're welcome. It's good to hear that you have decided to follow the judge's order!