I don't tell my family private things not because I don't want them to know but because they'll want to talk about them with me all the time.
I am sorry to hear you have this stress. Did you explain how you felt to your family?
Yes, I told my dad this way of communicating is not good for me.
That's good you were able to communicate to your father how the family made you uncomfortable. I hope he understood your point of view.
He told me to get over it and he's going to pry about everything I like to do or places I visited for the rest of my life.
I am sorry to hear he puts this stress on you. I am sure he just wants you to be safe but it is too much control he is trying to have.