This girl was asking my friend about my financial status and I'm going to tell her to mind her own business.
What in particular makes you want to speak with her about that?
It's not her business to ask which is why I'm going to tell her to mind her own.
I can see why you'd be irritated. You should respectfully, but firmly, tell her that your financial status isn't for her to know and especially not via a friend of yours.
I can handle this. I don't have to explain anything to her, she just needs to stay out of my business.
I agree with you completely and I would be upset too. Asking about your financial situation is out of line, but bypassing you and asking your friend is horrible. I hope she learns to keep her nose out of other's business.