The next time that I drink wine I want it to be with my best friend but not with my wife.
What makes you want to drink without your wife?
I want to drink wine with my best friend but not with my wife
It's completely normal and healthy for you to sometimes want to do things without your partner. Doing everything together all day, every day, likely isn't super great for either of you.
I was talking about wine.
You can do things without your wife sometimes, that's fine. I'm sure she enjoys doing things without you too sometimes and that's normal.