I'm not talking to my (new) gf during this difficult time in her life
But you're her boyfriend... Are you really not able to talk to her?
I can't . It's none of my business
I'm sorry that she's making it difficult for you, but you still need to give her space. You two aren't that close yet, so it may be frustrating to you to be shut out. Just let her open up to you and don't force it.
f*** you. it's none of your business.
I understand your stress and curiosity with her problems, but you are still newly dating so she might not be very comfortable yet. It would pay off to be patient and wait for her to open up to you a lot more. I suggest to nudge her here and there to tell her you're there for her!