I'm going to ask my friends to go out 'too much'
Why would you ask them to go out too much?
Because if they don't go out too much I'm going to trash talk them and I'm going to tell our friends how much they suck
It's not nice to pressure friends into doing too many things. You should let them do things they want to do.
I don't fucking care. They're my friends and I control them.
You don't control your friends - they are responsible for their own lives and deciding what to do. If you want to go out a lot, you should find friends who are willing to go out as much as you.