I don't want to spend time with my family for not letting me hang out with some friends
Oh, my. What did you feel when your family wouldn't let you hang out with your friends?
My feelings were hurt.
You need to understand your family's reasons for that. Maybe they had a good reason for not wanting you to hang out with a bad influence of a friend.
I'm mad because my friend is the smartest guy in our class.
Well, they may know something about the other person or their family. You'll get along with your family better if you find someone else to hang out with.