My parents always told me "No Sex Before Marriage". I would have been much more prepared for the real world if they told me "Lose the V-Card by age 15 at all costs or you're a faggot".
I'm not sure I quite get it. How do you think long time virginity is the same as "being a faggot"?
Because faggot is a synonym of homosexual. And my virginity still at age 40 is cause for alarm that I could be a faggot.
This is gay bashing at it's best even if you are comparing yourself to it. Needless to say, you should keep your virginity for as long as you want to. You can still go on with life as a straight man, just meet people who will understand why you made this choice.