I'm going to the bar after work to buy myself a beer.
So, what makes you want to go to the bar to buy yourself a beer?
My life is very difficult and I just want to get drunk and forget about it.
I understand that you are going through a difficult time, but using alcohol to forget your problems is not appropriate. You should talk to your friends and family if you're going through a difficult time.
Why don't you quit judging me. I'm feeling sad and I just want to drink.
I'm not judging you, I am trying to help you. If you let yourself go get drunk every single time that you have bad feelings, then you could become an alcoholic-- and I want to try and prevent that.