I feel like I want to just forget about doing housework.
Why are you ignoring your housework?
Because I'm a man and I can choose to do things I want. It's important to have self-determination as a human being
While you have a right to made decisions on when to clean your house, ultimately, being a man has nothing to do with cleaning or not cleaning. You can always hire a service to come in and do the work if you aren't interested.
I won't get my services until I get a promotion in my work.
Waiting for a promotion at work for the sole purpose to keep up with things that your home is really unreasonable. I do highly recommend to keep up with things at the home, because it could get really out of hand really quick.