My dad wants me to put more effort into our relationship. I'm not going to.
Won't that upset him?
Probably. He'll likely get drunk because I won't spend time with him.
That sounds depressing. I don't know your relationship, but you're okay with intentionally hurting him?
So I need to be a loser and spend more time with him because he might get hurt? This is bullshit.
I can't force you to, but hanging out with your dad doesn't make you a loser. If that's what's stopping you, you need to let that go.