What do you think about me always asking my wife if I can watch her whenever she goes to the toilet?
does she allow you to watch?
Oh no she's not into that kind of stuff.
It's disgusting that you want to watch your wife while she's using the toilet. You're supposed to give her privacy.
It's not that bad, is it?
If she wants her privacy then it is bad, you need to stop asking her this if she always says no. A lot of people would believe that your behavior is being very gross and creepy-- do you want to potentially lose your wife over this?