Do you think it would be ok for me to take the kids on vacation with out my husband?
Why aren't you going to take your husband as well?
I'm getting tired of my husband's tantrums. I need a break
I think it's a good idea to take your kids on a vacation without your husband, as it will give you all some time to have some time apart and relax. Going on a vacation without your partner can be a good way to put things into perspective.
You don't know how much fun it is to ignore all his requests for contact. He can be tiresome at times.
That might be a really great experience for everyone. He can rest and maybe not be so grumpy when you guys get back home. Do you have any ideas where you want to go?