I want to get vengeance on my friend and beat him up in his front yard. Isn't that the right way to handle things?
Oh my! What did your friend do to you?
He was talking badly about me.
You have no right to put your hands on anyone or beat anyone up. Seeking revenge on someone is wrong and you should walk away from the situation rather than make it physical. It is wrong to have vengeful behavior and hurt other people physically.
That is too bad because I want to beat him up and make him feel so bad.
Beating up a friend or anyone is going to not solve anything. If you can just confront him with words that are communicative without that then its always a win. If he doesn't respond well to that then walk away.