I didn't let my Baby Mama go to the school enrollment meeting after she wouldn't let me go 4 years ago
Is punishing her for not letting you go 4 years ago the only reason you stopped her from going to her enrollment??
I needed her by my side so I'm making sure she doesn't forget me
Preventing your child's mother from attending an important meeting is wrong. Instead, you should encourage her to pursue her education. This will help her to feel more secure within herself and be able to contribute to the stability of your family.
You're saying this like I don't want that for my kid.
I'm saying this so that maybe you'll think about your child and how important it is for your baby's mother to be there for them, both financially and emotionally. I know you might be hurt for what she did in the past but its time to let go and think about your families future.