Do you agree that wanting to feel validated is a pretty weird thing?
What makes you say that?
It just seems weird to need something outside of yourself to feel like you're important and matter.
I can understand it being a little different if it's something you don't deal with but wanting to feel validated in some way is something a lot of people experience in varying degrees. You shouldn't call it weird because its way more common than you think.
I was simply trying to start an argument.
So you're saying things that you don't agree with, because then that's fine. People who want to feel validated aren't weird and shouldn't be judged.