I need women attracted to me to boost my ego.
Why do you need to do it that way?
Because my self-worth is boosted when I get attention from the opposite sex
It's good to want to feel good about yourself, but not at others expense. You should focus on developing your talents and abilities.
I don't want to focus on myself, it is easier to just get people to pay me attention. I'm not attracted to people who don't get me.
It is okay to be attracted to people who are attracted to you but depending on others to be attracted to you to feel good is not good. It could lead them to think they have a chance with you since you don't shut them down. They will be upset that it does not lead to a relationship.