I'm going to force my family to choose between my mother and I
What is the reason why you would ask for them to choose between your mother and you?
We don't get along with each other and ever since she got sick, she's been so needy. Whenever we go to family gatherings everyone is constantly giving her attention and I'm sick of it. So, it's her or me.
I am not sure why you would want to make them choose when your mother has an illness, but it is never okay to make them choose you over someone else. There should be enough love to go around and if you place the ultimatum, you may be disappointed in the outcome.
I don't think anyone in the family would choose her. I'm still the favorite and that's the way it should be.
It is unrealistic to ask your family to choose between two different family members. Requesting something like this is only going to cause your family to lose respect for you.