I think my ex wife kidnapped my kids
Are you going to call the proper authorities to handle the kidnapping?
I've been chatting with my ex wife and she said she took the kids because she is mad at me for the divorce and me owing her money from the settlement.
Even if you owe your ex money for the divorce kidnapping the kids to hold over you is wrong. The kids should be returned and a proper settlement of the money discussed.
I feel like you are ganging up on me.
I am just telling you that best path to take and handle your current situation. Call the cops and get your kids back.