What would you think if I revealed how much money we received as wedding gifts?
Why are you going to do that?
I want to make sure I got the right amount that people gave out
You should just let it go. No one wants to talk about gift and how much money value it has.
WTF. It's my wedding, I have a right to talk about what I want.
It is your wedding, but you also don't want to make people feel bad for the gifts they did give. It doesn't look good to talk about the value of the gifts you receive. You should just be thankful that they gave you something.