If someone called me feminine, it'd be like calling me a faggot. And if I called some chick masculine, well. that's just unfortunate for her ugly ass.
Are you offended by gay people?
I'm not offended by the word being gay, I'm offended by saying someone is gay.
It sounds to me like you believe that being gay means that you are feminine. However, there are a lot of masculine gay men and you can come with me and I could introduce you to a few? Maybe then you won't be so angry about it all.