I'm not going to buy flowers for my deadbeat dad's funeral.
Why aren't you going to buy flowers?
I found out that he neglected me when I was a young child and I don't want to show my support for him.
You don't have to bring flowers. Just be there for family and get closure.
I don't need closure after learning the truth about him.
I know you have a difficult history with your father, but you should go to the funeral and bring flowers. He was your father and you need to get closure so you can move past the hurt you feel.