I'm going to tell family not to let their kids invite friends, boyfriends or girlfriends to my daughter's birthday party.
I'm interested in why you would say that. Why don't you want them to invite those people?
I don't want strange people in my house to celebrate my kid's birthday.
It's your kid's birthday party so it's fine for you to restrict who is invited. Tell people clearly who you want there.
Yeah exactly, I don't want my to let my kid's birthday go to hell.
It's okay to limit your guests if you want your kids party to only include close friends and family members.