Is it okay if I mentioned to you that I'm in love with a woman that is married?
Oh really now? Why would you fall in love with a married woman? Does this feel like the sensible thing to do?
I am very sensible, my friend. She isn't in love with her husband any more.
While she may not be in love with her husband anymore, they could always end up working things out or she could decide that she wants to stay with him and then this affair only complicates all of that. You should never help someone cheat on their spouse as its just the wrong thing to do. You need to think more about the others in this situation and not just yourself.
I wasn't going to ask her to cheat on her husband, you know. We were going to wait until she splits up with her husband officially.
It's best to let people work out their issues one way or another -- without any outside interference.