I don't want to leave my house for my ex's birthday party
Do you want to talk about it?
Heck no. I wish my ex was dead for all the shit she has put me through
It's not normal to still be mingling with your old partners anyways. It's bound to just be awkward and fights may occur if new lovers encounter old ones.
You are right. I am not going to go.
I think that is best. It is healthy and normal to have distance from an ex.