How about I just get a divorce? I think I would be better off, but...
Would you have a better life being divorced?
Yes, I think it would be better after divorcing. We spend our lives together but we've grown apart.
I'm sorry your marriage has fallen apart, but you need to seriously consider divorce if you are no longer happy with them. Like you said people grow apart and if there is nothing in common anymore you shouldn't stay together.
But I love him... maybe I should start a friendship with him.
If you truly love him then you wouldn't mull over having a divorce this seriously. You need to speak with your husband and let him know your true feelings, he has a right to know.