What should I do? I wasn't able to help my family in any meaningful way when they needed it most.
Why weren't you able to help you family when they really needed you?
I was selfish and only cared about myself.
I understand that you were focused on your own needs but you should always help you family when they need help. It's selfish to only think about ourselves. We always need to help our family because we love and care about them.
I'm just not that invested in them. I always looked out for myself and I have no regrets.
It's understandable that you can't always be there for family members, However, you should try to be there for them when they truly need you.