so many men are abused because of sex. I hate when women think if they have sex with us then we should give them something in return.
Are you saying women just use men for sex and expect something in return?
There are many things about women I just don't get. They often think we should date instead of having sex and then expect us to marry them.
Many relationships between men and women don't require some form of compensation for sex. The notion you are saying is a misrepresentation of all relationships. You may want to speak to people with health relationships and get their input before making up your mind.