Do you think it's fair that my wife wants a divorce because she found out I cheated a couple of times while we were dating?
Why did you cheat on your wife?
I had sex with other women a few times because she was asleep after drinking too much.
You should not have cheated on your wife at all. It is unfortunate she wants a divorce, but you have to understand it from her persepective.
Fuck, I will do a lot to get her back. I'm sure I can convince her.
I think you should start by saying how sorry you are, and promising to never do that again. I don't know if that will convince her to stay with you, but at least it will show her that you realize that what you did was terrible.