I don't know how to deal with the fact that my son was just arrested.
What's going through your mind about his arrest?
I can't believe it, this is so embarrassing.
It is normal to be concerned for your child. Every person makes their own decisions good and bad. You cannot be expected to help them.
I'm going to kill whoever did this to him. Why don't we help kids when they are young?
I know you're feeling frustrated about the situation, but all you can do now is love your child. If your son was arrested for doing something illegal, then he has to deal with the consequences of his actions. You can't change what he did, you can only control how you react to it.