Back in the old days you could beat your wife and get away with it now you have to play in the nfl
I'm not sure I understand what you're saying.
A lot of NFL players get in trouble for assault,  but it's no big deal anymore.
It would be more than a little unsettling to think rape is considered normal. Rape hurts the victim not just physically but psychologically. Fortunately, most athletes these days who physically assault women face expulsion from the league and criminal prosecution.