As time went on they stayed but my self-worth grew.
Are there multiple problems?
No I'm describing something more meaningful. Someone who stays behind to avoid conflict, but by doing that that person has no chance of looking within himself and growing.
It's good to look back. Good to feel confident about your personal growth.
I always know the black and white picture of things.
I am glad you can see your positive aspects. Do you have anything you are struggling with right now you need to work on?