My boyfriend is in love with me but I hate being with him and I am scared to leave.
That's horrible. Why do you hate being with your boyfriend?
He's bossy and I hate him for that.
If you're miserable being with your boyfriend, you should break up. It's wrong to lead him on.
Maybe I am just making up excuses. I'm comfortable and that is all that matters.
It is not enough to be comfortable, you should be happy in a relationship. Otherwise you are hurting the both of you by continuing the relationship.