What breaks when you give it to a 5 year old? Their pelvis.
Jesus. I guess i cannot unhear that joke.
Yes, it is. Because when a 5 year old falls down, it says in their ass and that can break.
Making a joke about molesting a 5 year old child is super insensitive and off putting. I hope you are able to reflect on that comment and understand why it is not ok to say something like that, no matter what your intention was.