I'm not going to forgive my mom
What did your mom do to you?
She was talking trash about me behind my back.
Well, you ought to be the bigger person is jus drop it. Getting into a fight with your mom does you no good.
I'm the bigger person by not forgiving her and community will know how bad of a person she is.
Still no doubt what she did was wrong. You only get one family maybe try to take it to her and explain how you feel. If you make a scene about this you could really harm your family dynamic.