I'm going to ask for a divorce for potential cheating
Do you plan to catch your partner cheating?
Not sure yet I just want a divorce.
It's okay to ask for a divorce if you suspect your partner cheating. You might want to communicate with them first and ask them if they are cheating. If they aren't you won't have a reason for the divorce.
I'm losing it. If my partner has a cheating problem, I will handle it myself.
I think you should make sure they are cheating first and foremost. You might be paranoid and only imagining things are happening.