I secretly got a vasectomy last month. My girlfriend of 2 years is under the impression I still want kids.
Why did you get a vasectomy?
At that time, my relationship was going smooth, I'm working out living with her, she wants kids. And I don't want to ruin that situation.
I get it, it's normal to some people to not want kids. However, it's really terrible to keep secrets like that from your gf. You should really tell her you got one.
It's fine. She's so happy about wanting to expand her family. I don't want to shatter her dream.
You are going to have to tell her at some point so you might as well get it over with. She has the right to know that you did this and you two need to find a compromise in the situation.