I'm going to argue with a ref after a youth basketball game
Are you serious? Do you usually argue with the referee?
Not that often, but it happens.
Youth sports games are meant to be an enjoyable and team building exercise for the kids. You should not get so upset that you feel the need to argue with the referee. Doing this will embarrass your child and yourself.
I don't really care and it's not a big deal, refs are stupid anyway. Why don't their eyes just focus on the game?
I know you're upset, but it's not nice to treat refs that way. They are doing their jobs, and you should be respectful. Try approaching him in a calm way.