What do you think about me telling my girlfriend she shouldn't take a trip to see her sick grandpa?
At first glance, that seems really controlling. Why don't you want her to go?
Her grandma has recently passed away. I'm worried since the last time she went on a trip, she didn't come back for three months.
It's wrong to prevent your partner from seeing her sick grandpa. You cannot tell her what she should do or shouldn't.
Don't interfere with my relationship and let me take care of things.
You asked me and I'm telling you that you're wrong for trying to control a sad situation for your girlfriend.