I've been watching my friends marriage fall apart recently.
Yeah? What's your outside perspective?
From the outside looking in they both seem so obsessive and controlling. Neither will give eachother space or allow them to do anything without the other knowing.
It's good thing you're just observing. Interfering in a situation like this can make you lose friends because someone wants you on their side. If I were you, I'd stay on the outside.
You're right. I'm going to stay out of it. Still wish they could make it and not fall apart but maybe I'm in the wrong too.
You sound like a good friend and you're making a wise decision. You're not in the wrong.