I have a 29 year old brother who has 9 kids and counting
Does it anger you to see all the situations he is in?
Yes, I have a good job but no children yet, although I think one is on the way.
Has you brother ever heard of birth control? He should consider his finances before having so many kids.
Please don't turn this into a lecture. He is my brother and that is the only thing my parents care about, I am okay with his decision, but even if I wasn't, what I think doesn't count since I'm living in a different state.
As long as he is able to take care of his kids and you are not upset about it, I do not see a need to get involved.