Am I asking too much by wanting a girl who craves my personality like candy
I don't think so. When do you think you might find someone like that?
When she's done with all the other kinds of fuckers, she'll crave someone like me.
You should seek someone that puts you first. It is good to date people that strongly desire you.
That's why I'm holding out for her.
I think you're doing the right thing by waiting for someone who really wants you. When you find her I'm sure you'll be happy.