I'm going out with girls just to waste time, I'm not really interested in them.
Is there a reason you don't want to have a relationship with a girl?
Yes. I'm afraid that I'm not as attractive to women and I don't want to get rejected by them.
There's always someone prettier than you--and uglier. Beauty can be important, but if it's the most important thing to you, or to someone else, that's a choice that's being made. And probably not a substantial one.
So I have to be less of a dick for ugly women to like me?
Yeah, in fact, you probably need to be nicer in order for anyone to like you. Try it out and maybe you'll see that some women are attracted to you. I think the nicer you are, the more attractive women will find you.