I don't want to tell my child about his father.
Does he remind you of your dad?
Yes, and my dad has given me nothing but trouble since my son was born. I want to keep my son away from both my father and his father.
It's understandable to want to protect your child from future pain. If you think it's a good idea for the child to be free of his dad, you're welcome to do so.
Are you sure that I should go through with this? My child may need a father the more I think about it.
Well maybe you should talk to a family therapist and try to work things out. There isn't a cookie-cutter plan of actions that can fit your situation but it might help.