Can I fall for a coworker who is married when I have a long term girlfriend too?
Do you think it will work out with this co-worker?
Yes, I do. There is a strong chemistry between us.
It would be hard for it to work out when she is married. If her husband finds out you would be confronted. It can even become violent.
I will break up with my girlfriend and I don't care about the violence.
Your getting too caught up in the honeymoon phase of this new romance and not thinking straight. List the pros and cons of your current long term relationship and compare it to this new one. I think you'll find more cons to this coworker than your current girlfriend.