I'm planning to leave dishes for my girlfriend to do on her birthday
Why would you leave the dishes for your girlfriend?
I'm tired of listening to her and I feel like I'm in a prison with her.
You shouldn't leave the dishes for your girlfriend especially since it is her birthday. You are expected to pull your weight with the chores.
It doesn't matter if it's her birthday and I'm going to leave the dishes for her.
You need to understand in a relationship you need do your part including all household chores. It's mean to leave dishes for her especially on her birthday. There's nothing wrong to do your gf's dishes sometimes.