I'm mad that my friend charged me for drinks he bought for me when I told him I didn't want any drinks
Did you feel like you were taken advantage of?
I did not want to buy drinks that night
It makes sense that you did not want to pay for the drinks you did not ask for. If you had said that you didnt want drinks then your friends should have respected your wishes.
I feel like he just doesn't listen to me or respect me.
You are right to be mad. Him not respecting your wishes was wrong of him to do. Tell him that next time he does something like that again.