Asked my girlfriend if she wanted to role play a rape fantasy. She said "no!". I said "that's the spirit"
That joke makes me kind of uneasy, why would you want to tell your girlfriend that?
Just a joke you know.
Those kind of jokes can be triggering to somebody who has been assaulted or rape. It could have scared your girlfriend to hear her boyfriend say that.
I guess the joke didn't go over well. My girlfriend is still upset with me.
You probably should apologize to her, because joking about rape can really hurt some women. Telling those jokes can be a very dangerous area and I hope this has taught you a valuable lesson.