I'm going to confront my mom because she was distant after my baby was born.
I am sorry you are having this problem. What are you going to do if she won't talk to you?
I will keep on giving her my side of the story until she finally pays attention to me.
It can be really frustrating when we don't have the attention of our parents, especially during major life events. However, if your mother is an otherwise good parent, then it may just be that she had other things to do and she wasn't able to make you a priority. Explain your feelings to her, but be respectful to her reasonings.
I need her to talk to me for a few minutes and I know that I can make her understand, but she just doesn't want to pay attention sometimes.
I understand you need her attention but you should just not take it personally. It is normal to get busy and not always have as much time for others as we would like to.