I have a really intense crush on my boss even though I am married. I can't stop thinking about him and now I am transferring and won't be seeing him anymore and I am really sad about it. I almost don't want to transfer to this new job because of him. it's driving me crazy!!
What's making you have these very strong feelings toward your boss?
I knew him from my past and we always had a thing for each other and I fell for him more and more as we kept working on more and more projects.
I understand you have these very strong feelings toward your boss. But you need the understand that you are in a committed relationship right now and I think you need to take some time to step back and realize your situation before it's too late.
I can never talk to him about this.
The way you are speaking seems to me that you are acknowledging that you are not in a good situation. If you have problems of your current marriage you need to discuss this with your partner.