I expect my wife to deal with the repairs after busting up the car
Oh no. Why are you making her deal with the repairs?
She's the one at fault because she was driving
It is understandable that you want her to take care of things that she broke, after all it is a lot of work and time. It would be good to tell her in a nice way so it doesn't become a fight.
It doesn't matter how I say it you freak, she needs to take the blame.
I am sorry but calling me freak is not necessary. Your wife needed help with her car repair and you should apply your knowledge with cars so that she could have an easier time.