You know, I hate when someone invalidates my feelings, but then I go on to invalidate others feelings too.
That seems like a real problem. Why do you think you do that?
I can't be bothered with someone else's feelings since nobody cares about mine.
I get that. It's not right to invalidate people's feelings at all, though.
I'm just being honest. People should make an effort to understand what I feel, instead of pretending to feel the same thing.
Sure, but if you want other people to make an effort, then you also have to make an effort. Everyone should try to be more compassionate when dealing with others.