I am afraid of my wife making more money than me even though I would really prefer that she works.
Why is this something that you personally fear?
I do not want to loose control.
There's nothing wrong with a wife earning more than her husband.  It's not about control, you two should be working as a team anyways right?
I don't agree with that but I want to get a job that pays more money than my wife so that I can be the bread winner.
Well maybe you can use the idea of your wife making more money than you as motivation to earn more money. This being said, try not to worry about the numbers since your finances are together anyway.