Is it okay that I want to outright refuse to ever do the dishes
As long as you have a good reason!
There is no reason for this, I'm just tired of doing them.
I hate doing dishes too, so I know where you're coming from. That being said, you can't expect other people to clean up after you. You need to do your fair share of the work!
Works for me!
If doing dishes continues to be an annoyance, you can always ask to swap chores with a roommate or family member! They may have a chore they hate to do just as much.