What do you think about me refusing to go to my grandfather's memorial service?
Why don't you want to go? Did you do something that caused his death?
That's just sick, he passed away.
Losing someone close to you is hard. Don't skip the memorial service. You will probably regret it later.
Never mind. I'm going just to pay my respects.
It is good that you're going to pay your respects and that's very important to say goodbye to those that you love.