I'm kind of bummed out that my husband got a vasectomy like last minute without my knowledge
Why did he get a vasectomy?
He just realized having kids was not for him.
Even though it's not illegal for a husband to get approval from his wife for a vasectomy, it's still a good idea to involve her. Communication is a key element to a successful relationship and discussing it will make the marriage more healthy.
I agree. But I guess I'm going to get over this as it's not my business. I just feel somewhat hurt about it is all.
But mention to him that next time you need to be involved in important decisions. What if you wanted a child? He seems to be selfish so I would keep an eye on him.