What if I don't take my fiance's last name unless he changes it?
Why are you not going to take his last name?
It sounds so boring and basic
Keep in mind that he is very proud of his name. People in a relationship should not give each other ultimatums.
I'll give him an ultimatum if I damn well want to. His name sucks.
Telling your fiancee that he has to change his name or else is like blackmail and that is a bad way to begin a marriage. You may not like your new name, but you can learn to love it if you love him.