I want 5 days kid free and to take a solo trip using credit card points
What is your reason for wanting both the trip and the time off from your kid?
I feel like I am neglecting myself all the time I need a break.
I'm sure you're a good parent so you deserve a grand vacation to recharge. A refreshed parent means better experiences with your kids, and you'll be able to look after them better. If you don't take breaks you can get too exhausted and may become neglectful.
I disagree. I'm not too exhausted and I deserve this trip anyways.
I hope you enjoy your trip! Do you have any idea of where you are going to go yet?