I'm going to refuse to clean my hair out after I shower in a shared apartment, is that gross.
Why don't you want to clean up after yourself, it's what normal people do?
I'm confident that this will bother my roommates and they will kick me out.
There is no reason other than rudeness and laziness that you don't want to clean up after yourself. This isn't your mom's house, you are an independent adult with a roommate. You deserve to get kicked out then if you can't do the most basic things.
I'm not okay with this, what you said is offensive.
I am not trying of offend you, I am trying to help you so you don't get kicked out.  Roommates are expected to be considerate of one another by cleaning up after themselves.