What do you think about me declining my ex-friend and college roomate's invitation to hang out. I'm thinking about telling them no because I just want to put the past behind me. He upsettingly told me I was being fake.
Why would you decline their invitation?
I don't want to mix my friend and my ex-roommate's personal stuff and some of the shit he did and I'm not comfortable talking about it.
If you're ready to move on from a past relationship you should just do so. Be sure to communicate your intentions clearly so that they can also move on. If not, they may think there is a chance to keep being friends.
I'm going to show my ex-friend that I'm over it. It'll be a good way for me to express myself in a healthy way.
It's great that you want to express yourself in a healthy way. Clear and open communication is the best way to do that. This will ensure that the correct message is received.