I threw the fan at my daughter because she was complaining about the heat
Why would you throw something at her?
She kept complaining about the heat nonstop.
It is wrong to act violent towards your kids. You should be kind and try to show your kids how to act.
You think that I should give her ice cream or a cold drink?
That would have been more appropriate. Maybe next time even if you are annoyed you can grab the fan and give it to her nicely or set it up.