I'm going to leave a friend out of a hearts of iron game
Why would you leave him out of the game?
Because I don't care about him anymore
You may not personally care for him anymore, but there are other friends that may care for him still. You won't only be hurting him, but you may be hurting his other friends playing the game too.
I'm sick of people being so sure of who the bad guy is in every situation. It's like I'm the only person that's not allowed to have personal feelings.
You are allowed to have your own opinion and feelings so long it doesn't hurt others. Why don't you like this guy anyway?