My friend takes too many photos so I'm not inviting her to my birthday party.
Why do you want to be that mean?
I just want to party without someone taking a bunch of pictures of me.
You shouldn't exclude your friends from your birthday. Just ask her not to take pictures if it bothers you so much.
I just want her to feel bad. She's such a photo whore. She's tagging me in them on Facebook all the time. Like, she has no idea how I feel about it.
If you want to be friends with her you shouldn't exclude her from things. Talk to your friend about the things she does that bother you instead of excluding her from events.