Whenever my husband went to the hospital, I didn't follow the ambulance.
What?! Why wouldn't you go to the hospital with your husband?
I think that if he had been dying I would have been notified by someone.
Not going to the hospital when your husband is being taken there is extremely selfish. I know it can be difficult to see a loved on in a difficult place like that, but your partner could have used your support while they were there. Your husband was probably very hurt by you not showing up.
I didn't know.
Well now you do, and I hope that you've learned that in life it is more important to care for your loved ones than leave them behind. Next time he's sick you should take more care, even if he's not going to die.