I'm going on my partners dream holiday without her
Really? Why isn't your partner going on the holiday with you?
She has really annoyed me with her comments and to punish her, I'm not allowing her to go on the trip.
That seems very harsh. I'm sure she would be very hurt if she can't go on the trip. Maybe you can reconsider the situation and work out your differences?
I don't think that will work, she should be punished for what she's said and I don't want her to go on the trip.
I think you will look back on this and will feel bad if you don't let her go on the trip with you. Try to find a way to forgive your partner.