You know, it's really upsetting when someone I have a crush on doesn't feel the same way about me.
How does that make you feel?
It makes me sad because I really want to go out with that person but they don't have feelings for me.
I know it's upsetting when someone doesn't have feelings for us, but we can't control others. You need to be patient. When the time is right, you'll meet someone that returns your feelings.
Can you tell me how to make the other person want to go out with me?
You can't "make" someone go out with you. What fun would that be, anyway? Sometimes the magic sparks, sometimes it doesn't -- you have to be patient.