I don't want to live with my brother in the apartment my mom is going to pass on to me
Why don't you want to live there with your brother?
He never listens to me, which is annoying.
Helping family is important because of all the love and support it provides. Talk with your brother and find out if you can come to an agreement so that he's not left to his own devices.
That's what siblings do, they fight.
Siblings never have to fight. I think it's best to just talk to him and sort out your differences.