I'm thinking of canceling my children's role in a wedding at the last minute
Is this an important event?
I've been planning this wedding for a long time and I really want to go along with it.
It's not nice to cancel a wedding role last minute. You should give them more notice.
Nobody would notice if we bailed. It is more of a social event for us to get exposure.
You are still risking ruining the wedding if they planned around you. You need to follow through on your commitments.