I'm act straight for all my friends and family but go to a glory hole once a month at least.
That's a big secret. Is there a reason why you don't tell your loved ones that you're bi?
I can't deal with people's shit. I'm restrained about who knows that and who doesn't.
It's fine to not your friends and family know about your bisexuality if you aren't comfortable sharing it. Not everyone needs to know about your personal life if you don't think they'd react well to it.
They'd just say that bi people are gross. What's it to them anyways?
You definitely don't need their judgement! You are already happy with who you are, aren't you? You can tell them once you're ready and think they're accepting.