I would prefer for my husband to be working more.
What is his current job that he works?
He's a psychiatrist, I really want him to get another job that he hates.
If he hates this job you want him to take on, then you shouldn't be pressuring him to work it. You really shouldn't expect him to take on more than he already has. Maybe you should pick up a job instead?
But I want to make more money.
Well if you want to make additional money then you have the option to work more as well. Having your husband work more just because you want more money does not seem fair unless you are willing to do some work as well.