I made my husband walk around in public on a leash walking on all fours in a skintight leather onesie oinking like a pig as punishment for exhibiting toxic masculinity
Why did you force him to act like this?
It's a punishment for being a man.
It is not your husbands fault that they are a man. It does not sound all that reasonable to force him to do something like this.
Do you even know how toxic he is?
No matter how toxic you may feel your husband is, what you forced him to do is no better. It may be a good idea to try and communicate with one another to fix things so you can both be happier.