I went to a massage parlor. I am married and I have two kids.
Do you think it was wrong for you to go to a massage parlor?
My stress levels are too high. I need to release my sexual frustrations after a hard day's work
It's wrong and a huge betrayal of trust to cheat on your spouse if you have outside sexual relations. Talk to your wife and communicate ways for her please you in bed more.
I think she is the problem. I should dump that bitch anyway.
I do not think that it was right for you to  only blame her for your relationship and call her names behind her back. If your relationship has issues, it is needed for the both of you to fix it instead of blaming her. I suggest you speak with her and see how you can resolve your relationship and make sure you don't neglect your kids.