Can I tell my girlfriend that I don't want to hear about her experience being sexually assaulted?
Are you serious? Why would you want to tell her that?
I just didn't want to hear her.
You should always be sympathetic to your gf's traumatic experiences. She'd be really upset if you didn't want to listen to her.
I won't try to understand, she should be nicer and know I can't listen to that.
It can be hard to hear another person's traumatic experience but you have to try. A partner is supposed to be there for you and help you out. You are not doing that.