I'm going to tell a co-worker that no, her marrying a sugar daddy is not the same as charitable giving
They don't call it charitable do they? Or do you just think they are being selfish?
Exactly, they are pure selfish! Only she can use her money for whatever she wants, why is she always telling me about her charitable sugar daddy activities.
You don't have to agree with what they are doing but you cannot judge them for it. People will think you are being judgmental for butting into their lives.
I know, and I do care about what other people think about me.
I think you'll find that staying out of it is the right decision. This will avoid you having to deal with any hard feelings from mentioning it.