What should I do if I think I have a crush on my married co-worker
Have you told your wife?
I'm not planning on sharing these feelings with my wife.
Crushes are normal but you shouldn't interfere in somebody's relationship when they are married or when you are married. It is cheating and will ruin and hurt people.
I'm still trying to get with her. She has so many issues that I'm also going through right now. It's hard.
Dating a married person is wrong even if you share some of the same struggles. You need to create some distance between you and your coworker, before you ruin both of your marriages.