Hang in their it will happen. seems it takes some woman years to figure out they dont like being treated bad. keep being nice but not a pushover .
Do you think being pushy is a good way to get a relationship.
This kind of behavior is sick. It will happen when you change that attitude. You should treat men with respect, but never be a pushover.
People do deserve respect, but you should consider that not all women like being treated badly. They like men like be feel loved but get into abusive situations. It would hurt you if you get in the situation to have people think that you actually like living like that.