I don't want to give up our current "expensive" lifestyle just so my husband can retire by 40
What do you think will happen if he stays in his job longer?
I will be getting a much less stressful life with his salary.
Have you considered how your husband feels about this situation? He might want to live a more modest lifestyle and work less. If you want to continue living a lavish lifestyle, you could perhaps consider getting a job to earn money yourself.
You are not understanding/hearing what I'm saying. I'm the CEO of a big company that makes investments. I'm making him stay longer so I can get more money.
I think you and your husband need to have a serious discussion about what you want out of life. It sounds like he wants to work less and live more modestly, while you want to work hard and live extravagantly. Hopefully by talking about your wants and where you see yourselves in the future you can figure out a compromise that works for both of you.