I want to message a girl "Oh word" on Xbox
Do you think your friends will approve of the message?
I would be humiliated in front of them if they knew that I said that to this girl.
Even if your friends make fun of you, it is okay to send messages to other people. It is a way to make friends online.
It is not easy, and takes a while unless you like the same things.
You should not be afraid to contact new people and having the same interests helps with making new friends. You are not obligated to tell your old friends about it either.