I caught my husband cheating but he doesn't know of my infidelity yet.
Why do the two of you cheat on each other?
I guess we just like secrets.
It sounds like your marriage is in  trouble. You should know it is very wrong to cheat on a spouse. It could lead to a divorce.
What? We are going to see a marriage counselor soon.
Cheating is still wrong. Are you both still actively engaged in seeing other people?