I want to tell my wife to go to the back of the line and not come near me
Why do you want her at the back of the line?
So she knows how I feel about not being on the top of her list.
It is bad that you haven't been treated right by your wife but it is not good to tell her what to do as a way to get back at her. It will not make the problems in your marriage go away.
I don't understand why you are so against me. You're just being so toxic.
I'm not against you, I just want to see you flourish in your marriage and see what could be the best for you. I still believe that the two of you just need to work on your communication so you're on the same wavelength, instead of bossing each other around. Your relationship can be a lot more loving as a result.