What do you think about me going on tinder dates just for a free meal and then ghosting them when it is over?
What is your real reason for getting something for free? Is there  more to this comment that I should be aware of?
I'm just thinking of free food.
Free anything makes a person feel good, but to ghost people is not very cool. Be up front with what you want otherwise stop getting everything for free and work for it. You could get raped or robbed on one of those dates yourself one day.
Let me think... no never mind.
Using people for a meal is wrong, and how would you feel if someone decided to make you think that you cared about them only to find out it was for something that you offer to them? It's hurtful and you shouldn't ghost or use people for your own personal gain.