Will it be normal to tell a pregnant coworker to stop using her pregnancy as a crutch?
What's wrong with her pregnancy? Is she having a hard time with it? I can't believe you would tell her such a thing.
Because it's getting on my nerves and I wanted to tell her a long time ago
I understand that pregnancy is overwhelming, but you can't keep pestering her about it. She can't help being pregnant and you are only further stressing her out by nagging her about it.
Maybe I'll tell human resources about how difficult of a time she is having. I don't want to be hated by someone who is supposed to be doing the same job as me.
Pregnancies are not that easy always, and you should be proud of her she is still even working up to this point. If you were pregnant and having issues you would understand. Be more understanding, she will have the baby soon enough.