I feel like a wailing wall and demand superfluous whining to stop
What does that even mean?
A wailing wall is a place where people come to release their troubles and pain. I feel like my friends always come to me with superfluous whining.
Wow I feel like that must get exhausting sometimes. Maybe try telling them that you cannot always listen to every little problem that happens in their life?
I think I am going to have to. Their words are just making me more upset each day.
I know you want to be there for the people you care about, but taking on all their struggles and complaints will eventually wear down even the strongest people.  Be subjugated to this continuous type o f behavior can also have adverse effects on your mental health and empathy.