I'm not going to leave the dog park when my puppy jumps on a toddler
That's quite dangerous. Why would you not leave if your puppy is too wild?
Social rules are meant to be broken.
Regardless, no one wants their dog to jump on them. You should train your dog better so that they do not jump like crazy.
I want my dog to jump and lick people and to be a wild puppy and party like that.
It's nice that you want your dog to have a lot of fun, but I don't think it should be at the expense of innocent bystanders. Other people at the park train their dogs, so wouldn't you want to as well? If you have a well behaved dogs, more people would want to play with it!