I'm not going to my friend's birthday dinner/party because I had to go see my boyfriend 4 hours away last minute
Why did you have to go see your boyfriend last minute?
Actually I wanted my girl to reschedule but she said no.
But it's your friend's birthday, it's not very fair to want her to reschedule that. They care about you a lot so it'd be nice to try to visit for even an hour or so.
I know but hey, I'm a busy girl, who can't miss a weekend to go see her boyfriend and I can't fuck him in a car.
Of course she didn't want to reschedule. You need to take important events seriously, your friend will be hurt that you prefer to get laid rather than to be with her.