What's the difference between my dad and cancer? He didn't beat cancer
Ouch, did you have to put it that way? Did your dad beat you when you were a kid?
It's just a joke because cancer is incurable and my dad died of it while I was sick in hospital.
I feel sorry for you dad, dying because of cancer. I guess making a joke about it your ways of acceptance.
I got over it. It's not easy but I learned to accept the fact of death. It's good to laugh about these things and help me with the healing process.
I'm really sorry about what happened, and it good to see humor to cope. But I believe it's best to keep these jokes to yourself, because outwardly joking about abuse can traumatize others who've been through it all.