One year ago my daughter told me her step-dad was molesting her
Does it surprise you that your husband was molesting your daughter?
No, he had done it to me too on other occasions.
There is no excuse for your husband to be molesting you and your daughter, and you sticking around with him is a bad idea. Take your daughter and get out of that situation as soon as possible.
Fuck you, it's none of your business and don't you talk to me like that again.
You should care about your child more. You shouldn't be with someone that is harming your child like that. This could set her up for more problems and psychological problems as well.