Should I ask a gay classmate to be a little discreet about his sexuality for a trip?
Is there a reason you want him hiding his sexuality? Seems like an unfair request.
I don't want other people disrespecting him. I should protect his identity.
Asking him to hide his sexuality is wrong as that implies there is something wrong with them. He may end up suffering mentally from hiding his sexuality.
Oh okay, I guess I'm wrong about this.
I'm glad you have come to your senses and understand the negative effects of hiding one's own sexuality. You are really a nice friend, and I like how you are flexible when it comes to these types of topics. Your friend is lucky to have you as a friend.