when she wants to date you but shes ugly and fat
What are you trying to say about her? Do you feel this way about all women?
I never said all women are ugly. I said when a woman is ugly and fat, I can't stand her!
There are many reasons why people would be overweight, and telling they are ugly because they are fat isn't going to help them lose weight. It will be hurting them, just like you would be hurt if people made a joke about something that you struggle with.
It's not just about looks, it's about values.
It is still hurtful to joke and make fun of overweight women. You know nobody says anything about overweight men. It is really unfair that people get picked on when it is acceptable for others.