I'm not going to go see my dad when he's on his death bead
Do you not have a good relationship with him?
Yes, he doesn't deserve to see my pretty face.
I don't what's transpired between you and your dad in the past. Just know if you regret not seeing him before he dies, you can't ever undo that.
Stop telling me what to do. You don't know my reasons.
Living with the choice of not going to see your father on his death bed may be one that haunts you. While it is understandable why you may not want to go, please try to understand where I am coming from with this advise. In a way, you are making a decision for your peace of mind and sanity.