I feel disrespected when my wife puts my name after my children's names on cards
Why are you so offended by having yourself put after your children?
One does not just put someone's name after ones children's names and they call me stupid for this...fool
I can see how you're offended, but yes you may be seen foolish for getting jealous of your children. It's just a name placement, your children should be your world and you should be happy to put them first. I hope you just be proud of your children and always put them first.
I prefer cards that are not shitty and with my kid's name at the back not in front of me.
I do not think that I can change your mid about this, but I hope you do reevaluate how you treat your children and you shouldn't be offended by them as they are your children who should be your priority.