What's the difference between a black person and women. I don't care my house better be clean by the time I get home
Why are you making such jokes?
That statement was a joke. Women should clean the house and men should own it, that's how it works.
Even if you don't mean it, joking about how your house should be clean when you get home is not only derogatory towards women, but can also be seen as a racist joke against black folks. I do not think that you want that to be associated with you, so what I would suggest you do is that you go get your family members feel loved and appreciated, and if you can, try to clean the house yourself sometimes so that people around you think you're doing an effort.
I don't want to hear that BS. We need someone to clean the house for us and if you want the world to be an equal society then you are going to have to work for it. I don't see why you are offended by it.
I am offended with the outdated thinking that you are showing. it is not right to think that women should be the only ones cleaning the house. It is 2022, not 1950.