I'm not going to give rides to my airman friend who can't drive to work.
Wow I am not so sure I am hearing right. Why won't you give your friend a ride to work?
It's just too much of a hassle.
Maybe you should let your friend know that it's too much of an inconvenience to you to give them rides from now on.
I'm not as good of a friend as you are.
This isn't a competition or a comparison. Like I said, if giving your friend a ride is interfering in your life, politely let them know.