Stop tucking your hair into your hat, you'll attract a lot of lesbians that will want to be your girlfriend.
That's a regretful comment to make make. Are you implying that all lesbians look a certain way?
Why would you regret saying that to me?
It is ignorant to think that all lesbians look the same just because of a certain style, or that a lesbian will find you attractive just because you tuck your hair into a hat. While this may have simply been a joke, just want to make you aware how someone who identifies as lesbian might find this to be disrespectful.
WTF are you implying that I'm homophobic? I'm not homophobic, I just don't want to attract the wrong girls.
It is valid to have interest in a certain type of person, however, I am just concerned when you express that in a way where you alienate and insult a group of people. I'd suggest being more mindful of your words and how you express your thoughts moving forward, as you don't want to be disrespectful and dismissive towards others.