I'm going to shame a woman for leaving her dog in the car on a hot day
How are you going to do that?
I'm going to tell her she is really dumb to do shit like this!
You shouldn't shame a person for making a mistake. They will not learn anything from doing that. You should just explain all the wrongs she did.
But what if they don't learn their lesson!
It doesn't matter, you shouldn't shame this person. It could have been an honest mistake, so just explain to her why she was wrong.