Is it wrong that I'm in love with my friends step dad?
That would make your friendship awkward. What do you love about him?
Because he's so very kind and we have a great time talking about music, and I seem to gravitate towards him
We can't choose who we fall in love with, but your friendship is really worth a lot more than this. Things can easily turn upside down, so do you realize how it can affect you and your friend?
Well, I'm still going to be friends with my friend if things go south
You might think your friendship will still be intact, but have you considered how your friend would feel about this. You would essentially be destroying your friend's family. It's best to not get romantically involved with your friend's stepfather.