I want to smile at a guy's daughter just to continue to piss him off
Why would you want to make him mad about his daughter?
Because he's such a boorish person. There's nothing wrong with his daughter, she is an innocent child.
Just because you don't like someone's manners, doesn't mean that you should intentionally try to make them angry. And it is much worse to use an innocent child as a pawn in some mean-spirited game that you are playing. Neither of them deserve to be treated this way.
But he took all my food away for a week and I need pay-back.
You should just respect him as a father. You should not be trying to upset him, especially around his daughter.