I'm trying to be a decent parent
Sounds great. What does that mean to you?
To do right by my child with no regard for myself.
I think that's the right way to view parenthood. You job being to nurture and support them so their can live and thrive on their own, regardless of what that may mean for you.
My kid is going to be a superstar that takes over the world. I want them to be the best.
You are going to be a wonderful parent! I'm sure your kid would love that you are very optimistic and nourishing towards them. The more encouragement, the more they would want to shoot high.