I'm going to call my bf out in public for not washing his hands
Why do you have to do that in public to your bf?
I just feel like it is the only way I am going to make a statement.
While I believe that you should tell your bf that washing hands is important, I would recommend you do so in private. Calling him out in public feels like shaming him and would really hurt his feelings. If you love them, you would consider their feelings and their hygiene the same way.
So does this mean that we both should always wash our hands? Just want to make sure we are safe.
Definitely, everyone needs to keep clean in this day and age! While it's important for the both of you, lots of matters need to be kept private and considerate. Even I sometimes forget to wash regularly!