I resent my father for how he handled my mother's death including making me the one to decide the family dog had to be put down
Why did he make you the decider for such a big decision?
He told me my mother's wishes were for me to decide
That seems like a lot of pressure to put on a child. They should not have left that up to you!
I was insulted
I would have been too. I think that it is wrong to make the child make such big decisions like that. It is unfair to leave them that burden, I feel so bad for you.