I messed up and cheated on my boyfriend with oral sex with someone else.
Where and on who did you cheat on your boyfriend with?
Oh it was on a stranger I met at a bar.
Meeting up with strangers at a bar for oral is sometimes a fantasy people have like you do. Cheating is cheating, so you should not do this to your loyal boyfriend. He is going to know you did that one day and then be so devastated because you should have more trust in each other.
You're so preachy.
I am sorry, I am not trying to be. I just think you should be honest with him and see where the relationship goes after that.