I am so upset. GF and I planned a trip to see her niece graduate, I knew it was primarily to see her family, but now she tells me that's pretty much all she wants to do.
That sounds messy. When did she decide to do that? Are you not going to see her niece graduate anymore?
We decided to go to a trip to her nieces family together because we thought it would be more convenient and s she never really intended to go to the graduation.
Sometimes I change my plans and not follow what I originally intended on doing, but your girlfriend was in the wrong here because her niece may really be looking forward with you going to her graduation and her feelings may really be heard about it. How about you still go to the graduation, and try to talk with your girlfriend about how wrong it is to not want to go there anymore.
That is a great idea. I am going to talk to her now.
I hope things work out and you both get to go to the graduation. It will make her niece very happy that you kept your plans instead of cancelling.