What if I've ended things with my abuser?
That's great. What did the abuser do to you?
He called me a whore and left me with a black eye.
I hear you, and I think you did the right thing - abusing people is very wrong and should not be tolerated. Glad you escaped this very bad situation and I think you should be proud of yourself.
It wasn't too bad. I'm an ex-slut anyway, so being called a whore is nothing.
Even if you are accustomed to being treated badly, you shouldn't be so accepting of it. You deserve more from people and you shouldn't be hurt by others.