You wore a skirt to this show? What, are you trying to get raped?
I can't tell if you were saying this because you think rape victims wanted it or not?
No, I meant that by wearing a skirt you are putting yourself in the possible danger zone where people could rape or harm you.
Sexual assault is damaging to a person and implying that it is their fault because f the way they are dressed can trigger a person. Saying that can be hurtful, just like you would be hurt if you were blamed about something that caused you pain.