I'm on the brink of divorce but I'm still cheating on my spouse.
Why are you still cheating?
I thought I was over him but then he treated me to dinner. Plus my husband is still cheating on me.
If both you and your spouse are cheating on each other, then your marriage is in serious trouble. You will need to have a frank discussion with your spouse to see if you want to salvage your relationship and stop cheating or go your separate ways. Cheating is wrong and causes a huge rift in your relationship and if you can't stop cheating then there is little hope of saving it.
I don't think I can because he keeps talking about other women. I'm going to keep cheating and see what happens.
If you and your husband can't stop cheating on one another, I think you should get divorced. This kind of relationship isn't healthy for either of you, and you'll both be happier if you weren't together.