What do you think about me telling my neighbor to F off the next time I see him because he keeps filing noise complains against me?
Are you actually being too loud?
Sometimes I turn up the volume just to piss them off.
Not everyone is going to get along with their neighbors, and that's all okay. But their complaints are completely valid and I'm sure other neighbors might feel the same way too. Why don't you try turning down all the noise first?
I think it may really be just because I have kids. Sometimes they can be pretty noisy as well and that makes sense.
There's really no reason in which you should be loud enough to get multiple noise complaints, and most people would find this guy in the right here. You should try being quieter and also tell him off for trying to get you in trouble instead of handling it by talking to you as adults.