I'm thinking of not giving up my bus seat because I think she's just fat and not pregnant
What makes you make those type of assumptions?
I'm sorry, I don't know why my thought process was so dangerous
I know at first glance it could be really confusing to determine whether someone is just very overweight or pregnant. But it's still dangerous to make these type of assumptions because you may offend the person.
Well I'm a man so it's natural I would have this thought.
I'll agree that it's natural to have doubts about someone that you have just met, but you shouldn't let someone's weight determine the way that you treat them. If someone is tired, let him or her take your seat. It's just the right thing to do.