Imagine how great life would be if you could get laid anytime like women can. And then they come and advice us about how sex isn't important and to focus on other things.
Why do you think women can have sex whenever they want? Do you not think they have other things to worry about?
It is a fact. Men are more focused on sex than women are.
I think it's important for you to get out there and meet some women, and you will be surprised at how different they are compared to your assumption. Sometimes, social media can cause people to think a certain way. 
Wow, you are a feminist.
Women are human too. You should show them some respect and not accuse them of being hypocrites. I think we can agree we all struggle with life sometimes.