I only wear my glasses to look and feel smarter
Why do you think you need glasses for that?
I want people to think I'm awesome.
Maybe the glasses help, but you're not being your true self. You need to behave in a more authentic way, so that people will respect you for who you are.
I want to appear smarter and get a sexual partner without effort.
Maybe you look better with glasses on, so I can't find fault if you like them as a fashion accessory.  But I would advise that you simply be yourself, so that a potential partner will be interested in the real you.