Lately I've been having this intense crush on someone who isn't my spouse and I really don't know how to handle these feelings.
It's not good to have these feelings, does this person know about having this crush on them?
I just have a huge crush on this person who is a very important figure but no one knows.
It's hard to deny your feelings, but you should try to focus on your partner. Think about how your spouse would feel if they found out about your crush.
I'm actually talking to my crush right now and I think he might be a pathological liar.
Well now that you have these negative thoughts about your crush, you should probably stop having these feelings towards them. You need to focus your affection toward your spouse.