So we won't be having children because that is a 24/7 job. Call me sexist but my wife is not into working 24 a day.
Do you really believe what you're saying here?
It's men's natural desire to want their women at home and taking care of the family.
It sounds like you have a pretty strict idea of gender roles. If your you two don't want a family, that's fine. But if you both want one and the fact that she wants you to pitch in raising the child because she doesn't want to go it alone, you might want to rethink that.