My family always sends me to subway with a huge order and I hate ordering other peoples food at subway.
Are you serious? What's the problem with ordering food?
I'm afraid that I'll annoy them with my orders so much that they'll spit in my food.
While it's not so good to be anxious about ordering food, you don't have to do it for the whole family if you don't want to. It is good to have boundaries and let people know when you don't want to do something.
Nah I'm just going to risk the trouble and order the food anyways.
Well it's really nice of you to put yourself out like that for your family. But seriously after you've gotten used to ordering food I think that anxiety will fade away.