What if I'm thinking of back reading old messages between my boyfriend and his ex flings? I know it's wrong and I really just end up hurting myself... I just can't help it
Does it have a special meaning that you want to read those messages?
Of course not. I'm just curious, I want to know what all was said.
That seems like an invasion of their privacy. You should respect your boyfriend's privacy and the conversations that he has with others.
They were together for a long time so there is nothing wrong with me to peek into their conversations. I just want to see what goes through his head
You should get to know your boyfriend for who he is now, not who he was with someone else. It's wrong of you to read his messages because these were conversations he had before you both were together.