I'm not going to rush to the hospital when my brother text me telling me my mom was admitted for having water in her lungs and congestive heart failure
Why not rush to be to your mother's side?
My brother will worry more about me instead of my mom
Dealing with a parents illness can be scary and but you should be there for them as much as you can. It is understandable why your brother wouldn't want you to rush because he doesn't want you to get into an accident but you should still carefully get there as soon as possible. You would regret not being there in time.
I'm grown, I can make decisions on my own now and I won't regret anything.
Then if I were you, I would do my best to get to the hospital. You should always be there for your parents when they are ill.