I want my spouse to do the majority of the housework.
I don't think that is fair to say.
She can handle cooking, cleaning, and other duties as well. Those are not meant for me.
It is wrong to expect people to do more than their fair share of the work. Household work should be split as close to 50/50 as possible.
I expect my wife to do more than me, end of story.
There is no reason for you to think this about your spouse. It is unfair to think the work should not be split evenly. You can help out.