fix(cli,bundler): prefer AppImage libraries with ABI version

[Beanow]

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AppImage bundling will now prefer bundling correctly named appincidator library (including .1 version suffix). With a symlink for compatibility with the old naming.

I've done a fair bit of testing on how this interacts with tauri-apps/libappindicator-rs#38
Detailed result at this comment tauri-apps/libappindicator-rs#38 (comment)

TL;DR this PR and the libappindicator-sys can be released and upgraded independently without breaking the tray feature.