standardise_path() should use case-insensitive comparison

[hadley]

i.e. tolower(tools::file_ext(path))

tidyverse/haven#298

[jimhester]

I am not entirely sure extensions differing in case should be the same thing, but as this situation is likely confusing for users probably best if we do this.

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