Update upgrade md for new unified config for sql string mapping to utf8view when we release datafusion 49.0.0

[zhuqi-lucas]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

#16290 Has been merged, so we need to update the doc for next release.

New unified config for sql string mapping:

map_string_types_to_utf8view

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[alamb]

Added to list on #16235