Upgrade Silverstripe CMS to psycopg3 and stop shipping psycopg2-binary

[Kyle-Neale]

What does this PR do?

Motivation

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 30.00000% with 7 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 90.11%. Comparing base (fbb0579) to head (180d633).
Report is 1 commits behind head on master.

Additional details and impacted files

Flag	Coverage Δ
activemq	?
cassandra	?
confluent_platform	?
datadog_checks_dev	77.55% <ø> (ø)
hive	?
hivemq	?
hudi	?
ignite	?
jboss_wildfly	?
kafka	?
mac_audit_logs	?
presto	?
silverstripe_cms	75.63% <30.00%> (-0.37%)	⬇️
solr	?
tomcat	?
weblogic	?

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