Add --max-heap-size option

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This PR fixs #58686

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Review requested:

• @nodejs/config

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 90.15%. Comparing base (5fe7800) to head (285e863).
Report is 5 commits behind head on main.

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- Coverage   90.16%   90.15%   -0.01%     
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  Files         637      637              
  Lines      188001   188123     +122     
  Branches    36881    36904      +23     
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+ Hits       169509   169606      +97     
- Misses      11238    11262      +24     
- Partials     7254     7255       +1     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_options.cc	84.46% <100.00%> (+0.01%)	⬆️

... and 36 files with indirect coverage changes

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