Hostname resolving should be configurable

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Issue description

While hostname resolving makes sense for direct-node connections, in wan mode not so much and in fact can prevent connections from happening since the provider might expect the hostname and not the IP.
As such, the resolving should be configurable and likely, in case of wan mode, disabled unless configured otherwise.