Monitor Memory Usage in Tests to figure out heavy misuse

[SteffenSeckler]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Some verlet-type containers use too much memory. This can only partially be checked beforehand.

Describe the solution you'd like
Add a check for different numbers of particles and add some sort of memory limit.

Additional context
Problematic configuration:

• VarVerletLists, SoA, disabled Newton3

[HobbyProgrammer]

The configuration you mentioned uses way to much memory only when using many threads. Might be helpful to add that to the configuration description. See #322 for the reason.

[FG-TUM]

Alternative: Compare memory usage of master vs PR. If delta > some limit fail.