feat: support cross-database delete transactions

[dk-lockdown]

ref: https://github.com/cectc/dbpack/issues/

Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

If the delete operation needs to be executed on multiple database shards, the distributed transaction should be coordinated to ensure the atomicity of the delete operation.

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

check integration test result

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #180 (06412d3) into dev (e74302a) will decrease coverage by 0.38%.
The diff coverage is 3.44%.

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- Coverage   46.75%   46.36%   -0.39%     
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  Files          76       77       +1     
  Lines        8643     8713      +70     
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- Hits         4041     4040       -1     
- Misses       4216     4286      +70     
- Partials      386      387       +1     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
pkg/executor/sharding.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/filter/dt/filter_mysql.go	1.61% <ø> (+0.14%)	⬆️
pkg/filter/dt/filter_mysql_prepare.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/filter/dt/filter_mysql_query.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/misc/hint.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/plan/insert.go	50.00% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/plan/query.go	40.64% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/plan/result.go	75.34% <0.00%> (-2.35%)	⬇️
pkg/plan/update.go	15.78% <0.00%> (ø)
pkg/plan/delete.go	7.27% <2.27%> (-3.84%)	⬇️
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