fix(comp:upload): controlled update should trigger upload and abort

[sallerli1]

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What is the current behavior?

受控修改 files 不会自动触发上传和终止

What is the new behavior?

修复以上问题，并补充受控操作的demo

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Codecov Report

Merging #1715 (fe9a951) into main (47b21e0) will not change coverage.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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packages/components/upload/src/types.ts	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)