fix(ios): ScrollView with listeners removed scroll delegate

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What is the current behavior?

There are cases when attempting to remove a listener callback that does not exist breaks scroll event of ScrollView.

What is the new behavior?

We follow the same principle with Span overrides and check the existence of listeners. This gives better control and gets rid of problems like the one described above.

Fixes #10431.