Match closure takes 2 minutes now due to required reconnect delay

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#217 initially solved the larger issue, now this issue remains, as directly caused by 217. However -- now changes can be pushed live in order to resolve the problem.

Solutions include somehow disconnecting the manager on shutdown.
Actually this wouldn't work because then ghost players would exist in the match.

Also can't reduce the remove match time below 120s as that's the reconnect period

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it's a feature not a bug