[Python] Raise an error for conflicting options in pq.write_to_dataset

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A follow-up for https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-16420 :

For some of the 'conflicting' options, for instance if the user passes both 'partitioning' and 'partition_cols', or 'metadata_collector' and 'file_visitor', an error should be raised.

See: #13062 (review) 

Reporter: Alenka Frim / @AlenkaF
Assignee: Alenka Frim / @AlenkaF

PRs and other links:

• GitHub Pull Request #13317

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-16610. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Antoine Pitrou / @pitrou:
Issue resolved by pull request 13317
#13317