Standardize the check process of bookkeeper's workflow like pulsar project

[StevenLuMT]

TestTLS.testConnectToLocalTLSClusterTLSClient can't run all successfully in branch master and 4.15.1-rc0,
it seems that this problem has appeared long ago, rather than being introduced separately in this 4.15.1-rc0

this picture is the result for 4.15.1-rc0's testcase result:

this picture is the result for master's testcase result:

As for why the testcase run failed,it's caused by #3310 , we can revert #3310 or fix the bug
but I think it is necessary to standardize the check process of bookkeeper's workflow like pulsar project
change some checks to required instead of artificially strong merge

for example pr #3435 's workflow run failed, but be merged

this picture is bookkeeper's workflow check,no check is required:

this picture is pulsar's workflow check,checks are required:

[zymap]

#3439
this PR is for this

[StevenLuMT]

#3439 #3451 and #3453
fix for this

[nicoloboschi]

@zymap @StevenLuMT I guess we can close this issue now