Error exception prompt when the protocol does not exist

[wxbty]

Environment

• Dubbo version: 3.2.1
• Operating System version: mac m1
• Java version: 1.8

Steps to reproduce this issue

1. Pull the latest source code of dubbo3.2

2. Start the demo provider project, dubbo-springboot-demo-provider

3. Start the demo comsumer project, dubbo-springboot-demo-comsuer。Configure as follow:

   dubbo.consumer.protocol:  unknown  //does not exist
   

Expected Behavior

Comuser fails to start and reports that the protocol does not exist

Actual Behavior

Consumer failed to start and printed an unrelated exception

[20/05/23 23:43:14:894 CST] main ERROR deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer:  [DUBBO] Model start failed: Dubbo Module[1.1.1] start failed: java.lang.IllegalStateException: Failed to check the status of the service org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService. No provider available for the service org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService from the url fgh://192.168.1.105/org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService?application=dubbo-springboot-demo-consumer&background=false&dubbo=2.0.2&executor-management-mode=isolation&file-cache=true&interface=org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService&methods=sayHello,sayHelloAsync&pid=24800&protocol=fgh&qos.enable=true&qos.port=33333&register.ip=192.168.1.105&release=&side=consumer&sticky=false&timestamp=1684597394299&unloadClusterRelated=false to the consumer 192.168.1.105 use dubbo version , dubbo version: , current host: 192.168.1.105, error code: 5-14. This may be caused by , go to https://dubbo.apache.org/faq/5/14 to find instructions. 
java.lang.IllegalStateException: Failed to check the status of the service org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService. No provider available for the service org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService from the url fgh://192.168.1.105/org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService?application=dubbo-springboot-demo-consumer&background=false&dubbo=2.0.2&executor-management-mode=isolation&file-cache=true&interface=org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.DemoService&methods=sayHello,sayHelloAsync&pid=24800&protocol=fgh&qos.enable=true&qos.port=33333&register.ip=192.168.1.105&release=&side=consumer&sticky=false&timestamp=1684597394299&unloadClusterRelated=false to the consumer 192.168.1.105 use dubbo version 
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.ReferenceConfig.checkInvokerAvailable(ReferenceConfig.java:647)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.ReferenceConfig.init(ReferenceConfig.java:311)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.ReferenceConfig.get(ReferenceConfig.java:232)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.utils.SimpleReferenceCache.destroyReference(SimpleReferenceCache.java:265)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.utils.SimpleReferenceCache.destroy(SimpleReferenceCache.java:218)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.utils.SimpleReferenceCache.destroy(SimpleReferenceCache.java:242)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer.lambda$referServices$6(DefaultModuleDeployer.java:444)
	at java.util.concurrent.ConcurrentHashMap$ValuesView.forEach(ConcurrentHashMap.java:4707)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer.referServices(DefaultModuleDeployer.java:419)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer.startSync(DefaultModuleDeployer.java:173)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer.start(DefaultModuleDeployer.java:145)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.context.DubboDeployApplicationListener.onContextRefreshedEvent(DubboDeployApplicationListener.java:113)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.context.DubboDeployApplicationListener.onApplicationEvent(DubboDeployApplicationListener.java:102)
	at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.context.DubboDeployApplicationListener.onApplicationEvent(DubboDeployApplicationListener.java:47)
	at org.springframework.context.event.SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.doInvokeListener(SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.java:176)
	at org.springframework.context.event.SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.invokeListener(SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.java:169)
	at org.springframework.context.event.SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.multicastEvent(SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.java:143)
	at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.publishEvent(AbstractApplicationContext.java:421)
	at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.publishEvent(AbstractApplicationContext.java:378)
	at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.finishRefresh(AbstractApplicationContext.java:940)
	at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.refresh(AbstractApplicationContext.java:586)
	at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplication.refresh(SpringApplication.java:731)
	at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplication.refreshContext(SpringApplication.java:408)
	at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplication.run(SpringApplication.java:307)
	at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplication.run(SpringApplication.java:1303)
	at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplication.run(SpringApplication.java:1292)
	at org.apache.dubbo.springboot.demo.consumer.ConsumerApplication.main(ConsumerApplication.java:38)

[wxbty]

As mentioned in #12279, the wrong exception prompt that we may need to pay attention to more scenarios and fix