fix(tabs): add detection of when registered tabs change order

[tmorehouse]

Describe the PR

Handle edge case when registered tabs change order in document.

Adds back in observeDom checking, just for detecting change in the order of the child tabs (not needed for new/removed tabs)

Addresses #3506

PR checklist

What kind of change does this PR introduce? (check at least one)

• Bugfix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• ARIA accessibility
• Documentation update
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• No
• Yes (please describe)

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If new features/enhancement/fixes are added or changed:

• Includes documentation updates (including updating the component's package.json for slot and event changes)
• New/updated tests are included and passing (if required)
• Existing test suites are passing
• The changes have not impacted the functionality of other components or directives
• ARIA Accessibility has been taken into consideration (Does it affect screen reader users or keyboard only users? Clickable items should be in the tab index, etc.)

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Codecov Report

Merging #3513 into dev will increase coverage by <.01%.
The diff coverage is 100%.

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+ Coverage   99.25%   99.25%   +<.01%     
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  Files         224      224              
  Lines        4303     4312       +9     
  Branches     1229     1231       +2     
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+ Hits         4271     4280       +9     
  Misses         26       26              
  Partials        6        6

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/components/tabs/tabs.js	100% <100%> (ø)	⬆️

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