Replace revdepcheck with Recheck in the release process

[dsweber2]

Recommended by revdepcheck itself https://github.com/r-lib/revdepcheck?tab=readme-ov-file
This is a github action rather than an R package to check for dependents which might error. CRAN already does this apparently, so it's not too big a deal.

https://github.com/r-devel/recheck