feat(commons): Add matches methods (#1270)

This PR adds a series of "matches" functions to axe.commons.matches. These functions are designed to allow us to match elements on different types of things. We started doing this for the aria-allowed-role rule, but while working on the accessible name computation I found myself building a very similar thing.

This PR replaces the existing `aria.validateNodeAndAttributes` with a more general purpose axe.commons.matches function.

**Note**, I realise there is a bunch more refactoring that needs to happen. I'd prefer to keep that out of this PR, so that we can get the accessible name PR resolved.

**Note** This PR removes a commons that was introduced in 3.1.0. This is a **breaking change**. I do not think this will impact anyone, and so I didn't put in the time to put some deprecation thing around it, but if anyone thinks this is necessary I can put that in.

This PR is a prerequisite for #1163 

Closes issue: none.

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lib/commons/aria/get-element-unallowed-roles.js

@@ -85,9 +85,7 @@ aria.getElementUnallowedRoles = function getElementUnallowedRoles(
 		}
 
 		// check if role is allowed on element
-		if (!aria.isAriaRoleAllowedOnElement(node, role)) {
-			return true;
-		}
+		return !aria.isAriaRoleAllowedOnElement(node, role);
 	});
 
 	return unallowedRoles;