Use layering to make conventions more robust

[AndriySvyryd]

• Store different configuration source values in separate layers, so when a higher source value is removed the lower source can be restored without re-running the conventions
• Use reference counting to avoid scanning the model for unused elements. When a configuration source of an aspect is changed because it is referenced from another element this reference should be stored in a collection, so if all references are removed the aspect can be removed as well or its configuration source downgraded to what it was previously
  • This allows to remove most invocations on removed members and stop running the conventions when a removed member is readded
  • Call StopProcessingIfChanged after every convention automatically
• When the conventions for an event are done running the current model state should be returned

[ajcvickers]

See also #23575

[ajcvickers]

See also #29890