[tables] reactivity workaround

[wittjosiah]

TanStack Table doesn't seem to be able to have cell-level reactivity ( #5722 ):
TanStack/table#754 (comment)
TanStack/table#2824 (comment)

As a workaround we'd like to hook up the whole table to re-render when data changes so it's at least reactive still if not performant or particularly friendly.