allow custom error handling for routes via a disallowed rerouter-closed edge

[namdre]

currently, loading such routes (with the expectation of seeing jammed traffic) requires the use of option --ignore-route-errors. However, the use of this option potentially hides errors that are different and relevant.

[namdre]

closely related to #14203 and #14205

[namdre]

I think we should fix this via #8898 with the following expected behavior

• routing ignores rerouter-induced permission changes by default
• closingLaneReroute are analyzed for potential edgeClosing effects and added to closed vector of edges (currently only closingReroute are registered with the router)
• we add a new bit to the (traci) routing mode which defines whether rerouter-changes are visible or not - this solves routing without rerouter blockage #14205
• we allow setting the routingMode for a trip/vehicle via xml (to distinguis vehicles with/without knowledge of current closing effects). The default is "vehicles know everything" for backward compatibility

[namdre]

routing still fails to ignore transient permissions in some cases due to missing successors