Cleanup IP parsing logic

[fcrisciani]

Title: Cleanup IP parsing logic

Description:
This bug is to track the cleanup of the IP parsing logic. Currently it is spread across s/c/n/utility.cc and s/c/n/address_impl.cc
Another thing to notice is that if we simply move the parsing logic from utility to address_impl we have the following circular dependency:

s/c/n/utility --> s/c/n/address_impl --> s/c/a/os_sys_calls_impl --
                                  ^                                |
                                   --------------------------------

It would also be nice to leverage a single parsing method like the getaddrinfo instead of the combination of that plus the inet_pton. The problem in doing that though is that apparently at the moment the windows version of the getaddrinfo has a different behavior than other platforms so we need to figure if this can be cleaned up for every platform or we need some special logic for windows.

@yanavlasov mentioned:
As an aside the makeFriendlyName needs to be optimized (it is worth a few percentage points of CPU for configs with large number of EDS endpoints) and not even call inet_ntop for endpoint addresses that are already IP address strings and can just simply be copied into the friendly name. This will take care of resolving the interface name as well for the most part.

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