LoadBalancer/Subchannel might need keep in TRANSIENT_FAILURE until READY

[dapengzhang0]

This is the same issue as #6650 for general lb/subchannel.

If you have enough backends and they are all unavailable, then it becomes likely that at least one of them will be CONNECTING. That will delay RPCs and avoid giving them a clear error message.
When a subchannel becomes TRANSIENT_FAILURE, we want RR to continue considering it (for channel state and picking logic) TRANSIENT_FAILURE until the subchannel becomes READY. That means it would "ignore" CONNECTING subchannels, except for new and recently-READY subchannels.

[ejona86]

This needs cross-language agreement, and that will need a redesign of pick first. There is nothing currently to be done for this issue.