Add option to stop an instance before trying to remove an attached volume

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Closes #8602
This is a cherry-picked continuation of #8602 (unable to make edits to it).

Fixes #6673
Fixes #2084
Fixes #2957
Fixes #4770
Fixes #288
Fixes #1017
Relates #4293
Relates #1991

Output from acceptance testing (us-west-2):

--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_disappears (114.38s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_stopInstance (117.35s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_skipDestroy (126.91s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_basic (130.15s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_update (164.19s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_attachStopped (377.79s)

Output from acceptance testing (GovCloud):

--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_skipDestroy (117.02s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_basic (117.57s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_attachStopped (123.17s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_disappears (135.32s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_stopInstance (139.20s)
--- PASS: TestAccAWSVolumeAttachment_update (141.49s)

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