fix: bump nx to >=16.5.1

[fahslaj]

Description

Updates Lerna to expect Nx >=16.5.1 and uses new src imports for nx utilities. Also sorts the dependencies from the Nx project graph in order to process cycles in a deterministic way.

Motivation and Context

This keeps Lerna fresh with the latest changes of Nx and ensures future compatibility.

How Has This Been Tested?

This was tested manually, and all existing tests pass.

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)
• Chore (change that has absolutely no effect on users)

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.
• All new and existing tests passed.

[JamesHenry]

@fahslaj FYI this isn't a chore, it changes the dependencies of the lerna package, so it's a fix at minimum