[IMPROVEMENT] Consider adding owner reference Backup/BackupVolume CR

[ChanYiLin]

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Currently Backup and BackupVolume don't have owner reference, it manually delete the Backup in the BackupVolume controller. We should consider adding the owner reference for better maintenance.

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• Add ownerReference to Backup/BackupVolume
• review the logic between Backup/BackupVolume controller to prevent redundant checking

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Additional context

#5506
#1867

[ChanYiLin]

We found in some cases we can't add ownerreference
When the Volume creates the backup for the first time, it actually creates the backup CR first and request the engine to create backup to backupstore. It also creates the backupvolume meta in backupstore at this moment.
After that, Backup target controller then syncs the the meta from backupstore back to create backupvolume.

We can't add owner reference to backup with backupvolume, because backupvolume is created after backup.