deps: backport ICU fix for ARM64 Windows

ICU 63 as ingested by Node.js does not quite support ARM64 Windows
because its OBJ file IMAGE_FILE_MACHINE_TYPE field logic defaults to
x86 instead of Unknown. This change backports the ICU 64.1 fix for
this.

ICU Issue: https://unicode-org.atlassian.net/browse/ICU-20382
ICU Commit: unicode-org/icu@11e538b

PR-URL: #26090
Reviewed-By: Steven R Loomis <srloomis@us.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>