fix(v-model): fix the lazy modifier is not reset by other modifications

[Alfred-Skyblue]

fixed #8546
fixed #6564

We should not block the update if the currently bound value is updated, In this PR, the value of the current element will only be reset if the value of the v-model bound to the current element is modified, since I can't simulate the focus event in jsdom, I can't write a test case for it.

[edison1105]

/ecosystem-ci run

[vue-bot]

📝 Ran ecosystem CI: Open

suite	result
nuxt	✅ success
pinia	✅ success
quasar	❌ failure
router	❌ failure
test-utils	❌ failure
vant	✅ success
vite-plugin-vue	✅ success
vitepress	❌ failure
vue-macros	❌ failure
vuetify	✅ success
vueuse	✅ success
vue-simple-compiler	✅ success

[Alfred-Skyblue]

The error of ecoystem-ci confuses me, it seems to have nothing to do with this PR.

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Size Report

Bundles

File	Size	Gzip	Brotli
runtime-dom.global.prod.js	87.1 kB (+18 B)	33.1 kB (+4 B)	29.9 kB (+17 B)
vue.global.prod.js	133 kB (+18 B)	50 kB (+4 B)	44.8 kB (+39 B)

Usages

Name	Size	Gzip	Brotli
createApp	48.4 kB	19 kB	17.4 kB
createSSRApp	51.6 kB	20.3 kB	18.5 kB
defineCustomElement	50.7 kB	19.8 kB	18.1 kB
overall	61.7 kB	23.9 kB	21.7 kB

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #8547 will not alter performance

_{Comparing Alfred-Skyblue:fix-vModel (f30990c) with main (9fa8241)}

Summary

✅ 53 untouched benchmarks