fix(VDatePicker): recursive update when using hide-actions

[nekosaur]

Description

closes #17867, closes #17872

Markup:

<template>
  <v-app>
    <v-container>
      <v-date-picker v-model="selectedDate" />
      <v-date-picker v-model="selectedDate" hide-actions />
    </v-container>
  </v-app>
</template>

<script setup>
  import { ref, watch } from 'vue'

  const selectedDate = ref(new Date())

  watch(
    () => selectedDate.value,
    newValue => {
      console.log(`selectedDate changed to: ${newValue}`)
    }
  )
</script>

[johnleider]

I verified all tests locally.