proxy: bump parquet

[conradludgate]

Summary of changes

Updates the parquet lib. one change left that we need is in an open PR against upstream, hopefully we can remove the git dependency by 52.0.0 apache/arrow-rs#5773

I'm not sure why the parquet files got a little bit bigger. I tested them and they still open fine. 🤷

side effect of the update, chrono updated and added yet another deprecation warning (hence why the safekeepers change)

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3078 tests run: 2951 passed, 0 failed, 127 skipped (full report)

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Flaky tests (1)

Postgres 15

• test_pageserver_init_node_id: release

Code coverage* (full report)

• functions: 31.3% (6382 of 20401 functions)
• lines: 47.7% (48636 of 101902 lines)

* collected from Rust tests only

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