autoid_service: fix potential autoid decrease when leader change or close for AUTO_ID_CACHE=1 (#52602)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #52602

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #52600

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

1. reset map when a node become leader
2. add lock to protect the map in forceRebase when close

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

See the steps in #52600
I'll file another PR to support http API, because it import new changes rather than simple bug fix.

• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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• 2024-04-30 06:01:03.540402275 +0000 UTC m=+337017.297537848: ☑️ agreed by Defined2014.
• 2024-05-09 07:05:22.566311746 +0000 UTC m=+1118476.323447318: ☑️ agreed by tiancaiamao.